posted April 13, 2013 03:48 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Pisces men lie until they believe themselves.

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LOL!!!!!!!!!!

posted April 15, 2013 10:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
I agree any man can have passionate sex even sensitive men...

Men in general are able to separate sex from love way more than any woman....
Any type of man can use a woman for sex.....

Now on another level my personal experience with Pisces is, more about how much he can talk and open up to someone.....
That (my opinion) means a more emotional connection than sex...
Also if he talks about his own life experiences..

I don't think Pisces open up to just any one (men in general also)
If they do, they really have trust and faith with u..

My fishy after 4 yrs opened up to me Abt his fathers, death and the effect in him...
It was really hard for him to do that... At a point, he said I'm not ready to get deeper into this. YET..

So it's a slow slow process.. Of course I said I understood and changed the subject to something lighter.

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posted April 15, 2013 10:09 AM            

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Originally posted by CatMote:
i have lots of pisces in my chart.
let me tell you. he wouldnt put in passion if he had no emotion.

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posted April 15, 2013 10:14 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
Pisces is just like any other guy if not worse.

Also the opening up thing could be selective honesty, which they are famous for. THey are very good at playing sensitive but can be real cold people. Keep your eyes and ears open first and foremost. Pisces are the best liars in the zodiac.

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That is what scares me the most... I have dated some liars and players in the past and he has admitted to being one in the past. The difference with him is that he truly cares about my feelings, whenever he needs to have some space he always checks in with me to make sure I am okay and understand. This is my first Pisces and he is so different from every man I have ever dated, in a good way, but it is also scary because its hard to tell if the feelings are real or if its just the Pisces in him.

posted April 15, 2013 10:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Snorkel:

Are you really trying to dump responsibility for what grown men choose to do with their own bodies on women who have absolutely no control whatsoever over any of that?

Can I ask you something?

How many men have you actually known? Because, trust me. The average guy won't do anything other than what they damned well please. Men aren't these infantile little sheep that can be steered around and need women to teach them what to do and how to be, and believe me, plenty of women have stated loud and clear that they aren't a fan of promiscuity or want their man to be faithful and those dudes turn right around and bed woman after woman.

You want to believe that most of them don't want to drop their trousers and screw a bunch of chicks - trust me, guys are naturally in a state of perpetual horniness. Anything they do it's because they want to, not because they're trying to live up to something. I'm talking about grown men here, not teenaged little boys who will lie about who they've slept with to impress their friends. Grown men don't care about impressing anybody they just wanna get their rocks off. Men do what they want to do, they're stubborn by nature and no matter what women tell them, the man is going to do exactly as he likes trust me lmao.

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I sure am glad that I've known enough grown men to know that you're talking about grown boys.

posted April 15, 2013 10:26 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
Pisces is just like any other guy if not worse.

Also the opening up thing could be selective honesty, which they are famous for. THey are very good at playing sensitive but can be real cold people. Keep your eyes and ears open first and foremost. Pisces are the best liars in the zodiac.

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posted April 15, 2013 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Being passionate at sex and having feelings for the other person are two totally different things.
Yes both men and women (and not all of them,of course), can have passionate sex and not have feelings for the other person that are equal to the passion they show during sex.

From your post, I sense that even if you guys have been seeing each other for 8 months, you haven't made clear if you are exclusive,and what's precisely the context of your relationship. I mean if it was clear that you two ard exclusive boyfriend-girlfriend, you wouldn't be asking us.

I know both Pisces men, that wanted sex in a relatonship etc and others that sleep around. Can you post his chart so we can also see his Venus,Mats etc ??
Judging only from his Sun sign is too general and vague IMO.

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There is a lot of passion and we are very connected. The reason we are not exclusive is because of the mother of his child and his need to keep the peace. I do not get involved with that situation, I do not give my opinion or advice but he is very open with me about what is going on, probably more than he needs to be. He has said that he can see us being in a relationship but right now, he is not in a place where he can do that.

posted February 05, 2018 10:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
I agree any man can have passionate sex even sensitive men...

Men in general are able to separate sex from love way more than any woman....
Any type of man can use a woman for sex.....

Now on another level my personal experience with Pisces is, more about how much he can talk and open up to someone.....
That (my opinion) means a more emotional connection than sex...
Also if he talks about his own life experiences..

I don't think Pisces open up to just any one (men in general also)
If they do, they really have trust and faith with u..

My fishy after 4 yrs opened up to me Abt his fathers, death and the effect in him...
It was really hard for him to do that... At a point, he said I'm not ready to get deeper into this. YET..

So it's a slow slow process.. Of course I said I understood and changed the subject to something lighter.

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My current pisces man opened up so much right off bat!

I guess because i did too...?

posted February 05, 2018 10:34 AM            

men with pisces placements (even important neptune aspects),

not exactly the type best known for passionate sex/love

it's really not in their blood

perhaps the passion comes from some other place, like aries, mars or maybe pluto/scorpio

posted February 06, 2018 08:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Radium:

We ride with our unconscious, whatever feels right is what we will do even if it's something horrible, like drinking motor oil.

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posted February 06, 2018 09:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Radium:
I'm a Pisces male.
We can be cool, we can be aloof too.
We ride with our unconscious, whatever feels right is what we will do even if it's something horrible, like drinking motor oil.

Pisces is the most intuitive sign of the zodiac so we can relate to our unconscious better which can sometimes effeminate us. Ladies love us, I haven't swept every girl of her feet obviously but girls usually understand me well and appreciate my presence. Often told I have that "dazed" look.

