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Topic: Heart--Shaped Cross
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GypseeWind
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From: Dayton,Ohio USA
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posted August 26, 2009 12:43 PM
  
It was discussed and re-discussed and rinse, lather, repeat.
So....
We agreed on the fact that we have a very harm time with communication. I blame this on the fact that he insists on texting. Texting can be so ambigious, and after all, it is a form of short hand.
All other areas are all-systems-go if you know what I mean.
Yet, if you can't communicate....
very difficult.
He showed me his drafts, on his phone, full of messages composed to me.
He never sends them. I said, "why?" and he said, "Because I'm afraid you'll tell me to eff off." And they were beautiful notes. So I guess it is the fear of rejection.
I can't expect someone to show emotions and be fearless that way, like I am, if it doesn't come natural to them.
Cause that would, in effect, be like someone asking me NOT to show emotions. So in the end, we are what we are, and if we chose to remain close to those that are very different, then we learn acceptance.
Thank you AG, btw.IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted August 26, 2009 02:54 PM
That's interesting, because if there's one sign that can lead someone to being more open and truthful it's Sag. You guys have thicker skins than most, so usually once people realize that they'll lay it all on you.IP: Logged |
mezzoelf1
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posted August 28, 2009 11:07 AM
its been a while but hi there, Valus (feels odd calling you that)nice hair, really, not that you need any more ego massaging  someone told me once 'you think too much' which was awful because then i started thinking about thinking too much and can you think too much????! meh. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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From: Dayton,Ohio USA
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posted August 28, 2009 08:25 PM
Mezzoelf;
Someone, actually more than just one person told me the same thing!!
Thing is; I am obsessed not with a thing a person does or says, but the motivations behind it. That kind of thinking can get you so far in your head you forgot what you were originally thinking about! Oh well, would be boring if we were all the same.IP: Logged |
Valus
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posted August 31, 2009 12:08 PM
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GypseeWind
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posted August 31, 2009 02:54 PM
You can have your thread back now, Valus, I was holding your spot for ya.....IP: Logged |
Valus
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posted August 31, 2009 04:32 PM
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MyVirgoMask
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posted August 31, 2009 05:16 PM
Hope you're feeling better. IP: Logged |
Fases De La Luna
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posted August 31, 2009 06:56 PM
Seriously V, I know its a rat race & everything out there, but you take your measures at keeping this thread in the limelight to new heights. J/k. Get well soon, who else is gonna be out there instigating & getting everone's emotional undies in a knot?! IP: Logged |
future_uncertain
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posted August 31, 2009 09:27 PM
Glad you're back and feeling better. Scary shite!IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted August 31, 2009 09:40 PM
Fases, what you do with your undies is strictly your business, right? Valus never sweeps things under the rug and is not afraid to admit when he is wrong or has made a mistake. I consider that a great strength.  Oh, and this is not a joke. IP: Logged |
SunChild
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posted September 01, 2009 01:50 AM
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Fases De La Luna
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posted September 01, 2009 08:57 AM
Yin, I've already replied on the other thread in LLC 2 but since you've managed to butt in here too, I'll oblige.First of all, learn how to read. My undies weren't even in question here. Secondly, refrain from projecting onto other people, least of all, when you clearly have a unilateral scope of the English language & are unable to digest that its open to interpretation. Moreso, when no malice was meant & it came from believing that Valus would "get it". I said to V, "who else is gonna be out there instigating & getting EVERYONE's EMOTIONAL undies in a knot?!". Valus of his own admission in a thread has called himself an instigator. His posts are intentionally aimed at making people think, and he takes pride in it. Several of these posts, get everyone's emotions riled up hence the comment. Its called teasing/jesting in good spirit. AND a more personal manner of specifying what is uniquely missed about HIM rather than some generic ~ doom and gloom, come back soon ~. If you can't handle a joke, or a certain brand of wit/humour on someone else's thread, then by all means, DO shut up. Unless that person has asked you to be their knight in shining armour, do not get up in arms & argue a non existent case. No one said anything about Valus lacking in strengths or being afraid to admit he's wrong and other such gibberish. Seriously, there's a reason people are born with 2 ears and one mouth. Think on it. Chew on a chill pill while you're thinking. This is not a joke either. Valus again, I apologize for refuting crap on your thread. The irony is, from everything i read about you & deduce in terms of intellect, I believe you'd have appreciated it for the dry wit it was. Oh & not to overlook the "j/k". Anyways, get well soon. I have a newfound respect for you. Refuting 2 people who just get up in arms over imagined issues is draining, I cant imagine you tackle this on most of your posts! IP: Logged |
wheels of cheese
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posted September 01, 2009 09:24 AM
You had a point until you told Yin to shut up. Can we not be telling people to shut up please? No matter what the disagreement?
