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Topic: What is the best consolation in suffering and distress?
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Lialei Knowflake Posts: 685 From: Registered: Jul 2005
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posted August 07, 2006 01:13 AM
You posted as I was writing, Zala. It appears we were on similiar frequencies. 
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Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 2640 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 01:25 AM
Lia ~ I count myself lucky to be on YOUR frequency!!  Steve ~ Just had a thought before I *must* get myself to bed….. How do we arrive at, or discern, “right” and “wrong”?? Do we not make a value judgment?? A decision that comes from our innate feelings about what is true and positive and what is false and negative (for our individual self)?? And who should we allow to judge us as being “right” or “wrong” excepting ourselves?? I will most certainly argue with someone who tells me (or others) that I/they are wrong, whereas I will rationally discuss and converse with someone who tells me that their opinion differs from mine….. PS: I love your beard!! Was just using a ridiculous example as an illustration….. Z IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 2743 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 02:10 AM
Lia,Your first paragraph gives me food for thought. I cannot respond to it right now. I will sleep on it, and let it ferment in my deeper parts, before I subject it to analysis. Your second paragraph misunderstands my point. Just because all is one doesnt mean that all opinions are correct. For instance, to say "all is not one" would not accord with a belief which states that "all is one". Children indeed have much to teach us, but, as you said, discernment must be learned. Otherwise, just like children, we are bound to be taken-in by any old pseudo-philosophy, the more convoluted and "mysterious", the better. "Science without faith is doubt. Religion without reason is superstition." - I forget who said that, and I'm too tired to google it. Humility balances judgement. What is your mindset as you judge? Are you condemning in your judgement? Or simply discerning with openness and non-judgement as well in mind? Good question. That is my point. I am discerning, and doing my best not to identify myself with my beliefs, so as to stay centered in humility. That has been my position all along. Yet everyone seems to think they know my personal attitude towards the things I am saying. I wish they would focus on the points i try to make, and stop questioning and speculating about my alleged personal interests in making them. What I said was in response to 'Zala, not Mirandee. I realize that, to question and revise our cherished ideas of God, formed or inherited over the course of a lifetime, is a scary thing, and not something that comes easily to any of us. However, I do not thing it is out of line, or judgemental, for me to suggest to a person that they ought to do just that. I do not think I am being sardonic, sanctimonious, judgmental, or whatever other unflattering labels you can think of saddling me with, just because I am threatening someone's established belief-structures. I am not suggesting that their whole life is meaningless. You may say that their whole life has culminated in their present beliefs, but what about the journey, Lia? Is the journey already at an end? Come, you have travelled very far, but suffer me to lead you up this high mountain, and I will show you the path you have traveled from a great height, and in a new and brilliant light, which will not discredit, but will tranfigure, and lend new meaning to, all which you have seen so far. I am not judging fayte or her struggles. I am venturing, from the heart, to diagnose a potential cause, and prescribe a potential cure. It is her choice to consider or ignore my amateur opinion. I am glad that lotus sees that her words were spoken in anger. The intention behind them is one thing, but the truth or falsehood of them is another. I defended her right to be angry, same as fayte's. Then I defended her right to suggest that her view is correct while another's is false (I did not voice my own opinion as to whether or not I agreed with her view). I do not think it is sad to defend anything, Lia. I repeat, Every word of anger is a cry for help. I refuse to condemn anyone for anything. I seek only to understand. You call it sad. I disagree. I think what is sad is when people refer to such uncommon attempts at understanding as "sad". You may call it an act of cruelty and abuse, when someone challenges you to question your time-honored beliefs and institutions, but I disagree. I call it an offer of opportunity, and a call to ever greater progress. Will you answer the call? Or lament that it "cruelly" asks you to do something other than follow your habitual pattens of perceiving? ~If you utter a "no" from your deepest conviction, just be careful you are not doing it merely to satisfy a primitive desire to avoid having to alter your personal habits. ~HSC "The majority of men do not think in order to know the truth, but, rather, to convince themselves that the life which they are leading, and which is both habitual and agreeable to them, is the one that coincides with the truth." - Leo Tolstoy (friend to Gandhi, and "the conscience of his time")  ~ HSC
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Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 2743 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 02:43 AM
