posted March 21, 2003 09:34 AM              

Just something about these particular guys (virgos) that if I get close to them... I don't know what causes it?!! That's what I'm trying to understand ....

posted March 21, 2003 11:36 AM              

lol, 1Scorp, you're such a Scorp
Keep teaching us all those lessons

posted March 21, 2003 11:50 AM              

on Cappies, Sylvia Browne says,

"The sex life of Capricorns, like Sagittarians, is usually very intellectualized. Now, there is something everybody wants - an intellectual sex life! (Carlo's note: she means "not!") They intellectualize everything. Put hand here, rub three times, rotate, cut on dotted line - they're directing the entire time they're making love. However, they don't like crude language, swearing, or obscenity."

Yeah, to intellectualize sex is to not really be making love, yet what's love got to do with it? Yet what's the intellect got to do with it? To me, it's about raw passion, and if I experience that during sex, then it is memorable, if not, it's usually still decent sex, yet lacking passion is lacking vitality. That's why I prefer those who can scream and not worry about the neighbors, and leave the intellect on the nightstand. Raw passion, to me, reigns supreme in the bedroom...or bathroom...or kitchen...or workplace...like Mercy and her desk dancing

posted March 21, 2003 12:03 PM              

I agree with the letting loose Carlo..

It's not me that causes these feelings... It's just the way I perceive them. They seem to be interested in the intellectual bit of it all and before you know it I've learned about their aunt, uncle and dog
Which is fine!!

I guess all I'm "trying" to say is that they seem so sweet...which they're not.. I know! This is just how I see them. Almost as if I did have sex with this guy than the friendship wouldn't be the same???? So, did I just answer my own question?? I may like them too well as a friend to want to have sex??

I don't know !!

posted March 21, 2003 12:47 PM              

I totally agree that making love is NOT a thing to intellectualize. Or to direct for that matter. LOL

posted March 21, 2003 07:15 PM              

*sulks in a corner looking left out*

I suppose it has its good points....just havent..quite worked them out yet, lol.

posted March 21, 2003 09:21 PM              

aaww NwEvil...I think that is very sweet what you said kinda wants a girl to get all ah... comfortable with you

posted March 23, 2003 03:19 AM              

This guy took great care of me when we were together, very caring, very attentive and he got a ego boost out of the fact that I am older...but look younger. I also agree that the Vrigo is very unsure, this one told me he feels like his life is in limbo and he is scared of a relationship with me (or anybody for that matter).

He knows what he's doing in the intimacy department if you get my drift..which impressed me for his age, but he likes to "have control" in that area....he's very handsome...a big muscular BOY with big baby blue eyes..yes...that's right...BOY...because he acts like one sometimes and he's quite vulnerable but he only lets certain people see it.

So we had somewhat of a disagreement and we aren't dating...and 2 days later he calls to talk and can't seem to understand why I'm not ready to talk to him (I'm a Leo, Pices Asc,Moon,Jup). So I send him e-mail telling him I'm not sure I want to continue with him being a part of my life and he was somewhat "mortally wounded". He called a mutual friend all depressed about it and spent Wednesday, Thursday and Friday eating hoho's, candy bars and 2 pints of ice cream...and this is Mr. Body Beautiful (I thought only chicks did this sort of thing when depressed???). So I IM him today telling him I'm not mad, I'm greatful that we're not seeing eachother but only because he's not ready and it's not fair to keep me waiting (I AM a leo you know....we wait for NO ONE) and that I still wanted him to be a part of my life but only as friends.

SO...he SEEMED cool with that.

We start talking about what's been going on in our lives over the past week and I happen to mention that I have a date on Wednesday (with an Aquarian Dr.) and the Virgo got all upset...said he can't believe I'm dating so soon after him and he thought it was "immature" of me to tell him (?????).

So I told him that he needs to make up his mind...he either wants to be a part of my life..or he doesn't...if he does...then he's going to have to get used to the fact that I am going to date other men...sooner or later it was bound to happen, if you're included in m life as a friend...you are included in everything...if you can't handle it...that's your deal...not mine.

i also don't think he can deal with the fact that I've bounced already.

posted March 25, 2003 12:13 AM              

but then I'm biased towards Big, muscled, 'eyes like a tiger',black haired great smile, VIrgos' with Pisces moon,...whoops I think I've lost the thread of this posting...oh yeah Pounce on the Virgo .....though Aquarians are good for the pounce as well. Oh well I'm confused again!