posted April 30, 2003 12:30 PM              

the deepest look into his eyes, a beautiful smile, and all genuine heart chakra energy is all the communication someone needs to know you are interested. no one can escape that truth. it will be up to him whether he takes it, and proceeds on to the next level you desire.

posted April 30, 2003 01:15 PM              

The best way I can describe my eye contact is that whatever I'm making it with is something that has my complete attention.

posted April 30, 2003 02:45 PM              

Hey, don't write him off as of yet! Keep a low key... I mean, continue talking as you had before you approached him but don't lead on like anything happened. Give him a while.. he just might surprise you!

posted April 30, 2003 03:11 PM            

I can somewhat identify with that friend of yours that ends up destroying the dudes she dates, but I didn't have quite that problem. Actually, it seems that when I am seriously dating someone and then decide that it's over they end up getting engaged and then married within a few months. LOL...really, it's true.

It started with the Sag boyfriend in HS. About 3 months after I decided it was totally over and moved out of the city, he was engaged.

Then there was this guy at church. Well, we worked together and flirted for quite awhile, but I was undecided. Then he finally told me he was tired of waiting. He got engaged and married within a few month.

Then there was the Navy-seal. Real tough guy, until we broke up (he was a Leo). I was tired of the San Diego - Laguna thing and broke it off with a message that said "Guess I won't be paging you to pick up that carton of milk on your way home from work now will I?" When he first met me he said "Someday, you and I will be together and you will laugh when I remind you of that when you call to remind me to pick up that carton of milk". He married an old friend from back home after Christmas of that year.

Before the Seal, there was the Gemini I was engaged too (BIG MISTAKE). He pulled a typical Gemini-dude multiple personality thing and I pulled the typical Sagittarian - kiss my butt- then and left. He was married soon after.

Then there was my Pisces in college. Well, I wasn't ready to settle down, broke things off and went on my way. I was actually broken hearted to find that he was engaged within 2 months and was married by the end of that year. That one still kind of smarts.

Anyway, so the running joke in my family is to say to the guy "Well, at least if it doesn't work out, you'll probably be married to someone else within 6 months".

Okay, sooooo do I somehow make them so messed up that they just marry right after? LOL...what can this mean?

posted April 30, 2003 03:32 PM            

Did I wear them out...well, I only slept with two of them, but I made out with them. The Sag and Pisces...yeah, I believe I did exhaust them. I know I for sure had a higher sex drive than my poor Pisces and when he told me he would be happy having it only once a week I almost spazzed....(I am the kind of gal that waits for sex with the right person, but pleeeeeease don't cut me off or be infrequent) Trust me, he was more active...at least until he moved back on the farm and then I only saw him every month or so.

The only one I still think about often is that Pisces. But, I have a Leo now, have had him for a while. It's been bumpy ever now and then, but worth it....(bumpy in other ways too. hee hee <<<<blushing>>>>>

posted April 30, 2003 05:21 PM            

You are pretty funny yourself!!! Hey, I like the pictures. You and Ms. Leo look good together!!

posted May 22, 2003 12:04 AM              

I trusted him and he was very sensitive, I met him at church and we were both nervous but he was kind and thoughtful, just what I needed. He was a little guilt ridden. My Leo friends are always the initiators.

Libra is the best lover, most caring and stamina.
Mine has Mars in Libra, and Jupiter in the 7th house. Very romantic. Will spend all day if necessary.

Scorpio is unconventional, and wild. Very hot and bothered but no cigar.

Sag-better talkers.

Aquarius-better talkers

Geminis-Great but too fast. Sexy talkers.

Aries-better friends, way too fast, too emotional, better talkers.

Cancer-held one in my underwear all night. We slept next to eachother but I was hurt when he said nothing happened. To me we had a connection. I tried again with another Cancer. This one had a huge guilt complex afterwards so I do not remember the actual sex.

Capricorn-Great lovers, but way too shy and concerned about appearances.

Pisces-Very sexy and slow. Can make love for hours, but I would never get out of bed and have a life. Very affectionate but very slow.

Virgo-very jumpy, couldn't relax all night, exhausted finally the sex starts and it's over too fast. Still very nice if you can get him to relax. Likes sex that's a little taboo, or bad. I don't see the virgin thing at all, if anything Virgos like sex to be a little dangerous. Virgos can't seem to say No and get in over their heads.

