posted July 22, 2010 05:36 AM            

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I had read somewhere (maybe in Cosmic Love as well); that such an aspect points to both parties have been hurt before coming together to heal obstructions.

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This is sooo true for us! This obvious interface (being hurt in previous relationships) between us was even a trigger to meet while knowing his dream of the future couldn't keep up with mine.

Well, in an orb of 6 and me NN, or maybe it's his NN on my MOON in an orb of 2*?

Well, I'm sure Venus/NN also must play a significant role here.

It isn't so strange, because my Mars (19*) is conj. my NN (14*) and his Venus (20*), so yes, learn to trust again (both of us) regarding Love, Sex and romantic relationships, and this is the first one since a long time (also for both) that gives me that opportunity.

posted July 22, 2010 07:22 AM            

I knew from the beginning it not will be any serious between us. He also have his mars in square to my mars.

Our connection last during a year in the time his Progressed venus was in conj to my N Sun and AC.

He lied to me about how old he was. He knew if he told me the true I not will meet him. He said to me that one mess from me and he could not let me be. He tried after a while meet me again and I not wanna meet him any more. when I'm finished I am finished.

I've my antiwertex on 26 degree in gemini so maybee it is becuse that I never met anyone into longterm with venus or mars in conj to my stellium venus/NN/mars. Often I falling in love in and have a relationship if the mans venus or/and mars in trine to my venus/NN/mars.

If someones NN conj my venus/N.N they will be in the same year as me and I not feel as much special to everyone in my own year.

posted July 27, 2010 03:18 PM            

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I'm thinking about your nodal situation. And I will tell you my thoughts whether you want me to or not.

I'm wondering if part of your Node journey involves loving and submitting to life's messiness? Your Sag SN wants an overall philosophy. I know how idealistic Neptune cnj a luminary in Sag can be. It says, a friend doesn't break another friend's heart. People don't lose their faith in marriage. It says all sorts of things that are lovely, but Gemini says that all this sh1t does happen.

Makes me think your Neptune's role does involve some disappointment. Your compassionate, loving heart wants things to be a certain way for everyone's well-being. And it's constantly getting told, no such luck. People must suffer, and that will include you making others suffer at times. Your Gem NN wants your Moon-Neptune to see that this mess serves a larger purpose, and that there's inherent beauty in the ugliness.

Since Gem is a mutable mental sign and Neptune is involved, I'm thinking your Nodes want to give you situations that challenge both your ideals and your initial views. It's asking your compassionate Moon to transcend your mental constructs and see the beauty in the way things are, ways that are constantly in flux. Tall order!

Maybe?

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Janey ,
Me loves you. You know that? And I missed you. Thank you for dropping by in this thread, your input is painfully accurate. Yes, this does seem to be a theme with me, and it is usually activated in relationships. Also, it is being activated by transit (Saturn, Uranus and Jupiter all square my Moon-Neptune and Nodes). I especially feel the Uranus square. It is like I am waking up in a world I had no knowledge of, where people no longer respect the traditional relationship rules that I value, where it is OK to lie and cheat on your spouse because you feel like you found the love of your life outside the marriage. Perhaps I could understand that, what I don't understand is why perpetuate this, why not make it official, honest and true? These people don't care about changing their situation, which perplexes me. Sometimes it feels like nobody respects marriage anymore.
Oddly, the triangle situation happened with the Bull as well, though I had different transits at the time. The relationship actually started to fail once it became official and honest. Weird.

posted July 27, 2010 03:22 PM            

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Hi Izo
I felt a feeling about you and him getting closer. It hit me--out of the blue when I read your post.
I feel a blank wall about her and him.
I can't feel it.
Keep talking about it on here and if I feel other things ,I will tell you.

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posted July 27, 2010 03:27 PM            

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I went back to my homestate to visit family for Christmas (where he also lives) and at the big mall there, me and my sister saw him with a girl who was the absolute skinnier version of me. I thought I was in the twilight zone.

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BM, weird. A similar thing happened with me and the Bull during the time he was resisting me. He tried to date a girl that resembled me quite a bit. We had similar facial structure, but our facial expressions were different. I'm a bit more watery, sensitive, while she strikes sensuality in the viewer. Still, similar eye shape, nose shape, face shape, hair and eye colour.

posted July 31, 2010 06:05 PM            

Try having a man's Venus Mars conjunction on your SN under 3 degree orb and then tell me what you think love is.

It's this piece for me: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Je3KyWWW8pA

posted July 31, 2010 08:08 PM            

i am NN he is venus.
i am venus and he is venus.
i am venus and he is SN.
i am MC and he is venus and SN
i am IC and he is NN

he run from me in 07 to hook up w new GF. in 08 started talking to me again saying i was still in his energy and couldnt stop thinking of me.
in 2010 he s still w GF but we start seeing eachother again tells me i am amazing and our connection is so important blah
since 2009 i keep having psychic and recurrent dreams of which the craziest was about her walking on us [or her friends/family walking on us] while in their bedroom at their place. we only met at my house.
july 9 2010 he forgets his computer open and she reads ALL his emails and facebook.
she finds out about me.. tells him he has a month to find another place to live.
he comes to me the next day crying not bcs it was over w her but bcs ' i hurt her,im a bad person' ' i love her but im not in love w her 'etc.

when he leaves he says i ll talk to u later.

since that day he s disappeared.
im going through the same nightmare allover again ,his running and cutting off communication pushing me away w the silent treatment and i cant bring myself to contact him. i know he lives still there but she says 'single' in her website s status.
so they didnt get back together

DD, so u have another case of Nodal axis venus DW ,, i always felt i will be with him,, even in the darkest hours..but then he runs...

i love him w all my heart like i never loved anyone before actually he gave a whole new meaning to the concept of love in my life.. he always asked me about our nodes and synastry,.. he seems like he wants to learn things from me but then he cuts me off like this and puts me thru hell.

i know in my heart i can never love or want any other man equally or more..or at all probably.

if u want to take a look here s our synastry

posted July 31, 2010 08:40 PM            

Ami

posted July 31, 2010 09:04 PM            

Ami