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Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted March 24, 2001 09:52 PM
 
Sometimes, that is the best decision.  ------------------
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gooberlily
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From: Brooklyn, (and Norwich) NY, USA
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posted March 24, 2001 11:46 PM
I too have faced something similar FC It is terribly courageous and un-selfish thing to do at times, to let that one go that we love the most, rather than hold on to something that is bad for us. Sometimes it's easier to be in a rotten situation. Letting go of someone before things get "bad" in the relationship can be very hard, but a wise decision.  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 25, 2001 01:52 AM
Goober is right. It takes great courage to walk away when the temptation is just to stay. ------------------
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Randall
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posted March 26, 2001 02:17 AM
This applies to many things. Sometimes it's easier to take no action. ------------------
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sahana_22
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From: new delhi, india
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posted May 29, 2001 08:20 AM
HI I AM THE NEW MEMBER OF THIS SITE. IT SEEMS MY SEARCH HAS ENDED. I AM FROM INDIA. AND A BIG BELIEVER OF LINDA'S.
RIGHT NOW I HAVE MET MY TWIN SELF WHO IS A GOOD SEVEN YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME. UNFORTUNATELY I INSTANTLY KNEW BUT HE FAILED TO RECOGNISE.
AND HE HURT ME IN SO MANY WAYS.
BUT MY FEELINGS FOR HIM NEVER CHANGED. WE HAVE PARTED WAYS NOW. AND I BELIEVE ITS FOR THE BEST.I HAVE NO HURRY TO BE WITH HIM. I CAN WAIT FOR LIFETIMES.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted May 29, 2001 03:14 PM
You may not have to wait Lifetimes. But it may seem like it. I see good things for the two of you. I don't want to give you false hope, because our Free-will Tinker Toys can really mess things up, but I think it looks good (a long time down the road). Welcome to the site, by the way. If you Love Linda, you've come to the right place.  ------------------
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YIVY
Knowflake Posts: 4747
From: Louisiana
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted May 30, 2001 01:06 AM
Sahana...so GLAD you could make it here..WELCOME !!!  AND, you sound like you have the right idea with T-WIN SELVES...you understand that sometimes you have to let go in order your TWIN learn how to LOVe...so when you get back together...it is a WIN-WIN situation for both of you...  ------------------
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YIVY
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sahana_22
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From: new delhi, india
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posted May 30, 2001 03:50 AM
THANKS RANDALL,YIVY.
I REALLY NEEDED TO HEAR THAT.
MY T-WIN IS A  AND I AM A  . I THINK THERE LIES OUR BASIC DIFFERENCE. HE IS AS STERN AS AND I AM AS AIRY AS A . I HAVE NOT MET HIM FOR THREE WEEKS SINCE I BLURTED OUT THE FACT THAT I AM ATTRACTED TO HIM AND I COULDNT FIGHT THE ATTRACTION ANYMORE AS IT WAS GETTING STRONGER BY AS EACH DAY PASSED.YET HE WAS THE ONE TO TELL ME IN SO MANY DIFFERENT WAYS THAT HE WAS FEELING THE SAME THING TOO. DO U THINK THAT IT WAS A MISTAKE TO TELL HIM WHAT I FELT IN SUCH A DIRECT MANNER?
TILL TODAY ALL MY EFFORTS OF RECONCILIATION HAVE FAILED.
I AM REALLY AT MY WITS END. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?