'Zala -When I say "right" and "wrong", I am inferring no moral distinction. Therefore, I am not making a value judgement. I am speaking of "correct" and "incorrect". If anything is valued, it is objective reasoning. This whole thing began when I said that "free will" does not accord with objective reasoning. Subject it to analysis. Let us see how it stands up. But, if you would prefer to believe in free will because you value it for something other than its ability to stand up to objective analysis, then, by all means, go on believing it. But do not pretend that your belief in it is rational in the least. One says, "I choose A, rather than B". I ask, "Why", and discover that they have a reason for choosing... I inquire further, as to the cause of this reason, and discover that it too is supported by an antecedent reason, or cause.... I inquire yet further, of this latest (or earliest) cause, and am led to percieve yet another antecedent... This chain of effects recedes until it is no longer perceptible to the person making the choice; you know, the person who insists that they themselves are the sole reason for their choice. In other words, it is too absurd for an actively rational mind to countenence. So, to answer your question, I value truth, which I determine according to sound reason and a bold spirit of inquiry. If you (or anyone) feel that these are not priorities, then simply say so, and I will cease to subject you to their iron rule. But do not call yourself a lover of truth, and suggest that there is sound reason to believe in "free will". If, on the other hand, we agree that reason is a prime value, then, let us likewise agree upon the most reasonable conclusion, which is that free will categorically cannot exist, for no choice, and no thing, can exist, as it were, within a vacuum, but, that all choices, like all things, exist in relation to one another, and therefore, one cannot be the cause of one's choice without being also the cause of oneself (an absurd premise, to say the least), and one cannot be the cause of oneself without being the cause of the entire universe, of which one is an indivisible part and parcel. So, you have three options: 1. Reject the notion of "free will". 2. Reject reason. 3. Declare yourself the creator of heaven and earth. I have stated my case. I have defended my belief with clear arguments. Has anybody on this thread even bothered to offer a reason for their belief in "free will"? Or are they all content to call me a bully for suggesting that a belief, in order to be truly valid, must have reasons in support of it (even if those reasons are antagonistic to "reason", as such)? Has anyone supported their view in any other way than by asserting, essentially, their right to believe whatever they take a fancy to (i.e. their right to be unreasonable, and antagonistic to the cause of the rational pursuit of truth)? Because, while this debate has degenerated into others' emotionally motivated accusations against me, and my rational defenses of my right to value objective reasons above individual whims, the very question I wished to raise from the beginning has been entirely lost in the ensuing witchhunt. Any takers? Let's here your reasons for believing in "free will". See if you can drop the charges of "arrogance" for one moment, one post, in order to support the beliefs you hold so dear, and consider yourselves victims for having been called to account for. I dare you. I double dog dare you.   hsc
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Gooberzlostlovefound Knowflake Posts: 888 From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake Registered: Jan 2002
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posted August 07, 2006 03:00 AM
Main Entry: free will Function: noun Date: 13th century 1 : voluntary choice or decision <I do this of my own free will> 2 : freedom of humans to make choices that are not determined by prior causes or by divine intervention Do you see yourself as being seperate from the Divine? IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 2743 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 03:11 AM
Precisely; in order to have "free will" one must opperate from outside of the univeral flow - disengaged from previous causes, and estranged from the divine will.Let us subject it to scrutiny... Did you choose this or that for a reason, or for no reason at all? If for a reason, then your will was determined by a prior cause or a greater will than your own. If for no reason at all, then your will is utterly random and chaotic. In either case, I cannot see how such a will ought to be called "free". Can anyone? IP: Logged |
Gooberzlostlovefound Knowflake Posts: 888 From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake Registered: Jan 2002
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posted August 07, 2006 03:24 AM
HSC, you said:"Did you choose this or that for a reason, or for no reason at all? If for a reason, then your will was determined by a prior cause or a greater will than your own" How do you know this to be true? IP: Logged |
Mirandee Knowflake Posts: 1324 From: A Galaxy Far, Far Away Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 03:28 AM
I can give you lots of reasons for the belief in free will, HSC. But you told us that is the one thing that you are closed minded about and to talk of anything but that.  It is way too late here to get into that now but I will get back with you on my thoughts regarding free will. For one thing I can say, it is the very thing about us human beings that is unique in all of creation. It is the one thing that makes us "created in the image of God." Also something to think about. Would you want someone to love you because they had no choice? Or would you rather have that person love you because they chose to do so? If your answer is the latter rather than the former then don't you think God wants us to believe in him and love him out of our own choice rather than because we have no choice? Also I am confused about this statement in your post: quote: When I say "right" and "wrong", I am inferring no moral distinction. Therefore, I am not making a value judgement. I am speaking of "correct" and "incorrect".
