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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 13034 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 26, 2011 09:10 AM Thank you ((((EES))) ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011	posted February 26, 2011 11:31 AM Your welcome (((Ami))) LoL one thing I learned despite everything else is that ((())) means hugs. I didn't know what it meant before, I think I assumed you "called out" a person when you do that. IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 9558 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 26, 2011 12:03 PM Haha! Calling them out for a hug. ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 522 From: ←↓↑→ Registered: Jan 2010	posted February 26, 2011 12:07 PM Randall, your friend list isn't showing, so if you girls wanna add me just send your FB link to my email. quote: In fact, I'll just go ahead and do it, now... because I want to continue talking about this thread, but not in the presence of edit members who are more concerned with playing sides, heckling, poking fun, half-participating, than actually talking about what I consider a pretty serious subject. Plutosquared, I dunno if you were directing that at me or not, but if you are, I hope you know I wasn't trying to take sides or anything. I was only speaking of my mother's case, everyone is different, I'm sure there are people out there who have BPD and need the help to get better. ------------------ “If malice or envy were tangible and had a shape, it would be the shape of a boomerang.” — Charley Reese IP: Logged
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010	posted February 26, 2011 12:18 PM quote: Originally posted by soulful122: Randall, your friend list isn't showing, so if you girls wanna add me just send your FB link to my email. Plutosquared, I dunno if you were directing that at me or not, but if you are, I hope you know I wasn't trying to take sides or anything. I was only speaking of my mother's case, everyone is different, I'm sure there are people out there who have BPD and need the help to get better. Thanks, Soulfull for clarifying that. I think this thread started out as a debate, as if BPD doesn't exist, thus so many posts at the start. I realize that some don't believe in BPD and am fine with that. Some people don't believe individuals are born gay, too. Some people don't believe in God. Some people believe in aliens, others don't. I try not to take it personally. However, this subject I feel strongly about, so it's a good idea to move my participation elsewhere, in order to keep this topic helpful (otherwise, what's the point, right?) to people who may suffer with BPD. I don't want to debate whether or not people's problems exist. It seems really insensitive to me. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 13034 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 26, 2011 12:22 PM Randall ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011	posted February 26, 2011 01:08 PM quote: Originally posted by Randall: Haha! Calling them out for a hug. I want a hug from sexy Randall. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 13034 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 26, 2011 01:10 PM I think Randall was talking about belly dances on another thread ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 13034 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 26, 2011 01:10 PM dp IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 9558 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 26, 2011 01:33 PM You have to send me a Friend Request to see my list. PS, I thought you said you secretly love when someone disagrees with you? ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010	posted February 26, 2011 01:57 PM quote: Originally posted by Randall: You have to send me a Friend Request to see my list. PS, I thought you said you secretly love when someone disagrees with you? Sure, I can respect a straight forward debate. I don't respect passive-aggressiveness, though. IP: Logged
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010	posted February 26, 2011 02:02 PM And, my opinion was this thread was started with a passive-aggressive intent. The author of this thread does not believe in mental illness, and in fact believes that demons are the likely culprits of mental illness. There is a lack of genuineness on this thread, from the start. Look at 30 or some more posts that have nothing to do with the topic. The main responses to this topic that were serious were from posters either responding to me directly, or from my posts. Your first post was to say that BPD is basically b.s. That's not a debate. Even though I consider myself pretty brave to walk through here and make my point, in the midst of snickering and passive-aggressiveness. Regardless, what's the point of "debate" when my points will only go further to "make me the bad, mean enemy" and opposing individuals, "innocents who need protection". No thanks. IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 9558 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 26, 2011 02:26 PM But not everyone is going to agree with you, PS. And there's a chance that not everything you believe in is true. So, you putting down someone else's belief in demons is pretty much the same as someone putting down your belief in BPD. There's no scientific evidence for either one. Do you see what I'm saying? We all believe in many different things--from ideologies to philosophies-- with political and religious differences all across the scale. You are a Christian (and I don't mean this to sound disrespectful), but according to the Bible (which is the religious text of your religion) Jesus didn't lay people on a couch and give them therapy; nor did He give them any medication. What did He do? Jesus cast out demons. All beliefs are valid to the person who believes them--not just your own. Tolerance is what's important. ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
