posted October 23, 2015 04:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ScorpAqua:
I'm a Solar Scorpio male with Venus in Sag.

I can tell you I absolutely do not believe in monogamy, but am upfront about it from the first date.

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OMG same
One person just isn't enough to fill all your needs
Or atleast that how I feel !!

posted October 23, 2015 04:23 PM            

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Originally posted by erickaf:
I have this placement...I have been unfaithful unfortunately!

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posted October 23, 2015 04:24 PM            

I vote for Gemini Venus as the cheaters. Anyone who says otherwise has probably only met one or is one themselves and they probably have very special placements in their chart that keeps them from cheating. Because let's just be honest, they get bored easily. After watching charts of potential matches for my friends in the dating world, its always the Venus and Gem who is playing the field and cheating in relationships. Is that to say they are ALL cheaters? No, because there is an exception to every rule

Sag Venus would take 2nd place though. My husband has Sag Venus, and has been faithful for 8 years. He's also an exception and it shows in his chart. His venus is conjunct Saturn and in the 5th, which makes me believe Leo's loyalty has some hold over it.

I dont know if I believe that jupiter expands the venus because if that were true Venus in Pisces would get the same bad reputation (this is my placement) which to be fair, I've met a few who do end up cheating, so maybe it is the case. My venus squares saturn, which could be why I've always stayed loyal, I don't know. My moon is in Leo, which may counterbalance my venus.

posted October 23, 2015 04:27 PM            

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Originally posted by erickaf:
I have this placement...I have been unfaithful unfortunately!

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How and why? And how did you feel about the one you were cheating on? Were you honest with the other, and if not, then how did you feel about establishing intimacy with the new person (or old flame?) based on lies?

posted October 23, 2015 04:42 PM            

Again some will never commit to one and some will never commit because relationships don't fulfill their needs.

posted October 23, 2015 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
This thread should've been called Sag Venus vs Gemini Venus. Haha

I vote for Gemini Venus as the cheaters. Anyone who says otherwise has probably only met one or is one themselves and they probably have very special placements in their chart that keeps them from cheating. Because let's just be honest, they get bored easily. After watching charts of potential matches for my friends in the dating world, its always the Venus and Gem who is playing the field and cheating in relationships. Is that to say they are ALL cheaters? No, because there is an exception to every rule

Sag Venus would take 2nd place though. My husband has Sag Venus, and has been faithful for 8 years. He's also an exception and it shows in his chart. His venus is conjunct Saturn and in the 5th, which makes me believe Leo's loyalty has some hold over it.

I dont know if I believe that jupiter expands the venus because if that were true Venus in Pisces would get the same bad reputation (this is my placement) which to be fair, I've met a few who do end up cheating, so maybe it is the case. My venus squares saturn, which could be why I've always stayed loyal, I don't know. My moon is in Leo, which may counterbalance my venus.

I also think we should look at the moon when it comes to showing how faithful someone is. For example if they have venus in gemini with moon in Sagittarius, run for the hills! Lol

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^I agree with you that is more a gemini thing...

Venus in pisces does get themselves involved in affairs though ....

This girl I liked had venus in pisces and she was into a married guy and would flirt and hook up with him...

The only guy I have had an affair with was with a venus in sag in the 12th house! but he always felt super guilty about it even though I was the one cheating so eventually we stopped...he wouldn't cheat on his own girlfriend if he had one though bc of his beliefs but he gave in to his venus in the 12th with me..

Venus in the 12th or pisces is about unconditional love and that is why it is the higher octave of VENUS, not bc it follows socially constructed ideals or laws, that is more a sag/jupiter/earth thing; jupiter is the esoteric ruler of earth after all.

Venus-Neptune understands that earth is just one dimension and that love goes beyond this dimension and is concerned with loving the other unconditionally across time and space and less with socially appropriate protocols that are relevant to this plane of existence.

Venus in the 12th or pisces wants to be with the one they love even if is clandestine; to them every moment they spent with that special someone is a gift and priceless and everything else is noise, will pass and is temporary but their love is eternal.

posted October 23, 2015 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Also- time out. Isn't Sagittarius the seeker of truth and the most honest sign? How would this sign be a cheater? Because they like to live their life more and travel? They can do that with a spouse. If anything it would be scorpio or Pisces especially the signs of secrets and things hidden..

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posted October 23, 2015 06:54 PM            

I do have a very healthy libido (Taurus Mars in the 9th). Humor,intelligence, and inquisitiveness are a huge turn on for me. I think this why I don't have a physical type.

Venus Sagittarians are always up for a good time/adventure. We have many tales to share.

posted October 23, 2015 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:

Venus-Neptune understands that earth is just one dimension and that love goes beyond this dimension and is concerned with loving the other unconditionally across time and space and less with socially appropriate protocols that are relevant to this plane of existence.

Venus in the 12th or pisces wants to be with the one they love even if is clandestine; to them every moment they spent with that special someone is a gift and priceless and everything else is noise, will pass and is temporary but their love is eternal.

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posted October 23, 2015 09:31 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
So, what would a Libra sun with Venus in Sagittarius sextile Jupiter be like? Unfaithful? Seems like the aspect to Jupiter would be a double whammy.

