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Topic: Do Pisces Men have passionate sex even if no feelings?
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Radium
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posted December 14, 2018 10:04 PM
  
Yes . coming from a pisces maleIP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted December 15, 2018 12:58 PM
Since this is about sex I shall talk about Mars. I know a Mars/Moon in Pisces guy who couldn't even get himself up when he attempted a one-night stand. No feelings, he said.I also have Mars in Pisces. I won't sleep with anyone I've no feelings for. I've yet to experience casual sex (wanted to but couldn't do it). I can kiss a guy I don't like but I can't do sex. So if I ever sleep with someone and I'm passionate during the act, you can be assured that the passion is genuine.
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kani
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posted December 15, 2018 01:21 PM
I'm a Sun, Mars and Venus in Pisces and I can do casual sex. I of course need to be sexually attracted to the guy, but I don't have to care about his personality at all. Haven't had many thoughIP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted December 15, 2018 01:43 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Since this is about sex I shall talk about Mars. I know a Mars/Moon in Pisces guy who couldn't even get himself up when he attempted a one-night stand. No feelings, he said.I also have Mars in Pisces. I won't sleep with anyone I've no feelings for. I've yet to experience casual sex (wanted to but couldn't do it). I can kiss a guy I don't like but I can't do sex. So if I ever sleep with someone and I'm passionate during the act, you can be assured that the passion is genuine.
interesting, i'm more likely to have sex with someone i feel nothing for than kiss them not sure why IP: Logged |
kani
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posted December 15, 2018 03:38 PM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
interesting, i'm more likely to have sex with someone i feel nothing for than kiss themnot sure why
Maybe because kissig feels more intimate and emotional for you? Just a thought IP: Logged |
kani
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posted December 15, 2018 03:38 PM
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interesting, i'm more likely to have sex with someone i feel nothing for than kiss themnot sure why
Maybe because kissig feels more intimate and emotional for you? Just a thought IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted December 15, 2018 04:18 PM
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Originally posted by kani:
Maybe because kissig feels more intimate and emotional for you? Just a thought
i guess, but when ive kissed someone i dont feel anything for i havent been bothered by it it just doesnt register as anything im just not as inclined to but dont care if they do i guess is how it is IP: Logged |
capricorncheriscty
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posted December 15, 2018 04:37 PM
I have Mars in Pisces and not a man and I don't think I would have casual sex, never have and I doubt I will. I guess if the Mars in Pisces guy is really turned on and feels you are magnetized to him then he can have passionate sex with no feelings, but I don't really know. Mars in pisces has to think clearly before doing anything with action. IP: Logged |
capricorncheriscty
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posted December 15, 2018 04:40 PM
I think it should also be noted that Pisces is like a sponge. If they were to have passionate sex with no feelings, you have to make it known that you also feel the same and you truly mean it and intend it that way because then they will probably feel very uncomfortable and a bit taken advantage of. The entire ordeal needs to be clearly defined prior and not murky or pushy because it can really make them less and less turned on if not. If you start off by telling them you're really into it and them and you're ready to give it a go they'll respond similarly if they like you but then later if you do a 180 they will also backtrack out of fear of confusion and making a mess. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted December 15, 2018 05:07 PM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
interesting, i'm more likely to have sex with someone i feel nothing for than kiss themnot sure why
Like what Kani said, it depends on what you regard as intimacy. Of course I don't go around kissing random people. I need to feel attracted at least but may not have real feelings. But sex to me is the highest intimacy I give to another that's why I can't do casual. Oral sex esp... I must really really like you to do that for you. Perhaps it's my Eros in Virgo? Lol. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S
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posted December 15, 2018 10:17 PM
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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
Mars in pisces has to think clearly before doing anything with action.
Can you explain? I thought Pisces Mars would act on their feelings vs thoughts? Like they'd 'flow' into the action state vs 'consciously' do an act. IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
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posted December 15, 2018 11:06 PM
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Originally posted by kani:
Maybe because kissig feels more intimate and emotional for you? Just a thought
I wonder what placements indicate that. Because Im that way. To me kissing is VERY intimate in my opinion. ------------------
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SoulOfABird
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posted December 15, 2018 11:17 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Like what Kani said, it depends on what you regard as intimacy. Of course I don't go around kissing random people. I need to feel attracted at least but may not have real feelings. But sex to me is the highest intimacy I give to another that's why I can't do casual. Oral sex esp... I must really really like you to do that for you. Perhaps it's my Eros in Virgo? Lol.
Now what do you see as the difference between attraction and having feelings? Like by attraction do you mean you see him as just good looking?
Because for me it’s hard to say, I see a guy that is good looking I recognize he is good looking but unless he’s got that something or character traits I like then I don’t consider it an attraction.
