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Topic: Why do Pisces men have such bad reps?
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MsAlohaPanda Knowflake Posts: 50 From: The other side of the looking glass Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 16, 2015 10:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by polkadotstars: I saw somewhere that Leo's are fiercely loyal. I'm a Leo rising and I never have had any interest in anybody else while I am in a relationship. This sounds like you too.
Maybe some of them are loyal when in a relationship, but I cathegorise leos as top players 
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 20055 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 16, 2015 10:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: I wish you luck in getting your hot steamy harem of sexy young muscular men with no shirts(or pants)on!!
Ew!!!  Lee, what are you telling people this stuff for??  IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 20055 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 16, 2015 10:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by MsAlohaPanda: Maybe some of them are loyal when in a relationship, but I cathegorise leos as top players 
I've only known them to be loyal. I dated a few and married one. I'm Leo rising and consider myself loyal though you wouldn't know it by looking at this thread. But I've been with my husband almost 17 years, through thick and thin...marriage is hard work, it's sticking around even when it's not perfect and life sucks and you just want to leave. But I'm still here and he's been really sweet lately...we're pretty happy these days. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 20055 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 16, 2015 10:48 AM
Song for all of you in search of perfect love~Storybook Love ~ Princess Bride Theme Song  IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8899 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 16, 2015 11:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Ew!!!  Lee, what are you telling people this stuff for?? 
ROFL 😂 IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18280 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 16, 2015 11:31 AM
oops  People, the harem you see is actually my fantasy, it's me, the Sabian of my Sun is this: A girl's basketball team Faith has eyes only for her hubby, she is a loyal Leo ASC  ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... AstroMandala Summer Readings IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 18280 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 16, 2015 11:33 AM
Thank you, ladies, it's nice to see we are more of us sometimes you may get lonely about it, but I know there are millions of guys out there just wildly dreaming about someone as intense and exclusive as you, ladies! So be truthful to yourselves!Polka, I have 2 DSC rulers: Leo Moon and its disp, the Sun, in Virgo 8th  ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... AstroMandala Summer Readings IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8899 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 16, 2015 04:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: oops  People, the harem you see is actually my fantasy, it's me, the Sabian of my Sun is this: [b]A girl's basketball team Faith has eyes only for her hubby, she is a loyal Leo ASC  [/B]
You guys are cracking me up!! @Faith, I was just playing! I know you only want your hubby!! IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8899 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 16, 2015 04:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Thank you, ladies, it's nice to see we are more of us sometimes you may get lonely about it, but I know there are millions of guys out there just wildly dreaming about someone as intense and exclusive as you, ladies! So be truthful to yourselves!Polka, I have 2 DSC rulers: Leo Moon and its disp, the Sun, in Virgo 8th 
I'm happy to see all these ladies to! It does feel like sometimes there isn't many others out there like us. IP: Logged |
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posted August 16, 2015 05:35 PM
I personally find it a bit tough to respect these men, though I tend to like them. Too many personal demons, too indirect too scatterbrained and self-indulgent... kind of like what Kannon McAfee said.... I just don't see them as real men. Though they're fun.My moon is in a water sign though so I tend to love all watery men. I just didn't like dating this particular sign and wonder how any woman could. IP: Logged |
Vajra Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 16, 2015 05:45 PM
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posted August 16, 2015 05:59 PM
Well, for one thing, I don't know a single Pisces man who is not addicted to alcohol, marijuana or a chainsmoker. Not one. And I know several. This is what I meant by "too many demons."And my roommate is a Pisces. He's a lovely guy - very philosophical and a great sense of humour - but he can't deal with reality (like general cleanliness) which means I have to on his behalf. If I could do it again I would keep him as a lifelong friend (already 11 years of friendship) but no living with an escapist Pisces male. IP: Logged |
Vajra Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 16, 2015 06:26 PM
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 8899 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 16, 2015 06:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: Well, for one thing, I don't know a single Pisces man who is not addicted to alcohol, marijuana or a chainsmoker. Not one. And I know several. This is what I meant by "too many demons."And my roommate is a Pisces. He's a lovely guy - very philosophical and a great sense of humour - but he can't deal with reality (like general cleanliness) which means I have to on his behalf. If I could do it again I would keep him as a lifelong friend (already 11 years of friendship) but no living with an escapist Pisces male.
