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Topic: Borderline Personality Disorder
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Mblake81 Knowflake Posts: 1490 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 23, 2011 10:06 PM
Just a note: For a gemini or associated planets/houses.I think this is normal energy/expression for you, I do think some of you actually process thought this way. No judgement. But they do need to understand themselves more, That way they can harness that energy a little better. Work with your problems til they go away, if they do not go away, seek more advanced help because you are gonna need it lol. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 23, 2011 10:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: This string is about BPD, not mental illness in general. No, I do not believe BPD is a real disorder. I lean toward behaviorism in my views. Behavior is learned. Acting a certain way is rewarding in some way, and that's why the behavior is repeated. For something to be an "illness," there must be a medical test to diagnose it. Observation of behavior does not constitute a medical test. We pray to the psychiatry gods way too much in this country. But the pushing of legal drugs on a duped populace is a matter for another discussion.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 9558 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 23, 2011 10:17 PM
I never said mental illness wasn't real. I never said drugs caused it. I said I did not believe BPD is a real disorder. I have had encounters with my fair share of anti-social behavior, believe me. Do not read anything more into my words than what they explicitly state.IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 23, 2011 10:21 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 9558 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 23, 2011 10:26 PM
Actually, a better analogy would be trying to explain evolution to a creationist. But, as I said, this is just my opinion. You have yours, and I have mine. The truth is probably somewhere in between the two diametrically opposed positions.IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 23, 2011 10:29 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 9558 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 23, 2011 10:36 PM
By its definition, an illness is a medical condition. If something is caused by a chemical imbalance, that would be a medical condition, would it not? Providing that can be proved for said condition(s). Bad behavior, however, is learned just as good behavior is learned. There is an entire branch of psychology devoted to this concept. It's called behaviorism. From B.F. Skinner to Pavlov, it makes for remarkable insight into why people act as they do. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 23, 2011 10:47 PM
By now - my apology was read. Edit.IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 23, 2011 10:57 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 9558 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 23, 2011 11:10 PM
I don't have a problem with people needing help, seeking help, and even being helped by drugs. What I have a problem with is when people justify bad behavior with a crutch as some do (not all or even most). Yes, we all have ideas about how the world works, but the thing about theories is that they are replicatable and thus hold validity. Both Skinnerian and Pavlovian findings have been replicated numerous times and their findings are commonly accepted among the peer-reviewed scientific community. It just gets trickier when dealing with humans. Pigeons and dogs differ from us just a wee bit. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 23, 2011 11:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: I don't have a problem with people needing help, seeking help, and even being helped by drugs. What I have a problem with is when people justify bad behavior with a crutch as some do (not all or even most). Yes, we all have ideas about how the world works, but the thing about theories is that they are replicatable and thus have validity. Both Skinnerian and Pavlovian findings have been replicated numerous times and is commonly accepted among the peer-reviewed scientific community. It just gets trickier when dealing with humans.
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Mblake81 Knowflake Posts: 1490 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 23, 2011 11:40 PM
From a person who has been there.Unless you have personally been there yourself, It is the same as a civilian trying to tell a military man what war is like. No way for you to really know that horror, Until you go to bed, and wake up with it every morning for a long period of time. At times, You face the realization that it will never end. That is hard because you have to figure out how to live like this, or what to do with yourself. You have to understand the brain is not working correctly, No matter how much the person is willing themselves to do it. It can feel like a giant boot is continuously being pressed on you, You can not get away from it. And that can be maddening. Have you ever felt that? And can not get away from it no matter how hard you try? Most people are driven to very bad places, I am fortunate in that I saved myself. Trust me, that is not a common ability in this area of the mind. People are more or less "lost" in the dark. Take that as it means. Lost and they do not know how to get out, Outside help never really helps. Drugs for this dull the mind, are related to bandaids. These things can be impossible. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 9558 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 23, 2011 11:49 PM
Once again, PS, I am trying to keep this on topic. You are taking my specific opinion on BPD and extending it broadly. I never said your depression and/or anxiety wasn't real. I am only speaking of BPD. So, are you telling me that the person of whom you speak would be cured by a drug? Do you not think that this behavior was learned (probably by seeing a parent engage in the same way)? And, of course, people have anger issues, as well. What has been learned can be unlearned.------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Mblake81 Knowflake Posts: 1490 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 24, 2011 12:00 AM
Depression does not only come from parents.I would not know where to start. Way more ways for that to manifest itself. Depression can almost be something that is alive and fighting you. I hope you can understand that I am not talking about someone looking out a window and feeling a lil down because of the weather. Seasonal depression does occur, I myself have still have SAD http://www.emedicinehealth.com/seasonal_depression_sad/article_em.htm It is no where near as strong as what I am talking about above, But it is noticeable and annoying at times. IP: Logged |
Mblake81 Knowflake Posts: 1490 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 24, 2011 12:02 AM
Not to mention the physical deterioration that comes along with those really bad spouts.IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 24, 2011 12:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Once again, PS, I am trying to keep this on topic. You are taking my specific opinion on BPD and extending it broadly. I never said your depression wasn't real. I am only speaking of BPD. So, are you telling me that the person of whom you speak would be cured by a drug? Do you not think that this behavior was learned (probably by seeing a parent engage in the same way)? And, of course, people have anger issues, as well. What has been learned can be unlearned.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 9558 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 24, 2011 12:40 AM
I never said depression is caused by parents, MB. Chemical imbalances are medical/physiological/biological, and I am only talking about BPD. Any other inference is a stretch and straw-grasp.IP: Logged |
rajji Moderator Posts: 856 From: Registered: Jan 2011
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posted February 24, 2011 12:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoSquared: [B] From what I read, Anti-socials will never accept treatment, go there willingly, and get help - because they all believe they are completely fine. My sister was mandated to go to therapy because my nephew started beating himself in school. They were able to decipher that there was a "problem" at home.
