posted December 12, 2007 03:28 PM
Peace Mannu"Thank you."
You are welcome and it is kind of you to extend excellent manners.
"And I am not sure how closely you followed the thread."
I never respond to anything that I have not followed closely.
"And I am not being defensive of what I am saying from now."
Everyone is defensive. That is the nature of the tug of war at the differentiated levels. You may not wish to be defensive, but it is occuring.
"I am not saying I am holier than thou."
I should hope not! 
"I am just amused when people say 'don't share this. don't share that.' People must be named 'don'ts'. They always learn to say no. Rarely they say yes."
First you are not amused. Amusement is something that is never condesending and it is always shared. As I have often explained to my children, it is a joke and humorous ONLY if all people involved are laughing. Otherwise it is some expression of a complex.
"Fears are society imbred."
Indeed. But living in denial and ignorance is not the cure for fear. Wisdom is the cure for fear.
"I will continue to defy logic. Logic is not everything. If I project myself as a madman so be it. And I don't care what label you give to it. Sufism, Hinduism, Christianity, Cultish, etc etc."
You are not in the process of defying logic. You are in the process of reacting. Just as most people react to their own uncertainty. It is not a lable, it is a human condition that is only cured through knowledge and the increase of knowledge.
"I didn't come with that label. The memory that your own religion or gurus put in you is making you use of those labels."
No, you did not come with a label. You came with an "essential nature" (fitra). But you do not know what that is any clearer than anyone else.
"Jesus wasn't christian. Buddha was not buddhist. The first sufi wasn't sufist LOL."
Indeed they are not. But that still doesn't mean that you know what they are.
"Everything is a natural evolution."
In the greatest sense of "time" yes. In the immediate sense of time no. All things do and will evolve toward perfection. But it is impossible for you to see that trend from a lower vision. At the lower level of vision, there are deviants and mutations that are desirable in the long run, but not in the short run. And some that culminate in a dead end.
"The wealthy teachers and temple priests didn't follow Jesus because he was preaching destroy the temple. Who wants to give up their luxury? Not those priests certainly and not the rich Roman Catholics today."
The majority of the people did not and do not follow Jesus (AS) for a variety of reasons. You simplify the issue.
"A man is born free. Society captivates him. Religion blinds him."
A man is not born free. A man is born into a family and a social structure that indoctrinates him from birth. You propose that you can see your own indocrination? Religion does not blind, ignorance blinds.
"Universe is big enough for all types of shop owners and all types of customers."
Of course it is. And, like the dung merchant who fainted from the scent of the perfume market, you may need dung to awaken you from a faint. But the idea is that one should come to appreciate the perfume and not fixate on the dung. (Hezrat Molana (Rumi), Masnavi/Mathnavi book IV story one at the end)
"Truly become what your religion teaches you."
You become whatever you decide to become, and it may or may not relate to your religion.
"Truly become that what your guru wanted you to be."
And if your guru is a dung merchant, then you will become a dung merchant.
"Truly become what you want to become, and not what society expects of you."
What you want is whatever your society expects. Your society is also your chosen guru.
"And as always the scriptures don't come with a disclaimer 'Don't follow everything literally.'
However, it does come with the instruction to seek wisdom and knowledge. That is the cure for following.
"So why must I say at the end of every sentence I share 'Don't believe everything you are made to believe'. Its not me. Its what you are made of."
You must say it because you do not live it. When you live, embody, any teaching or concept, people who are attracted to that teaching will accept it. If it is dung, then they are attracted to dung. If it is perfume, then they are attracted to perfume. What are you attracted to?
Peace and Blessings
Meili
PS I overlooked a line
"I have a habit of calling a spade a spade. If its not spade then show me that."
We have something in commone then. What would you have me show you? I can point to dung and say it is dung, and I can point to a rose and say it is a rose. I can show you any number of things. What I cannot do is prove it to you.
"Don't get lost in your own garbage."
If this is directed to "me", please point out the garbage and we will work to determine if I am lost in it.
"If its something beyond and it can't be shown then I can understand that I need to develop new eyes.
Everything can be shown, not everything can be understood. That is the heart of the problem.
"But atleast have the courage to tell me that."
I have never been accused of lack of courage
"And I can develop new eyes. If you believe it believe if you can't who cares?"
If I didn't think you had potential, I would not have posted. And everyone cares, otherwise we would not be human.