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fayte.m
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posted March 23, 2006 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Ok..
First off I am still a bit vague on what people mean by twin soul/soul twins.

I am with my soulmate. My compliment...my mental and spiritual equal.
I never want to lose him

But my first two Ex husbands were meant to be...until we attended to unfinished past life business.
Business is now Done.
Past life Soul connections. But not soulmates.
Things to work through and learn with them.

Then move on.

Is that that you mean by soul twin/twin soul?

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Mama Mia
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posted March 23, 2006 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
I guess this whole thing is getting on my last nerve. Things to learn as you say I guess is right. We are total opposites in the emotinal dept I Pisces and he Aqua I understand all there is to understand about how Aqua show love and affection and all. I don't like it but I understand it and I want to be free and find me a more earth dude. There is something that has us tied sort of speak at the risk of sounding crazy.

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fayte.m
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posted March 23, 2006 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Ok....
Not crazy at all!
Soul bonds from past lives can be very strong!
Nothing to laugh at.
I bore a son with one of those ex husbands.
Part of that unfinished business now finished.
With the second..the girl he should have been with was married. As soon as she got divorced I knew it was time for me to move on so he could be with his soulmate. He did not know she was...but I did.
They got married!
I am happy for them.
The unfinished business with him is too personal to talk about here.
But it is done also.

What drew you together with him and he to you?
Look closely...VERY closely...at what exactly spurred the initial attraction...
There may be a clue there.

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Mama Mia
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posted March 23, 2006 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Ok is there always a reason that two ppl are drawn toghether outside of pure attraction???? I have no idea what drew us together other then I was smitten with him and he with me.

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fayte.m
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posted March 23, 2006 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Ok...with my first two it was physical attraction..then sexual.

With my beloved now ....I did not even know what he looked like! He was dressed in black from head to toe...I could not even see his face! We were both working a haunted hayride thing.
I heard his voice as he was speaking to others and was instantly flooded with memories and KNEW he was the one!

He could have been horribly ugly under that outfit...it would not have mattered to me at all!

We talked for days..by phone and in costume.
I never saw his face until about 10 days later! I had no idea what he looked like!
The attraction was not looks based or sexual. I did not even know how old he was! Or what race! It was utterely magical!

I hope that made sense.

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Mama Mia
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posted March 23, 2006 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
LOL!!! Well Faye it did help me understand why you are with your soulmate and how you guys came about, but unless it went over my head I do not have a clue is to how that tie into my stuff. It is just something that I have to continue to work on and allow to be revealed...Thanks for your concern...

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hippichick
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posted March 23, 2006 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
Ladies:

I think we reincarnate within the same group of people some intimate encounters some not so intimate and the draw that we have to these people comes from past connections, feels right to me.

But what really hurts and is so confusing is when we feel so drawn to these folks and they seem to not feel it or can not reciporicate it for one reason or another, and this can be so FRUSTERATING to those of us who recognize the connection. Or,maybe they feel it and do not know what to do with such a profound feeling! I think then we just have to have respect for them on their individual paths during this life time and let go.

When I ended it with my unavaiable, married Aqua guy, he told me "what do you want me to do, I will do anything." But I cant ask him to leave his wife, that is not for me to ask. All I could tell him is what I need and let it go there. When I told him I am head over heels in love with him, he says "give it time" oh, brother! I know he recognizes our soul connection but he can not act on it for many reasons now and I can not ask him to do anything FOR ME, but I can darn well sure tell him what I need and what I am willing to tolerate and being involved with a married man who lied to me from the get go is not it!

When you look into someone's eyes and see yourself that is scarey as all get out! Yet, it is so alluring, intriguing and it feels so good. But inorder so save ourselves we have to respect when the eyes we are looking into are not capable, able, willing, whatever of inertacting with us on the soul level that we desire, that we need to let go. And in letting go the truth will be known.

May the Universe bless us all!

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Mama Mia
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posted March 23, 2006 03:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
That is true if it is indeed a Soul connection love thing that cannot happen right now. But if you feel there is lesson b4 that feeling you have can even go away you want to learn it know it so if that is what it is you can recieve it and move on. I have no idea really why I feel the way I feel I just know that it is very profound and may just have to a large degree to only do with me, but if that is the case I wan to know so that I can move on. I am not inlove with anyone that much. I have always been able to move past a ex I don't care how fine he was how great he was in bed how much money he has whatever. I am not hung up on that I am hung up on getting whatever lesson that I am to get and let go other wise yes it is going to contiune to hunt me..Been through this b4, just did not last this long...

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fayte.m
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posted March 23, 2006 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
I guess I was trying to determine what may have attracted you to each other....
Based on my "lustful & physical looks" 'smittens' with the first two husbands and then the "soulfull smitten" with the one I am with now!

