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Alma Sun
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posted May 31, 2011 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alma Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't have a Scorpio Sun or AC, but I have Pluto in the 1st (not conj AC though). Sometimes.. I can have an intense stare and it makes people uncomfortable. And when they're uncomfortable.. I feel uncomfortable lol. It's not really a long lingering stare either, just brief eye contact. I feel like with this placement I can sense people's vulnerabilities. Ruler of my AC is Venus in Scorpio.

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ScorpioHeart
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posted December 28, 2011 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioHeart     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess I am late to the party, but I would say yes it's all in the stare. As you know, Scorps don't say too much, but what we do say has an impact (either it hurts or it heals). In keeping, our stares do the same thing. They say a lot and usually come off intimidating others. They can make you blush or run for cover.....

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sand
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posted December 29, 2011 05:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
never notice scorpio suns stare at all. maybe i am not that observant.

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saya_sar
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posted December 29, 2011 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for saya_sar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm scorpio rising. My stare can be very intense. I speak with my eyes a lot. I have been referred to as having a "death stare" as the OP mentioned. Hehe. I love that I don't even have to open my mouth to convey my emotions at times. =)

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Starry~*
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posted December 29, 2011 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Starry~*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The scorpio I'm seeing now does like to stare. Halfway across the room while at work he's STILL staring at me...while he walks out of the room he continues to stare. I wouldn't be surprised if he walks right into a wall cuz he didn't see where hes going due to the fact he's staring at me.

I can sense his stare in the corner of my eyes (even though I'm talking to someone else)

Is it true that when scorpios are in love the way their stare and their eyes change? Like..it's...I duno how to describe it lol. Like they are lost when they stare at you??

Scorpios..help me out here..haha, true?

Me: Scorpio ASC, Venus, Merc, Pluto (all in 1st house)

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posted January 02, 2012 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i am a scorp rising and have had the scorpio stare since childhood. people have been intimidated, fascinated, annoyed, scared, asked me why i am staring at them, etc. i stare right at people directly and like to intimidate them; i want people to know that i can see right through any lies and tricks they might be trying to pull. my current bf has pluto in the 1st so we end up staring at one another quite a lot and just letting the eyes do the talking. people mostly say i am completely unreadable and i seem to elicit a love or hate reaction right away and nothing inbetween

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Cherri
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posted January 07, 2012 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cherri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

Before I realized I was quite Plutonic, I used to wonder why I felt intense when either meeting people or around people. I did not want to admit it but I realized I stared at people quite intensely.

I now accept that I do it and I try to make it a natural "yes, I'm paying polite attention to you" and not "OK, now I get what you're hiding, you have no secrets from me" stare.

And I don't do it intentionally to mess with the person. It is unconscious but I have somehow caught myself doing it and I try to snap myself out of it so I won't make anyone uncomfortable.

I also realize that although I've thought of myself as very compassionate and nice, I do put peeps off with my stare and some get quite uncomfortable. This may have affected my grammar school days where I believe I stared at my classmates and also felt their vibes and I stayed away from most of them. It was a private school where we all had the same classmates from grade to grade. These classmates at the same time avoided me and also teased me. I believe they knew that I knew ALL ABOUT THEM and they were uncomfortable with it. I have an extremely strong Neptune influence and am quite psychic and empathic so I get the true vibe about peeps.

But no, they did not like me at all and it could be the Pluto Stare!

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Cherri
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posted January 07, 2012 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cherri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Cherri
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posted January 07, 2012 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cherri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Randall
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posted January 07, 2012 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Cherri
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posted January 07, 2012 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cherri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the welcome! And sorry for the double post!

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woah cakes
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posted January 09, 2012 12:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for woah cakes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:

Before I realized I was quite Plutonic, I used to wonder why I felt intense when either meeting people or around people. I did not want to admit it but I realized I stared at people quite intensely.

I now accept that I do it and I try to make it a natural "yes, I'm paying polite attention to you" and not "OK, now I get what you're hiding, you have no secrets from me" stare.

And I don't do it intentionally to mess with the person. It is unconscious but I have somehow caught myself doing it and I try to snap myself out of it so I won't make anyone uncomfortable.

I also realize that although I've thought of myself as very compassionate and nice, I do put peeps off with my stare and some get quite uncomfortable.


hey, it's weird cuz i relate to everything you said here. i think i have a very plutonic look/stare and didn't realize it till recently. my pluto is a singleton and my most elevated planet. i always thought i seemed friendly and goofy but i think when i am NOT in that mode i tend to stare and make people uncomfortable.

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hannaramaa
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posted January 09, 2012 02:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know the Plutonic stare! The guy I like has given it to me more than once. In fact although I can't verify it, I'm pretty sure he spies on me when I'm hanging out in the same vicinity. Won't approach until I'm about to leave, but oh yes it's not by accident. I don't care what people say, I always assume Scorpio laden people are very "aware" per se and make sure to dot my i's and cross my t's around them.

Except... what if you get the intense stare a couple times, and other times he looks at you with a softness? Whenever he looks at me (sans the stares) his eyes look like they're smiling.

