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charmainec
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posted May 18, 2012 06:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone ever quit smoking for a long time (couple of years) and then suddenly got the urge to start again?

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juniperb
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posted May 18, 2012 07:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I quit for five years, married a smoker and started up again . Quit for 6 months, started again...

So, yes, I sure have had my share of weakness especially by giving in.. I surely hope you can break through the desire and keep the butt kicked!

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charmainec
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posted May 18, 2012 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's weird how it came back so unexpectedly. The craving is intense but for the sake of health reasons will have to resist the urge.

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sand
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posted May 18, 2012 09:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I smoke once in awhile. Maybe the last has been several months ago. Never said anything like I quit. I never was a resolute smoker tho.

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posted May 18, 2012 09:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for emitres     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes...oddly enough am going through that right now... haven't smoked for about three years... definitely a stress related thing for me...

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posted May 18, 2012 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To those who have quit smoking, what methods were the most effective for you? My boyfriend told me this past weekend that he is ready to make a real effort to quit. I am sooo proud of him. He's a Sun-Neptune person so I imagine it won't be all that easy for him What would you recommend? Gum? Patch? E-ciggies? Hypnosis?

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ariesdragon
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posted May 18, 2012 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You guys are making me want to smoke every time I see this thread
I'm holding it...holding it....

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charmainec
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posted May 18, 2012 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gum, patches and all that are not effective with everyone.

Going cold turkey might work if he can tough it out for the firs two weeks. Moods swings might occur.

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posted May 18, 2012 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunChild     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes. I really enjoy smoking but of course it's no good. I still have smoking associations to this day. Lol

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posted May 19, 2012 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AQ, you kind of have to psych yourself up for it. You have to give some thought to how hard it might be, and how you plan to cope, and commit to the idea of being a non-smoker. If your mind is right, then the smoking cessation products can help. If, on the other hand, you keep feeling like it's not that big of a deal, and you really don't have any compelling motivation, the cessation products won't work.

I guess in summation it's really about being able to maintain a certain level of motivation.

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posted May 20, 2012 07:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charmainec:
Anyone ever quit smoking for a long time (couple of years) and then suddenly got the urge to start again?


I quit 3 times already, for a few years. I started again 2 years ago and quit 3 months ago. I had cravings, one was actually this week when I was going through a very stressful moment at work.

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posted May 20, 2012 07:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
To those who have quit smoking, what methods were the most effective for you? My boyfriend told me this past weekend that he is ready to make a real effort to quit. I am sooo proud of him. He's a Sun-Neptune person so I imagine it won't be all that easy for him What would you recommend? Gum? Patch? E-ciggies? Hypnosis?

None of those worked for me. Only cold turkey works. My ex gave me this book that also helped a lot, not sure if I'm allowed to post it?

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posted May 21, 2012 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You can recommend any books.

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posted May 21, 2012 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You can recommend any books.


Alrighty! It was Allen Carr's book, the Easy way to stop smoking. Hope it helps!!

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posted May 21, 2012 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OH man i had one at 6 am this morning it is now 9 pm here and i need one bad but i am stopping because i am getting congestion pains and coughing so wont be smoking for a while weeks months or years.

I feel the urgue for one though ,i hate it.

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posted May 22, 2012 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've never smoked in my entire life, but the smell just drives me mad. My friend he swears if I ever do it , he will disown me (as if he does) lol and because of this, that refrains me from doing it--- but I've always had a huge urge. I just love the smell, the way it looks, the impression it gives off. I must be crazy in the head, because everyone else tells me its really bad for you. I have this horrible feeling that If I ever did smoke, I would become obsessive with it and It'd become a habit. Therefore I will stay friends with the friend who will disown me for as long as I can, lol

Venus-neptune anyone? Haha.(I have the square. bleggh!)
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posted May 22, 2012 02:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:the impression it gives off

Just out of curiosity, what impression is that?

I once asked different smokers what kind of image they thought smokers sent and got very different answers, from "tough cowboy" to "sophisticated, desirable model" (and many others). What's your image? And do you know how you came to associate this image with smoking?

Bonus question: if you decided to start smoking, which brand would you prefer? (I understand if you don't know.)

2nd Bonus question: How old are you? (It doesn't have to be exact I'm more interested in what generation you belong to, what decade you came of age in, etc, and I understand if you prefer not to say.)

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charmainec
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posted May 22, 2012 03:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've seen people who only smoke when they drink alcohol or who only smoke when they socialize. Other than that, they don't bother.

How do they get it right to stop just like that? If those are the only times they smoke, then why bother at all?

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posted May 22, 2012 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
What's your image? And do you know how you came to associate this image with smoking?

I'm not sure exactly-- all I know is I idolize it. Perhaps I think its vogue. Dunno. I infer it may have stemmed from watching television..

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2nd Bonus question: How old are you? (It doesn't have to be exact I'm more interested in what generation you belong to,



Hshaz~Bonus questions!
I'm a 90s baby.

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posted May 22, 2012 07:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, DS!

One thing I've observed is that most people who thought smoking was a good thing were generally a boomer at the very least (though this isn't always true). By the 90s smoking became more rebellious and less conformist (even a rite of passage once upon a time) given how anti-smoking society had gotten, especially in school. And generally speaking good guys don't smoke on TV or in the movies (when Wolverine came out and he had a cigar as it was just part of his character he never lit it, and there was still an uproar over it). So what TV shows or movies did you see? ("Classic movies" is an ok answer that needs no explanation.)

Offhand the only 2 smokers who were cool that I can think of was Wolverine (in the X-Men movies, and even Xavier made it clear he only tolerated it and there was a limit to his tolerance) and Whistler from the Blade movies (and given how stressed, old and scraggly looking Whistler is I'm not sure anyone would've believed him a nonsmoker anyway). Vin Diesal played at least one character that did (not counting Disney he only plays antiheroes and villains, but I can see how he's still cool looking). I can't think of any TV shows in the 90s or after where the guys you were supposed to cheer for smoked, but then I skipped a lot of TV...

Now if you think the villains look cool then I can think of plenty more examples there ("Cancer Man" of the X-Files being an extreme example, though even he had to be supernaturally cured of lung cancer once).

I find how different brains process the world around them in different ways interesting so I hope you don't mind my asking.

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charmainec
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posted May 23, 2012 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Going to cave in soon.

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posted May 23, 2012 02:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm smoking lol lol

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posted May 23, 2012 02:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
James bond doesn't smoke anymore. I know he had custom made cigs at dunhill since he's ancient. Then there were gold rings by the filter to show his rank as commander.

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posted May 23, 2012 02:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
I'm smoking lol lol

What do u smoke ad?

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posted May 23, 2012 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They call em coco puffs in the philipines LOL jkjk

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