Correct means "right" and incorrect means "wrong." For that reason I am confused by that statement. Please expound on that. IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 2743 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 12:29 PM
Hi Mirandee,Good point. I did say my mind was closed on this. That was premature, and foolish of me, and does not express the whole truth. If you can offer a rational justification of free will, I will certainly reopen the case. However, I find it quite impossible, and unthinkable to imagine such an argument on my own, so, I do hope, if you know of one, you will share it. The things you have taken the time to say are not based on rational arguments, but, on emotional motives. You are basically saying, "wouldn't you want this to be true?", as if that were somehow a valid argument for accepting the truth of it. You say we are unique, but you do not offer reasons for this belief. You say we are created in the image of God, but I myself interpret these words to mean that we are in the creation, which is a reflection of the Creator, and not that we are equal to the Creator in power. We may have power to create, as he does, but, our power comes from Him, and is only ours by his will. When we create, it is because he wills us to create, and when we do not create, it is because he withholds his will, or, more precisely, wills us not to create. Again, your "arguments" are all based on what you would like to believe, and what you think I would like to believe, and not on any objective reason for accepting them. I would like to believe that I myself am all powerful and all knowing. Is this a reasonable argument for accepting the truth of the statement "I am all powerful and all knowing"? Your "reasons" all fit in with a preconceived system for trying to make sense of God, and what God wants. I assure you, in the words of Roger Waters, "What God Wants, God Gets". Otherwise, it makes no sense at all to call him God. For, if somethings happen against the desires of that being which you call "God", then, there absolutely must be another order, which transcends that "God", and by which all things that happen are in collaboration with one another.  hsc
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Mirandee Knowflake Posts: 1324 From: A Galaxy Far, Far Away Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 01:11 PM
HSC, I have gone back and read your post and have reconsidered getting into a discussion with you regarding free will. It is for two reasons that I see it as pointless. 1. You have already stated that when it comes to free will it is the one thing that you have a closed mind about. 2. You presented your last post as a challenge: quote: Let's here your reasons for believing in "free will". See if you can drop the charges of "arrogance" for one moment, one post, in order to support the beliefs you hold so dear, and consider yourselves victims for having been called to account for.I dare you. I double dog dare you.
I am not going to get into a discussion with someone on a topic they have stated they have a closed mind about because it is pointless. Having a closed mind on it means that you are not open to what anyone else says about it. So what is this REALLY all about, HSC? It seems to me it is a game for you as that is the way you presented it. A game of who is more reasonable and logical and intelligent. You or us. I have not at all implied that you are arrogant but sorry, that last post and the statement that I quoted here does sound a bit arrogant to me. You are only about 26 years old, HSC. You have a lot of growing and learning yet to do. When it comes to spirituality and God it is not something you can come to know through the intellect alone. There is so much about God that you can never know or even attempt to know from the intellect. No one has the intellectual capacity to comprehend all that God is or even to know the right questions to ask ourselves. You don't really care to hear this as your mind is closed to it but I will say it anyway. The very fact that you can think about these things regarding God, that you can question the existance of free will or not, the very intellect that you have developed through studying various things is proof that you have the free will or the choice to do so. Lower animal life cannot do that. They cannot think about these things or question God's existance or make choices. That is what sets us apart from all the rest of created creatures. We can choose to learn and question, or not. We can choose to believe in God or not. We can choose to do evil or do good. God so highly esteems our free will that he does not intervene at all in our choices. He lets us mess up our lives, hurt ourselves and others, mess up the planet all through our own choices in life. He will not intervene unless he is asked by us for his help. We can reason away anything with our intellect. We can make excuses for our behavior, we can deny, we can ignore, we can hurt, we can take away the lives of others and our own life, all through our choices. For me, considering that all the evidence points to the contrary, it is not reasonable or logical to choose not to believe in free will. The fact remains even if intellectually we choose to deny it, that we all are free to make choices and we do so everyday ( I chose to get out of bed this morning for example ) and the fact remains we are all responsible for the choices we make. We are all accountable for our actions. If we hurt ourselves and others in the process, rather intentionally or not, we are still responsible and accountable for messing up and making the wrong choices that caused another and ourselves to be hurt. We are responsible