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Desiring Shadows
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posted January 21, 2012 07:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio stare exists...says the learned sag moon scorp mars

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ecent
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posted January 30, 2012 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ecent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dated a guy that did this, make u wonder wat they thinking

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ScorpioHPfan
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posted February 23, 2012 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioHPfan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello, everyone, I just registered.
I was searching on Google about the Scorpio Stare and this was one of the sites that popped up. I think I've read another Scorpio post on this site but never got the chance to register, until now.
I wanted to see what other folks think of this guy's actions around me..well, here it goes:
I work with this guy sometimes when we're in the same store. (We work at a Theme Park, and I move around in stores. He usually stays at one of them.)
We're both Scorpios but I'm about 1 year and a week older than him. We are both seeing someone else. I'm sort of dating...but anyway...
The first time we met a couple years ago, I said, "Hello," we instantly locked eyes and looked at each other for a few seconds before one of us turned away. We talked a bit. It was like this strange connection thing going on. Lol.
After a couple months, of getting to know each other a little, he would tease me sometimes. He was more friendly towards me. Oh, and a few months ago he touched my hair a couple times, in a caressing/petting kind of way. When he did that I looked at him with this sideways glance and he just laughed a little, covering his mouth with his hand.
Now, however, we still talk but he seems a little shy. I notice him glancing at me a lot from the corner of my eye, or from across the store. When I look at him, (even though, I KNOW he was looking at me), he immediately looks down/away. Sometimes we lock eyes for a couple of seconds, smile a little, but I think I'm the first one to look away. The eye communication is there but I'm not sure if it's that intense, maybe a little. I notice the way he looks at other girls but the glances he gives me, (that I pretend not to notice, until I try to catch his eye), are different. When we talk, he sometimes gets in my personal space, but I don't move back, like I do with some others/strangers. I guess we became comfortable around each other a little bit. I've heard him talk about me a couple times; like what I've just done or said that was funny or something. We'd be in the backroom, then he'd open the door to the store and tell the other coworkers what I did or said. I'm not sure if he knew I could hear him, but when I did, I was quite surprised. I feel like he's trying to get my attention when he talks to me or plays pranks on me, in a playful way.
Anywho, that's it for right now. Let me know what you think of his actions. Is that typical from a Scorpio guy, when they might like someone, or is comfortable with another person?

Thanks for reading. I hope I didn't bore you all. :P

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ScorpioHPfan
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posted February 23, 2012 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioHPfan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry, about all the posts. I didn't see my post right away so I tried to repost it again. Now there's four. Ugh! I'm on my iPhone. Lol.
I have to agree with a lot of you. I also have a penetrating Scorpio Stare. A few people have told me that when I look at them, they think I can read their souls. Lol. 8)
I was wondering where can I get more info. on the natal chart? I think I've done one before but it was a sample.

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ScorpioHPfan
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posted February 23, 2012 01:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioHPfan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't delete them, so I'm just editing them.
:P
A couple of things that the coworker does is he calls out my name or calls me by a nickname he made up for himself. When he and another coworker asked what my nationality was, he was saying, "that sounds like good w**d," then said that the other guy wanted to know how the babies would turn out...Ahahah! o.O They've teased each other a couple of times when I'm around. The strangest thing that happened was when the Scorpio coworker and I just stared at each, for what seemed like 10 seconds at least. That was the most intense ever. Lol. :O
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ScorpioHPfan
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posted February 23, 2012 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioHPfan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyway, please let me know what you all think.
Sorry, for all the posts again. My iPhone was probably being slow. :P
Thanks a bunch!


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cancercaite
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posted February 23, 2012 05:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cancercaite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
is there anyway to reduce the fear that this brings? not only is my moon in scorpio but it's also conjunct pluto. I terrify others so much that it's really starting to become an inconvenience. I manage to keep everyone away-sad face.

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posted February 28, 2012 03:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sharkspined     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've always felt that you gain a lot of knowledge from staring someone in the eyes - if they look away, they lack confidence, have something to hide, something negative.

I'm not a Scorpio, but my Sun and Mercury are both in Aquarius on the very edge of the 7th house ... I have a lot of relation to the 8th house in personality. While my cancer rising allows my emotions to be openly readable, the 8th house connotation gives an intensity that people sort of back off from.

A reason I stare is so people know I'm being honest and that I mean what I say. The only person whose stare has ever made me LITERALLY back up and say, "Sorry, too intense." was my mate, who has a Scorpio moon.

I also like to stare to gain a feeling for the soul of a person.

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posted March 09, 2012 09:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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phoeniX617
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posted April 16, 2012 11:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for phoeniX617     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
im a scorpio sun with my sun at 0 degrees scorpio, i have big blue eyes and i have been told i have really nice eyes but ive never really been told about my stare, except by my virgo sister who i creep out my opening my eyes really wide and staring at her, but i can feel the effect of the stare that im giving. for the most part i can project an attentive listening look thru my eyes and let people kno i hear what theyre saying. my real stares come when i get a vibe that a female is attracted to me. i feel like i can create the sense that im underessing them with my eyes without even making eye contact and i get to notice how they respond to it. when i make eye contact while creating the same energy that i just talked about theres a gut level feeling so that i know the other person has noticed that moment of eye contact and it is REALLY intense.

i try not to make extended eye contact because i know that making eye contact shows respect but at the same time staring just isnt polite, but sometimes i just cant help it

Also have noticed that pisces have beautiful eyes, but i dont find them piercing like scorpios, but more mysterious, and if theres one thing a scorpio loves its a good mystery.

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MillyX
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posted April 18, 2012 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I remember when I met my long lost cousin last summer.He has a stellium in scorpio & he ALWAYS has to put his dark sunglasses on even if we are inside.I don't really talk to him,he dosen't like me I guess.I would just mind my own business while shopping then I turn around & I always catch him staring at me like he is analyzing me...Anyways,scorpios are really dark,heavy & fascinating.

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