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The faithful one I mentioned has a wide conjunction.

posted October 23, 2015 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
It depends. I was very close to a Venus in Pisces that I would easily trust. They were highly saturine. (Is that a word??)
So there are modifiers to everything.
People change, learn, grow, etc.

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yeah for sure!

posted October 23, 2015 10:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Same here...if I start feeling something I usually flick on the Capricorn ice machine and will myself to stop feeling it, or remove myself from their company.

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yup exactly!

posted October 23, 2015 10:35 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I lost the detailed charts and notes I had, but I do recall her 7H was Libra, and I have a Libra stellium (Mercury, Venus, Saturn, Pluto, and she shared a Saturn-Pluto with me). Meanwhile, her 1H stellium was my 9H, and we shared a Sag Neptune that fell in her 9H.

A professional astrologer had told us that we should only make a brief fling out of what we had, but we tried for more. It felt so good while it lasted (even for her since she fought harder than I did to keep us together) but it's like intoxication...you try to keep it up at that level and sooner or later things are going to take a turn for the worse.

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oh that sounds very nice was there long distance travel between you too? did it feel like a teacher relationship? was she into education or did you teach her that? i' m guessing because of the placements you had given me. But i' m guessing her identity expanded you in some way possibly vice versa. saturn pluto must've been hard (power struggles) if there was any?

posted October 23, 2015 10:46 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
This thread should've been called Sag Venus vs Gemini Venus. Haha

I vote for Gemini Venus as the cheaters. Anyone who says otherwise has probably only met one or is one themselves and they probably have very special placements in their chart that keeps them from cheating. Because let's just be honest, they get bored easily. After watching charts of potential matches for my friends in the dating world, its always the Venus and Gem who is playing the field and cheating in relationships. Is that to say they are ALL cheaters? No, because there is an exception to every rule

Sag Venus would take 2nd place though. My husband has Sag Venus, and has been faithful for 8 years. He's also an exception and it shows in his chart. His venus is conjunct Saturn and in the 5th, which makes me believe Leo's loyalty has some hold over it.

I dont know if I believe that jupiter expands the venus because if that were true Venus in Pisces would get the same bad reputation (this is my placement) which to be fair, I've met a few who do end up cheating, so maybe it is the case. My venus squares saturn, which could be why I've always stayed loyal, I don't know. My moon is in Leo, which may counterbalance my venus.

I also think we should look at the moon when it comes to showing how faithful someone is. For example if they have venus in gemini with moon in Sagittarius, run for the hills! Lol

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OMG my friend who is a GOLD DIGGER....really i was shocked when i had found out a couple months ago. me and my girlfriend are friends with her but not anymore she disappeared completely. i can't stand her to be honest she is a sick person inside and i feel sorry for her. she does nothing but lies and its so sad.

she is a venus in gemini and moon in sagittarius PLUS she is a mercury in gemini RETROGRADE, and has her north node in pisces in the 2nd house and her sun is her 5th ruler in taurus.

as you can she is super luxurious and doesn't know who she is.

She basically came from a poor family from Bosnia and slowly became middle class with her family BUT on the side she would date rich guys ONLY and her first girlfriend is a hairstylist and is super wealthy and comes from a rich family and lied and cheated on her and gave her so many chances until she broke up with my friend who is the hairstylist cause she didn't love her anymore at all she was so over her. the next day the hair stylist found out that she dumped her to get with this multi billionaire married guy that she is friends with through family.

basically my friend ruined this billionaire's marriage with kids just because she's money hungry. so yeah i kneeeeeew and had suspected she was a gold digger but was not sure completely but when i heard this i was so disappointed and ever since found her a sick mentally unstable insecure person completely.

also about venus in pisces i also i suspect these signs also have potential of deceiving falling in love with something they want to fall in love (in there imagination) as well as it pisces is ruled by neptune BUT we do have to see what is aspecting venus in pisces and where is it located in the chart to really say if the person only loves what they see through there imagination and not reality. but yes you are right we have to look at the moon and houses and rulerships completely the north node i also feel says a lot to. and yeah i agree with saturn and venus placements regarding loyalty.

posted October 23, 2015 11:02 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Well said.

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posted October 23, 2015 11:03 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
i've been wanting to post this gold digger's chart...its pretty interesting i want to figure out why she is like this why does she fall in love with only rich people.

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Start a thread titled Gold digger's chart and let us look at it with you .

posted October 23, 2015 11:08 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
So, what would a Libra sun with Venus in Sagittarius sextile Jupiter be like? Unfaithful? Seems like the aspect to Jupiter would be a double whammy.

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posted October 23, 2015 11:24 PM            

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Originally posted by fireopal09:
Oh great, now Libra luminaries with Sagittarian aspects are going to get a ration of poop. Ugh!

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posted October 23, 2015 11:27 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
No he wouldn't! Sun libra with sag venus, come on! he would take his vows very seriously; jupiter-law/beliefs, libra-commitment.

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posted October 23, 2015 11:30 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Start a thread titled Gold digger's chart and let us look at it with you .

However, my best friend has venus in gemini and she is the farthest thing from a gold digger. I don't feel gemini's are gold diggers at all.

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yeah i know I wasn't trying to imply that venus in gemini is a gold digger placement but however i think her lying and her not knowing who she is as far as the INFLUENCE could come from her venus and mercury in gemini