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Topic: What Do You Get A Cancer Female For Her Birthday?
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FireVirgo Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Mar 2018
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posted June 22, 2018 08:59 PM
Good luck!! I don’t think any of us were going to be happy if you just let it go that easy  IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Knowflake Posts: 4650 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 22, 2018 09:02 PM
Good Luck Randall  IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Knowflake Posts: 4650 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 22, 2018 09:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by mirage29: Ohhhh. That's really sad. So, you've made the mental decision to split from her, and not follow your heart to pursue a relationship-- otherwise, you wouldn't be referring to her with ref of 'ex' energy.Does she work at a coffee shop, restaurant? Yeh… So.... Maybe you're right..... ? You could just 'do both of you a favor' by finding another place to go... You know-- until the Cancer energy is finished near end of next month, or, until Mars finishes its influence to your Venus... November 1. *eek* By then, let's see.... you'll be all into your studies-- nose to grindstone, into that last year of Law School. Too Busy... won't be having Memories of a Summer of Love come up to disturb your concentration... *sigh*. Then, ... Be spending your Thanksgiving and Christmas alone with your family, your Mom? *Wink* .. So. Is that what you want? By Christmas, Saturn will return to its point of retrograde, then move on to newer ground and territories. If you fell in love now, there might be some good Venus transits coming for your future? But then -- it could apply to your love of Law too. Really up to you.... Adventure?? Memories?? Roasting Chestnuts on the Open Fire (music) Just Waiting on a Friend (Rolling Stones) [4:42] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w4J7pnfDJxo
LOL mirage Christmas talk already hehe IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 10031 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted June 22, 2018 09:15 PM
(music) Chanson d´Amour (Gabriel Faure, Lucija Varsic mezzo-soprano, en francais ~~ Romantic *grin*) [2:17] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5-9kDWco0Dc IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 10031 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted June 22, 2018 09:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by ariesdragon: LOL mirage Christmas talk already hehe
LL's Christmas Countdown Clock - http://www.xmasclock.com/ (music) Santa Baby (Eartha Kitt, Marilyn Monroe) [3:08] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGqvnwRMX0c ref. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum23/HTML/000634.html
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 9472 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 22, 2018 11:54 PM
Randall for the looooooove of God all mighty ask the woman out!!!!!! You are killing me here LOLJust do it! No risk, no gain! IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 9472 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 22, 2018 11:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by FireVirgo: Good luck!! I don’t think any of us were going to be happy if you just let it go that easy 
Venus in leo in the 8th think alike and your moon in aries is like just do it right now. I love that about moon Aries, they take what they want period. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 98059 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 22, 2018 11:59 PM
My only goal is to fix it, so she can no longer feel uncomfortable at work, and we can be cordial to one another. If it gets smoothed over so we get back to the banter, that would be great, but I don't expect it. I just now wrote a really long message to her on Facebook. It was witty yet also from the heart. It's out of my hands now. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 9472 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 23, 2018 12:03 AM
^Awwwwwwwwwwww Randall, that is a good move.IP: Logged |
FireVirgo Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Mar 2018
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posted June 23, 2018 12:34 AM
Randall, if it was from the heart, I’m sure she will respond positively! quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Venus in leo in the 8th think alike and your moon in aries is like just do it right now.I love that about moon Aries, they take what they want period.
I’m glad somebody gets me! I’ve been reading this thread the whole time thinking, “argh, give me her number, I will text her FOR you” - haha! IP: Logged |
Radium Knowflake Posts: 468 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted June 23, 2018 12:36 AM
we don't love these thots randallIP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 98059 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 23, 2018 10:40 AM
She hasn't responded yet. A lot was said, so she probably wants to reply in depth and needs time to craft it. But a short answer in the meantime would have been nice.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 98059 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 23, 2018 05:15 PM
I'm thinking she won't literally respond. The best answer is a change in behavior.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 98059 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 23, 2018 05:16 PM
I'm thinking she won't literally respond. The best answer is a change in behavior.IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 10031 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted June 23, 2018 05:36 PM
This reminds me how our struggles can be just as much an inner-wrestling, as they are outer. Believe ... Balance. Bridling the inner-self. (music) I've Got My Eyes On You (Princess Jasmin, Disney) [2:24] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B5f0hCerSsU (music) Ballad of the Absent Mare (Leonard Cohen) [6:15] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vbFOiIKVmRA You Be Okay.. IP: Logged |
FireVirgo Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Mar 2018
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posted June 23, 2018 05:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: I'm thinking she won't literally respond. The best answer is a change in behavior.
I don’t have FB. Does it tell you if someone has read your message? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 98059 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 23, 2018 06:51 PM
No, but she should have received a notification on her phone, so I can't imagine her not having read it. I did the right thing, no matter the result. One of us had to swallow our pride. It was all just a misunderstanding. I understand how she would feel slighted over it. Her feelings matter. I told her what I wanted to ask her that day. I didn't presume to know what she was thinking the question was. I apologized for being stubborn. I just wanted to let her know what was going on in my mind, as opposed to her having to guess. I haven't been back to see her yet, though. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4247 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 23, 2018 07:04 PM
Maybe things will change. It's possible she hasn't read it because some people get so many text messages they completely turn off the notification for the text ringers volume.  IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 98059 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 23, 2018 11:26 PM
She said nothing was wrong. She said if she was upset, it was because of work, and if she didn't speak to me, it was because she didn't see me. I pointed out where she looked right at me, but I shrugged it off and just said I'm glad we're good. Opinions?IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 10031 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted June 23, 2018 11:54 PM
Trust her. Believe what she says.  Congratulations on approaching her and having an honest discussion.And, it is possible for a person to appear to be looking right at something, and not to have the awareness there.. on the thing in front of their eyes. Some people are thinking really deep and seeing the pictures in the back of their minds-- missing the direct focused awareness of what's in front of them. In plain sight
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FireVirgo Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Mar 2018
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posted June 24, 2018 12:59 AM
She replied: Yay! The only thing you can do is take her words at face value. At least you are chatting again; and next time you see her it will be less awkward.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 98059 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 24, 2018 03:33 AM
Yep, mission accomplished!IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 98059 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 24, 2018 06:29 PM
She sent me a very happy message this morning telling me it's all good and that she will see me the next time I come in. I was working on a Motion for school and didn't go there today. I suspect that everything will be back to normal tomorrow when I do see her. However, I will not be buying a birthday gift. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 98059 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 25, 2018 01:43 PM
I've been staying home working on my paper for school, so I haven't been back to see her.IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 10031 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted June 25, 2018 01:51 PM
Absence... makes the Heart grow fonder? LOLIP: Logged |