posted June 06, 2014 07:29 PM            

And I want it to be real, not manmade.

posted June 06, 2014 07:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Lexxigramer:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by BellaFenice:
[b] If this is supposed to be some subtle shade for me calling you out for using a LGBT slur, then I stand by what I said. It is not a word to be said period, doesn't matter how you "define" it. The mockery of genitalia isn't the best response either.

I have two friends who identify themselves as transsexual and they do not like having this word thrown around. So making light of this word just isn't humorous. That's why I responded in the first place.

Edit: if you ever take issue with something I say, just tell me.

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posted June 06, 2014 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Hey Lexxi, I'm well aware of the differences. The reason I brought my friends up is because they know people who are considered intersexed, and along with many others in the LGBT community, don't condone the use of the word. I should have added more context to my post, sorry for the confusion!

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posted June 06, 2014 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:

I think that young guys need to learn the power of saying "no" to a woman, and women should embrace the power of "yes" in an open and honest way

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posted June 06, 2014 07:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Lexxigramer:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by BellaFenice:
[b] Hey Lexxi, I'm well aware of the differences. The reason I brought my friends up is because they know people who are considered intersexed, and along with many others in the LGBT community, don't condone the use of the word. I should have added more context to my post, sorry for the confusion!

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posted June 06, 2014 07:51 PM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Very open ended statement- just in general or do you have any particular scenarios in mind?

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posted June 06, 2014 07:52 PM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
I completely agree with the above. I respect what LGBT organizations have accomplished and are striving for and fully support this. However, as you said above, these organizations are not perfect and need to do a little better on being more inclusive to those who don't fit the exact definition of LGBT.

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posted June 06, 2014 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
It is what I specialize in

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posted June 07, 2014 01:59 AM            

And then are times when the wounded ones, the outcast ones, come to you.

How can a man relate to a terrible situation for a woman, one that scars and binds?

Does not speak highly of men's lust, and women do suffer through it then "..oh gee..just go on w/life.."

posted June 07, 2014 07:51 AM            

This is Padre's (and many male Sagittarians') idea of paradise:

Sure! They'll tell you it's not. But it *really* is!

Why?

I don't know...

It beats me. The fact is they *realllllly* want to be with a woman who wants to have a serious relationship with them, so that they can perpetually say 'No' to her, and reinforce their independence.

Because when they find a woman who couldn't give a flying f*** about commitment.. e.g. myself and MANY others out there... they either become skeptical in sheer disbelief that this could be true - or - alternatively call her "cold" and "not feminine enough".

The Sagittarian dilemma: How can I find a woman who gives me a lot of space - whilst also being a clingy maniac who needs me around 24/7 & strokes my gigantic ego?

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I think that young guys need to learn the power of saying "no" to a woman

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And that is one power a Sagittarius will know everything about.. Yup.. Because they only date clingy women with low self-esteem who think they are "The One" and propose every second week - at which point the Sagittarian, can once again practice his amazing ability to say "No"
I must admit - this story would get a little repetitive and sad, if it wasn't so funny.

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Does not speak highly of men's lust, and women do suffer through it then

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Indeed. Women suffer. The sensitive little water-influenced, fairytale lovers of the world suffer.

Do I personally suffer because of "men's lust" as you put it? Nope.

They can be as lusty as they like - as far as I'm concerned.. if it makes them happy.

^^ But would you be with an Aries girl? LOL
Of course not Why would any Sagittarian do such a thing? Poor thing would have nothing to complain about all damn day long...

posted June 07, 2014 01:25 PM            

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posted June 09, 2014 09:03 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
One thing that always bugs me about these discussions is the majority of the criticism is always focused on the dating challenged man. We are perceived as having tons of flaws and having unrealistic standards etc. but what people don't want to discuss is the fact that many women price themselves out of the market because they have an unrealistically high opinion of themselves and their attractiveness.. For example Padre is always telling me to "be interesting" and "have hobbies" as if I am not interesting and have hobbies already. But what he fails to realize is the fact that I get rejected by plain and boring women... So is all the onus on men to be interesting and attractive now? Because sometimes it sure seems that way... Granted I am all for self improvement but are men the only ones who need to improve? Or am I just imagining all the boring and conventionally unattractive women out there?

