posted February 27, 2010 02:52 AM         

She might be attracted to dangerous situations like a moth to a flame (but ONLY when these situations are sexual). She likes being in control, but she also has a desire to lose control. Everything is highly psychological to her.. and she plays psychological games with her potential sexual partners..

Either this ^ OR.. she draws in men who play games *with* her.

My first reaction to reading the story was - "Alcohol does not paralyse.. so why couldn't she move?"

Was her drink spiked?

I could see what Ami is saying - except this girl really does not seem like someone who is easily frightened by something sexual. She's much more attracted to taboo things than typical every-day things..

Your synastry seems very sexual. I'm really not sure how this worked out as a long distance relationship.. because a huge part of it would've been sex, if you were living nearby. I'm saying that because you both have Mars/Pluto conjunctions. Her Mars/Pluto is trine your Venus. Your Mars/Pluto is sextile her Moon. Her Mars is conjunct your Moon. ALL highly sexual aspects.. Her Mars/Pluto are also square your Sun (which is a huge one for sexual attraction but it also leads to conflict and drama).

Your Venuses are in opposition, which is another attraction factor - however ultimately you desire very different things from a relationship and a partner.. The opposition is an aspect showing polarized views.. It can be attractive and repelling at the same time.

I'd say that this was a meaningful relationship.. but one that was not the *best* thing for you.
All of her Capricorn planets are on your South Node. This point is connected to past lives. You can feel a strong bond to people who have conjunctions to your SN.. but eventually you tend to move away from them because your direction in this life is the North Node (Cancer)..

(Ami - if you read this ^ I don't believe the same thing applies to you and PDF because your NN signs are the same.. so you are sort of heading in the same direction - spiritually)

S - You may have felt she was too domineering or authoritative towards you at times. She probably demanded particular changes in you (at some point) - changes you were not happy to make.. You could have easily felt impinged on by her attitude.. and your reaction was to withdraw warmth and affection.

In a nut shell.. good relationship (mainly based on your sexual similarities - throw in some emotional ones) - but not excellent! Probably ran its course imo
And you probably made the right decision.

posted February 27, 2010 03:30 AM         

I only drew conclusions from the chart. If you read about the different aspects and looked into it more yourself - you could interpret your own charts. I'm not a professional astrologer.. I've just had a look at several friends' & family's charts and also people on LL.. plus my own relationships (I've also read a lot online and in astrology books, throughout the years.. I've been interested in this since my early teens.. and I'm almost 24 now so it's been a while).

cafeastrology is a really good site for both natal and synastry interpretations:
http://www.cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html

Here is their interpretation for *her* Sun conjunct *your* South Node (which is the closest past life connection you have):

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When your Sun is conjunct your partner's South Node (therefore it is in opposition to your partner's North Node), this relationship can be revolutionary in terms of personal growth. The friendship between you is instant. In fact, you are likely to find each other very familiar even on first meeting. Your partner will quite naturally reveal your inner strengths. The caution here is that you may pull your partner into the past. You will feel safe to your partner, and he or she runs the danger of avoiding key issues he or she needs to face through North Node lessons via your association. You may not encourage each other to take on new adventures, finding it all too easy to slip into a familiar pattern. The ties that bind you, however, are very strong.

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When you read that ^ don't forget "your partner" is YOU.. and she is the one that the interpretation is addressed *to* lol

posted February 27, 2010 03:47 AM         

Probably the best known person with Mars-Pluto is Angelina Jolie.. and there were several stories floating around about the blood and the cutting goin' on with Billy Bob LOL I never checked whether he has a Mars-Pluto himself.. *shrug* I bet he does.

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I didn't pressure her into sex at all eventhough I knew that she would do what I wanted, I think this really confused her.

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