Does that make sense?

I guess I was trying to figure out if it was more a physical attraction you two had...rather than something else.

Not sure if anything I said was helpful.
All I can say..is if it is not working...

WALK AWAY.
Do not look back.

Then you will be free.
Perhaps lonely for awhile, but free.

And which is worse?
To be lonely with someone who is wrong for you?
Or to be lonely alone with just yourself?

At least you are free to move forward from being lonely alone.

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Mama Mia
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posted March 23, 2006 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Faye

I do understand now, But I had known or seen him 4 months once a week on a regular bases. I never thought anything about him until I ran into him by my house. The attraction for me was not instantly...I only began to take interest in him outside of where we met then we were smitten with each other. Or atleast that is how it was for me..

Also we have been apart over a year and I still feel these feelings and every once in awhile do I think of him in a sexual way.

This is complicated no one can give me answers I know just getting ideas thats all...

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sue g
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posted March 23, 2006 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
In defense of Aquarian males,,,,I know of a few who have been happily married for a long time...

My sisters father in law and mother in law were very close and together for years....he Aqua she Libra...they even died close together.

Alice Cooper, who was my hero as a teen, admits to being happily married for nearly 30 years and never cheating on his wife.

A woman I worked with was married to an Aqua for a long time and they seemed very happy....he seemed very comfortable with her.

My ex, despite his extreme behaviour was happy with me and loved me deeply (i feel he still does)

And I am sure there are many more too.......

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fayte.m
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posted March 23, 2006 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Mama Mia
Yes..it is complicated and very personal.
Only you can figure it out.
Hope all of us have helped in some little ways at least.
You are still pretty young aren't you? I was almost 43 before I found the right one.
So who knows...Mr. right may be too young for you right now.
I certainly did not expect things to work out for me as they did.

I was pretty much just waiting to die before I met him.

And Sue
That is wonderful that you know of a few happy Aquarian men! And mates! Perhaps being compatible Aquarian and Libra helped those two.
Love Alice! He is something!

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Mama Mia
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posted March 23, 2006 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Yes there was some light shedded..

Im done!!!!

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hippichick
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posted March 23, 2006 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
Fayte

"Waiting to die" hmmmmmmmm
That is what I have been feeling like lately, though I do not think it is quite time just yet!

But still I wait.................

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LILYGIRL
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posted March 23, 2006 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LILYGIRL     Edit/Delete Message
MM,

My heart goes out to you. I am sorry you are hurting. It's very tough because I think we want to feel like we "have out acts
together" enough to be very very cool, to be straight ahead detached, to feel that everything can roll of our backs like ducks.... But real love is not void of messy intensity. That's part of the package. It's part of the fun and yes a big part of the growth, HIM (not you; I know you can do that) GETTING IN THERE and GETTING MESSY emotionally!

Hang in there. With that fat Solar Eclipse hitting Aries, maybe your MARS will kick in some kick butt energy and fuel you from here to whatever the next stage needs to be.

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posted March 23, 2006 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILove     Edit/Delete Message
fayte.m
Hi! The visualization is working. I have detected a slight movement to the brow of the affected eye! I love the way you are so supportive, and it had helped me tremendously! Thank you thank you!
I know when I walk out this door in a few weeks I will be walking to freedom from a control freak and yeah if my face is still parylized its gonna be double hard. But its gonna be my hard and under my control. I cryed to read your plight with no heat no food, but soo happy to be free! I admire you and it may seem corny, but I'm gonna be thinking of your happily ever after in love in my darkest days to come. Bless you!

hippichick...kids are so resiliant! So true, and I'm on my way to healing. You saw above the creative visualization is helping!

To all:
I remember my first love and boy did I think we were soulmates and then my almost ex...hehe...I thought we were soulmates too. Love can be tricky that way, and I couldn't agree more with what fayte.m said about love and un-finished business. One day in the future I see myself learning something from all this, only time will tell.

I talked with the Aqua today and he has agreed to let me take the three kids without a court battle. I am a bit un-settled by this, but glad not to go through the courts right now, especially as I will not have a job until my health improves. I am going to take them 900 miles from him. I am not sure what to make of this? Is this Aqua idea of love? Who knows!

sue g....My aqua has not said those word to me, but that is exactly what he has done, is still doing. To see how far he could push me and pull me back again.
How awful for you to hear those words. I am sorry you have to remember them.

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posted March 24, 2006 02:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
ILove

Thankyou

Those words do at times, haunt me......

I am sad that some of my karma involves such mental cruelty......I hope I learnt my lesson.

Love and luck to you, mind yerself


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fayte.m
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posted March 25, 2006 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Some may want to consider the following:

Blue M
posted March 25, 2006 11:16 AM http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/002057.html

Ok you AQUARIAN MALES!

