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Heart--Shaped Cross Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 14, 2008 07:31 PM
quote: I was with you up until this last post (HSC).
At least it got you off the fence, to admit that you were with me all along.
Better late than never. ------------------------------------------------------- "You haven't gone far enough until you've gone too far." ~ Mars/Merc in Sagittarius "And only when you have all denied me, shall I return to you." ~ Nietzsche's Zarathustra
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4088 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 14, 2008 07:43 PM
I was writing out why, but I decided I'd just send that via email.I am a fan, of course. I think you have a great mind. As you already know I'm not exactly loyal enough to just go along with everything, though. I have to keep some semblance of integrity to myself. quote: "You haven't gone far enough until you've gone too far." ~ Mars/Merc in Sagittarius
I guess that's appropriate. quote: At least it got you off the fence, to admit that you were with me all along.
To be fair, I was also a bit for 26T. I can see what you're saying, but I can also see where her consideration of what you said lead her to say the things she said. I think for anyone to really consider the meat of what you said in your first post they're automatically going to head down that path of seeming to psychoanalyze you. It would be tough to avoid. We're all experts on our own opinions, so of course that will come across condescending at times. Definitely a very interesting thread to say the least. IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 14, 2008 07:59 PM
I just wish you would speak up more, AG.I think you have a lot to teach us.
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4088 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 14, 2008 08:34 PM
It's Valentine's Day, so I probably won't be around the rest of the night.Thanks for the kind words, though I worry about offending you as much as anyone else here. IP: Logged |
NosiS Moderator Posts: 136 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 14, 2008 08:34 PM
I thought the post AG referred to was just fine. Why did you edit it? IP: Logged |
dafremen unregistered
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posted February 14, 2008 10:35 PM
I won't presume to speak for anyone else, but would simply like to point out, that I have thanked my lucky STARS for the ability to edit here. (And I'm not talking about the times I've used it to be an a--, either.) If it's not too crazy..I'd like to just openly defend the right of people to edit their posts without cause..please? It's hard enough admitting the mistake and correcting it..without also having to explain it, further spotlighting the lesson already learned..as evidenced by the editing.daf IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 14, 2008 10:47 PM
I understand what you mean, Daf. And I second those sentiments.I also think that NosiS was asking because he liked what I wrote, and wanted to encourage me to let my light shine. Thank you, NosiS.
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Heart--Shaped Cross Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 14, 2008 10:48 PM
NosiS,To answer your question: I had my doubts. I didnt feel like making more excuses for myself (even if they were pretty damn compelling). Or hurting people's feelings any more today (however original or accurate my observations may be - and you know I do say so myself). And, to be completely honest, I did it because of what Marty McFly says; because I'm tragically ahead of my time.
Or not. I don't know anymore. Maybe this isnt my crowd. Maybe I'm not myself. Maybe both. IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 14, 2008 10:49 PM
Anyway, I want to apologize, but I dont know yet what to apologize for. Or what to defend. I feel sad. I feel remorse, mercy. I feel like I exaggerate my sufferings unforgivably. I dont know what to do. I'm such a baby, lol. I just. . . I dont know when its okay to cry, and when its self-pity. If we could open ourselves, and let it go... Let the tears pour for days and days... Would we purge ourselves? Or just create a channel for infinite grief? Somebody answer me, please.
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NosiS Moderator Posts: 136 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 14, 2008 11:35 PM
Yes,I agree this thread has been quite beautiful. I thought that HSC's edited post was brutally honest and I, for one, truly enjoy reading those the most. I didn't mean to say that he shouldn't have edited it (although I disagree with the edit) but, as HSC has already responded, to inquire why he did so. I totally agree that the right to edit posts is legitimate and often necessary. By the way, HSC, I'm not a girl. I'm not gay, either. (Not that there's anything wrong with that!) :mumbles: Why do I often find myself telling people what sex I am around here? IP: Logged |
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posted February 14, 2008 11:48 PM
quote: If we could open ourselves, and let it go...Let the tears pour for days and days... Would we purge ourselves?
It can work. It has for me. If you can learn from it afterwards it works real well. IP: Logged |
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posted February 14, 2008 11:50 PM
Daf,"I won't presume to speak for anyone else, but would simply like to point out, that I have thanked my lucky STARS for the ability to edit here. (And I'm not talking about the times I've used it to be an a--, either.) If it's not too crazy..I'd like to just openly defend the right of people to edit their posts without cause..please? It's hard enough admitting the mistake and correcting it..without also having to explain it, further spotlighting the lesson already learned..as evidenced by the editing." Thank you. IP: Logged |
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posted February 14, 2008 11:52 PM
quote: Real people make mistakes. Real friends know when to let it go.