I will like a guy and fantasize about me being with him but my feelings for him I imagine are my own illusion of what I imagine him being like, fitting more into the mold into my ideal, in my imagination. I imagine those feelings for him but it’s essentially an illusion because it isn’t real. So am I acting on feelings or attraction? I don’t know 😂
I just think Im similar to you, I definitely don’t think I can be intimidate with just anyone. I think even holding hands is intimate. I would feel odd holding hands with a guy I don’t like.
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capricorncheriscty
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posted December 15, 2018 11:20 PM
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Can you explain?I thought Pisces Mars would act on their feelings vs thoughts? Like they'd 'flow' into the action state vs 'consciously' do an act.
I don't know about that. It's true we act on our feelings more than most but we also have to sit down and think clearly for some time on an action before we implement it. It's because stuff is just so confusing to us, we don't want to get more confused so we think about it in deep thought prior. Though, it doesn't help much, since we still often make naive decisions. It is a passive Mars so we do not act as much as some should think. We tend to think and analyze before acting no matter what the feeling is saying. Then we act on the feeling.I think acting on feeling alone is more like a Venus in Pisces thing. They are prone to affairs and odd sexual relationships. Mars in Pisces is a fire/water planet getting poured in more water. Not very action oriented unless someone or something is guiding them along that way. IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
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posted December 15, 2018 11:23 PM
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Can you explain?I thought Pisces Mars would act on their feelings vs thoughts? Like they'd 'flow' into the action state vs 'consciously' do an act.
Well I don’t have a Pisces mars but Im Pisces dominant (my mars also trines neptune), so from my view I think they are not impulsive. That’s Aries mars. I think they are the type to hold back a lot before doing something. As a Pisces I find that I get nervous in different situations especially unknown ones, and I hold back a lot. I think should I say this? Should I do this? Before doing it. Because I feel reluctant to act right away and fear doing something stupid.
So I think a Pisces will be more apt to think about what will ‘feel’ right. Pisces is passive aggressive so Im bery sure mars is. Passive aggressive people aren’t upfront and as impulsive I think. ------------------
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Brenda_S
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posted December 15, 2018 11:30 PM
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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
I don't know about that. It's true we act on our feelings more than most but we also have to sit down and think clearly for some time on an action before we implement it. It's because stuff is just so confusing to us, we don't want to get more confused so we think about it in deep thought prior. Though, it doesn't help much, since we still often make naive decisions. It is a passive Mars so we do not act as much as some should think. We tend to think and analyze before acting no matter what the feeling is saying. Then we act on the feeling.I think acting on feeling alone is more like a Venus in Pisces thing. They are prone to affairs and odd sexual relationships. Mars in Pisces is a fire/water planet getting poured in more water. Not very action oriented unless someone or something is guiding them along that way.
Do you factor in much people's words as a deciding factor, or rather try to read between the lines of those words? Like if someone tells you to do something, do you consider what they actually meant based on the words they used, or rather think about the energy they portrayed while saying it if or what they actually meant? (Myself e.g. I'd use both as a deciding factor, but I specifically wanna know if you'd disregard the words altogether and just use the feelings involved - although it would probably depend on the chart as a whole this since I believe your ruling planet is Mercury if I remember well) IP: Logged |
Brenda_S
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posted December 15, 2018 11:38 PM
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Well I don’t have a Pisces mars but Im Pisces dominant (my mars also trines neptune), so from my view I think they are not impulsive. That’s Aries mars. I think they are the type to hold back a lot before doing something. As a Pisces I find that I get nervous in different situations especially unknown ones, and I hold back a lot. I think should I say this? Should I do this? Before doing it. Because I feel reluctant to act right away and fear doing something stupid.
So I think a Pisces will be more apt to think about what will ‘feel’ right. Pisces is passive aggressive so Im bery sure mars is. Passive aggressive people aren’t upfront and as impulsive I think.
You probably explained my question better than myself. I didn't necessarily mean impulsive acting. I was curious about the stuff they consciously do, if they act on it when their desire is in line with it. Like with your example, you'd say stuff to people only if your mood is at the same wavelength as either the people you want to interact with or the general vibe of the room or whatever. Like if someone is acting stuck up or something, the extra energy it would take to put up with it would probably have you say nothing? IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted December 16, 2018 02:05 AM
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Now what do you see as the difference between attraction and having feelings? Like by attraction do you mean you see him as just good looking?
Because for me it’s hard to say, I see a guy that is good looking I recognize he is good looking but unless he’s got that something or character traits I like then I don’t consider it an attraction.