Taurus-Great lovers but a little too abrupt, jealous and demanding. Big on kissing.

Aquarius-very bossy at first until I gave him a cold shower and made him give up his attitude. Good lover but way too talkative and critical. Tried to make love to him but he wouldn't stop talking and finally had to be satisfied with a look at him naked in the shower. I am sure I was missing out but he told me so often how much I was missing out on, I felt I had already been there. Technically I suppose we had sex but it's hard to tell. I do not remember him actually touching me. He was big on kissing though which is a plus. I think he was afraid of my sense of humour. It's not wise to tell jokes around Aquarius. Another Aquarius lover I had was obsessed with kissing. He turned me off when he mentioned his attraction to one of my friends, he was trying to get to me. It's not a good idea to do this during sex. Plus he was overly concerned with technique. After him I married my Libra/Scorp.

So I would have to say Capricorn, Pisces, Libra and Scorpio get the prize. Leo and Virgo get good marks for being sensitive. Taurus and Aquarius have their own agenda and can just talk. They have to really concetrate on being there. With Libras, Taurus, Capricorn, and Aquarius it helps if you give them a few drinks first. Do not give liquor to Pisces, Scorpios, Leos or Virgos. They will run circles around you and blame you in the morning.

Pretty much anyone can be a good lover if they practice giving and receiving in a positive way. Talking about what you like before works too.

Are we rating by the big O or in another way? I was rating that way, for a lover to hold I would say Libra, Scorpio or Pisces.

Natasha
Taurus/Gemini with Cancer Moon in the 8th house, Sag Rising with Neptune conjunct the ascendant. Venus is aries in 4/5 house.

posted May 22, 2003 01:05 PM              

uhhm... well of course! I mean, if anyone wants to get technical about it.

However, the only sun sign I can use for comparison is Gemini. So... but hey, if we're talking foreplay than well...

posted May 22, 2003 01:09 PM              

Any ladies had an experience that was so amazing that not having an "O" didn't matter?

posted May 22, 2003 09:32 PM              

There is so much else going on to worry about, how could I possibly know? My first time I knew I desired affection a lot more, but I am not sure if that has to do with my Venus in Aries square my Moon or not. After I started giving and receiving affection with a man I couldn't wait for more, but it was the affection I liked more than the sex.

If a man made me feel overwhelmed for a desire for affection then I felt happy if I could fulfill that, but no I never really felt happy with a lover before mine now, I knew that he was a great lover. I always knew I was one because I cared, but I couldn't honestly say that any man I met before was experienced or caring enough. Because I am overwhelmed by all the sensations. I have been told I am cold but that is because I am taking in everything at once. I feel too much.

Leos are incredibly affection and mine used to really get me going, however he was really inexperienced and so the kissing was the best part. I was unfulfilled but happier than I was before, since it was my first time and at least now I knew what I wanted, and I had tried with an Aquarian and a Cancer and I didn't feel happier at all. I had to stop because it didn't feel right yet.

Happiness is relative to your last lover, no matter how long ago. I was practically begging for attention from my current lover when I met my Libra/Scorp now, and it was the constant attention/affection which drew me in. The sex was the icing on the cake but it wasn't the deal maker. He looked so secure and together when I met him, as if he didn't need a woman to take care of him, and I could see myself being very affectionate with him without seeing fear in his response. Of course it was an act, but he cares deeply or he wouldn't have tried so hard.

Having Venus in Aries and Moon in Cancer I think about it a lot. I think a woman has to be tested to find out what love is, or she can't say she knows she is in love. I think a woman has to be challenged to question her feelings about love and sex to know what she wants. You can't know what security is if you have never had your basic security tested. I want to learn to look behind the way things feel, taste, look to find the real meaning. When I try I find that my Libra/Scorp cares about the reality of my love too and he is willing to be challenged and tested, no matter what the cost. I find him there in my mind when I am looking for the meaning behind what I am feeling, and sensing. I need to know why I want to have sex with him, and when I think about it I know that it's because we were meant to be together in this way, it's a safe and wonderful thing. I never thought that way before except with him. He doesn't believe that half the time, we work hard at making each other secure. It always feels like the right thing to do whereas before I could feel the man's disapproval like I was bad, or trampy and he was going to fix me. I really don't like games either.

The short answer is yes the O is very important.