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Topic: Top 4 Character Traits Women Crave
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mercuranian
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posted March 12, 2015 05:55 PM
  
a man not getting laid is never anyone's fault but his own. end of story.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted March 12, 2015 06:08 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Aquacheeka,
Here's the thing about women on dating sites.... They falsely represent themselves. I went on about half a dozen dates with women I met on dating sites and all but one of them were drastically less attractive than they appeared in their pictures. It's funny because I have the opposite problem... I look better in real life and take crappy pictures. I'm not photogenic at all. The dates were always really awkward because I was disappointed in their looks and they were much more keen on me after seeing me in person. One girl I went out with looked slightly chubby with a cute face in her picture but when I met her she was obese! When we had talked on the phone prior to the date she was all "I am just letting you know that I do not have sex right away" and I agreed to that. After she saw me? She wanted to "go back to her place" and I made an excuse and got the heck out of dodge!  What's my point in all of this? I think women are hypocritical for judging guys so harshly on dating sites when they can't even put up a picture that isn't photoshopped.
And guys aren't doing the exact same thing?... That's not a very fair or realistic thing to say or assume. Not everyone in this world is a liar and a manipulator. You really shouldn't blame your issues and dating woes on women. Dating is a two-way street, it takes two to make it work. Why is every problem you have the woman's fault? As adults we have to take responsibility for our problems not blame them on other people, we aren't children anymore. If you're as nice as you say and have friends (not sure why they're your friends if they're as bad as you've described) that are jerks, yet are dating women settling for their crap, why aren't you dating anyone? You brought up that one friend is dating a girl that you'd date. Do you ever stop and really think why? Are you that egotistical thinking your problems lie in someone else? You shouldn't be jealous or envious of anyone that strive for women that settle for their crap and it sounds like you are. You shouldn't be. Don't you have any friends that aren't jerks in good, steady relationships? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted March 12, 2015 06:28 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
And guys aren't doing the exact same thing?... That's not a very fair or realistic thing to say or assume. Not everyone in this world is a liar and a manipulator. You really shouldn't blame your issues and dating woes on women. Dating is a two-way street, it takes two to make it work. Why is every problem you have the woman's fault? As adults we have to take responsibility for our problems not blame them on other people, we aren't children anymore. If you're as nice as you say and have friends (not sure why they're your friends if they're as bad as you've described) that are jerks, yet are dating women settling for their crap, why aren't you dating anyone? You brought up that one friend is dating a girl that you'd date. Do you ever stop and really think why? Are you that egotistical thinking your problems lie in someone else. You shouldn't be jealous or envious of anyone that strive for women that settle for their crap and it sounds like you are. You shouldn't be. Don't you have any friends that aren't jerks in good, steady relationships?
Barbie,
My friends that are "jerks" are jerks in the context of romantic/sexual relationships. They are good friends but I watch them treat women like crap. I'm not going to stop being friends with them when they are good to me and never do me wrong. Still..... Whenever I witness them doing women wrong I secretly hope the women in question would tell them to take a hike, but they usually don't. And I never said every problem I had is womens fault. I'm my own worst critic and strive to improve myself and my situation in life constantly. But still..... That doesn't change the fact that I see major issues with women today and i'm going to call them on it. I mean somebody's got to do it.
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Ami Anne
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posted March 12, 2015 06:29 PM
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aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted March 12, 2015 06:31 PM
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Originally posted by mercuranian:
a man not getting laid is never anyone's fault but his own. end of story.
Even when a man that is working at walmart gets rejected by women that also work at walmart because he works at walmart?  Out of control female hypergamy is not mens fault. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted March 12, 2015 06:38 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Here's what I think......
I think women are primarily driven by emotions. They'll tell you that they want a "nice guy" but what they really mean is they want a guy that makes them feel good. And based off of what i've seen it's usually the bad boys/jerks that provide the emotional rollercoaster that makes women feel good.
