posted November 27, 2015 09:20 AM            

I have a small group of my own friends. And I love them all dearly. I have helped them through breakups and divorces and other hard times, and they have helped me too. And when I'm in a relationship it's nice to just get away and hang out with them as a breath of fresh air.

posted November 27, 2015 12:04 PM            

I don't believe in relationships or "marriage" and here is why..

One doesn't need to "try" to become friends with someone...they just simply become friends. Even if they don't call each other it..

Same rule applies for relationships. A lot of people focus on labels and titles for their relationships, but all it does is create false expectations and obligations. You begin to lose the very person you admired and this is why so many marriages fall.

But those who know who is going to be in their life has no need to ask for or expect anything, they simply stay because they were meant to be there..

posted November 27, 2015 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
Agree 10000 percent....

I don't believe in relationships or "marriage" and here is why..

One doesn't need to "try" to become friends with someone...they just simply become friends. Even if they don't call each other it..

Same rule applies for relationships. A lot of people focus on labels and titles for their relationships, but all it does is create false expectations and obligations. You begin to lose the very person you admired and this is why so many marriages fall.

But those who know who is going to be in their life has no need to ask for or expect anything, they simply stay because they were meant to be there..

Venus Cancer, 5th house...trines Pluto 9th house..squares Moon 8th house..opposite Uranus/Neptune 11th house

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posted December 21, 2015 11:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Agree or Disagree?

Please explain why, and post your Venus - sign/house/aspects.. (and anything else you think is relevant)

Thank you

:edit: when I say "friendship" I am definitely not referring to people of the same sex as you, only.
This is not a "same sex" vs "opposite sex" question.

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Agree. I think friendship is real and has to do with freedom. I would love to have a romance with someone that is my friend! I mean, not being a friend and suddenly start a romance, no. I mean, a romance that has a lot of friendship in it?

Venus in Aquarius conjunct MC . 10th house. Opposite Mars. Sextile Jupiter in Sagittarius.
Sun in 11th house. Saturn in 11th house. Moon opposite Uranus. Uranus square ascendant? (I don't know if that's important). Mercury in Aquarius.

posted December 21, 2015 12:36 PM            

Venus in Aquarius conjunct MC . 10th house. Opposite Mars. Sextile Jupiter in Sagittarius.
Sun in 11th house. Saturn in 11th house. Moon opposite Uranus. Uranus square ascendant? (I don't know if that's important). Mercury in Aquarius.

I fall in love (not romantically) with my friends. I don't want to kiss them or anything like that but I love them like the most people I know love the person they like (in love with them).[/B][/QUOTE]

posted December 22, 2015 04:11 AM            

One could argue that friendship is more important than romantic love in the sense that it can be, or often is, more lasting than romantic love.

But it also depends on the nature of the relationship, whether it's largely sexual/emotional, or whether there's also intellectual and spiritual affinities as well. If it's the latter, combined with passion, then I'd say romantic love is without parallel.

Also, I don't know offhand of works of art or music that have been inspired by friendship, whereas the art, music, and poetry that have been inspired by romantic love throughout history is well known.

Double Leo, Venus in the 12H square Neptune.