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posted December 02, 2010 07:00 PM            

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I don't see any posts from him asking, and he's a friend of mine on Facebook. I logged on a little while ago, to find out that he was banned. So, what gives?

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posted December 02, 2010 07:02 PM            

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Must've been a private issue then, between him and the Webmaster, because I didn't see anything around about it, at all...

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posted December 02, 2010 07:08 PM            

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Thanks. He was wondering why he was banned, as well, considering he hadn't posted anything offensive, other than one of his usual teasing interactions with Ami.

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posted December 02, 2010 07:54 PM            

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It's a private matter between he and I, and yes, he knows why.

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posted December 02, 2010 07:59 PM            

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I was not involved in the private issues. I can just say "I wish he would bug me some more"

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posted December 02, 2010 08:11 PM            

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Why, Ami? So you can be accepted by someone who tells you to "grow a pair" when you wish him a happy birthday?

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posted December 02, 2010 08:26 PM            

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Before that, you should please explain to me and all the women out there reading this thread, why women should accept crude and cruel remarks from male friends...

Under what circumstances is it ok for a man to degrade a woman, especially in public?

I would like to know that, honestly, Ami.

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posted December 02, 2010 08:39 PM            

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I love him. I can't help it. I do.

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posted December 02, 2010 08:52 PM            

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Well, if I can be so bold, having much experience in the abuse arena to draw from, what you're experiencing right now is not love...

It is an unhealthy addiction to something/someone that is hurting and degrading you...

No one deserves to be treated this poorly in public. No one.

I don't care if that person is as crazy as they come in the old folks home... everyone deserves to be treated with decency.

Please do not hurt yourself anymore, in confusing what LOVE is with what Abuse is...

Abuse is abuse is ABUSE.

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posted December 02, 2010 09:06 PM            

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There are 6 billion fish in the sea. Likely one handsome fish who doesn't have an appetite for degrading women in public, might swim this way, and would be worth catching?

Otherwise, these ones who "talk smack" should get thrown back into the water... to find their silly way onto the next LUCKY woman.

And, Ami, I know these things don't happen over night, but I felt it was my responsibility as someone who really feels like a "internet friend" to you, to say something.

The way he's speaking to you is wrong. Why give your heart to someone who's going to smash it, AND enjoy smashing it?

I'm done, though. I don't want to exploit you any further.

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posted December 02, 2010 09:17 PM            

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and political correctness wins;

luckily, the end of the world is near

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posted December 02, 2010 09:19 PM            

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and yes, of course, I think women should be publically verbally abused...

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posted December 02, 2010 09:20 PM            

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I know you LOVE me, PS.
I will come back and write, tomorrow.
It has been a loooooooong day, Girlfriend, very long.
I LOVE YOU

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posted December 02, 2010 09:20 PM            

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may be the end of the world is when everyone knows better how others should live their lives but have no clues about their own

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posted December 02, 2010 09:23 PM            

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Dear Pire
With all due respect, I have NO idea what you are talking about

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posted December 02, 2010 09:28 PM            

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strangely, that is an 8th house matter in my view

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posted December 02, 2010 09:32 PM            

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Pire,

and yes, of course, I think women should be publically verbally abused...

Well, I disagree, because I don't trust the ones who will be making the lables of "politically correct" and "politically incorrect" when it comes to justifying degrading language in public forums.

Instead, I think it is safe to say anyone who publically degrades another is wrong, no matter the circumstances.

Even I have to be accountable.

And, yes, thankfully the end of the world is near, and for me, this means Jesus is on his way to set things right

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posted December 02, 2010 09:36 PM            

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Maybe, I can explain,tomorrow. I am very shaky, tonight.

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posted December 02, 2010 09:36 PM            

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dp

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posted December 02, 2010 09:37 PM            

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safe/politically correct

choose the word you prefer

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posted December 02, 2010 09:38 PM            

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No, I meant "safe" in a sort of watered-down sense of "RIGHT"...

I think it's RIGHT to say that anyone who degrades another is WRONG, no matter the circumstances.

No politics involved. Just straight across the board.

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posted December 02, 2010 09:40 PM            

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and I think it RIGHT to say that political correctness is WRONG

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posted December 02, 2010 09:41 PM            

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Well, you're after all arguing for freedom of Verbal abuse.

Good for you.

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posted December 02, 2010 09:44 PM            

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I am mentioning freedom of not being politically correct, you are mentioning verbal abuse.

and you imply that I applause verbal abuse.

see, but I don't mind, since I am the one who ask for freedom.

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and if I had the balls, I'd say you need to grow (up, not balls)

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posted December 02, 2010 09:48 PM            

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Pire
I don't know if PS gets where you are coming from but I cannot follow you at all

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