and accountable for messing up our planet too by the choices we make. Every word, every action sets out a ripple onto the rest of the world either for the good of the world or for the spread of evil in the world. To me, it is totally illogical and unreasonable to NOT believe in free choice or free will when all of creation points to the contrary. All of spirituality is based on free will. However, it is a great excuse for not accepting responsibility for our actions and for not working towards being a better person and informing our conscience. That's not an attack on you nor do I feel like a victim. It is simple disagreement. You made your free choice to begin this post and you made the free choice to use the words that you posted. All of which you are responsible for, good and bad. I did likewise with this post. Our will is not the same as God's will. It doesn't even come close to it, so no, we can in no way create something out of nothing as God did when he created the universe, this planet and us. We can, by our free will, take already existing things and create something out of those. We were given the capacity of being co-creators with God in that respect which is why we can bring new life into the world. No one can claim to be a God/Goddess or the creator of heaven and earth because we cannot create something out of nothing as God can and did. IP: Logged |
Mirandee Knowflake Posts: 1324 From: A Galaxy Far, Far Away Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 01:13 PM
OOps, we posted at the same time, HSC so I see you have said you felt that it premature and foolish to say that your mind was closed on the topic of free will. Please overlook what I posted in that regard just now. Anything related about God will be of the emotions, HSC because we come to know God more through our emotions and in the heart or soul than through the mind. Actually this is a love relationship between us and God much the same, if not the same, as the love relationships we have with our partners. Anyone knows that in a love relationship emotions play a much larger part than our minds do. Did you ever read the poem, "The Hound of Heaven?" Cannot remember the author right now, Francis ( something) but that pretty much describes the way it is between us, the pursued, and God, the lover and pursuer. IP: Logged |
Mirandee Knowflake Posts: 1324 From: A Galaxy Far, Far Away Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 01:33 PM
The Hound of Heaven -- by Francis Thompson I fled Him, down the nights and down the days; I fled Him, down the arches of the years; I fled Him, down the labyrinthine ways Of my own mind; and in the mist of tears I hid from Him, and under running laughter. Up vistaed hopes I sped; And shot, precipitated, Adown Titanic glooms of chasmed fears, From those strong Feet that followed, followed after. But with unhurrying chase, And unperturbèd pace, Deliberate speed, majestic instancy, They beat - and a Voice beat More instant than the Feet - "All things betray thee, who betrayest Me." I pleaded, outlaw-wise, By many a hearted casement, curtained red, Trellised with intertwining charities; (For, though I knew His love Who followèd, Yet I was sore adread Lest, having Him, I must have naught beside.) But, if one little casement parted wide, The gust of His approach would clash it to. Fear wist not to evade as Love wist to pursue. Across the margent of the world I fled, And troubled the gold gateways of the stars, Smiting for shelter on their clangèd bars; Fretted to dulcet jars And silvern chatter the pale ports o' the moon. I said to Dawn: Be sudden - to Eve: Be soon; With thy young skiey blossoms heap me over From this tremendous Lover - Float thy vague veil about me, lest He see! I tempted all His servitors, but to find My own betrayal in their constancy, In faith to Him their fickleness to me, Their traitorous trueness, and their loyal deceit. To all swift things for swiftness did I sue; Clung to the whistling mane of every wind. But whether they swept, smoothly fleet, The long savannahs of the blue; Or whether, Thunder-driven, They clanged His chariot 'thwart a heaven, Plashy with flying lightnings round the spurn o' their feet: - Fear wist not to evade as Love wist to pursue. Still with unhurrying chase, And unperturbèd pace, Deliberate speed, majestic instancy, Came on the following Feet, And a Voice above their beat - "Naught shelters thee, who wilt not shelter Me." Now of that long pursuit Comes on at had the bruit; That Voice is round me like a bursting sea: "And is thy earth so marred, Shattered in shard on shard? Lo, all things fly thee, for thou fliest Me! Strange, piteous, futile thing! Wherfore should any set thee love apart? Seeing none but I make much of naught" (He said), "And human love needs human meriting: How hast thou merited - Of all man's clotted clay, the dingiest clot? Alack, thou knowest not How little worthy of any love thou art! Whom wilt thou find to love ignoble thee, Save Me, save only Me? All which I took from thee I did but take, Not for thy harms, But just that thou might'st seek it in My arms. All which thy child's mistake Fancies as lost, I have stored for thee at home: Rise, clasp My hand, and come." Halts by me that footfall: Is my gloom, after all, Shade of His hand, outstretched caressingly? "Ah, fondest, blindest, weakest, I am He Whom thou seekest! Thou dravest love from thee, who dravest Me." IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 6481 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted August 07, 2006 01:52 PM
