posted August 03, 2014 12:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Hi Enneline, what do you think is this man's type?

1. Moon in Cancer in 8th
2. Venus in Aqua in 3rd
3. 7th house Taurus (with Chiron Retro)

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posted August 03, 2014 12:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
She must be "deep" (most likely in a spiritual way), sensitive, affectionate, but not cancer-like clingy, has to talk and think about the world and the humanity and their spiritual/humanitarian issues. She also has to stimulate the libido (what man doesn't want to have that?! ) and it would be great if she was a great cook.

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you've just described someone I know... apart from the devoted, perhaps "clingy" part

Clingy is good, BTW. I like clingy. I'm clingy.

posted August 03, 2014 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
She must be "deep" (most likely in a spiritual way), sensitive, affectionate, but not cancer-like clingy, has to talk and think about the world and the humanity and their spiritual/humanitarian issues. She also has to stimulate the libido (what man doesn't want to have that?! ) and it would be great if she was a great cook.

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Thanks Enneline, sounds like me hahaha.

posted August 03, 2014 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
you've just described someone I know... apart from the devoted, perhaps "clingy" part

Clingy is good, BTW. I like clingy. I'm clingy.

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I like clingy AND detached

posted August 03, 2014 01:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
She mustn's be clingy, that would clash with his venus in Aqua.

But according to my experiences it's not enough to be like that The bride has to have placements/important houses in the respective signs and/or aspects of the signs to her personal planets/angles

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The signs of what? His Venus and Moon?

posted August 03, 2014 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

The signs of what? His Venus and Moon?

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Yes Or houses ruled by the signs or aspects ruled by the signs to personal planets/angles.

for example: one man has moon in capricorn and venus in gemini.

posted August 03, 2014 01:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Yes Or houses ruled by the signs or aspects ruled by the signs to personal planets/angles.

for example: one man has moon in capricorn and venus in gemini.

Imagine his girlfriend has neither significant capricorn nor gemini placements. I would be worried if that be the case but if she has Saturn in the 10th house or in capricorn aspecting closely her venus...and so on...I would give her a chance

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I see...and I completely agree Either signs or the respective houses (corresponding to the sign) have to be linked. It's all about energy.

posted August 03, 2014 01:48 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Lee, I thought you were a match expert

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She is but she is not arrogant

posted August 03, 2014 01:53 PM            

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how's my second bride?

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posted August 03, 2014 01:58 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
[QUOTE]how's my second bride?

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Umm, did I miss something? Hey, if you're bored you can try to figure out something from my placements:
Aqua Venus in the 5th house
Taurus Mars in the 9th house
Pisces DSC, Neptune in the 5th house conjunct Sun and Uranus

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Maybe, I don't care as long as I get what I want

posted August 03, 2014 02:25 PM            

Thanks for your appreciation, guys, but I'm just an apprentice

posted August 03, 2014 02:27 PM            

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Your ideal man has to be a friend of humanity

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(is this an English term? I am German...)

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has to be open-minded, his feet have to be on the ground (is this an English term? I am German...), RELIABLE, good-looking (ok, what woman would say "no" to good looks?! ) and probably be artistic (but with a playful side).

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He MUST be a soulmate. Yeah. Definitely. A spiritual connection. Otherwise you would never ever put up with him.

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posted August 03, 2014 02:31 PM            

I am so cappy's ideal man is her soulmate (she knows and feels that), is a photographer, open-minded to anyone and everyone, calls when he says he would call and appreciates a cozy night at home

posted August 03, 2014 02:33 PM            

For guy: Venus with a touch of Moon
For girl: Mars with a touch of Sun

Not just their signs, but their rulers, the energy of those planets. Sometimes dispositors, too.

Then:
tightest aspects of those planets
their contacts to 5th, 7th, 8th rulers
5th, 7th, 8th rulers

My own chart is super simple to interpret in a basic way.
Mars in Sagittarius, Sun in Scorpio.
tightest aspects
Mars-Asc-MC Grand Fire Trine
Sun square Asc (Leo)

I like guys with Fire heavy charts: Sag is self-explanatory, Leo because of aspects, Aries because of aspects, same element and because my Sun is ruled by Mars. I also like a bit of Scorpio or at least Water in their charts (for extra emotion ). Though if there is no Scorpio, they must have prominent Mars energy together with their Water.

I sort of ignore the second Sun ruler Pluto, because it is in Libra and Libra does nothing for me attraction-wise. I guess the other energy is too overwhelming.

I don't even really need to involve houses and they don't always work.
For example, my 5th house has Scorpio on cusp, my Mars along with a bunch of other planets sits there, it is the symbolic home of Leo. Okay, it works.
Both my 7th and 8th houses are empty, with Aquarius on cusp.
Uranus is in Scorpio in 5th house. Here we are symbolically sent back to the 5th house.
Saturn is in Libra in 3rd house.
Libra does nothing for me despite being featured in the scheme twice.
Aquarius itself, same. Even though I have an Air Moon myself.

Sagittarius' ruler Jupiter is conj Venus in Virgo in 3rd house -- also nothing here. Virgo bores me. Earth in general bores me, as well as Saturnian guys.

So, I like active, energetic, dynamic men who combine a passionate and enthusiastic nature with a certain temper and a sometimes hidden emotional side. And a guy absolutely must have a sense of fun/humor/adventure. I like them a bit dramatic, too.

posted August 03, 2014 02:45 PM            

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really? Who's that?

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I am so cappy's ideal man is her soulmate (she knows and feels that), is a photographer, open-minded to anyone and everyone, calls when he says he would call and appreciates a cozy night at home

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Nah, Cappy wants her Twinflame

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posted August 03, 2014 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
starrynight, but your venus in virgo would never accept a guy who washes his hair every now and then only?

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posted August 03, 2014 03:17 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Enneline:
[b]starrynight, but your venus in virgo would never accept a guy who washes his hair every now and then only?

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ok that's not blowzy and matches with your mars in sag. could u put up with stutterer or someone who is not able to articulate / express himself in a proper way?

posted August 03, 2014 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
ok that's not blowzy and matches with your mars in sag. could u put up with stutterer or someone who is not able to articulate / express himself in a proper way?

and where's your mars in sag?

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My Sag Mars in in my 5th house.

By the way, a little mystery of attraction.

Relevant placements:
Scorpio Sun + stellium
Sag Mars in 5th house, dominant 5th house
Leo Ascendant
aspects Sun-Asc and Mars-Asc

Guys with Leo Moon are attracted to me (well not always, but yeah). Guys with Leo Venus, same. Guys with Aries Moon/Venus, yes. Guys with Scorpio Venus, yep.