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Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 982 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 02:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: if i told you something about yourself and didnt tell you how i knew it would the way i came to that conclusion matter or would you say it worked when i did it and was right consistently both with different people and you?i think charts are rectified using the system in which they're read so you should get the correct result when you use that system's rules the way to get to x when you use y gets you will work for y but that doesnt mean z doesnt also get you to x
I guess it depends how specific you get? By just telling me that I like serenity wouldn't really be satisfactory. But if you tell me something really specific, then I'd probably take a second look at least, give it more thought or whatever. But I'd be really surprised if I can arrive at the same person with different charts. Cuz again, different houses = different areas of life and that's everything. If the ruler changes I'm curious how the setup would be in order to arrive at the same conclusion. I'm open to being wrong I'm just honestly curious. And even if they're rectified using the same system, they're rectified using very specific details. Not just overall energy. But yeah I'd actually be curious to know if you actually meant it... My birthday is May 15 1991 @ 7:27am in Staten Island NY. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by Brenda_S: I guess it depends how specific you get? By just telling me that I like serenity wouldn't really be satisfactory. But if you tell me something really specific, then I'd probably take a second look at least, give it more thought or whatever. But I'd be really surprised if I can arrive at the same person with different charts. Cuz again, different houses = different areas of life and that's everything. If the ruler changes I'm curious how the setup would be in order to arrive at the same conclusion. I'm open to being wrong I'm just honestly curious. And even if they're rectified using the same system, they're rectified using very specific details. Not just overall energy. But yeah I'd actually be curious to know if you actually meant it... My birthday is May 15 1991 @ 7:27am in Staten Island NY.
just do all the creating a chart for me if you want a demonstration from me personally please 🥺 it's interesting that you trust one way not another just because you only bothered to learn it that way IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:05 AM
brenda are there ways to multiply divide add and substract to get the number 6? is it ever a different number just because you got to it a different way than someone elsesystems are no different neither are you vedic is addition western multiplication youre a specific number and that's it IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 982 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi:
are you saying a vedic astrologer cant tell you about yourself and be right? 🤔
Which is why I'm confused about this lol. I believe they would. I'm just curious how. Cuz it'll play out in different areas of life. I honestly would love to know. I guess I should get my chart read by a Vedic astrologer to gain more insight. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:08 AM
rectifying a chart is like multiplying different numbers to try to get six of course you have to use multiplication rules to get to it not addition2x3 is 6 but 2+3 is 5 IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 982 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: 2x3 3+3 1x6does it matter how i get there?
Yeah it kinda does, a person is absolutely the sum of their parts. 6 in itself is just a dead number. It definitely depends how you get there. That makes one 6 different from the next 6. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Brenda_S: Yeah it kinda does, a person is absolutely the sum of their parts. 6 in itself is just a dead number. It definitely depends how you get there. That makes one 6 different from the next 6.
not when im doing math and only care about the number IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 982 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: rectifying a chart is like multiplying different numbers to try to get six of course you have to use multiplication rules to get to it not addition2x3 is 6 but 2+3 is 5
I get what you're saying about this. But they're not actually using a different system. They're using the same planets, same houses and same signs. MBTI is a different system. Enneagram is a different system. Vedic and Western are just butting heads. I honestly am not saying that Western is right over Vedic. Vedic may be right over Western. But how can they both be right when they're using the same CALCULATION? One must give don't you think? If you're gonna use the number 2 and 3 and the multiplication sign, it'll only render one number. In Western and Vedic they're using the same numbers, same planets and same houses. Am I making sense? It's not they're using multiplication over division. All the details are the same. Except the timing is off. Again, it may be Vedic works over Western. Just how can they both work when they're clearly the same system. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 982 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:22 AM
Maybe let's do it this way. You have your Vedic chart I'm sure. Can you tell me anything specific and how you got there? And post your Vedic as well as your Western chart. I'm just curious if I'd see the same. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by Brenda_S: I get what you're saying about this. But they're not actually using a different system. They're using the same planets, same houses and same signs. MBTI is a different system. Enneagram is a different system. Vedic and Western are just butting heads. I honestly am not saying that Western is right over Vedic. Vedic may be right over Western. But how can they both be right when they're using the same CALCULATION? One must give don't you think? If you're gonna use the number 2 and 3 and the multiplication sign, it'll only render one number. In Western and Vedic they're using the same numbers, same planets and same houses. Am I making sense? It's not they're using multiplication over division. All the details are the same. Except the timing is off. Again, it may be Vedic works over Western. Just how can they both work when they're clearly the same system.
