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Topic: Pathological Liars
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LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9745
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 12, 2011 09:36 AM
  
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Originally posted by Mblake81:
Maybe I am just struggling on the other side of an abyss here, lexx.
It is where you're at in this point of time.
Do as you feel right for you.
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Originally posted by LEXX:
I chose to stick to honesty or keep my mouth shut.
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Originally posted by Mblake81:
Same with me. But I have made many mistakes, and still do. Probably will in the future for sure.
Very good!
That is an honest statement!  IP: Logged |
Mblake81
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posted February 12, 2011 09:39 AM
Just so you know, I have experience the life you are talking about, and the other side.This is new, It just sounds normal because that is all I know how to use. I am not "confused" about where I am. Note: Saying this is "new" is more or less a lie in itself. IP: Logged |
LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9745
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 12, 2011 09:40 AM
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Originally posted by Mblake81:
Just so you know, I have experience the life you are talking about, and the other side.This is new, It just sounds normal because that is all I know how to use. I am not "confused" about where I am.
Knowing yourself and your motives is good!IP: Logged |
rajji
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posted February 12, 2011 09:44 AM
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Originally posted by LEXX:I chose to stick to honesty or keep my mouth shut.
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me too!Ignoring the concerned topic is what i do in order to avoid telling a lie.
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rajji
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posted February 12, 2011 09:55 AM
Hey..this is the first time my quote message seemed to work!
did i do that and wonder how??
im having a big time u know putting my own dotted lines to make it look like a quote. 
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LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9745
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 12, 2011 09:56 AM
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Originally posted by rajji:
Hey..this is the first time my quote message seemed to work!
did i do that and wonder how??
im having a big time u know putting my own dotted lines to make it look like a quote.
I fixed it for you. 
Just use the quote button on the bar above the post from the person you desire to quote.Been fixing Mblake81's quoting errors too. IP: Logged |
rajji
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posted February 12, 2011 10:07 AM
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Originally posted by LEXX quoting rajji:
quote:
Originally posted by rajji:
Hey..this is the first time my quote message seemed to work!
did i do that and wonder how??
im having a big time u know putting my own dotted lines to make it look like a quote.
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LEXX reply to rajji:
I fixed it for you.
Just use the quote button on the bar above the post from the person you desire to quote.Been fixing Mblake81's quoting errors too.
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rajji reply to LEXX:
oh my!
sooo sweeet of U LEXXX!
U dont have to take that trouble dear...
we will be fine one day.
ive been using the quote button but it just dosent work for me and probably for blake too! LOL
PS.I (LEXX} fixed this post. IP: Logged |
LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9745
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 12, 2011 10:25 AM
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Originally posted by rajji:
oh my!
sooo sweeet of U LEXXX!
U dont have to take that trouble dear...
we will be fine one day.
ive been using the quote button but it just dosent work for me and probably for blake too! LOL
No problem!
It takes time to figure it out.
I think the trouble might be when you are trying to quote a person who is already quoting another.
I will make my next "test" post for you to quote using the quote button.Also signature lines are done under your profile edit function. IP: Logged |
LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9745
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 12, 2011 10:26 AM
rajji
This is a test for you to quote this post.
Click on the quote icon on the bar above this post.  IP: Logged |
rajji
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posted February 12, 2011 10:29 AM
after clicking quote what do i do lexx?
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rajji
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posted February 12, 2011 10:36 AM
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Originally posted by LEXX:
rajji
This is a test for you to quote this post.
Click on the quote icon on the bar above this post.
ill try... IP: Logged |
LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9745
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 12, 2011 10:37 AM
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Originally posted by rajji:
after clicking quote what do i do lexx?
You then type your message if you want to type anything.Either way, just hit submit reply below.
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rajji
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posted February 12, 2011 10:38 AM
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Originally posted by LEXX:
rajji
This is a test for you to quote this post.
Click on the quote icon on the bar above this post.
yes i clicked
this is cool...i need to practise it...
thanks lexx... 
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LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9745
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 12, 2011 10:38 AM
Yaaaay!!!!!!!!!!!!
You did it!  IP: Logged |
rajji
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posted February 12, 2011 10:42 AM
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Originally posted by LEXX:
Yaaaay!!!!!!!!!!!!
You did it!
Hip hip hurrah!! IP: Logged |
rajji
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posted February 12, 2011 10:45 AM
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Originally posted by LEXX:
It takes time to figure it out.