Every pisces I've known if they got drunk, they would flake out over nothing and break up with me, kiss other girls or drive like an idiot and get into trouble with either accidents or tickets. Then cry and apologize but it happened to consistently to be able to believe their apologies. Plus I got tired of feeling like mom instead of an equal. Then IP: Logged |
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posted August 16, 2015 06:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Vajra: When it comes to demons I think Dostoyevski - thus, Scorpio, not Pisces… I know plenty of straight Pisceans. Two of my uncles are Pisces Suns, both are over 70 now, have been happily married for decades, raised their children well, are dedicated family guys, and also both teetotalers. One is an artist, the other, an engineer. They're very generous people who often support other people (even complete strangers) with time and money (like one of them who travelled to India, accidentally met a young guy who was hopeful to start a small business, and on a whim decided to support him with a small loan so he could do it. This was the begin of a wonderful friendship, which changed the entire village that guy was living in in the end). My uncle said: "I didn't need that money, but to him it meant a lot. So I figured I might as well let him have it." That's a typical thing about Pisceans IME. Since early childhood, most of my friends were Pisceans. My ex husband's friends were also mostly other Pisceans, with a few Scorps and Cancers thrown in. Among this "water crowd," the Fishies were by far the most together in terms of drugs, escapism, practical life compared with the other dudes. Saw some high school friends ruin their lives with heroine but they were mostly Scorpios, not a single Pisces among them. Sure all of them did a little weed during their teens/early twenties, but most outgrew it, and the Fishies were actually the first to start families and mostly (with the exception of my ex hubby, who I divorced although he tried to talk me out of it) also managed to stay married. Never heard that any of them cheated or strayed, and my ex did neither. I also know a few Pisces-Pisces couples. In one of those, both are in the healing professions, and it's a joy to be around them. Kindness and non-judgmentalism is perhaps what I like so much about them, but really, all the negative manifestations attributed to Pisces can be seen in so many other people (especially in my own Sun sign, Cancer, and in Scorps gone bad, but also in Geminis, and basically everyone with an afflicted Neptune).
The Pisces guys I know loooove music. Two of them are actual musicians and so kind and empathetic. They're both also very forgetful, but I wonder how much of that has to do with the fact that they are Pisceans, or the fact that they are both addicted to marijuana and smoke it everyday (one is 30, the other is 38). I've also noticed they are radical non-judgers. Like I said, they're great people, they just often lack the self-control and responsibility that is necessary for me to really admire a man. My father is a Pisces moon and he is my favourite person and he embodies the best things about the sign in so many ways but he also has a Taurus sun to sort of ground him.
I do know one Pisces male who married a girl he began dating at age 19 a few years ago. But before her, he did the typical Pisces male thing, if he wasn't that into it he would just sort of ghost and swim away rather than confront or deal with the situation and properly break up with the person. I don't dislike Pisces men, I really enjoy them, but as friends as they are great to talk to. Romantically, I prefer the other water signs, though. Their flaws I'm equipped to handle a lot better. But we all have flaws. IP: Logged |
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posted August 16, 2015 06:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Every pisces I've known if they got drunk, they would flake out over nothing and break up with me, kiss other girls or drive like an idiot and get into trouble with either accidents or tickets. Then cry and apologize but it happened to consistently to be able to believe their apologies. Plus I got tired of feeling like mom instead of an equal. Then
I know one Pisces male who was with a gorgeous girl for 4 years and they lived together, but they fought a lot. I got the feeling that whenever they would fight he would just walk away physically. One day she said to him, "If you leave right now don't bother coming back here." So he said, "K" and then left with the shirt on his back and never went back. He moved back into his folks' place and never took her calls again after that. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2478 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 16, 2015 11:27 PM
Never heard of a flaky Pisces like that nor even met one.I wouldn't date a Pisces guy based on my experience. It's just a preference type of thing. The one I used to see was really sweet. He sent me all those "good morning beautiful" messages everyday and would talk about how he wanted his mom to meet me, etc. I just felt smothered by all of it, I decided to back down. He lived in his own little world of fairytale romance and failed to consider if I wanted the same thing as he did. Pisces can be selfish in that way. Another guy I tried to date asked me out only a couple days after a major heartbreak. Very inconsiderate, in my opinion (of course, I did have a fault, but still..). Being a venus in virgo, I did not really like having all that super romantic stuff other girls could dream of. Pisces men just aren't for everybody. However, I do tend to admire Pisces men for being the most artistic people I've met (apart from being the nicest ones). They're pro at everything art  IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8899 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 16, 2015 11:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: I know one Pisces male who was with a gorgeous girl for 4 years and they lived together, but they fought a lot. I got the feeling that whenever they would fight he would just walk away physically. One day she said to him, "If you leave right now don't bother coming back here." So he said, "K" and then left with the shirt on his back and never went back.He moved back into his folks' place and never took her calls again after that.
I bet she was happy! Lol IP: Logged | |