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Topic: We Split Up
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Coffee Knowflake Posts: 1341 From: Leeds Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 02:34 PM
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pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 51 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 03:11 PM
I've read only parts of this. ( which is a good thing, I can't be bothered to respond to such an obvious display of ego and even misogynistic attitudes...)but what I want to primarily go to, just upon reading your first and last posts here, Coffee- is"It takes two to tango" a woman doesn't 'leave' if the staying is good. a family is created constantly, and it takes effort, love, respect and tolerance and a willingness to grow. Families are imperfect, a man OR a woman. Families consist of women and women, men and men...plus children. Families also consist of aunts and uncles and guardians.Grandparents and neighbours. Sometimes partners are different than originally intended, and more than likely, a person living in this world wants what's best for the child.... and if the man involved in that original scenario isn't providing a nurturing environment, due to fighting or general not getting along etc, any enumerable scenes that can happen, then sometimes another person or people, or family, can help to raise the child. It is rarely about spiting the other partner...in fact, it is usually not 'toward' someone in a negative way, it should be inclusive and changing, and all for the best of the child/ren. If the child receives love and support and the knowledge that home base is a safe place to land, and to explore the world from, then it is not about the man or the woman, or the relationship however stifled or wonderful. I know for a fact, knowing the other lovely minds on this website, that no one would respect your kind of judgement and fallacy and chauvinistic outbursts. And for this you bring up 'bullying'? I'm sorry.. who's a bully?
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PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4055 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 03:16 PM
PixelPixie,He's doing this all on purpose. You can't reason with people like him... only go "no contact"... So, just ignore. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 51 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 03:24 PM
*raises eyebrow.Yeah ok. I just wanted to say. That ok with you? I am aware that you don't poke angry bears. Been here awhile. Just saying, is all. I'm entitled. I've had my say, I will go away. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4055 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 03:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by pixelpixie: *raises eyebrow.Yeah ok. I just wanted to say. That ok with you? I am aware that you don't poke angry bears. Been here awhile. Just saying, is all. I'm entitled. I've had my say, I will go away.
Wasn't trying to criticise you, just point out the issue. Do what you want. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3472 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 07:05 PM
Coffee got spanked and he's still p!ssed about it.Let's see this for what it is now. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3472 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 07:06 PM
btw pix what you had to say about it all.just saying.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 8659 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 07:19 PM
Good ,this ,like many things , are not real life  ------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3472 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 07:22 PM
Then tell your buddy to stop bringing it up.Unless he likes to TRY p!ssing people off.  Who's immune to karma now? IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3472 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 07:25 PM
Is it only cute when males do it, Ami?IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3472 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 07:26 PM
and btw, it is 'real life'.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 8659 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 07:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by T: Then tell your buddy to stop bringing it up.Unless he likes to TRY p!ssing people off.  Who's immune to karma now?
P-L-E-A-S-E Do *I* tell a Mars in Scorpio what to do ? Get your Astrology straight,Sister 
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T Knowflake Posts: 3472 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 07:47 PM
quote: Get your Astrology straight,Sister
I'll try to, sweetheart. As long as you stop defending a-holes. Deal? IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3472 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 07:50 PM
Sorry I can't pussy-foot with you Ami. I'm sorry, I really can't do that. I'm glad others can though.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 8659 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 07:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by T: Sorry I can't pussy-foot with you Ami. I'm sorry, I really can't do that. I'm glad others can though.
Yes,others must win the Iron Man Marathon  ------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3472 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 07:54 PM
quote: P-L-E-A-S-E Do *I* tell a Mars in Scorpio what to do ?
Why the hell not??? He's a friend of yours isnt he? Don't be a pansy, like him! He should respect what you have to say to him. Or do you like this drama and even, egg it on? True friends tell the other ones when they are being f-ups. No matter what their sex is. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4055 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 07:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by T: I'll try to, sweetheart. As long as you stop defending a-holes. Deal?
Awww, T... but come on! Narcissists, Sociopaths, and general evil-doers are so cute - like stray kittens! We should let them all come inside! That's what sweet-hearts do, anyways. Let the bad guys in... IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 3472 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 07:55 PM
quote: Yes,others must win the Iron Man Marathon
Well, that was adorable of you. Are we done now?
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T Knowflake Posts: 3472 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 07:56 PM
lol PS. Yes, that's what the love and lighters will try and tell us anyway.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 8659 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 08:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by T: Well, that was adorable of you. Are we done now?
I AM adorable  Thank you for noticing,Darlink ------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4055 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 08:03 PM
Gosh, sexy good guys are so much better than sexy a-holes. Just a thought.I mean, if you had a choice - do you commune with male satanists for dinner (1st choice)... Or, like, pick out a sexy guy who won't beat you, provoke you, hurt others, etc... and might even buy you some flowers... (2nd choice). This is a though one!!! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 8659 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 08:06 PM
Well Ladies THIS could go down good so I will take my leave. Toodles  ------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4055 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 08:07 PM
Ok, ok... I have better...Do you: A) Choose to spend the next 5 years with a guy who will cheat on you, give you a std, hate women, hate your kids, use you, and abandon you when he's done... all the while you end up jaded, because you THOUGHT YOU WERE SO GOOD TO SAVE HIM... whaaaa! Boo-hoo! -OR- B) Choose to spend the next 5 years with people who will treat you with respect, find a guy who will not only be good in bed, but will be a good friend. Someone who will be responsible for himself, and might even pay half of all expenses.  SO TOUGH!!! IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4055 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 08:12 PM
Some of these answers are definitely close for a tie (cough, cough, vomit...)Sorry. I mean, it's it NORMAL to hate women, and to stick up for guys who will beat you, hate you, and use you? That's the correct mentality, right? What do you say to a guy who says he thinks you're a lousy, worthless tramp? You say, "OF COURSE. PLEASE CALL ME THAT AGAIN, I UNDERSTAND YOUR PLIGHT, WOMEN ARE SO UNWORTHY... CAN I PLEASE GIVE YOU MY ATM DEBIT CARD AGAIN AND LET YOU TAKE OUT MY BEST-FRIEND FOR DINNER AND A NIGHT CAP?!?! PLEASE OH PLEASE???" (cough, cough, vomit...) IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4055 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 08:16 PM
I mean... after all, women are only good for one thing. And, after that, we should just be left in the doldrums with our babies, without a lick of help. Our kids will be taken care of... for sure... by strangers or other predator men. And, that's a great option.Men are so gloriously superior that they should be left unaffected by their actions in any way - NO one should interfere with their right to spread their seed. That's the only crime on Earth, by the way: Is a man being cut off in his prime. IP: Logged |