ANOTHER THING - TILL NOW I HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO LOCATE IN BOOKSTORE IN MY NEIGHBOURHOOD WHICH HAS LINDA'S - "GOOBERZ". I NEED IT SO BADLY.CAN U HELP ME OUT IN FINDING "GOOBERZ"
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Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted May 30, 2001 03:15 PM
Just tell him you want to be friends. He will spend time with you as a friend as long as you don't pressure him for more. Listen to what he says and show an interest in his family and his work. Whittle away at him slowly.  ------------------
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elizawhitworth
Knowflake Posts: 87
From: western australia
Registered: Jun 2001
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posted June 24, 2001 08:25 AM
True twins cannot have children in fact have no need or desire to have children and that is why in some lifetimes you cannot unite. The powerfull urge of a new entity will override the blending of twin selves and other relationships of various design will intrude. IP: Logged |
YIVY
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From: Louisiana
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted June 24, 2001 01:21 PM
ELIZA.....We are HONORED and DE-LIGHTED to have you here...
!!! WELCOME !!! I sorta had that feeling about the kids, but never said it. Oh, there will be lives where you meet and marry, but those are learning, earning times. Meeting peices of you...pieces of the 'other...having kids, learning, growing.. Merging with your actual TWIN both of you complete, whole and healed, will being an entire different energy into being. Not one conductive to having physical children. It is something few know or understand. They think it will be as life is now with a home and family with perfect understanding and love... It will be quite different. The energy of THEIR creation will be more POWERFUL than one can imagine now. I am not sure if I can even explain it in 'words'...I can almost 'feel' it.. Any way....I am going to look forward to more of your little 'tid-bits' of wisdome..  ------------------
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YIVY
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Randall
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posted June 24, 2001 02:55 PM
We often romanticize relationships with use of the word "Twin" when we are really just talking about a very deep Soul Mate relationship. True Twin meetings are rare, but many more are incarnating at this point in time. ------------------
"Thus shall ye think of all this fleeting world:
A star at dawn, a bubble in a stream;
A flash of lightning in a summer cloud,
A flickering lamp, a phantom, and a dream." The Buddha IP: Logged |
chandra
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From: oregon
Registered: Jun 2001
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posted July 19, 2001 11:10 PM
I just discovered this thread. I think Tator is a very wise woman. It seems I learn something new almost every time I log on to this sight. The fairy tale ending would be wonderful, but I think the truth is helpful also. Mabye there was a reason why Linda didn't have the happy ending. I guess this attitude comes from trying to live in a fairytale for most of my life. Now I value the truth. Our twin relationships can bring us the greatest happiness, or the greatest sadness. I really didn't understand this before now. I was thinking about a man I used to know. He wasn't my twin-soul, but he was a soul-mate. I had known him in other lifetimes. When we met, I was so happy to find someone "famaliar" again. I really did care for him and thought we would be the best of friends (or more) for a long time to come. Well, the only problem was, he was very messed up. He didn't know how to love. I know he cared for me too, and he told me numerous times how famaliar I was to him. But he kept hurting me (not physically, but mentally). I had to get out for my own wellbeing. When I broke off relations with him, he was frantic for me not to go. He said he had felt all alone all these years before he met me, and I was the first person who felt so famaliar to him, like he'd know me all his life. I knew this was his soul speaking to mine when he was telling me this (I'm balling my eyes out as I write this). It broke my heart, so I decided to give him one more try. But he kept on hurting me. He couldn't help it I suppose. Some people are just never shown how to love, so they can't love others. Well, I always thought when you really loved someone you knew before, they would always love you back and things would be wonderful. This had always been my experience before. Well, I leaned this was not always true. This was a very painful lesson. I still love him though, I guess that will never go away.
But, I can't help it. I still like to believe I will meet my twin-soul someday and we will live happily ever after. And I honestly believe that we will.