Any of you want to tell us the secret formula to a long lasting, loving, monogamous
relationship with one of you fellows?
I have heard that it is possible!

PLEASE TELL US THE SECRET GUYS!

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hippichick
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posted March 25, 2006 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
I second that Fayte!

Please guys!!!! Let us know!!!!!

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hippichick
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posted March 27, 2006 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
GIRLS!!!!!!

I HAVE SOMETHING GOOD TO SAY ABOUT AQUARIAN MALES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My nurse manager who is an aqua male told a few of us yesterday that he was being forced to resign (a bunch of political bullcrap by a flock of power hungry administrative women.) It was so sad and touching and he cried, and I felt his pain and so much emotion. We had a great unit and worked well under an awesome manager and he hated what was happening.

From what I experienced yesterday, Aqua guys do feel and feel deeply because I felt him feel.

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sue g
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posted March 27, 2006 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Yes Hippichick they do feel VERY deeply.....just at times they tend to hide it....

Ive seen/heard Aqua men crying, including my Moon in Aqua hubbie (especially of late).

Lovely to hear some positive feedback....thanks for that girl......

xxx

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posted March 27, 2006 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for spirited dawn     Edit/Delete Message
Wow! is there a lot to catch up on....I have been on vacation. Really great dialog going on....I did go to the other thread and read the post of Blue M. It is very interesting. In my experience, what she says is right on. Although my guy says he was no longer has an emotional connection to his ex, she lives in the house he retained through the divorce and is able to hold down a job even though he believes her to be terminally ill. This situation has gone on for five years, so he must get something out of it. I am the one he likes to yank around. Coming back and making romantic overtures and then letting me believe it is all in my mind, that I have misread something. Like Linda said, "kind of cruel, but it is how they play the game." He is creating an environment where I actually doubt myself and that is what I have put a stop to feeling bad about myself and if it takes me no communication on my part, that is what I will try to do. I am human and god knows I might fall off the proverbial wagon if he writes, I can never say never, but my resolve is pretty strong, I am a Capricorn.
It blows my mind that when he yanks, our connection is so powerful, like nothing I have ever experienced and I am 48 years old women and had a longer term marriage to a Taurus bull to compare it to. My Aqua guy is so intuitive when it comes to me and he senses when and just what to say in a way that just melts me. He has never asked anything of me, so that is what he will always hide behind. Maybe that is what he really means? That he wants nothing from me or he would ask? I like to describe his behavior as glamorously aloof. My Cancer best friend laughs at that term but his communication is so deliberate and distant, it is like he is wanting me to read between the lines? Or not, the obvious is is that he is not talking. Have others ever experienced glamourously aloof?

For ILove, I have had bells palsy three times. Don't loose hope, I also have recovered three times. My Doctor says once is remarkable and three times is unheard of. I guess it is more than the Water Bearer that has brought this group together....

Anywho, I love the exchanges, I hope that they continue to be as helpful for all of you that they are for me.

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fayte.m
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posted March 27, 2006 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Sue....
Your Husband is crying?

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Zohe
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posted March 29, 2006 03:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Zohe     Edit/Delete Message
Ladies
I feel bad for you and your experiences. Its sad you fell foul of Aqua coldness (which we all have the capacity for)

However, its hard not to feel "picked on". For whatever reasons it was not meant to be for you guys with those particular Aqua guys.

I'm sure if you had a dig around, you would find many stories of other signs' males letting you beautiful women down. Surely somewhere a Cap man or Leo guy or Cancer man has hurt a woman equally as much or more than an Aqua male.

I am in touch with my feelings, i have been with my wife for 10 years and many more to come hopefully. Sometimes i do bad and sometimes i do good.

Inherently I am good though and the insinuation that just because I was born on Feb 12 that I might be some Dark Devil Child (kidding, extreme exxaggeration)is a little hard to take in.....

Ladies, if i were single, i would ask you all out, to prove to you that we Aqua men are not ALL bad....

Millions of things go into making a man. His sun sign is one thing, upbringing, culture, life experiences etc, etc will form his character even more. Sadly those Aqua men who let you down had whatever reasons they had...but to pin point the reason for it not working to the fact they were Aquas does not make sense.

Don't forget that great saying:
Behind every Great Man, there is a Great Woman.....(or however the saying goes). Another saying, It Takes Two to Tango also has great meaning here methinks, no?

Magus, mate where ya, need some help here...

Zohe

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posted March 29, 2006 08:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Yay!!! My husband is crying.......

Our son wanted to know why Daddy didnt cry,,,and then said "he will get sick if he doesnt let it out"......

And then a breakthrough.....he has started to "feel" and let it out......crying with joy, sadness, memories of past etc....

Thanks be to God.....some never get to this point do they.....

And he says to me "it feels great"

xxxx

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