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Topic: Who's been your best lover? Part 2
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Lost Leo
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posted April 28, 2003 07:09 PM
 
lioneye,
I have 4 close Virgos friends, and they are some of the biggest cheaters I have ever known, so watch your back!
Of course, it always depends on the particular person  1Scorp, those remarks were good, keep them coming. And in re: the fixed signs being sex-crazed, I'm starting to just think we all are, I mean look at these threads, lol  As for Scorp dudes... I have one best friend that likes his woman to be a who*re, he wants her usually in the dirtiest fashion possible, and if not done in that way, he occasionally has problems finishing up. My other Scorp best friend just needs it all the time, he's not dirty like the first really, he just needs it, and when he isn't getting it he's in a shi*tty mood. IP: Logged |
N_wEvil
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posted April 28, 2003 07:21 PM
scorp women and myself do NOT mix. As a matter of fact i'm living with one now and she's made the list as one of the few people i actively dislike. Its not as if i dont try to get on with them but they do have an annoying habit of trying to stab me in the back at every available oppertunity.I get on fairly well with scorp guys though (that sounds odd in a lovers thread doesn't it?  )
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Carlo
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posted April 28, 2003 08:34 PM
I saw the movie The Real Cancun the other day. The only one who told his sign in the whole movie was the Virgo guy, and he was the only one who got fresh booty each night lol IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted April 29, 2003 09:33 AM
You know Leo... you're right! This book commented on that Scorps don't really walk around having sex all of the time. We don't even need it all of the time!! We "think" about it more than we actually do it!! Hmmm... Did I just blow the reputation?!  Speaking for myself.. it's true! I think it's because we're so comfortable talking about it that it just seems we're sex mad! I do think about it. However, I've always thought everyone did. It's more of a being curious thing with me. New: What is the deal with that?!  You know... the 2 Aqua guys that I know have stabbed me in the back!! Which caused me to have to repay them for their actions. However, I have got to to know one of them. He and I can laugh and chit chat... there's just no sparks between us on that level. Ahhh well.
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lioneye68
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posted April 29, 2003 12:04 PM
Yes, I also have a Scorp (male) friend who likes his women good and slu##y. He figures everyone likes slu#s, they just don't dare admit it. I beg to differ.
As for Virgos seeming so "nice", yes they do seem so civilized and decent and "pure" of heart and mind. I think that's part of what intrigues me about them. I can't resist the challenge of being the one to make them drop the facade and let the "animal" out.
Of course, I have 3 planets in Virgo, so that's probably factering in here, although they are not "personal" planets. (Jupiter, Uranus and Pluto)
Another note about Scorpio, my best friend is one, and we joke about the Kelly Love Spell. Every man she goes out with (or whatever you wanna call it), is just a mess after she's done with them. They just go bananas and turn into emotional wrecks... calling her at 3 in the morning in tears, begging for another chance, stocking her at work, sleeping in their car in her driveway, etc. I don't know what she does to them, but they ALL get like that! Even if they seem to be even tempered and unemotional. She must really rock their world. But she can turn to ice in a split second if they **** her off. They're dangerous. At least the woman are.IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted April 29, 2003 12:24 PM
So true, lioneye... my X-Scorp girl told me stories about dudes she dated before and SO MANY of them went psycho on her, lol...One drove down from Santa Barbara and sat out front her sorority house all night until morning calling her phone, leaving messages... Stalker Psycho!!!! Other dudes did funny sh*t too, I guess I can kinda relate, I don't know how many emotional letters I wrote over the last year... see the difference is for me, I never sent them, just kept them in a box. I actually stumbled across the box last night looking for some matches and read a couple... WHEW!!! I sounded pathetic!!!
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N_wEvil
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posted April 29, 2003 01:02 PM
i dunno, i think this one gives all scorps bad press because she really is a rather nasty peice of work.Offhand i dont know many other scorp girls, to be quite honest so i suppose its an unfair judgement. IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted April 29, 2003 01:27 PM
For this obsession thing. I almost think that's what we sat out to do. I mean, we can be control freaks! This dirty romp issue. Depends on what one would consider dirty?!  I will say this. There has been quite a few times that a guy has thought I was coming on to them when actually I wasn't! They would take whatever I was saying out of context and turn it into something sexual! But wait a minute... I've been guilty of that myself Also, I think we all need to post what gets us going Come on! It'll be fun! N_w: I really gave this particular Aqua a hard time from the beginning! Though once I seen that he wasn't going to back down... he gained respect IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted April 29, 2003 01:41 PM
Ahhh... I have thought about those comments for a moment. There were 2 guys that I was seeing (not at the same time) and I tried everything to end it... I just couldn't make them understand that it was over! However, I never considered that stalking... just a little hard at taking a hint IP: Logged |
pidaua
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posted April 29, 2003 01:56 PM
stalker psychos? Hmmm, I have had my fair share of those kinds of dudes lurking around......I went into detail about that on the thread "Hi 1Scorp....."Romantically, there was one Scorpio dude that I used to debate with on a regular basis. We had a lot in common, but there was just this intense "thing" between us. After a 2 year friendship we finally kissed. I don't remember much of it because I was kind of buzzed, but it wasn't that good. Funny thing is, I still dream about him every so often, like just a few nights ago.