I think the trouble might be when you are trying to quote a person who is already quoting another.
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ill have to learn that too... IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 67856
From: Saturn next to Charmaine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 12, 2011 10:48 AM
I like new toys (like the quote button).------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9745
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 12, 2011 10:54 AM
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Originally posted by Randall:
I like new toys (like the quote button).
Me too, but quoting someone already quoting is a mess.The quote in brackets have to be added to each persons' words and the bolded needs redone to look right, or eliminated. Like rajji quoting me in the post before yours.
The [/b] looks out of place because it being only a partial quote;
the [b] at beginning was eliminated. IP: Logged |
rajji
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posted February 12, 2011 11:06 AM
I just cant grasp it....ill need some time to understand it first lexx...IP: Logged |
LEXX
Knowflake Posts: 9745
From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 12, 2011 11:48 AM
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Originally posted by rajji:
I just cant grasp it....ill need some time to understand it first lexx...
Well you have the quote button figured out!  IP: Logged |
Mblake81
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posted February 12, 2011 11:51 AM
"As per the severity of the situation
lies become a big deal otherwise if it brings joy to others nobody would care.A lie can work in both ways constructive and destructive."
That is more or less what I noticed happening, And I choose to go a different route than what everyone seemed to recommend.
I was aiming for complete removal. When I began work on this, It became obvious, that it is tied to many things in human life. I do wonder if I am even on the same page as the rest of you. Or is there even such a thing as "Page" IP: Logged |
Mblake81
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posted February 12, 2011 12:21 PM
If I make someone happy due to a lie, what does that do to me in return?Guys listen, I am not saying there is no shade of grey here, People live in this are, wallow in it. I am trying to explain that all those things, Failed for me. I was forced, by self induced pressure, to grow out. You see, I put MYSELF in check. It is constant work because "lies" are not the only thing I am actively trying to remove from my psyche. Ideas are like life, You can not expect to "rip" something out, then expect good things to follow. IF you remove, you must replace, what you replace, must work better than what you replaced. IP: Logged |
BearsArcher
Moderator Posts: 731
From: Arizona with Bear the Leo
Registered: Apr 2010
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posted February 12, 2011 12:38 PM
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Originally posted by TrueTaurus:
[B I meant that a lie in the case where it will do no good, such as when a person is on the verge of death, is something to consider. Which is of the exception for me, but I think other lies are unacceptable. [/B]
Before I read the rest of the comments, I do have something to add. TrueTaurus, I agree with you. Why bring the pain and the shame on a dying person concerning the knowledge one may have about their husband cheating on them in the past? The person does not need that pain to carry them through the death process as they are already dealing with other issues / pain. As far as Karma- is it OUR karma to tell everyone everything we know? I have information about people that others have confided in me, is it MY duty to inform them in order to inflict pain? If it is something dangerous or could cause harm, yet, I would tell but in the same respect, it may not be my place to tell everyone, everything that I know. I am of the belief that some to tell others things that are hurtful (because of the knowledged they gained) not because they feel it is their duty to "inform" but to stir the pot and cause trouble. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Knowflake Posts: 6354
From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street..
Registered: May 2009
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posted February 12, 2011 12:51 PM
Lexx, you said (I should practice the quote button right now, but I'm in a hurry  ) that you would rather tell the truth, or keep your mouth shut.
Mostly, I feel the same way, but I wonder in certain situations.. for ex.If someone posts a pic, and they ask you, "do you think my child is cute?"
"Do you think I am pretty?"
"Do you think I am fat/skinny/whatever?" See, the operative word there is THINK.
Because, even if we, as in the you and me's of the world, who would rather go about our business, keeping our mouths shut, we are probably still 'thinking' the answer right? And there again, our particular 'thought' on these sorts of things is entirely subjective..
so for me,
that's where lying and not lying DOES include shades of gray. There is just nothing darn wrong with manners, is what I say.
Generally, a person inherently knows the truth about these sorts of things..
that's my thought on it. IP: Logged |
Mblake81
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posted February 12, 2011 12:56 PM
I would say your karma is what your conscious says it is.But that is from my view, I do not have some of the things bogging me down, that you guys are expressing, so my "idea" of conscious may be wildly different from yours. I ran for an absolute, even though I may never have it. IP: Logged |
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