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hannaramaa
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posted January 11, 2013 03:57 PM
  
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hannaramaa
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posted January 11, 2013 04:32 PM
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T
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posted January 11, 2013 04:47 PM
Too funny ladies.  & btw i'm not done with you aquaguy. lol just don't have the energy to type much on this subject atm (youre welcome. ..or to your relief maybe? ) LOL!! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted January 11, 2013 05:10 PM
ya'll are reading too much into that comment i made regarding "fat chicks" . people say similar things out of anger all the time... like women ... when they get angry about getting dumped/rejected they often launch a smear campaign against the guy , saying stuff like"well he sucked in bed or he had a small d*ck anyway" lol ya'll know its true... women will also go after the guys new girl , saying stuff like"i'm way hotter then her or she's fugly etc" i have heard guys say/do similar things. most people know they are just really angry at the moment and pay no mind to it, so why why am i the exception to this rule?IP: Logged |
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posted January 11, 2013 05:47 PM
What if they arent reading too much into the fat chick comment and just having fun with it? What if you arent reading enough into what's been said to you, advice given to you over the years? Have you payed enough serious attention to it and considered it - i mean, i know it's coming from females and we don't always make the best decisions   or might not be able to offer better advice than "your boys". But if people keep repeating the same things to you, it might be worth looking more deeply into.I know the last thing one wants to hear, when one is bitter about something is about the power of positive thinking or taking responsiblilities for our thoughts or hardened outlooks on life, but it might be something to seriously consider and take a hammer to. Couldnt hurt. Or might hurt less than just allowing things go on the way they have been. A new perspective and approach might do you some good. IP: Logged |
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posted January 11, 2013 05:50 PM
Don't take that same attitude you have about chicks in your workouts - plan to drop weight. It won't help you.BTW, you will probably find that that won't change much at all. You then might have more interest from woman you wouldnt normally be interested in. You'll just end up more fit, but still stuck with the same mindset and find yourself attracting the same types of chicks and situations and still be bitching about the same things - or worse. Life will change, chicks will seem to change, only after your attitude changes.
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Faith
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posted January 11, 2013 06:05 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Your other reply was better! Not to mention the sense of entitlement he has to that girl's time just because he thinks he's better looking than her (which no, you didn't flat out say but you implied it by making it a big deal she was really overweight.)
LOL! Actually hanna, I was trying to follow your example here: quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
@Aqua - I can feel myself getting sucked into trying to coach you out of the way you think, and I refuse.
Although...you, me, and aquaguy are all Gemini Mars and could have a dazzling argument if we set our minds to it. Just sayin'!
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Faith
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posted January 11, 2013 06:09 PM
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Originally posted by T:
Life will change, chicks will seem to change, only after your attitude changes.
You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 11, 2013 06:38 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
ya'll are reading too much into that comment i made regarding "fat chicks" . people say similar things out of anger all the time... like women ... when they get angry about getting dumped/rejected they often launch a smear campaign against the guy , saying stuff like"well he sucked in bed or he had a small d*ck anyway" lol ya'll know its true... women will also go after the guys new girl , saying stuff like"i'm way hotter then her or she's fugly etc" i have heard guys say/do similar things. most people know they are just really angry at the moment and pay no mind to it, so why why am i the exception to this rule?
Yeah, IGNORANT AND IMMATURE WOMEN. Man! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 11, 2013 06:46 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by T:
Don't take that same attitude you have about chicks in your workouts - plan to drop weight. It won't help you.BTW, you will probably find that that won't change much at all. You then might have more interest from woman you wouldnt normally be interested in. You'll just end up more fit, but still stuck with the same mindset and find yourself attracting the same types of chicks and situations and still be bitching about the same things - or worse. Life will change, chicks will seem
to change, only after your
attitude changes.[/QUOTE
i will try,i always try to have a positive attitude. what people around here dont seem to realize is i'm in a good mood on here most of the time, joking /being
playful etc. i'm not always in a
negative state of mind. my point
is attitudes/moods can change
from day to day, you cant just
.assume i'm always angry/
negative. as i described to faith
in a thread a long while back , i
am a third house moon and
mars and expressing myself
verbally or through writing is
vital for my sanity. which means
if i'm angry/upset i'm going to express it and get it out of my system, but you know what? it usually passes very quickly unless someone manages to p*ss me again. so when i'm writing "negative" stuff , remember this. it has nothing to do with you, so stop taking it as if its a personal attack. when i'm in an angry moment and venting women attacking me is not going to,help, condescension is not going to help, its only gonna make me even more angry and prevent me from returning to a positive state of mind.