Oh then there was another that sent me a card that went into detail about all these mushy things. It was kind of freaky, but cool in the fact that someone could be so free with their feelings.
Crap, my temporary crown just cracked in half. I need to get my butt to the dentist. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted April 29, 2003 02:22 PM
I've had a few of the "can't let go" type of ex as well, but they never seemed as distraught and emotionally destroyed as my Scorpio friend's exes are. She literally destroys them. Not intentionally, though. She just decides that they're not what she's looking for, and that's that. They just can't bare that reality for some reason. She's currently happily "shacked up" with a guy who's perfect for her. He is also a Scorpio, which I'm coming to see is a fairly commom phenomenon, Scorpio with Scorpio. Not many can withstand the intensity of a Scorp, but another Scorp has no problem. They have huge fights followed by mind blowing sex on a regular basis. Seems strange, but it works for them.IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted April 29, 2003 03:37 PM
As for me, I like to keep in touch with my exes. I never have animosity after a breakup. I just figure, we got whatever we needed out of the connection, and now we're done. It just sucks when one person is done, and the other isn't, or they can't see it.1Scorp, you want us to post what gets us going, you mean sexually? That's really hard to put into a nutshell, but hot luscious kisses get my boat floating (that's probably true of everyone). Physically speaking, I'd have to say an intense gaze, and a strong jawline. IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted April 29, 2003 04:03 PM
Blech.
I dunno.
Maybe he's just torturing me; more likely I'm torturing myself.
Ah, well.
Maybe I just need to get laid.
Or maybe I'll just be one of those totally celibate Pisces.(jumping back to the last page) IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted April 29, 2003 04:32 PM
A Pisces smitten with a Scorpio. DANGER, WILL ROGERS! DANGER! Actually, in terms of sun signs, it's an ideal match. It's just that Pisces are so fragile, and Scorpios can be so hurtful...I cringe.------------------
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proxieme
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posted April 29, 2003 08:32 PM
This is so frustrating!
I can read everyone, but I can't for the life of me read him!
I mean, when we're around each other, we do nothing but laugh and talk (it's so great to be able to have a serious conversation about auras with someone, and then turn around and giggle through a class activity with him), but I can't read him!!!
I have no idea what he wants to do!
Aaaah!
I can normally just know, but I have no idea - I'm blind!
And you wanna know what's really freaky?!?
We keep running into each other! Everywhere! All the time!
I've quit saying, "Hi" because I feel like a frikkin stalker; but it's so random.
I'm making copies in the main student center, he's running up the stairs.
I'm locking up my bike, he's on his way somewhere.
We were both in seperate groups making seperate presentations on Monday; on Saturday I went to the main SU around 9AM to start working on it (I was to meet my group later). As I'm walking up *one of the many possible walkways leading away from it, each cut off from the others by trees*, the group he was in was walking down it. The building was temporarily shut down due to a power outage - would I like to join them for coffee?
Yeah, sure, it was pleasant, but it was *freaky*.
And it's not like I haven't been pestering him enough (he hooked me up w/ an on campus job; I've been stopping by his office to get papers, drop info off, etc for the past two weeks now - and then this.
And I'm pretty sure that we ran into each other today again when I was sleeping. There're these slightly seperated areas w/ couches & chairs in the main SU - 2 to each floor on the top 2 floors. The bottom ones're always full, and only the one that's kinda close to his office on the 3rd floor has really big couches. I have been waking up at stupid hours as of late and have not been able to get back to sleep most of the time. I *thought* that that area was out of the way enough so that we wouldn't have one of our chance encounters. Lo and behold, though, I'm dead asleep, when for some reason I drift slightly back into consciousness and barely open my eyes.
There he is, using an odd frikkin door to get into this one part of this dept that I'm pretty sure can just as easily be gotten to some other way, looking at me.
Ack.
AND I CAN'T READ HIM.IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted April 29, 2003 08:42 PM
Try this one... "Oh, pardon me? I'm sorry could you repeat that? I've been having trouble focussing lately, as I'm a little sexually frustrated. Do you think you could help me with that?"IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted April 29, 2003 08:46 PM
On a more serious note, I believe that if you're meant to get close to someone, circumstances will provide ample opportunity to be around them. If it's destined to happen, it's gonna happen, and you won't be able to stop it even if you WANT to. Know what I'm saying? These things tend to take on a life of their own, and you just have to move along with the flow. If you don't, fate will zap you with a giant cow prod, and that's not pleasant.IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted April 29, 2003 10:13 PM
That's funny that you'd have to tell a fish to go with the flow; my Moon & Asc (Aqua & Scorp) muddy that tendency for me, I guess.
It's just so goofy.
