posted July 21, 2008 08:05 PM         

IF he truly cared, he would've told her he loves her by now. If they were soulmates, he wouldn't be able yto hold it back.

Meta, he's using you to make himself feel better. It's not your fault. He should know better than to manipulate a young girl. He's the adult here. This reminds me of the whole Monica Lewinsky/ Bill Clinton fiasco.

I blame him.

Get away from him!

Their synastry may be amazing, but that just makes me not believe in synastry at all, because he doesn't care about her at all.

I'm sorry, Meta, but actions speak louder than synastry.

Good luck to you.

posted July 21, 2008 08:05 PM         

IF he truly cared, he would've told her he loves her by now. If they were soulmates, he wouldn't be able yto hold it back.

Meta, he's using you to make himself feel better. It's not your fault. He should know better than to manipulate a young girl. He's the adult here. This reminds me of the whole Monica Lewinsky/ Bill Clinton fiasco.

It also seems like everyone in the office knows she is in love with him, and he probably knows this, as well.

I blame him.

Get away from him!

Their synastry may be amazing, but that just makes me not believe in synastry at all, because he doesn't care about her at all.

I'm sorry, Meta, but actions speak louder than synastry.

Good luck to you.

Here is the post that did it for me:

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Well today i walked into his room and as soon as i saw him i started sobbing. And of course, as soon as i came in, 15 other people decided they were going to come in as well and start up a conversation with him. So while he was politely trying to tell everyone he wasn't interested right now, i got out somethings he had given me from my bag and placed them on his desk.
So, after he closed the door i said,
"I am going to miss you.. so much.. And i am not ready to not have you around. I'm not ready to lose you yet. And i don't know what i'm going to do when i don't have you anymore... I have taken our time for granted, i have taken you for granted.. I never thought that there would be a day when i wouldn't see you again. I've been in this roon a million times, and right now i know that there won't be a million more.. And i won't miss you as a co-worker, i'm going to miss you as you. God, i can't even look at you right now."
To which he said, "Ashley, you know me well enough to know that i'm not going to get emotional right now" and he nodded his head towards the group gossiping outside his door. I'm assuming that he was telling me the reason why he wouldn't.
He then proceeded to tell me that this is not the last time that we will see each other. That i can come by whenever i want to. There's letters, email, phone. He also... told me that I have changed his life. That i am "necessary" to him. That emotionally, he needs me.. that he has never been nurtured or open with, or cherished by anyone like he has by me.
Then he had a meeting. So i had to go. There was no hug. There was rubbing of the back while i was crying, but no other touching. And whenever he closed the door and saw me still sobbing he sort of smiled. No, not sort of, he did. He grinned. WHY?!?! There was no confirmation really... unless he's trying to get me to read between the lines... which is rather coy of him.

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posted July 22, 2008 09:37 AM         

It seems like he maybe thinks of this whole thing as a schoolgirl crush, very flattering to him but he's sure that you'll get over it and all the drama. Ignorant on his part and not very considerate of your feelings.

posted August 29, 2008 09:20 PM         

I never read the past 3 posts that were posted here.

So i thought i'd answer them. I just wanted to let anyone and everyone know that i'm not just "bumping" this to get more feedback.

You don't have to reply to this.

LadyNeptune,

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Their synastry may be amazing, but that just makes me not believe in synastry at all

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posted August 29, 2008 09:24 PM         

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Ignorant on his part and not very considerate of your feelings.

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Well, he never asked for this. He never asked for me, or my overwhelming feelings, or my... anything really. SO is it inconsiderate? Yes. But is it unfair to me? I wouldn't say that. I did this. So please don't blame him for my doing. He's not a bad guy. He's just not in love with me.