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posted January 11, 2013 07:15 PM
to the above post.....hmm....somebody trying to post from their phone? LOL
what a mess. quote:
remember this. it has nothing to do with you, so stop taking it as if its a personal attack. when i'm in an angry moment and venting women attacking me is not going to,help, condescension is not going to help, its only gonna make me even more angry and prevent me from returning to a positive state of mind.
Sure, we can do that. But please so the same for us. Also, keep in mind that the info given to you is usually done in a helpful way.....that's how it's intended and don't be so sensitive about it yourself! Even if you know it's done in a cutting way, man up and take it in stride. Be thankful that people are reaching out, sharing information, even if it might not be what you want to hear. It's your choice if it makes you angry or not. You don't have to tell us broads to stop it. Instead, listen, or dont and move on. Say something positive back. Don't get your self in a tizzy about it.  IP: Logged |
T
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posted January 11, 2013 07:18 PM
The most irritating things people have to say to us are often the ones we should be taking the closest look at. So, stop your screeching. Be more thainkful.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 11, 2013 07:21 PM
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Originally posted by T:
to the above post.....hmm....somebody trying to post from their phone? LOL
what a mess. Sure, we can do that. But please so the same for us. Also, keep in mind that the info given to you is usually done in a helpful way.....that's how it's intended and don't be so sensitive about it yourself! Even if you know it's done in a cutting way, man up and take it in stride. Be thankful that people are reaching out, sharing information, even if it might not be what you want to hear. It's your choice if it makes you angry or not. You don't have to tell us broads to stop it. Instead, listen, or dont and move on. Say something positive back. Don't get your self in a tizzy about it.
yes i was posting that one via phone lol. get in a tizzy? lol i'm not the one getting in a tizzy.. but ok IP: Logged |
T
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posted January 11, 2013 07:23 PM
I knew it!So? You going to shut up and listen now or what? Get back to us when you've thought about it all more. We are tired of repeating ourselves to you.  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 11, 2013 07:23 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQePLhJpgRM IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 11, 2013 07:27 PM
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Originally posted by T:
I knew it!So? You going to shut up and listen now or what? Get back to us when you've thought about it all more. We are tired of repeating ourselves to you.
it may not seem like it, but ya'll are getting through to me little by little. of course you have to realize i'm triple fixed so it may take a few thousand years. 
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posted January 11, 2013 07:31 PM
loli have to walk my dog. bb later guys. hang in there. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 11, 2013 08:49 PM
I see that the Ayatollahs of Estrogenistan have placed a Fatwa on Aquaguy91. Sorry, but it's pretty hilarious. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted January 11, 2013 10:04 PM
^ quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
it may not seem like it, but ya'll are getting through to me little by little. of course you have to realize i'm triple fixed so it may take a few thousand years.
So many snarky comments about women that you still want to make, and so little time.
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posted January 11, 2013 10:30 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I see that the Ayatollahs of Estrogenistan have placed a Fatwa on Aquaguy91. Sorry, but it's pretty hilarious.
oh dear god....ROFL! Go ahead now, tell him how it really is YTA. Save him some time and relationship frustrations. School him. You have more experience under your belt. Give him the real deal. IP: Logged |
T
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posted January 11, 2013 10:31 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
^ So many snarky comments about women that you still want to make, and so little time.
Hahahaha!!! IP: Logged |
T
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posted January 11, 2013 10:32 PM
We're really chipping away at that rock aquaguy?Great!  IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted January 11, 2013 10:36 PM
Rock erosion.....where's a drill and a power sander when you need one? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted January 11, 2013 10:56 PM
im like japanese man hiding in bunker on iwo jima, your naval bombardment isnt getting through to meIP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted January 11, 2013 11:06 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I see that the Ayatollahs of Estrogenistan have placed a Fatwa on Aquaguy91. Sorry, but it's pretty hilarious.
no more alpo for me. IP: Logged |
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