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posted February 08, 2018 08:58 AM            

Of course a couple of ladies were hurt because his open heartedness meant they fell quickly in love with him. This devastated him as he’d never intentionally hurt anybody but neither did he feel the need to settle down. In fact he was talking about it to me because of the disparity between what he felt was giving love and what was being experienced and misunderstood sometimes.

He’s settled down now, and, as in the past, it’s through the woman choosing him and in this case they have a child together. He’s faithful when committed.

I don’t think it’s fair to dislike men for being polygamous, maybe there’s nothing strange or unnatural about loving more than one person? Sure you can build up a better bond over time by being exclusive, and it’s good for children, but it can also stifle and squash the life out of another.

I have to have exclusivity personally and am only mentally in love with everyone. The key is absolute honesty and maybe if you are open to really listening to how a person feels they will feel safer to talk. If you think of men as aggressors, or selfish, then chances are you may miss out on finding out their sensitivities.

I love everybody and so they help me to love them by telling me why they’re lovable. It’s that way around and Pisces will live 100% in the moment and maybe not be inclined to commit, but they are soooo beautiful and kind and loving, let them be free and they will often swim back. Or, in some cases, make them feel safe and give them a consistency, they find it difficult to create that on their own sometimes.

posted February 09, 2018 02:30 PM            

I know a Virgo Venus/Mars in Libra who has reputation for being a womanizer. I don't think he ever gets emotionally attached.

His Moon sign is in Cap. I think he sees women as accessories to be used, seduced and pushed aside when their purpose is served.

Last year he married a Moon in Cancer female. She endured him for years-throughout his infidelity. The marriage has done little to curb his appetite for external excursions.

When asked why he married? His attitude is immature and insensitive with a "I owed it to her to do it". I don't think he has real feelings for his wife.

I see this ability to detach feelings from sex with Virgo Venus/Mars and Cap Venus/Mars. The air Mars/Venus types usually are the types to appear quite sexy and curious.

But they are not passionate by nature so there is a disconnect that has them being able to just blow hot/cold in bed.

Its not that they mean to, its just their nature to detach and view things from a mental point of view.

posted December 14, 2018 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Snorkel:
Every man can have passionate sex with no feelings. It's called being a guy. But if he actually hangs out with you outside of the bedroom, and you don't have to beg him to do it...he might have real feelings for you, yeah.

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So can women. Not a gender specific thing you know.

posted December 14, 2018 06:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:

Are u saying you we're in love ( truly) with every person u slept with the first time?

Yes women are also capable of having sex with out feelings, I think women will get feelings faster than men.

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my experience is that men catch feelings easier

posted December 14, 2018 06:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Snorkel:

Are you really trying to dump responsibility for what grown men choose to do with their own bodies on women who have absolutely no control whatsoever over any of that?

Can I ask you something?

How many men have you actually known? Because, trust me. The average guy won't do anything other than what they damned well please. Men aren't these infantile little sheep that can be steered around and need women to teach them what to do and how to be, and believe me, plenty of women have stated loud and clear that they aren't a fan of promiscuity or want their man to be faithful and those dudes turn right around and bed woman after woman.

You want to believe that most of them don't want to drop their trousers and screw a bunch of chicks - trust me, guys are naturally in a state of perpetual horniness. Anything they do it's because they want to, not because they're trying to live up to something. I'm talking about grown men here, not teenaged little boys who will lie about who they've slept with to impress their friends. Grown men don't care about impressing anybody they just wanna get their rocks off. Men do what they want to do, they're stubborn by nature and no matter what women tell them, the man is going to do exactly as he likes trust me lmao.

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posted December 14, 2018 06:26 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
[b]I disagree. I have four guy friends who are in their 20s and are virgins because they want to wait until marriage. They also dont watch porn, dont objectify women, and feel ashamed and angry about how other men are such pigs. So i think it's society, not biology, which shapes these men who are this way into the way that they are. Not ony do i think society lets men get away with objectifying women, but with being irresponsible in general and in finding unhealthy outlets for their emotions (alcohol/weed/anger/fighting). And I think it is a lot of what is wrong with society.

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you seem to be attracted to tge wrong type then. And you are only respectful to women in order to get with them ? is that your driving force? maybe women can sense that you're one of those "nice guys" and instinctively stay away from you ?

posted December 14, 2018 07:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I know Venus/Mars in earth/air can have sex without the emotional stuff. But fire/water differ. So it really depends on the Pisces concerned.

I know a Virgo Venus/Mars in Libra who has reputation for being a womanizer. I don't think he ever gets emotionally attached.

His Moon sign is in Cap. I think he sees women as accessories to be used, seduced and pushed aside when their purpose is served.

Last year he married a Moon in Cancer female. She endured him for years-throughout his infidelity. The marriage has done little to curb his appetite for external excursions.

When asked why he married? His attitude is immature and insensitive with a "I owed it to her to do it". I don't think he has real feelings for his wife.

I see this ability to detach feelings from sex with Virgo Venus/Mars and Cap Venus/Mars. The air Mars/Venus types usually are the types to appear quite sexy and curious.

But they are not passionate by nature so there is a disconnect that has them being able to just blow hot/cold in bed.

Its not that they mean to, its just their nature to detach and view things from a mental point of view.

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i have a cap mars and a libra venus and i do separate sex from love to an extent

i believe that there's deep intimate sex that's about reaching past the skin and really connecting to someone you love, and that's special, important, and shouldnt be taken forgranted

at the same time there's also just ******* and that's just about having fun with a friend or whatever

i dont see what one has to do with the other though