I don't know many people who enjoy being on an emotional roller coaster. I don't like actual roller coasters. ******** don't make you feel good. As someone else said, these guys don't always appear to be this way at first. I wish I'd never known one guy, because that was the beginning of the mess that my life turned into (and there was also a lot of help from the ******* that my sister married - and her turning into one to protect *him*). Her ******* apparently changed his ways, but I don't trust him, can't be around him, and was punished severely for that. Other people went along with it, because there was a wedding to happen, and nobody wants to miss out on that. I was punished, not him - you see how that goes? I made a personal choice, and was happy for her, but wanted her to respect my personal space. I had a point, but it's lost to me right now - I'm antsy and anxious, and I'm still ****** over all of that. But, no: a lot of us do not want jerks for boyfriends/husbands. We don't want any part of that. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted March 12, 2015 06:39 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Even when a man that is working at walmart gets rejected by women that also work at walmart because he works at walmart? Out of control female hypergamy is not mens fault.
And I, and many other women over a certain age, have been rejected by men our own age, because we're no longer under 30. It may not be *every* man out there doing this, but there are enough of them. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted March 12, 2015 06:41 PM
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Originally posted by Valentine:
It's a good article, I totally agree.
So do I. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 12, 2015 06:45 PM
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aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted March 12, 2015 06:50 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
And guys aren't doing the exact same thing?...
Maybe so,
But consider this barbie...... Women wear make-up and do all sorts of things to modify their appearance to make themselves more attractive than they are in their natural state. So much of womens physical beauty is fake! Not too long ago I was reading an article that said women have sex with men long before they are willing to let a man see them out of make-up. Double standard much?!? So they won't let a man see what they really look like while they actively judge men on their looks. My personal favorites are the women who wear high heels that makes them 3,4, or 5 inches taller than they really are judging men on their height and refusing to date men unless they are taller than themselves while they are wearing heels. How is that reasonable? Interestingly enough, I have a friend that is shorter (5'8) and he gets rejected because of his height. He started wearing shoe lifts and women seemed more interested in him. In case you didn't know shoe lifts are a man's version of high heels, they make men taller. They are worn inside the shoes and you can't even tell a man is wearing them. Anyways..... Several women have been very critical of my friend, my mom being one of them, and have told him he shouldn't wear them because he is falsely representing himself. Double standard much? So women can wear make-ups,get boob jobs,wear high heels, and photoshop all of their pics but it's a bad and dishonest thing when a man wears shoe lifts? That's the kind of sh*t that p*sses me off. There's so many double standards that put men at a disadvantage but men aren't allowed to complain or else they're seen as whiney and told they need to "man up"IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 12, 2015 06:58 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
And I, and many other women over a certain age, have been rejected by men our own age, because we're no longer under 30. It may not be *every* man out there doing this, but there are enough of them.
Women make that bed for themselves. I'm sure every man remembers being a freshman in high school when he was ignored by his female peers because they were too busy dating seniors with cars. Women usually date older men because they have higher status. And when these same women get older and see men their age dating younger women it p*sses them off. They can't stand the fact that men suddenly have some power and leverage in the dating game. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted March 12, 2015 07:08 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:My friends that are "jerks" are jerks in the context of romantic/sexual relationships. They are good friends but I watch them treat women like crap. I'm not going to stop being friends with them when they are good to me and never do me wrong.
A jerk is a jerk. There is no "relationship only jerk." Any person that treats a women, or any person they're in a relationship with for that matter, like crap is most likely to treat others the same way. Being a jerk is not limited. I would never associate myself with such filth. I despise any person that puts their hands on a another person. I take it then that you're the kind of person that would watch someone get beat up or bullied and never intervene. You wouldn't say anything other than "It's not me so I'm not stopping it", and would continue to watch. As long as your not being treated like crap everything's peaches and cream. That's incredibly unfortunate. quote:
Still..... Whenever I witness them doing women wrong I secretly hope the women in question would tell them to take a hike, but they usually don't. And I never said every problem I had is womens fault. I'm my own worst critic and strive to improve myself and my situation in life constantly. But still..... That doesn't change the fact that I see major issues with women today and i'm going to call them on it. I mean somebody's got to do it.