It's possible for God's Will to exist alongside Free Will. If God is within each of us then it would make sense that His Will is also within us. However, Christians are quick to point out that God himself gave us Free Will, so that we might be capable of demonstrating an honest and real love. Very often the most noble things we do in life do stem from a conscious decision to do them. I think it's possible that those moments are moments of cooperation between Man's Will and God's Will. IP: Logged |
Gooberzlostlovefound Knowflake Posts: 888 From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake Registered: Jan 2002
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posted August 07, 2006 02:06 PM
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Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 2640 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 02:08 PM
The preaching profession lost a gem when AG joined the Navy  K'Z IP: Logged |
Mannu Knowflake Posts: 421 From: Registered: Mar 2006
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posted August 07, 2006 02:27 PM
I'm just taking a moment here to say that I agree with Mirandee, Lialei a lot. AG your theory rocks too. So does everyone elses here if I missed. I truly enjoy reading everyone's view point. Having no free will simply means we are all relying on a central source for the quality of our lives. And if this source is perfect, every ones life will be high quality. But if we look even with our two eyes and not the third, we see that not everyone's life is high quality. Hence free will do exist. And it clashes with free will of others. For example consider the war that goes on amongst nations (conflict of interest). You may like to sleep with me, but I won't. Clash of free will. If this other person who desires, overrules the free will of object of desire, theres a clash of free will. When it becomes extreme we call it rape. I'm not sure what other justification people need to prove existence of free will. It is giving that choice to the source , is when our free will is aligned with those of our neighbors and we experience high quality output of the choice. IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 2743 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 02:37 PM
I dont have much time, so i will just respond quickly to AG.AG, You are right to say that God's will exists in us. This is a logical inference from the point I rasied. However, to then suggest that some of what exists in us is not God, that is to miss the point entirely. We speak of many aspects of "God", and we must be careful not to confuse them. The rose is in the bud, in potential form, yes. And the rosier aspects of God are in man. But the bud is also in the rose, and, for that matter, so is the soil. Hence, the plainer, and even the "dirtier", aspects of man are also in God. I hope I expressed that clearly.  hsc IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Knowflake Posts: 734 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted August 07, 2006 02:47 PM
I should have used a different word (instead of "snarling"), something a little stronger than grumpy. Maybe "crabby." I just said that was how you were coming across, not necessarily that that is who you are or even how you actually were feeling or relating at the time. I've heard it said that women often exaggerate when proving emotional points. I'm probably guilty of that in that instance. That being said...Steve, I think you are ignorant and don't know God. * * Not really, but I thought you might benefit from feeling the "slap in the face" those powerful words deal. I agree that your point and any understanding of what your point may be was lost due to the approach. I am still interested in what your point may be, although, if I understand you correctly, I don't think I agree. And although it is true that might mean I think you are ignorant in that area, I would try not to say that to you. I prefer to hilight all the wonderful areas where you are brilliant and your best. We all have certain keys. I believe you have more than most. I also believe Fayte has more than most, although I don't necessarily believe that she and I have the same keys or that you and Fayte have the same keys. We all have a lot to share and a lot to learn. Hsc, you just give your information more freely, and take more chances at being judged or "proven" wrong. I can honestly say that you are the bravest man I have ever met, and the most spiritual. That doesn't mean that I think you were on your best behavior back there, just that I am already thoroughly convinced of your worth and I always will be, no matter your temporary actions or thoughts or feelings. *sniff* I love you, man. *sniff*
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MysticMelody Knowflake Posts: 734 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted August 07, 2006 03:25 PM
As for your point, I think I understand where you are coming from… how can we ever make the full connections required to be One, if we don’t believe we are already One? This includes any imaginary “space” between us. But once we all fully believe this, we are just back where it all started: I exist I am lonely.I think the point of “Knowing God” is for us to use this knowledge to increase our own and other’s enjoyment and peace while here, and in every stage of existence. I’m not sure if all of this means that we disagree or that we agree, but I was assuming earlier that we agree. I guess I don’t really believe the “void” is God. I just feel it is important to view it as Nothing, and to realize our connections exist through it, even as gossamer strands. I guess this means we disagree, but that is good because then we can both build a connection through this illusion/space that leads us to believe we disagree. Because We really have the same opinion, don't We?
