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teasel
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posted June 05, 2014 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If anyone wants to continue that talk here, instead of derailing the mod thread.

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Ellynlvx
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posted June 05, 2014 08:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Far more important we show off our skills at the hyperlink there.

Thank You.

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Ami Anne
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posted June 05, 2014 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Far more important we show off our skills at the hyperlink there.

Thank You.


OMG That is so cute, E

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posted June 05, 2014 08:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I still don't know how to do the hyperlink thing (although I think it was explained in detail at some point). Lazy Neptunians.

I'll just post the link, heh.

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posted June 05, 2014 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just look up a ubb code database and it'll show you.

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Violets
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posted June 05, 2014 08:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyway, AG...

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Well yes! There are circumstances where a woman likes a guy that doesn't like her but by and large women have far more dating/sexual market value.. Case and point: my most recent experience with a woman.... She is 35 and just got divorced and wants to "have fun"... She came onto me and found me attractive... I found her attractive as well and people have been telling me to give an older woman a try, so I got her number.. We talked on the phone a few times and got along great... We had "chemistry" even though I hate cliche words like that... Anyways last Friday "She called me" and "asked me on a date"... We made plans to get drinks on Sunday and she said she would call me saturday night or Sunday to finalize the time and place... So anyways Saturday night came and went and it was Sunday evening and she still hadn't called me so I called her and she never answered so I left a message... She never called back.. I haven't heard so much as a peep out of her since... So I texted her yesterday and said "What gives?" And she responded "Sorry met someone".... So in the 2 days between us making plans and the time we were supposed to go out she had already met another guy and ditched me.. And didn't even have the decency to call or text me to let me know she had changed her mind! She just left me high and dry! Despite the fact that she was attracted to me and asked me on the date!!! Women do this all the time because they "ALWAYS" have other options, alot of us guys don't have that luxury... That is what single men are up against... I could ask out 20 women for next friday and they could all say yes and Odds are by friday they would have all flaked on me.. I know that women get stood up too.. But the difference is women always have tons of options.

I don't know if all women always have tons of options, honestly. I think that many do not. It has so much to do with physical appearance, emotional/psychological stability, magnetism (if looks aren't present, confidence and magnetism can always work wonders, regardless of gender)...etc.

But your story about the woman who didn't have the courtesy to let you know what was going on just sucks. It really does.

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posted June 05, 2014 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Just look up a ubb code database and it'll show you.


Well, I suppose if I want to be all fancy like Ellyn and Ami, I *might* get around to it. Possibly.

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posted June 05, 2014 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Violets:
Anyway, AG...

I don't know if all women always have tons of options, honestly. I think that many do not. It has so much to do with physical appearance, emotional/psychological stability, magnetism (if looks aren't present, confidence and magnetism can always work wonders, regardless of gender)...etc.

But your story about the woman who didn't have the courtesy to let you know what was going on just sucks. It really does.


Eh.. I'm used to it and expect it by now, thats just the way it is.

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posted June 05, 2014 08:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not fancy, Violets, I don;t know how to do it yet

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posted June 05, 2014 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Eh.. I'm used to it and expect it by now, thats just the way it is.


Man, don't give up on women just yet. You'll get it sorted out. That was lame of her, though.

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posted June 05, 2014 08:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I'm not fancy, Violets, I don;t know how to do it yet


Aw, you're still fancy.

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posted June 05, 2014 08:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Far more important we show off our skills at the hyperlink there.

Thank You.


Ah, it was redirecting one off-topic conversation, but the sarcasm is duly noted. Although I do know HTML, I simply copied and pasted. There were complaints about the talk there, so as a participant, I took responsibility. Thank you for being dismissive.

(In fact, you wanted to raise the energy there.)

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Ellynlvx
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posted June 05, 2014 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're Welcome.

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teasel
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posted June 05, 2014 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
You're Welcome.

And you wanted less contention? Really?

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Ellynlvx
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posted June 05, 2014 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know, I can't decide which I like best, so I guess I'll have to go with the Hermaphrodites.

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posted June 05, 2014 09:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fact, hurricanes with female names kill more than those with male names. But no one talks about it!

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posted June 05, 2014 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you a sexually frustrated guy? Maybe this will help:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MXi7sd7HX_8

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posted June 05, 2014 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Fact, hurricanes with female names kill more than those with male names. But no one talks about it!

Lololololol.

Let me guess: it's the feminists fault right?

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posted June 05, 2014 09:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHZsleyKons

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posted June 05, 2014 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aw, you're still fancy.

Aww Thank you, Violet. You made my night and you are fancy, too

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posted June 05, 2014 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, if anyone wants to take a poke at me, can you do it in another thread? I have one in Know Two Are Alike, or there's the venting thread. I wasn't planning to read every post in this one, so anything else will be wasted.

Unless you want to call me an irrational feminist, and then it's on topic.

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posted June 05, 2014 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you a Hermaphrodite?

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posted June 05, 2014 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Are you a Hermaphrodite?

To me it doesn't matter whether you are jesting or not, the problematic issue here is using a transphobic slur.

Intersex is the term to describe it as hermaphrodite has a long history of negative connotation. Its similar to calling a trans individual a tranny or a gay male the f word.

Humans don't naturally have a hermaphroditic existence, and a "true hermaphrodite" with full sets of both sex organs simply doesn't exist. Intersex people do exist, but are not hermaphrodites.

Lets stay on topic and avoid using these terms please.

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posted June 05, 2014 10:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WTF just happened here...?

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MoonWitch
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posted June 05, 2014 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonWitch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.queerty.com/exclusive-transgender-icon-jayne-county-is-fed-up-with-being-banned-and-censored-20140605

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