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Topic: What Do You Get A Cancer Female For Her Birthday?
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Randall
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posted June 28, 2018 07:44 PM
  
I REALLY like that idea! If only I could make jewelry. Or draw. Just kidding! The only problem is I don't know if she likes coffee.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 29, 2018 04:23 AM
Ask her! He asked me if I drink coffee.IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted June 29, 2018 06:53 AM
Vintage jewelry (doesn't have to be expensive)
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mirage29
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posted June 29, 2018 09:36 AM
Hypatia  ... I did some more thinking about how you said I was a romantic.Yes... I think with my mind, and filter what the experience would feel like, through my Heart and sense-imagination. It's like trying on various hats or outfits, or testing different lighting and atmospheres. These differences can affect the whole mood. My Moon is in later Virgo H(9)leo…
Just a Gemmy thinker/communicator here,
with Moon sextile stellium Cancer in the 8th House of Others,
 seeking to be helpful! Also Venus Taurus in House of Romance H5
is quintile the Uranus Cancer H8-sextile-Moon. I have Jupiter Cancer conjunct Uranus. {Anyways, your comment made my day! ty} IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 29, 2018 01:26 PM
Turns out the guy I am in love with is a Capricorn, not a scorpio. I may need your advice Randall. He says he is a tough nut to crack, how do you crack it? Lol mind you we have Venus opposite Pluto with moon in the 8th at the Apex forming a tsquare in Davison.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 29, 2018 01:48 PM
My shell is still uncracked, so that is going to be tough. What works on most won't work on us. For example, you can try to make most guys jealous, and it will make them want you more, but it has the opposite effect on us. One thing we really like is loyalty. We don't trust easily, if at all. We need to know we can trust someone before we ever even get to opening up our hearts. We don't like vulnerability, yet we crave being able to be if we need to and long for the person whom we can trust enough to share that with.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 29, 2018 05:13 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
My shell is still uncracked, so that is going to be tough. What works on most won't work on us. For example, you can try to make most guys jealous, and it will make them want you more, but it has the opposite effect on us. One thing we really like is loyalty. We don't trust easily, if at all. We need to know we can trust someone before we ever even get to opening up our hearts. We don't like vulnerability, yet we crave being able to be if we need to and long for the person whom we can trust enough to share that with.
It sounds very much like him, I am working really hard to get him to trust me. I don't give up easily at all but I havent passed the test yet. Thanks. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 29, 2018 05:22 PM
I don't care if it takes me years, I will crack that nut lolIP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 29, 2018 07:11 PM
Barring something really out of the ordinary in his chart, a Cappy will steadfastly remain completely loyal, faithful, and true. It's worth the effort. IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted June 29, 2018 07:22 PM
Randall.. Have you ever been married before?IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 29, 2018 07:50 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Barring something really out of the ordinary in his chart, a Cappy will steadfastly remain completely loyal, faithful, and true. It's worth the effort.
It really is!!!! IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 29, 2018 09:36 PM
Nope, never married, and never will be, and I'm content with that.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 29, 2018 09:53 PM
Well if Uranus has a say, a lot can happen between now and never.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 29, 2018 10:00 PM
Don't I know it!IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted June 29, 2018 10:45 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Ok, so I decided to just go ahead and ask her what she wants for her birthday. I walked up to her today and said, "Hey." She said "Hey" back. We have engaged in playful banter a lot in the past few weeks, but this seemed so forced that I froze up, and I just said, "Never mind." She replied with, "Ok." She seemed disappointed. I think she may have thought I was going to ask her out and didn't.
God I love u Randall I feel like we were siblings in past lives. Im the same so I will give you an advice. Since u have zero game just like me don’t pressure urself to ask her out. If her birthday not here yet just buy her chocolate or a cake since u dont really know her. Involve the whole department this will make her day and make her feel special. Women do feel when you want to spend time with them, stop by casually start with small talk. With time u will be more comfortable talking to her then you can hang out as friends dont ever pressure urself into the dating idea. It can make u nervous and ruin the whole hang out. Just go to movies or lunch. See if u like her as a person. Then decide what to do next.
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Randall
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posted June 29, 2018 11:52 PM
I like that idea of involving the whole crew and getting a cake. There is one problem, though, in that another woman working there has a birthday on that exact same day!IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 30, 2018 08:32 AM
I suppose it would be a bad move to put both of their names on a cake?IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted June 30, 2018 12:10 PM
^ Names of both the women on the cake would not only be fine, but demonstrate that you have 'Class', and a fairness and open-heartedness. (Not a good idea to ignore the other person's birthday.. They are peers/coworkers. Possibly, the women working together may have a subtle comradery that you might not understand-- Cancer watches and is 'protective', even territorial. It's a woman-bond thing? Treat ALL the sisters correctly...
If she is a "loving" kind of person, then subconsciously she would 'notice' {fairness/unfairness}, and it would go to your extra-credit that you included "both"?) OKAY..  .. Now, this is where you can bring some distinction to the situation.
Make it a notch-more special for 'her'... During the singing, this is where you make a heart-connection with her through your gaze... It doesn't have to take long at all. From a few seconds, to a few more than that-- You can summon her! 
.. Look into her eyes with a smile in your Heart, reaching into her own Heart. She'll "know" … She'll be able to 'sense' it. The other thing too, this is where your purchase of a really thoughtfully-chosen birthday card, can distinguish to her that you are 'interested' in a way that the other person is only generically celebrated. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 30, 2018 08:07 PM
The eye gaze and card would be a good twist.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 30, 2018 08:10 PM
What do you think would be the result if I simply just wished her happy birthday and gave her nothing?IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted June 30, 2018 08:48 PM
U do not have to write names, just a cake. then to make her know that it was mostly for her give her a card when alone. Just a simple card not too emotional. trust me i know women get freaked out from emotions too soon.... i know lol not proud to know that.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 30, 2018 09:14 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
What do you think would be the result if I simply just wished her happy birthday and gave her nothing?
Cancers love it for people to make a big deal about their birthday, that stuff means a lot to them. Even if is just a card and a gift card for bed bath and beyond so she can treat herself with some creams or nice soaps. She will remember you thought of her and that is special. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 30, 2018 09:17 PM
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Originally posted by Loveher:
U do not have to write names, just a cake. then to make her know that it was mostly for her give her a card when alone. Just a simple card not too emotional. trust me i know women get freaked out from emotions too soon.... i know lol not proud to know that.
Yes keep the card simple, wish her well and say you look forward to getting to know her more. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 30, 2018 09:54 PM
I'm probably overthinking this.IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted June 30, 2018 11:14 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
What do you think would be the result if I simply just wished her happy birthday and gave her nothing?
Your local grocery store might have a bakery there.. get her a birthday cupcake (or cookie).  
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