Love,
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YIVY
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From: Louisiana
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted July 19, 2001 11:36 PM
Chandra....what a 'heart' wrenching story...yet, sadly, all too familiar to so many. I think we all would love the 'fairy tale' ending. I think what we are really searching for is someone who accepts us just as we are. Someone we can 'share' our thoughts and zanyness with. Someone we don't have to defend our selves to. But do you ever notice that the things your other does that drive you crazy are the things we like least in ourselves? I think we have to learn to completly accept and love ourselves before we can share with another. I believe there is a 'clue' there somewhere as to how to really make a relationship work. You can't have a 'whole' relationship until you are 'whole' yoursELF.... ------------------
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YIVY
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NeptunianIdeal
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From: CA
Registered: Dec 2000
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posted July 19, 2001 11:43 PM
Man, do I know what you're talking about Chandra. It IS a tough lesson to learn, it hurts especially when your expectations fail you. It's like you felt that you were guys were going to be so close forever, but yet the Universe had something else in Mind. Why does it almost ALWAYS happen like this? I swear, I've hardly known anyone who has met someone and felt a deep connection, and then they end up being together and living happily ever after. It's annoying, to be honest.  I wonder why it couldn't be as "magical" as I THOUGHT it would be at times, alls I know is that the next time around IT WILL BE. I swore to the Universe that I would never go another experience like that again, but I suppose that's just my ego talking. . .I learned many things, true, but couldn't I have had the happy ending as well? THat's life, I suppose you just have to trust. I feel that when things like this happen, you get a major compensation. Also, the Universe is a compassionate place(despite my ranting) and literally, God only knows what else could've gone wrong. LOve
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chronicprincess
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From: Earth
Registered: May 2001
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posted July 20, 2001 12:55 AM
Chandra~ Ironic isn't it that without your painful experience(lesson) you would not carry the wisdom you do today... = I have come to learn to view and accept all my disheartening experiences as *something has just happened that I need to learn from* ... In a relationship of any kind I think we should enter into it first with no expectations but a mutual sharing on some level.. but only for as long as ...?... based on ours, or the others own wishes, desires, decisions... or universal law YIVY is so right... when we learn to love oursElves fully, we no longer have such a *need* for an outside source of Love to *fill our cup* ~ because we have found it within oursElves Developing a relationship with Mother Nature, I think, goes a long way in helping us get to that point, as we are One  ~Princess ------------------
"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
"What is essential is invisible to the eye," the little prince repeated, so that he would be sure to remember. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince IP: Logged |
elizawhitworth
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From: western australia
Registered: Jun 2001
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posted July 20, 2001 11:01 PM
The more grounded in the physical you are the more painful it will be to interact with your true twin. The more advanced you are the more you will appreciate fleeting moments of contact as the joyus gift time that has been earned by one or another. Until you learn the truth of time and space My words will remain a mystery. (Some will have full or partial understanding) IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted July 21, 2001 01:15 AM
Very wise words, Eliza. I agree. ------------------
Remember, love can conquer the influence of the planets....
It can even eliminate karma." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
sahana_22
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From: new delhi, india
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posted July 21, 2001 07:20 AM
Every one has his or own Karma to work out. May be our twins have yet to work out their Karmas. May be we are not evolved enough oursElf to to fully understand the depth of this relationship.
So I think its best to let go when pain takes the place of love.~ Sahana IP: Logged |
sahana_22
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From: new delhi, india
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posted July 21, 2001 07:21 AM
Every one has his or own Karma to work out. May be our twins have yet to work out their Karmas. May be we are not evolved enough oursElf to to fully understand the depth of this relationship.
So I think its best to let go when pain takes the place of love.~ Sahana IP: Logged |
YIVY
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From: Louisiana
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posted July 21, 2001 08:09 PM
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YIVY
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chandra
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posted July 21, 2001 10:53 PM
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Randall
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posted July 22, 2001 12:14 AM
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Remember, love can conquer the influence of the planets....
It can even eliminate karma." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
CHARISMATIQUE
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From: honolulu hi usa
Registered: Jun 2001
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posted July 23, 2001 07:36 PM
Eliza,
You are a MOST APPRECIATED addition to this and all topics. I thank you so much for all you share.
Take care, and KEEP POSTING when you can, Dear!
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Randall
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posted July 24, 2001 12:15 AM
What Karis said!  ------------------
Remember, love can conquer the influence of the planets....
It can even eliminate karma." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
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