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PS..What makes you bring in anti-socials into this? Anti socials cannot be mentioned here...i dont think that is a category worth mentioning in ailments! Socialising or non-socialising has nothing to do with being diagnosed with a psychiatric condition. I think this statement has confused anti-social behaviour with psychopath. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 9558 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 24, 2011 12:46 AM
You said it yourself, PS: "These people know what they're doing, and they take pleasure in it..." Does that sound like a disease to you? Or does it sound like a free-will choice to engage in bad behavior? Warped thinking perhaps, but not an illness. My opinion.IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 24, 2011 12:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by rajji: PS..What makes you bring in anti-socials into this? Anti socials cannot be mentioned here...i dont think that is a category worth mentioning in ailments! Socialising or non-socialising has nothing to do with being diagnosed with a psychiatric condition. I think this statement has confused anti-social behaviour with psychopath.
Rajji, I use anti-social as the same meaning as psychopath. I also meant to include BPD in that sentence next to ASPD. I think that BPD is very similar to ASPD, the only difference seems to be that "psychopaths" are in compete control of themselves, without empathy, while BPD's are slaves to their lack of impulse control, have high anxiety levels. IP: Logged |
rajji Moderator Posts: 856 From: Registered: Jan 2011
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posted February 24, 2011 12:49 AM
Yes! exactly..randall..i cannot put a name and label them as diseased.IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 24, 2011 12:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: You said it yourself, PS: "These people know what they are doing and take pleasure in it." Does that sound like a disease to you? Or does it sound like a free-will choice to engage in bad behavior? Warped thinking perhaps, but not an illness. My opinion.
Yes, it does. I think these people are unable to feel remorse and empathy, and are slaves to their impulses, fears and irrational thoughts which have a true basis in chemical imbalance, and allude to having different brain wiring. Not a "choice". IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 24, 2011 12:54 AM
By the way, there are no proven ways to teach someone how to feel empathy. Important point.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 9558 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 24, 2011 12:59 AM
Well, we can just agree to disagree. Empathy is a learned trait gained at a young age. Some people do learn it later in life, though. I have certainly met my fair share of the type, that's for sure. Empathy only indicates a properly working brain in that society values that trait. At different times in history, perhaps other traits were more valued relative to today's society. But I am not in the crazy person rehab business, and I refuse to submit myself to people like that. I have done so enough in the past, and now I choose two things: 1. Not to be a victim. And 2. To surround myself with what I consider mentally balanced and emotionally healthy individuals. No more sociopaths for me. I ain't no hero. I can't save anyone. So, whatever the cause, I choose to remove myself from those types of people. And I am not speaking of people with anxiety, depression, or several others...but only of those who hurt others and derive pleasure from doing so.IP: Logged |
rajji Moderator Posts: 856 From: Registered: Jan 2011
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posted February 24, 2011 01:06 AM
quote -------------------------------------------- What is wrong with this approach is describing people as having a psychiatric "disease" or "illness" only because he or she doesn't match up with a supposed diagnostician's or with other people's idea of how a person "should" be in standards of dress, behavior, thinking, or opinion. When it involves violating the rights of others, nonconformity with social norms or values must be curbed or stopped with various measures, criminal law being one example. But calling nonconformity or disliked behavior a "disease" or assuming it must be caused by a disease only because it is unacceptable according to currently prevailing values makes no sense. What causes us to do this is not knowing the real reasons for the thinking, emotions, or behavior we dislike. When we don't understand the real reasons, we create myths to provide an explanation. Believing in mythological entities such as evil spiritsunderstanding, or mental illnesses gives an illusion of and believing a myth is more comfortable than acknowledging ignorance. --------------------------------------------Yes... this what i wanted to say..a person might behave in a peculiar way because of a pleothra of reasons which are hard to identify.
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