posted July 06, 2018 11:59 PM            

So that would suit you.

You never really know a person until you get to know them personally. I checked this guys chart that I met at a party which is not my scene but it’s his and we are super compatible astrologically but we are two completely different people... so you gotta find her values, her likes/dislikes, what she’s looking for and then see if that’s something you can provide in a way that doesn’t hurt either one of your self esteem or in a way that doesn’t waste your time.

I think you shouldn’t bring anything to the office. You can bring a balloon to both of them to be polite but I think it’s your best bet if you don’t bring any gifts publicly to either of them because you don’t want any jealousy which is a new emotion I’m learning about..
And also you don’t want the girl you like to think you are just friends or are interested in being friends only. Because if you are treating her like the next female employee then maybe she’s not as special as she thought she was. Or so she thinks to herself.

I think you should get a Cancer icecream. That was a good idea.. see what she likes and go with it. Go with your gut feeling.
You both seem shy about expressing your serious feelings which have no intention on being serious at all...
I’m confused.
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If you just want to have fun, then why are you being serious? Take the risks and do whatever you feel comfortable with. Whatever you can get away with with her that you think she’ll like do. If you over analyze nothing will get done and you may over think which can be disastrous.

Just leap then think last. If you never make a decision at all it would be just as useless or nonsensical an approach. What do you have to lose?

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Tropical Sun Libra/Moon Sagittarius/Ascendant Gemini

posted July 07, 2018 12:14 AM            

Hmmm
You can do it Randall! Just be CONFIDENT! BELIEVE in yourself.
My dad told me something very good to know. I have been confident lately. Here’s some advice...
He told me a story about this man I don’t remember the details of this story... but this man had a job that he was extremely good at. He had tons of clients, everyone loved him.
Then we find out years later that he had been doing his method entirely wrong!
But what’s amazing is that he was so CONVINCED that he was doing it RIGHT that he believed and put out all of this positive energy and skill and technique that no matter how wrong he may have been, he passed every test and became successful.

I definitely fudged that story and told it in in my opinion a way that could’ve better Better. Self depricating self talk. Something I do a lot.
But Randall you’re capable of SO MUCH. And even if you are not no one knows it. And if they know, you can still improve. And if they don’t know, it doesn’t matter.
Whatever it is, you have nothing to prove to anyone but yourself and your opinion is the only opinion that should matter. People are temporary and selfish and never to be placed on an importance higher than yourself which you are well aware of as you have no intention on having children.
Trust me I am stunned too on the sacrificial antidotes parents do. Love is powerful but can be down right stupid...

Sorry I was rambling. Hahaha...

posted July 07, 2018 01:33 AM            

I first thought cookbook. But now I think a muffin (or cupcake).

posted July 08, 2018 08:43 PM              

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Originally posted by Randall:
We are not at the cuddling stage yet. I would merely say we are acquaintances on the cusp of friendship.

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posted July 08, 2018 08:59 PM              

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Originally posted by Radium:
Ask her if she spits or swallows

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