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Topic: What Do You Get A Cancer Female For Her Birthday?
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colorful butterfly
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posted July 01, 2018 01:23 AM
  
I would appeal to her venus sign as this is the way we express our selves and what we find aesthetic.I am a cancer but my venus is in Gemini. Although I will appreciate anything given to me I would really love a planned vacation somewhere nice, barnes and noble for a book I would love, a nice party with friends, I like PDA. etc IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 01, 2018 02:04 AM
^^ I just asked my friend what the perfect gift would be for him and he said "a box of money." He has moon in cancer in the 2nd house and Venus in Leo in the 4th. I think his moon in cancer in the 2nd was the part of him that responded to this question but venus in the 4th plays into it perhaps bc of the desire for security. Actually his venus in the 4th squares uranus so it fits, there is that element of surprise of finding a hidden treasure that quenches his desire for security.I have venus in Leo in the 8th conjunct mars, and moon in the 3rd house ruling the 8th: the perfect gift for me would be to take me skydiving but part of the gift is the road trip to the destination stop were we will go sky diving (somewhere epic). After we stay at a nice hotel and have mind blowing s*x. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 01, 2018 06:49 AM
I don't know her like that. I'm just a customer. From what I do know of her, I think she's a great person. She's probably expecting a gift from me, but I don't think she will be hurt if she doesn't receive anything.IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted July 01, 2018 08:52 AM
If she's a younger girl, Randall, then, maybe it's best that you admire her from a distance. You have already stated that you are a committed Bachelor, and not interested in pursuing any kind of committed relationships. Then, don't give her a present.
It's not "sincere" if you feel 'obligated'. Have good boundaries.
Don't lead her on, nor give her any 'expectations' of a relationship outside of "just a good customer." Just give her extra-tips at her job...
if your Cancer girl is in the "food" industry?  Banter is a form of 'safe' relationship that can feel really warm. Just Smile. Wish her a happy birthday. That was a NICE experience seeing your heart flutter... 
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FireVirgo
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posted July 01, 2018 11:46 AM
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Originally posted by mirage29:
If she's a younger girl, Randall, then, maybe it's best that you admire her from a distance. You have already stated that you are a committed Bachelor, and not interested in pursuing any kind of committed relationships. Then, don't give her a present.
It's not "sincere" if you feel 'obligated'. Have good boundaries.
Don't lead her on, nor give her any 'expectations' of a relationship outside of "just a good customer." Just give her extra-tips at her job...
if your Cancer girl is in the "food" industry? Banter is a form of 'safe' relationship that can feel really warm. Just Smile. Wish her a happy birthday. That was a NICE experience seeing your heart flutter...
This is excellent advice. I too, get the idea that you are keen on her, but perhaps just enjoying the flirt. If that's as far as you want to take it, then don't get her hopes up. Giving a gift will give the wrong impression. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 01, 2018 01:18 PM
It's a restaurant but not a tipping situation. She's the manager. My heart is unfluttered. IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted July 01, 2018 02:47 PM
^ awwwwwwww  You never know what can happen with another relationship you can encounter in your future. Your heart IS still (obviously) searching for Love and an EXCELLENT fitting relationship. Don't give up on Love.
It can happen when you least expect it. Mars is retrograde right now...
Your last ~romance??, ended during a Mars retro a few years+ ago. You are stirring again.... Mars is sextile Chiron … Healing wounds.
Resolving past hurts. NEVER Give Up on finding your "True" Love,
and a Life and Business partner, Goat!!! .. {{ }} You'll be finishing your Law Degree.
On the OTHER side of having the degree,
you will start your own Practice.
Lawyers don't HAVE a lot of 'personal time'..
They are always busy. Somewhere along that career way...
You could meet an Angel for your Life. Someone who is an exquisite and exact-fit for you, within your own fields of interest.  ... IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 01, 2018 02:52 PM
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Originally posted by mirage29:
^ awwwwwwww You never know what can happen with another relationship you can encounter in your future. Your heart IS still (obviously) searching for Love and an EXCELLENT fitting relationship. Don't give up on Love.
It can happen when you least expect it. Mars is retrograde right now...
Your last ~romance??, ended during a Mars retro. Mars is sextile Chiron … Healing wounds.
Resolving past hurts. NEVER Give Up on finding your "True" Love,
and a Life and Business partner, Goat!!! .. {{ }} You'll be finishing your Law Degree.
On the OTHER side of having the degree,
you will start your own Practice. Somewhere along that way... You could meet an Angel for your Life. Someone who is an exquisite and exact-fit for you, within your own fields of interest. ...
Never give up on love. IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted July 02, 2018 05:03 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Never give up on love.