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What is it, that you actually want a relationship for?
Why do you want a girlfriend?

posted June 09, 2014 10:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
What is it, that you actually want a relationship for?
Why do you want a girlfriend?

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I think this sums it up:

While I'm at it check out "the secrets of men (a guide for women)" here.

posted June 09, 2014 06:04 PM            

‘Dating Lesson’ Asks Eighth-Grade Girls To Publicly Declare How Far They Will Go Sexually

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Officials at the taxpayer-funded school defended the exercise, calling it a dating lesson.

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posted June 09, 2014 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Padre - You just want to live in an imaginary world where every woman wants to marry you - while you keep saying "no" and running away.

This is Padre's (and many male Sagittarians') idea of paradise:

Sure! They'll tell you it's not. But it *really* is!

Why?

I don't know...

It beats me. The fact is they *realllllly* want to be with a woman who wants to have a serious relationship with them, so that they can perpetually say 'No' to her, and reinforce their independence.

Because when they find a woman who couldn't give a flying f*** about commitment.. e.g. myself and MANY others out there... they either become skeptical in sheer disbelief that this could be true - or - alternatively call her "cold" and "not feminine enough".

The Sagittarian dilemma: How can I find a woman who gives me a lot of space - whilst also being a clingy maniac who needs me around 24/7 & strokes my gigantic ego?

Indeed. Women suffer. The sensitive little water-influenced, fairytale lovers of the world suffer.

Do I personally suffer because of "men's lust" as you put it? Nope.

They can be as lusty as they like - as far as I'm concerned.. if it makes them happy.

^^ But would you be with an Aries girl? LOL
Of course not Why would any Sagittarian do such a thing? Poor thing would have nothing to complain about all damn day long...

Your only actual relationships were with two Libra girls (the sign of marriage!!) and they both pestered you about commitment...
Isn't that coincidental?

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You missed the Virgo as well, at least you are thinking of me Odette....oddly..I rarely speak of my serious LTR's..those tended to end very badly..

And oh my no, women who want no commitment are my cup o' tea..tho have to be honest here, in that situation there is nothing quite as enjoyable as looking all serious and saying:

"I need to ask you a serious question"

or

"I have something to tell you"

posted June 09, 2014 10:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Turkey

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Annnd..then some..

Suspect sooo many guys are just so willing to say "I love you, I'll do this for you, that for you" then never can live up to it all

Poor girl has a built in reaction to what they think is coming..then deflating the balloon of negative expectations..is a lot of irresistible bait for the Saggie in me

posted June 09, 2014 11:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:

Reaction..just priceless..eyes get wide..slight step back in preparation of an incoming "Do you love me" or "I love you" bomb incoming..usually I just ask something a bit silly like "do you know which way is North from here"?

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posted June 11, 2014 01:30 AM            

So this morning, I parked my car near a Tim Horton's to get my morning cup of Joe. And when I came back, I found this on the Windshield (Name and number has been blurred to protect the guilty: )

Ego boost x infinity maybe? Lol! If this was legit then gotta say ladies, way to go in taking the initiative (and I don't mean that sarcastically.)

posted June 11, 2014 02:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:

Mermaids will be considered.

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I read about AG's experiences n yeah I guess I want to tell a bit about mine too - kinda the other side of the coin.

Years ago I read a book named "How to be a Hepburn in a Hilton's world". I picked it up because I thought the title was quite intriguing, not because I was looking for lifestyle tips lol. Can't remember all of it but in one section the author mentions how women should let men "chase" them, shouldn't make the 1st move n that if he doesn't have to "work for it" he wouldn't really appreciate the relationship. Bah.

Idk if that view is popular. But ime I've heard some people expressing similar opinions.

To me waiting for things to happen is frustrating. I'd much rather take things in my own hands. With my s.o, I made the 1st move. Told him I liked him and would like to exchange numbers so we could talk more.

Bah I know people who still look down on women who do that. It's not like we're living in the 17th century.