What a rebuttal!! You just said that you call women out on their issues yet don't do such things with the girlfriends of your jerk friends. So that was lie then being that you clearly don't do what you just said. You see major issues in the women you're around, I'm guessing your mother, sisters, aunts, cousins, etc. There are millions of women in this country, this world, if you're really that arrogant, entitled, and naïve thinking that we, women, all act like the one's you're around then all I have to say is wow. We are not. There are soooo many incredible, strong, powerful women, in just this country alone. It's not fair to judge and assume the worst because you've experienced the worst. It's your experience, AG, not everyone else's. You are not the face and voice of reason for all men. There are many married men, many men in successful relationships. Just because you aren't doesn't mean that those men are wrong or that something is wrong with them. Maturity is key here. And all I have to add on your most recent comment on women dating older men is, did you ever stop and think that maybe it's because older men are more mature? Stop judging and assuming things. Most of the time judgments and assumptions are usually wrong and totally off. Most of us women into makeup wear it because we like it. Makeup is fun. It's fun to play with and enhance your features not to be deceptive about it. We aren't all deceptive liars. It's not about trying to hide or that we're insecure, we wear it because makeup is awesome. Quit with the judgements. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 12, 2015 07:14 PM
Wooooow... I'm not even sure what reaction I want to have first. Scratch my head
Drop my jaw
Laugh my butt off
Reply Too many options!
I think I'll laugh.
Someday I swear I'm going to write a book on this s**t. LOL IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 12, 2015 07:18 PM
DeepFreeze, Obama would like to have a word with you:  Carry on, everyone. I love talking about gender, but the outcome is already apparent. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 12, 2015 07:27 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Most of us women into makeup wear it because we like it. Makeup is fun. It's fun to play with and enhance your features not to be deceptive about it. We aren't all deceptive liars. It's not about trying to hide or that we're insecure, we wear it because makeup is awesome. Quit with the judgements.
Congratulations! You failed to grasp the point I made. My point was women that wear make-up and won't let themselves be seen out of make-up but actively judge men based on looks are hypocrites. And on the point about women dating older men. My point was younger women like older men but get ****** when they get older and men their age are dating younger women. Which is a huge double standard. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted March 12, 2015 07:27 PM
I'm throwing in the towel. I can't keep up with the absurdity.  Have a wonderful evening lurkers, posters! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 12, 2015 07:28 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Wooooow... I'm not even sure what reaction I want to have first. Scratch my head
Drop my jaw
Laugh my butt off
Reply Too many options!
I think I'll laugh.
Someday I swear I'm going to write a book on this s**t. LOL
This is your go-to response when you don't have anything intelligent or insightful to add to the conversation. Which is never.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 12, 2015 07:28 PM
So women go for jerks...
Women are essentially all gold diggers...
Women are all liars and deceive men with makeup and photoshop... I can't figure out why you're single. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted March 12, 2015 07:32 PM
The guy I mentioned before, seemed to be decent at first. He was actually very bitter, and wanted to be "bad". That doesn't interest me, and I don't miss him. He played on insecurities, and didn't always get away with it, but he was successful too often. I made a decision, as a kid, that I wanted no part of dating men who were trouble. I wanted to be with someone I was attracted to, who would get along just fine with my family - if one hit on my sister, or friends, he would have been gone. One of my cousins married her husband, because he was the only man she'd dated, that hadn't hit on her sister. It is possible for a man to be kind, and sexy. I think that kindness, integrity, etc, would only increase that possibility. I don't know anyone who wants to marry a douche. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 12, 2015 07:40 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
This is your go-to response when you don't have anything intelligent or insightful to add to the conversation. Which is never.
Nope. It's just my response to the simply UNBELIEVABLE stupidity that you're spewing out.
I'm LITERALLY laughing. It's SO ridiculous!!! What else is there to do but laugh?? Debate until the end of time with the most stubborn person I've ever seen?
You're going to be the leader of a cult one day. I'm sure of it. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 12, 2015 07:43 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Nope. It's just my response to the simply UNBELIEVABLE stupidity that you're spewing out.
I'm LITERALLY laughing.
You're going to be the leader of a cult one day. I'm sure of it.
And I laugh at you because you're one of the worst white knights i've ever met online. You're #2, Xodian is #1.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 12, 2015 07:45 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
So women go for jerks...
Women are essentially all gold diggers...
Women are all liars and deceive men with makeup and photoshop... I can't figure out why you're single.
That's not what I said, Your reading comprehension skills are lacking. Do they teach reading comprehension where you live? IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 12, 2015 07:46 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:And I laugh at you because you're one of the worst white knights i've ever met online. You're #2, Xodian is #1.
I'm done with you man. You're too much. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 12, 2015 07:49 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
That's not what I said, Your reading comprehension skills are lacking. Do they teach reading comprehension where you live?
Insults?
Did I make you that mad??
Go rub one out and relieve that tension. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 12, 2015 07:51 PM
If this is where we're going, I'll catch you later.
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