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YIVY
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From: Louisiana
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 08, 2001 01:39 AM
 
I just want to find the 'idiot' who lost the manual on relationships.
There had to have been an instruction sheet somewhere  GOD/DESS forbid we had the crazy notion to go at it 'blind'.   ------------------
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YIVY
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gooberlily
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From: Brooklyn, (and Norwich) NY, USA
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posted March 08, 2001 09:12 PM
How true YIVY! And wow, look YIVY, you made number 100! Since the envelope burns at 25 or something like that, I was kinda afraid it would explode once it hit 100. Guess it just proves what a popular topic this is  How bout you new guys out there, FC, Rob, Mudra? Have you met your special someone? ((PS-sorry bout my double post on this thread guys, don't know how it happened.))
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financechick
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posted March 08, 2001 10:24 PM
Well..lets see...I have only been in love once...it lasted 4 years...and I will never love like that again, he K-NEW my heart and he is now a permanent resident of it. I'm sure there is someone out there for me but it's been 4 years and I keep getting the duds...you know..all that Pices...I attract the lost puppies of the world....the ones that end up being overly jealous and possesive.I think it's part of my nature and I'm beginning to get used to the idea of walking the earth alone despite my desire to beare children. Wonder what my chart says about relationships and marriage....because this is the most elusive for me.  SHERRY IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 24237
From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted March 08, 2001 10:31 PM
When you stop chasing Love, it will blindside you! Perhaps, your Soul needs to learn something from BEing alone first?  ------------------
Consider the circle, measure it please,
All its three hundred and sixty degrees.
Wasn't that fun, and haven't you found
You can do it again, the other way 'round? Now that we know how many degrees,
Must be accounted for nice as you please
Here come astrologers, what do they say?
Divide the degrees in precisely this way.
Take thirty degrees for each of the signs
It makes a nice wheel divided by lines. Chris Angelino IP: Logged |
YIVY
Knowflake Posts: 4747
From: Louisiana
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 08, 2001 10:39 PM
GooberLily...KAA--BLAM!!!!!!  FC...Randall is so very right about finding you when you least expect it...  And with the Saturn Seven Cycle..it is possible you may meet your TRUE Love again with him disguised in another body...so never give up, but don't let it run your life... 
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YIVY
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financechick
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posted March 09, 2001 08:04 AM
Lately, I'm finding that there is something powerful about being alone....I know my soul is on a journey...I feel as though I'm in exploration now....surely NOT a good time to be involved with anyone.IP: Logged |
gooberlily
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From: Brooklyn, (and Norwich) NY, USA
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posted March 10, 2001 12:36 AM
I'm with ya FC all the way I've found the permanent resident of my heart too, my other half. Of course I'm not with him right now, but that seems to be the way it goes  A lot of my boyfriends were very needy people too. I seem to attract them also. One of my good friends used to refer to them as my "Klingons", meaning, they "Kling-on" and don't let go I can't escape the word Klingon for some reason. My other half my friends refer to as "The Klingon Warrior at war with himself" I'm enjoying being alone now, and getting to know myself and what I'm here for. I don't think now would be the good time for me to be with anyone either. Keep that head up, and if you feel that your 4 year person wasn't the one, the real one will pop up sooner or later. Much love FC! IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 12, 2001 01:43 PM
I've learned a hard Lesson that few will beLIeVE, and it is the reason for so many failed Soul Mate relationships and even Twins. It, very simply put, is this: You have to be happy BEing alone before you can be completely happy BEing with another person. Love is about sharing your completeness with another, not BEing complete ONLY when with that person. ------------------
Consider the circle, measure it please,
All its three hundred and sixty degrees.
Wasn't that fun, and haven't you found
You can do it again, the other way 'round? Now that we know how many degrees,
Must be accounted for nice as you please
Here come astrologers, what do they say?
Divide the degrees in precisely this way.
Take thirty degrees for each of the signs
It makes a nice wheel divided by lines. Chris Angelino IP: Logged |
financechick
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Registered: Mar 2001
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posted March 12, 2001 07:00 PM
AMEN...I've never really had problems being alone..in fact...I hardly dated when I was in high school...I guess I just always thought that I'd be married with children by now....I'm approaching 27 and since I'm not married and don't have children...sometimes it's discouraging....but that's ok...Nobody is better than the WRONGbody!No what I mean jellybean?  IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted March 12, 2001 11:40 PM
This jellybean understands! But if you choose immortality, you have all the time in the world to get married and have kids. Age is just a number!  ------------------
Consider the circle, measure it please,
All its three hundred and sixty degrees.
Wasn't that fun, and haven't you found
You can do it again, the other way 'round? Now that we know how many degrees,
Must be accounted for nice as you please
Here come astrologers, what do they say?
Divide the degrees in precisely this way.