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NosiS Moderator Posts: 136 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 14, 2008 11:56 PM
Real friends know when to let it go.Not that it should always be let go. IP: Logged |
praecipua unregistered
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posted February 15, 2008 12:16 AM
to answer your question in your first poem, yes, i feel the ache. so much so that i didn't read the rest in case it was as intense. i save it for laternot talking about the art (how could anyone - or me at least - judge art?) but the feeling. your words were clear and i felt something which seems to resemble what you describe. i'm not sure if i have to thank you for that ------------------ a message to my friends IP: Logged |
valcap Newflake Posts: 0 From: manteo nc usa Registered: Sep 2009
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posted February 15, 2008 01:30 AM
Steve, I hear the struggle in your words, and i know that on a message board, it's very difficult for any observation to sound anything but pithy and glib, but I truly believe most people who take the time to respond to you are trying to sincerely help. "The phrase 'palace of my shame' was an interesting idea. Part of the rock star disease is stewing in your own juices. 'The palace of your shame' describes how people build their lives into a monument to self pity." BonoYou could open yourself up and drown in your tears because there is never ending injustice and pain in this world, this country, down your street,and probably in your own family, if i had to guess. But what a waste! That's not what you came to this earth to do. I don't know what you ARE here for, Steve, but i do know that you have a beautiful, capable mind that could be of service to you and SO MANY OTHERS! You may very well be sensitive and easily wounded, but all that really means is to bandage up more heavily before you go out(or something glib like that ) Stop reminding yourself and everyone around you and get your armour on instead and go live. You have so, so much to give the world. Now I've gone and broken my own rule of never giving advice unless it's asked for. I hope I haven't made things worse. If so, just chalk it up to some crazed, infrequently-posting whack job and walk on. IP: Logged |
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posted February 15, 2008 02:43 AM
Another good cry. Tears of joy this time. Thanks TINK.Your brother who loves you dearly, daf IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 15, 2008 09:39 AM
NosiS,Sorry, I forgot you were a boy. I think I knew that, once. 26T, Thanks. Praecipua, Thank you. That's all I wanted. And I'm not sure you should thank me either. valcap, Very thoughtful post, thanks. I need to look into armour, I guess. Protections spells and pouches maybe. I don't know... I dont seem to have it built in like some people.
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praecipua unregistered
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posted February 15, 2008 09:46 AM
dafremen could you check this thread please, it takes just 5 min. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum17/HTML/001711.html HSC, sorry to hijack your very interesting topic. ------------------ a message to my friends IP: Logged |
NosiS Moderator Posts: 136 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 15, 2008 09:47 AM
Actually, I'm a man. At least, after more than twenty-and-a-half decades of living I would surely hope so. IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 15, 2008 09:49 AM
quote: Actually, I'm a man At least, after more than twenty-and-a-half decades of living I would surely hope so.
Wow, NosiS, you are 205 years old! That makes you an old man. I'm 28, but I cant seem to bring myself to discipline the divine child in me. Oh, what's a boy to do? Honestly, I was so damn serious when I was a kid. I seem to get younger by the years. I'm determined to have a childhood. But I'd like to be a man someday. That would be pretty sweet.
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Heart--Shaped Cross Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 15, 2008 09:59 AM
just felt like posting this here: Disarm you with a smile And cut you like you want me to Cut that little child Inside of me and such a part of you Ooh, the years burn
I used to be a little boy So old in my shoes And what I choose is my choice Whats a boy supposed to do? The killer in me is the killer in you My love I send this smile over to you Disarm you with a smile And leave you like they left me here To wither in denial The bitterness of one whos left alone Ooh, the years burn Ooh, the years burn, burn, burn I used to be a little boy So old in my shoes And what I choose is my voice Whats a boy supposed to do? The killer in me is the killer in you My love I send this smile over to you The killer in me is the killer in you Send this smile over to you The killer in me is the killer in you Send this smile over to you The killer in me is the killer in you Send this smile over to you ~ billy corgan http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQtLoJlQD6E
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NosiS Moderator Posts: 136 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 15, 2008 10:14 AM
LMAO! Whoops...I meant two-and-a-half decades of living...lol! I was so serious as a child, too! I've long felt that I hardly was able to have a childhood or that, at least, I didn't find myself enjoying it enough. I'm still working things out from those experiences and I realize just how difficult it really is each day. I only meant that I'm a man as far as my coming of age goes. As you are, as well. Off to work now... IP: Logged |
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posted February 15, 2008 10:28 AM
Finally! It's about time poor Billy got a little respect. It's been wall to wall Kurt around here for what seems like forever. Now if someone could please put up a video of that murdering tart's "Violet", my sad, misspent, Lollapoolozad youth will have come full circle.IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 15, 2008 10:48 AM
misspend this
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