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 6481 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted August 07, 2006 04:35 PM
In response to HSC:I think then that the question would become what use is God in our lives if he is the embodiment all good and all evil? I think it's helpful to those who call on God to think of God in terms of what is good and right. To think of God as both good and evil kind of counteracts the positive fruits of relating with God. It's not that evil has no place in teaching people lessons, but people want God for inspirational and motivational purposes I think. They want to think about, pray about, and concentrate on things of a more humane nature. I think people want to increase their own self-respect by learning how to be more loving and respectful towards people. I think people also want to grow by developing better habits (if that's not already implied in what I've said). So, I think it's certainly possible that God is in all things, but in order for God to be helpful God has to be thought of as good. IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 2743 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 07:10 PM
Mystic,See my reply to Lia on the "fayte" thread. I am so drained and stressed right now, otherwise I would respond to you in full. Maybe later. AG, I agree, we should focus on the positive aspects of God. But this doesnt mean we ought to see the negative as somehow anterior to the natural order. The value in seeing the Oneness of all things can hardly be underestimated, and can only lead us to a loving and tolerant attitude. The idea of God as Oneness is useful for this purpose. When we think that all things are not connected, we then imagine that what has happened did not need to happen; that some things could have been different than they in fact were, and that someone could have done something different that what he/she did in fact do. We do not reflect upon reasons. We do not look beneath the surface, to understand the motivations, and the reasons for why something happened the way it happened, as opposed to any other way. We begin to blame people for being what they are. This creates judgement, intolerance, prejudice, conflict, war. But, when we reflect upon the Oneness, we see ourselves as members of a single organism (the universe - or "the body of Christ"), with one spirit, and one heart. We seek to understand others. We realize that people behave as they do because of necessary laws which determine their present level of evolution. We do not expect anyone to be something other than who and what they are. We allow people to develop in their own time, and we offer helpful words of instruction, as opposed to angry condemnations. We open our hearts to everyone, and see everyone as children, beautiful, and often hurt, lost, and in need of a good example. Instead of neglecting them, writing them off, screaming at them, beating, killing, or imprisoning them, we seek to give them love; and to encourage them, by our loving example, to develop love and social awareness for themselves. As long as we see others as separate from ourselves, and as willfully ignorant or cold-hearted, we will neither desire nor be able to understand them, or to summon up the compassion for them, which is the only means of engendering love in them. Who makes enemies, MAKES enemies. Who loves and understands, makes friends and lovers even of "enemies".  hsc
------------------ 'Would you know your Lord's meaning in this thing? Know it well. Love was his meaning. Who showed it to you? Love. What did he show you? Love. Why did he show it? For love. Keep yourself therein and you shall know and understand more in the same. But you shall never know nor understand any other thing, forever.' - Julian of Norwich
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 6481 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted August 08, 2006 12:39 AM
So do you think your message has been enhanced by this experience?  Have you ever heard of Keith Green? I'm not sure if you'll like him or not. He's a sentimental favorite of mine. I play his music whenever I want to quickly demonstrate that I can play piano. He was amazing.
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Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 2743 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted August 08, 2006 01:04 AM
So do you think your message has been enhanced by this experience?Not sure what you mean. I think I am always trying out new ways to express this message, and honing my understanding of it, and my powers of expression. I am always hoping that the next thing I say will make a lightbulb go off in someone's head, and they will know what I am aiming at. I think, on account of this latest experience, I am learning to use less agressive methods. "[People often contradict a view when it is merely the manner in which it is expressed that is unsympathetic.]" - Nietzsche I'll google Keith Green. Thanks. 
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 6481 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted August 08, 2006 01:41 AM
You seem to have gotten what I mean. I meant that running up against a certain resistance can potentially be helpful in enabling you to adjust the message in order that it might be accepted easier. Perhaps that's why Jesus chose parables. Keith Green's apparently a thread killer. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 6481 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted August 11, 2006 12:30 PM
Wow! This is pretty synchronistic to me. I was absolutely astonished today to hear a Keith Green song playing in someone's parked car in a parking lot I was in this morning. At first I thought I must just be thinking it was him, because I heard him so recently, but when I listened it was definitely his song. It may have been a different singer. That's pretty amazing to me for a Christian singer who's been dead over 20 years, and who still doesn't seem all that well known in the Christian community to be playing randomly in a parking lot I happened to be in.Anyway, sorry about the bump. I just thought it was amazing. IP: Logged | |