how can i predict the same event using runes iching and tarot? this is exactly the same better example would be a thoth or hermetic style tarot deck and a rider waite style one and the differences in how theyre read along with the fact that nearly all the cards are the same
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:34 AM
maybe at some other point in time i dont feel like writing that much, just learn vedic or find a vedic reader who is up for it im not tbhtoo high too everything else about life for this right now tbh i think youre getting too hung up and im probably not getting my point across well and you want something that's a lot of explaining tedious things i find vedic tedious IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:38 AM
the vedic astrologer i would give this to so that they would do that work for me is someone i cant ask for that right now or i'd show him your chart and he'd say things without me asking because he's the kind of person who cant help but read a chart a bitthat's a hell of a situation though so i cant even 🤷♀️ we aren't fighting or anything but there's a long story there different accents pronounce the same words differently but it's theyre all the same letters and mean the same thing and the sentence is written the same too IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 982 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 03:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: not when im doing math and only care about the number
Like saying males are all one way and females all another if you're only looking at the sum. That's definitely not how to go about it. Females may have base characteristics but certainly not all are the same. If you're just gonna focus on the sum you won't be able to tell which person you're talking about. If one would hand you a pile of charts and have you match it to the person sitting in front of you, how confident are you to get it right if you're gonna look at the overall energies? Not very. You need to get specific. But as I said, I don't know which one works better. I guess I should probably do some more digging if I am gonna argue. I'm just curious. Logically (purely) it would be boggling if I arrive at the same conclusion. I don't know. Trying to compare it with names/numerology. I'll just give you an example... In Hebrew the numbers when they're counted, they're done so in Hebrew letterings so essentially the way it goes is, 11 is say like J(10)A(1) 12 is JB and so on... When it comes to 15 and 16, instead of continuing JE and JF (which would be God's name in Hebrew text) it's done as I(9)F(6) and I(9)G(7). Basically to say, the characteristics of JE and JF is not the same as IF and IG. Again all these may not matter to you... But just to give you an idea, that the sum with different combinations don't always paint the same picture. Speaking of combinations, essentially like a combination lock. Using different numbers or in a different order will not work. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 04:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Brenda_S: Like saying males are all one way and females all another if you're only looking at the sum. That's definitely not how to go about it. Females may have base characteristics but certainly not all are the same. If you're just gonna focus on the sum you won't be able to tell which person you're talking about. If one would hand you a pile of charts and have you match it to the person sitting in front of you, how confident are you to get it right if you're gonna look at the overall energies? Not very. You need to get specific. But as I said, I don't know which one works better. I guess I should probably do some more digging if I am gonna argue. I'm just curious. Logically (purely) it would be boggling if I arrive at the same conclusion. I don't know. Trying to compare it with names/numerology. I'll just give you an example... In Hebrew the numbers when they're counted, they're done so in Hebrew letterings so essentially the way it goes is, 11 is say like J(10)A(1) 12 is JB and so on... When it comes to 15 and 16, instead of continuing JE and JF (which would be God's name in Hebrew text) it's done as I(9)F(6) and I(9)G(7). Basically to say, the characteristics of JE and JF is not the same as IF and IG. Again all these may not matter to you... But just to give you an idea, that the sum with different combinations don't always paint the same picture. Speaking of combinations, essentially like a combination lock. Using different numbers or in a different order will not work.
yeah sometimes thats true other times it isnt this time it isnt IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 982 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 04:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion: Hi Brenda, Sure. I've learned from repeat experience that we have a nonphysical guidance team that tries to help us out with our spiritual growth and life path while we are in the earth. Some of it is our own Spirit level of self and various Souls that like yours, were created by your Spirit. Sometimes other Spirits, and other Souls from other Spirits, also help us out at times--such as spiritual teacher types. Anyways, I've found that we can get very specific information from our guidance if we properly attune to same. Rather than explain it all in depth again, I will direct to you another couple posts: Go to this thread and read my 7th post on there: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/242383.html Then click the link in that post where on another thread and post, I explain various tips and techniques to help with this. And you can also try out the Hemi-Sync audio recordings in the first post I linked. They will likely work better on a computer/lap top rather than a phone, I think. If after reading these, you still have questions, feel free to ask. After about 27 years of experimenting with meditation and trying various things, the above tips and techniques are some of the things I have distilled from various sources that have worked best for me.
Thanks a lot. I'll check it out. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 982 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 04:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by antiphon: Thanks, but that isn’t really what I mean.Most people think these situations are about choosing to do the right thing instead of doing what you really want. But you don’t want a casual fling with a married man. No one really does. The truly ethical thing is to choose your true desire, not to sacrifice it to do a superficially “good thing”.
I understand. Right, I guess sometimes you really just don't know what you want. You're confused by outside noise, AKA the person trying to convince you otherwise and you start seeing the opportunity in it almost? I guess that's why it's important to determine beforehand as to what it is you truly want. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 04:14 AM
and no it isnt like the first thing at all thsts a false equivalenceIP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 982 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 04:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: and no it isnt like the first thing at all thsts a false equivalence
Not sure which one you're referring to here... But I don't think we're on the same page at all so whatever. I mean I hear what you're saying, I'll probably look into it some more. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 04:19 AM
i was responding to the last bit i can tell we're not on the same page because we're going in different directions 🤷♀️ im too high though and tiredIP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 982 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 04:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: i was responding to the last bit i can tell we're not on the same page because we're going in different directions 🤷♀️ im too high though and tired
Umm ok IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2892 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 08:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by antiphon: Don’t just fantasize, go after what you want. Don’t accept a knockoff counterfeit happiness.