(topic) Never Give Up (scene from The Martian Child) [2:50] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W2BhUAXUgwo ..  …
 Lingering, Right around the corner.... (music) Love Is Like A Butterfly  (Dolly Parton) [2:21] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ywFx-nGZXxI IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 02, 2018 05:09 PM
That's a beautiful song. I'm going to Dollywood in December with my best friend to celebrate only having one semester left of law school. In my first law school class, the professor said: "Look to your left. Look to your right. In a year, one of these will be your best friend. The other will drop out." The girl to my right quit. The guy to my left is my best friend. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 02, 2018 05:10 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
That's a beautiful song. I'm going to Dollywood in December with my best friend to celebrate only having one semester left of law school. In my first law school class, the professor said: "Look to your left. Look to your right. In a year, one of these will be your best friend. The other will drop out." The girl to my right quit. The guy to my left is my best friend.
 One semester to go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WOW MANY MANY CONGRATS, what a huge accomplishment. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 02, 2018 05:49 PM
No, one to go after I reach December. Two to go right now.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 03, 2018 07:52 PM
Ever wonder 'bout what he's doing
How it's all turned to lies
Sometimes I think that it's better,
To never ask whyWhere there is desire, there is gonna be a flame
Where there is a flame, someone's bound to get burned
But just because it burns, doesn't mean you're gonna die
You gotta get up and try, and try, and try
Gotta get up and try, and try, and try
You gotta get up and try, and try, and try Funny how the heart can be deceiving
More than just a couple times
Why do we fall in love so easy
Even when it's not right Where there is desire, there is gonna be a flame
Where there is a flame, someone's bound to get burned
But just because it burns, doesn't mean you're gonna die
You gotta get up and try, and try, and try
Gotta get up and try, and try, and try
You… Ever worry that it might be ruined
And does it make you wanna cry
When you're out there doing what you're doing
Are you just getting by
Tell me are you just getting by, by, by Where there is desire, there is gonna be a flame
Where there is a flame, someone's bound to get burned
But just because it burns, doesn't mean you're gonna die
You gotta get up and try, and try, and try
Gotta get up and try, and try, and try You gotta get up and try, and try, and try
You gotta get up and try, and try, and try
You gotta get up and try, and try, and try
You gotta get up and try, and try, and try
You gotta get up and try, and try, and try
You gotta get up and try, and try, and try
Gotta get up and try, and try, and try
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yTCDVfMz15M ^Warning: Hot Video IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 05, 2018 02:17 PM
Similarly to how many licks it takes to get to the center of a tootsie roll pop, we shall never know. Two days and counting, but methinks there will be no gift.IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted July 05, 2018 02:30 PM
Randall... YOU are the Present! Go for it.
The skies right now might be bringing you someone special. IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted July 05, 2018 07:19 PM
Do it Randall trust me being rejected is better than thinking what if IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted July 05, 2018 07:32 PM
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Originally posted by Loveher:
Do it Randall trust me being rejected is better than thinking what if
EXACTLY!!!  Thanks Loveher! IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 05, 2018 09:10 PM
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Originally posted by Loveher:
Do it Randall trust me being rejected is better than thinking what if
"Fear is temporary, regret is forever." "The cost of not following your heart is spending the rest of your life wishing you had." IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 05, 2018 09:11 PM
"I don't regret the things I have done, I regret the things I didn't do when I had the chance."IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted July 05, 2018 09:31 PM
A bracelet.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 06, 2018 06:53 PM
I never have regrets. I make choices, and those decisions take me in a direction of growth and learning. I am who I am today because of the choices I've made, and I like who I am. So, there will be no regrets either way. There's only a choice of which path to take, and each path will be rewarding in different ways.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 06, 2018 07:51 PM
Okay then, to no regrets either way! We are all different. I always go for what I want and risk rejection, I prefer to risk it than to miss out experiencing been with someone I long for and like, I value romance a lot, we all have different values and we make decisions that support our values so we live a more meaningful life for ourselves although is never perfect and there is always some pain. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 06, 2018 09:54 PM
This thread has encompassed a lot of different things, but it all boils down to just what should I get a Cancer female for her birthday?IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted July 06, 2018 10:40 PM
Lol A card written in it “happy birthday wish you a happy year and your name” Thats it. Also I know a woman who is scorpio with cancer ascendant she helped me a lot so I bought for her a bracelet simple one cheap with nice words on it she was so happy with it Maybe this will help
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hypatia238
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posted July 06, 2018 11:11 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
This thread has encompassed a lot of different things, but it all boils down to just what should I get a Cancer female for her birthday?
Honestly a card with a cupcake like Mirage suggested would be perfect if you want to go for casual but still cute and thoughtful. IP: Logged |
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