I will like a guy and fantasize about me being with him but my feelings for him I imagine are my own illusion of what I imagine him being like, fitting more into the mold into my ideal, in my imagination. I imagine those feelings for him but it’s essentially an illusion because it isn’t real. So am I acting on feelings or attraction? I don’t know 😂
I just think Im similar to you, I definitely don’t think I can be intimidate with just anyone. I think even holding hands is intimate. I would feel odd holding hands with a guy I don’t like.
I can be attracted to a guy who's good looking + I may like his smile, the way he acts, etc.. but that's very shallow physical attraction. So I may kiss him if I'm feeling flirty but I won't feel emotionally attached. Now having real feelings to me is an emotional attachment...I'll miss him...I'll genuinely care for him...I'll feel like I always wanna see him. There's a guy I thought I was just physically attracted to him and I slept with him which was out of my character... then I realised that I had subconsciously already developed feelings for him. For me physical attraction may not be accompanied by real feelings. But having real feelings will be accompanied by physical attraction.
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kani
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posted December 16, 2018 03:23 AM
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Pisces is passive aggressive so Im bery sure mars is. Passive aggressive people aren’t upfront and as impulsive I think.
I'm quite impulsive actually. And never passive aggressive. But my emotions are rather complicated and confusing sometimes IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted December 16, 2018 03:29 AM
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Originally posted by kani:
I'm quite impulsive actually. And never passive aggressive. But my emotions are rather complicated and confusing sometimes
I can be impulsive if a sudden feeling overcome me... but at times I can take a long time to make a decision if my intuition isn't telling me anything. I can be passive-aggressive and be overwhelmed by sudden empathy one moment, and sudden anger the next. IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
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posted December 16, 2018 04:56 AM
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Originally posted by kani:
I'm quite impulsive actually. And never passive aggressive. But my emotions are rather complicated and confusing sometimes
Do you have mars conjunct any of your personal planets possibly? Maybe a prominent mars? Why do you feel that your emotions are complicated and confusing? I don’t know for sure how Pisces mars is. I was guessing based on what I know about Pisces. Personally I tend to be passive aggressive, but then again I also have a Libra mars. People tell me all the time (particularly the internet) that Im passive aggressive so I thought it was my Pisces placements. I honestly am not even 100% sure what that means lol ------------------
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SoulOfABird
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posted December 16, 2018 05:01 AM
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
You probably explained my question better than myself. I didn't necessarily mean impulsive acting. I was curious about the stuff they consciously do, if they act on it when their desire is in line with it. Like with your example, you'd say stuff to people only if your mood is at the same wavelength as either the people you want to interact with or the general vibe of the room or whatever. Like if someone is acting stuck up or something, the extra energy it would take to put up with it would probably have you say nothing?
I would say so. I think for me it’s also self consciousness and shyness. I think more shy people are typically less likely to act on things. Even if they desire it. Personally for me if I like a guy I never act on it. I will stay back and hope he comes to me 👀 I thought Pisces mars would be that way, very passive but maybe Libra mars is more passive? I’m not sure. ------------------
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kani
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posted December 16, 2018 05:37 AM
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Do you have mars conjunct any of your personal planets possibly? Maybe a prominent mars? Why do you feel that your emotions are complicated and confusing? I don’t know for sure how Pisces mars is. I was guessing based on what I know about Pisces. Personally I tend to be passive aggressive, but then again I also have a Libra mars. People tell me all the time (particularly the internet) that Im passive aggressive so I thought it was my Pisces placements. I honestly am not even 100% sure what that means lol
Mars conjunct Sun and MC, trine moon/asc and Uranus.
The confusing emotions part is my Neptune square a lot of my planets (annoying af) Oh and Libras can be passive aggressive A LOT! I know several Libras who are like that. My sister has a Libra Mars and she is like that as a well as a mate who is Libra sun and that's just those from the top of my head but I've noticed before that they can be passive aggressive
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kani
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posted December 16, 2018 05:39 AM
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I would say so. I think for me it’s also self consciousness and shyness. I think more shy people are typically less likely to act on things. Even if they desire it. Personally for me if I like a guy I never act on it. I will stay back and hope he comes to me 👀 I thought Pisces mars would be that way, very passive but maybe Libra mars is more passive? I’m not sure.
Also I think it can be the conditioning. Women are taught to be the ones waiting for guys to approach them, that also plays a big part. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted December 16, 2018 07:01 AM
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
I would say so. I think for me it’s also self consciousness and shyness. I think more shy people are typically less likely to act on things. Even if they desire it. Personally for me if I like a guy I never act on it. I will stay back and hope he comes to me 👀 I thought Pisces mars would be that way, very passive but maybe Libra mars is more passive? I’m not sure.
I'm like that too. I don't chase men. I'm too shy. In fact, if the one I love tells me he wants to leave me, I will tearfully say farewell, wish them well and love them all the same. *_*
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