But that's what a lot of people choose to do - staying in a counterfeit bliss. I'm on the fence on this. while I fully agree with going after what your heart desires but I also understand why some people choose to stay in their so-called counterfeit bliss... because it feels safe and they fear being judged. The irony is at the end of the day, they will still be judged. Lol.
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 08:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by Brenda_S: Umm ok
sorry was too high to understand keys last night (went out to smoke had to call my brother and wake him up to let me in after i realized unlocking the door just wasnt going to happen) and you were going off in other directions talking about combination locks and things that work in ways that i said this kind of thing is different from it's hard to explain something to someone who wont consider the perspective youre using and instead drawing unrelated comparisons even without that kind of impairment in my view this is simple and you thinking you should be more than just that "flat" 6 is very confusing to me because my point was that no number could be 6 other than itself and how you get to it doesnt change the essence of the result another oerson would be a different number in my example similar chart? mayybe theyre 6.1 then but they are not 6 itself in my view youre too married to a system and caught up in it and it's like saying hermes and mercury arent equivalent gods for different cultures in spite of that not being the case a western astrologer rectifying a western chart using the western system to get you makes sense because they aren't going to read a chart the way a vedic astrologer would you're too worried about how you get 6 and it's impossible to tell you it doesnt matter when you insist it does because you want to see yourself as more unique than a number that can never equal anything other than itself you can never be anyone other than you and comparing you to a number wasnt minimizing that reality only saying the way to find you isnt the part that matters you can get to a place more than one way the location doesnt change only your method though the location is unique what makes a place what it is isn't how you get there, you saying how you get there somehow alters it is baffling to me in all honesty even sober im not really understanding the logic edit: in my defense that lock sticks and you have to hold the door a certain way and it was always a ***** even when i lived here 🤣 before i left i locked it taking a risk that it was one of the locks that doesnt like to open but thinking i chose the right one
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2892 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 08:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by Brenda_S: I guess it depends how specific you get? By just telling me that I like serenity wouldn't really be satisfactory. But if you tell me something really specific, then I'd probably take a second look at least, give it more thought or whatever. But I'd be really surprised if I can arrive at the same person with different charts. Cuz again, different houses = different areas of life and that's everything. If the ruler changes I'm curious how the setup would be in order to arrive at the same conclusion. I'm open to being wrong I'm just honestly curious.
I'm with Dumuzi on vedic. The way vedic interprets the different houses and signs (and nakshatras) are not exactly the same way western does, IME. For e.g. I've a very different understanding of Nodes in vedic which I resonated with much more than western's interpretation. And the vedic astrologer I saw was able to get very very specific things that happened in my life. EDIT: I thought I should add an example so you understand what I mean. E.g. when I found out that my Moon is Scorpio in Vedic (rather than Sag) I thought how can it be?? But when I read up on vedic Scorpio Moon + Jyestha Nakshatra which is what my Moon is, I resonated. And in Vedic, Moon isn't exactly your feelings; it rules your mind. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2753 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 02:10 PM
🤔 i'm trying to figure out if there's a more clear way to say it but i'm having a hard time finding ityou aren't the method someone uses to understand or know you, you're your soul and your energy these methods exist to shed light but they don't create you if i get to know you through conversation or by asking you questions i might learn some different things about you but i'll still come to know you and a lot of what i learn can very well be the same you haven't changed just because my way of knowing you is different, this is what western and vedic are, these differences you're looking at western astrology like it alone can define you and that's just not the case the vedic system is its own, tropical is its own (it's also not even observable and if you were to calculate the placements of the stars and planets by sight you would not end up with tropical) they are not carbon copies of each other the common variable is you, blending the two requires knowledge of each youre looking at your chart as you rather than just a tool to understand you and that isnt the case IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 982 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 02:25 PM
I think I'm understanding it better now, now that you've mentioned @Hikaru that they don't interpret planets the same way. I was under the impression otherwise, which is I guess why one shouldn't really argue when they don't have knowledge on said subject. Like the Nakshatra that you guys mentioned... I was just hating on it cuz I didn't really relate to my placements at all when looking at my chart. Like my Aries Sun, my traits are so not Aries, wish it were. My rising Taurus, I'm everything that Taurus is not when it comes to appearance. I guess there are more details involved that I should look into since I interpreted it in the way I would Western. I guess that's what you meant @Dumuzi when you said they use a different system you should've just told me lol, that they actually interpret it differently completely. I don't know why I thought that it's just the way the houses are laid out that are different. Anyway yeah I'll look into it. Thanks you guys. IP: Logged |