PlutoSquared Moderator Posts: 4449 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010	posted February 26, 2011 04:16 PM quote: Originally posted by Randall: But not everyone is going to agree with you, PS. And there's a chance that not everything you believe in is true. So, you putting down someone else's belief in demons is pretty much the same as someone putting down your belief in BPD. There's no scientific evidence for either one. Do you see what I'm saying? We all believe in many different things--from ideologies to philosophies-- with political and religious differences all across the scale. You are a Christian (and I don't mean this to sound disrespectful), but according to the Bible (which is the religious text of your religion) Jesus didn't lay people on a couch and give them therapy; nor did He give them any medication. What did He do? Jesus cast out demons. All beliefs are valid to the person who believes them--not just your own. Tolerance is what's important. Randall, you're preaching to the choir. I get that tolerance is important. I want to be at peace with others, as much as humanly possible. I have already apologized and cut my losses for the way this topic began - another one of my trademark Aries flops. However, I will not keep playing toss the ball with a group of people who have no respect for my ideas, and no tolerance for my opinions. This is a 2 way street, here, Randall. Show respect, and respect will be given back. I promise. Otherwise, if you think I'm upset because others here don't believe in BPD? Wrong. I am upset because of the tone, the manner in which this topic is being handled - and the complete LOSS of the bigger, more important issues - That REAL PEOPLE SUFFER FROM MENTAL Illness, and this thread is a joke. I don't want to contribute to it anymore. I want to do something positive, say something positive, and be part of a positive process. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 13034 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 26, 2011 04:50 PM Dear Soulful I am sorry everything you went through with your Mother. I know how hard it is when YOU don't have a mother to take care of you. Instead ,you have to take care of her. PS Look forward to seeing your Friend Request on FB I will do a psychic reading for you,Soulful,if you would like me to. ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011	posted February 26, 2011 05:14 PM This information for BP may be helpful also. The Attention-Seeker Motivation: to be the centre of attention Mindset: control freak, manipulation, narcissism Malice: medium to high; when held accountable, very high * emotionally immature * selectively friendly - is sickly sweet to some people, rude and offhand to others, and ignores the rest * is cold and aggressive towards anyone who sees them for what they really are or exposes their strategies for gaining attention * overfriendly with their new target, especially in the initial stages of a new working relationship * overhelpful, ditto * overgenerous, ditto * manipulative of people's perceptions, but in an amateur and childish manner * manipulative with guilt, ditto * sycophantic, fawning, toadying * uses flattery to keep a person in authority on side * everything is a drama, usually a poor-me drama * prefers not to solve problems in own life so that they can be used and re-used for gaining sympathy and attention * capitalises on issues and uses them as a soapbox for gaining attention * exploits others' suffering and grief as a vehicle for gaining attention * misappropriates others' statements, eg anything which can be misconstrued as politically incorrect, for control and attention-seeking * excusitis, makes excuses for everything * shows a lot of indignation, especially when challenged * lots of self-pity * often as miserable as sin, apart from carefully constructed moments of charm when in the act of deceiving * demanding of others * easily provoked * feigns victimhood when held accountable, usually by bursting into tears or claiming they're the one being bullied and harassed * presents as a false victim when outwitted * may feign exclusion, isolation or persecution * malicious * constantly tries and will do almost anything to be in the spotlight * includes Munchausen Syndrome * the focus of their life is to be the centre of attention IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 13034 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 26, 2011 05:23 PM Wow EES That is helpful. ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 13034 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 26, 2011 05:31 PM Soulful Type my e mail address in on FB to find me ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011	posted February 26, 2011 05:34 PM quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Wow EES That is helpful. Well, I'm trying to stay OT (on topic) IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 13034 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 26, 2011 05:41 PM Yes,EES,I can see that ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 13034 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 26, 2011 06:04 PM edit IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 13034 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 26, 2011 06:09 PM edit IP: Logged
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011	posted February 26, 2011 06:38 PM WTF are you doing, woman?!?! IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 13034 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 26, 2011 06:48 PM Trying to be polite ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011	posted February 26, 2011 06:54 PM That's that Gemini sh*t :/ IP: Logged

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