Take thirty degrees for each of the signs
It makes a nice wheel divided by lines. Chris Angelino IP: Logged |
gooberlily
Knowflake Posts: 2296
From: Brooklyn, (and Norwich) NY, USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 13, 2001 12:40 AM
"You have to be happy BEing alone before you can be completely happy BEing with another person."  Or, to put it like the famous philosopher RuPaul: 'If you can't love yourself, how the heck are you going to love somebody else?!" IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 24237
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 13, 2001 03:27 AM
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Consider the circle, measure it please,
All its three hundred and sixty degrees.
Wasn't that fun, and haven't you found
You can do it again, the other way 'round? Now that we know how many degrees,
Must be accounted for nice as you please
Here come astrologers, what do they say?
Divide the degrees in precisely this way.
Take thirty degrees for each of the signs
It makes a nice wheel divided by lines. Chris Angelino IP: Logged |
YIVY
Knowflake Posts: 4747
From: Louisiana
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 13, 2001 04:42 PM
The trick is to make yours-elf..
your own best friend....and being friends is better than being just lovers....then when the T-WINS get together it is more natural and easy.Face it, there are things you would never tell your lover, but your best friend knows everything about you and likes you just the same. Most of the time lovers change, but best friends are forever. I think it is much more important for T-WINS to be best friends than lovers. The 'lover' part will evolve more naturally later. I am not sure if I am putting this right, and I hope you understand what I am trying to say. ------------------
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YIVY
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gooberlily
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From: Brooklyn, (and Norwich) NY, USA
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posted March 13, 2001 08:48 PM
Makes perfect sense to me YIVY!  IP: Logged |
financechick
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posted March 13, 2001 09:20 PM
that's the thing...the guy I was with for 4 years...he WAS my best friend....he K-new my heart...I K-now you K-now what I mean....I'm not cynical or jaded...but sometmes...love really isn't enough becasue if that were the case, we'd still be together...because I still love him...and I always will..you K-now..he was THE LOVE OF MY LIFE!IP: Logged |
YIVY
Knowflake Posts: 4747
From: Louisiana
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 13, 2001 10:18 PM
 Let me tell yu 'bout my b-e-s-t friend...my one joy, my cuddly toy, my up, my down, my pride and joy...
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YIVY
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 24237
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Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 15, 2001 09:02 AM
Love alone isn't the answer. There's also timing and forgiveness. Sometimes forgiveness is even mnore powerful than Love. It can wipe away Karma and allow two people to be together sooner. ------------------
Consider the circle, measure it please,
All its three hundred and sixty degrees.
Wasn't that fun, and haven't you found
You can do it again, the other way 'round? Now that we know how many degrees,
Must be accounted for nice as you please
Here come astrologers, what do they say?
Divide the degrees in precisely this way.
Take thirty degrees for each of the signs
It makes a nice wheel divided by lines. Chris Angelino IP: Logged |
gooberlily
Knowflake Posts: 2296
From: Brooklyn, (and Norwich) NY, USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 15, 2001 10:09 PM
How true Randall, forgiveness is soooo important. It doesn't mean being a doormat, or staying with someone if they're abusive to you...it's being able to forgive someone you love, but also being able to forgive yourself and having the strength to walk away from someone you love, if their path isn't working with yours at that point in time...I don't know, it's complicated. But, forgiveness is the best word to describe it.  IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 24237
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 17, 2001 01:21 AM
I totally agree! ------------------
Consider the circle, measure it please,
All its three hundred and sixty degrees.
Wasn't that fun, and haven't you found
You can do it again, the other way 'round? Now that we know how many degrees,
Must be accounted for nice as you please
Here come astrologers, what do they say?
Divide the degrees in precisely this way.
Take thirty degrees for each of the signs
It makes a nice wheel divided by lines. Chris Angelino IP: Logged |
gooberlily
Knowflake Posts: 2296
From: Brooklyn, (and Norwich) NY, USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 20, 2001 09:21 PM
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Randall
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posted March 20, 2001 11:57 PM
True forgiveness is only possible through unconditional Love.  ------------------
"The ancestor to every action is a thought." EMERSON IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 21, 2001 12:52 AM
And unconditional Love is as rare as true forgiveness.  ------------------
"The ancestor to every action is a thought." EMERSON IP: Logged |
gooberlily
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posted March 21, 2001 09:13 PM
Sad, but true. It seems to be something very hard to learn. IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted March 24, 2001 03:15 PM
Maybe it isn't learned. Maybe it's in our nature. Maybe conditions arise from insecurity, self-doubt, and fear. Maybe when we quiet our thoughts, pure unconditional Love is the natural result--is the true state of our BEing. ------------------
"The ancestor to every action is a thought." EMERSON IP: Logged |
financechick
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posted March 24, 2001 04:53 PM
I believe that forgiveness is important as well sometmes I wonder if that's the reason why that relationship didn't work out...becasue I couldn't forgive him but I don't think that's it because I'm a forgiving person..I think what it came down to is that you can't change a person and I wasn't going to try, I accepted him for who he was but in doing so had to make the decision to end the realtionship. to a degree he was self absorbed and concerend with material things...which...as I have always known and was proved by my North Node reading...material things do not concern me..so in the end, I just wanted for him to be happy....the saying goes...if you love somebody...set them free... and that's why I did.   IP: Logged |
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