I've told myself - on numerous occasions - , "OK - quit thinking about him...right...now," and I'll do OK for, oh, half a day.
Then - suhprise, suhprise, suhprise - we run into each other, and I'm back at square one.
I think that I'm pretty sure that his Moon trines my Moon, too, which is kinda complicating matters.
But, thank you very much for trying to knock me back into my by-rights-flowy field, even if I'm kicking and screaming to fight against it.IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted April 29, 2003 10:28 PM
Although I'm seriously considering your first suggestion.
Hey - I wouldn't be a-lyin, that's fer certain.IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted April 29, 2003 10:59 PM
OK then.
I'm going to do something that may be quite foolish tomorrow - but, hey, what's life for if not for foolishness?A few minutes ago I actually burst out laughing. It seemed - and seems still, I guess - so incredibly funny that at some point I planned such anguish over what to do as well as whatever feelings may accompany the outcome so that I can learn and grow.
Perhaps this was all just so I could step back and say, "F*ck it. Whatever happens will be, and should be.
One...two...three...hold-yer-breath-and-don't-puke...here we go."
Life's hysterical in its own serious to the nines type way. IP: Logged |
X3me
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posted April 30, 2003 01:41 AM
Hey prox... was reading this line of yours"I've told myself - on numerous occasions - , "OK - quit thinking about him...right...now," and I'll do OK for, oh, half a day." Don't ever tell your mind to quit something... it'll only go back at you with double the intensity. Instead, keep your mind occupied on other things instead, like, say, the weather?  seriously, if I told you not to think of a pink elephant with polka dots, what would go into your mind? A pink elephant with polka dots! That way, if you do run to each other, just say "what a lovely coincidence" or something... blah. I'm confusing myself here... don't mind me... I just felt like posting. IP: Logged |
Oxychick
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posted April 30, 2003 06:25 AM
Hey prox! When I was about 12, I had a HUGE crush on a Scorpio! HUGE...And I don't know what it is about them, but he had me calling him practically every day...and we would be on the phone for hours. He had an Aqua Moon (the only Aqua Moon guy I've ever really liked) and ugh...I remember I used to try to make myself stop thinking about him too. But he just had these dreamy eyes...ugh...very hard. 'Course I told him I liked him and he didn't feel the same (I was a chubby little thing who never took care of herself...now only half of that is true LOL). And he moved away and I saw him at a friend's Sweet Sixteen a few years later and he followed me around like a lost puppy. But I remember how devastating it all was, running into him in the hallways at school...trying to be coy, but instead looking obviously foolish. lolOk, sorry. I just realized I was comparing your situation to that of a pubescent crush.  But then again, don't these situations always make us feel like we're kids again? IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted April 30, 2003 07:43 AM
Oxy - Bah, these things do always make us feel like we've a pubescent crush.
And I was thinking about something a bit earlier: I'm usu. not terribly feminine, but when I'm "in lurve" or have a crush, I act like such a girl. Actually, above and beyond that, I act like a PISCES FEMALE.
I think that my 5th House Sun in Pisces has something to do with that. Blah.X3 - That's actually kinda what I meant; I'd occupy myself w/ something else, and then I'd become, uh, unoccupied, er, re-occupied.
Y'know - it's gotta be 10x easier for a Virgo guy to say that and be able to make it stick than it is for a fish gal. ----I'm pert dern sure I'm going to chicken out and not do that "foolish thing" (just ask) today.
This is some kind of really pleasant torture.
(I know this's gotta be boring for ya'll to read; I've just taken care, I guess, to not get myself in these situations much; my aforementioned Moon & Rising signs aren't too keen looking, acting, being, etc. vulnerable/like a fool; but my Sun & select other placements keep making sure that I'm gonna. And the last time I did so...well, it didn't turn out that well. Thankya for the feedback.)
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1scorp
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posted April 30, 2003 08:59 AM
Proxi: I've read all of your post... not boring at all. Actually, I think it's cute. Have you tried small talk with him? Try it!
He probably won't find you nearly as foolish as "you think" you're being! Ex: I had this one guy who wanted to ask me out. I was interested in him as well. However, I was waiting on him to make a move. He did. He was sooo nervous! He kept apologizing for himself?!... I began laughing... not due to thinking he was being foolish.. but due to the fact that as shy as he was, he actually pulled the courage from his toes to approach me! He was too critical of myself. Finally after all the apologies he asked rather blushingly... (the exact words) "Do you want to go out and get a bite"?!... Not the most smooth thing to say I admit. However, he was trying so hard. I realized how much it took for him to do that. I agreed and we dated for quite some time I have a pisces g/f and this girl always makes me laugh! As for the scorp being mean?! No way! I could never do anything like that to her! She's just so charming. Keep us posted Prox! IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted April 30, 2003 12:24 PM
Thanks 1scorp
We actually engage in small talk all the time; I, um, wow.
I was going to ask just a few minutes ago, but someone was walking w/ us and it didn't seem right.
But I'm going to do it.
Right now.
Yep, here I go.
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