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Valus
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posted September 01, 2009 11:04 AM
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Yin
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posted September 01, 2009 11:08 AM
quote:
First of all, learn how to read. My undies weren't even in question here.
No comprende? Huh? Huh? What's this nonsence about reading and learning? I want my mom now. *runs off crying
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Secondly, refrain from projecting onto other people, least of all, when you clearly have a unilateral scope of the English language & are unable to digest that its open to interpretation.
ROTFL  Clearly you are onto me Fases. quote:
If you can't handle a joke, or a certain brand of wit/humour on someone else's thread, then by all means, DO shut up. Unless that person has asked you to be their knight in shining armour, do not get up in arms & argue a non existent case.
Oh, yes, you got me, babe! Fases, I don't appreciate your "wit" as you call it.
And last time I checked this was a free forum. So, thank you for your opinion. Now, try to appreciate mine. What happened to Valus was horrible. He is very weak and unable to set the record straight at present. This is not an attempt to set the record straight. I am just asking for a little bit of consideration. You have no idea what went down and how it happened. You are making false assumptions about things. Unfortunately I am not at liberty to be more specific. I did have an emotional response to your post. Then you had an emotional one to mine. We can go on like this forever but it would be pointless. So...  ETA. You know, I have this feeling that we will get along fairly well in real life. LOL. IP: Logged |
Fases De La Luna
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posted September 01, 2009 11:09 AM
Valid, wheels of cheese. Seeing my posts were picked for comment on both thread thanks to personal perception and subjective judgemental attitudes got to me. As you've noticed, the rest of it was a mature attempt at defense & proactive apology to the thread owner incase he misunderstood as well. In either case, I'm gonna quit visiting/posting so it ends here. We really do see the world not as it is but as we are. IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
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posted September 01, 2009 12:57 PM
s....did you take that stuff just to get the women fighting over you? ....you.... much loved...obviously... IP: Logged |
Valus
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posted September 02, 2009 02:14 PM
Gypsee,Your myspace link isnt working for me. Here's mine:
http://www.myspace.com/thapigeonhole I do have a lot of Sag, Jupiter, and 9th house energy. Honestly, I can't make heads or tails of the text-poem, and I think that's his intention. He sounds like an emotional cripple who is giving you the run-around, but you seem to understand as much, and to be far more tolerant of it than I would be. But then, I dont know the guy and what his more delicious qualities may be. Hope that helps. IP: Logged |
Valus
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posted September 02, 2009 02:16 PM
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listenstotrees
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From: Rivendell
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 02, 2009 05:48 PM
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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted September 03, 2009 02:41 PM
i don't like arguing with you.  IP: Logged |
Valus
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posted September 03, 2009 07:11 PM
who would you rather argue with? IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 4585
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 04, 2009 12:56 AM
hmmm, your in my myspace as a friend. I commented on your comments section, I dont know why it would let me do that, and you not be able to get into mine.
Zala said the same thing, but then she got in, I think she mistyped it the first time.
Try again, and let me know if there is still a problem. I have another way of giving you the info.
anyway, you look good, you feeling better?
Did you get out yet?Oh, yeah the text person is emotionally crippled, but eh, tomorrow I will hate him and then saturday I will love him, and so on. So I ain't no walk in the park either. Honestly, I don't know why I bother you with this stuff, guess cause your a Scorpio, and a man, and you'll tell the truth! IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 4585
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 04, 2009 01:02 AM
yep, i just went to your myspace and requested to be your friend, and it said, "this person is already in your friends." Maybe you don't recognize me cause I'm using my real name there.IP: Logged |
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