posted November 10, 2010 01:32 PM              

good advise yin. .

posted November 10, 2010 01:35 PM              

You don't know what you're talking about,
and you're WAY out of line with your assumptions.

Yin is one of the happiest, most loved women
you've had the opportunity to know.

She's also a lot stronger
than any of you give her credit for.

The only ones abusing her
are a bunch of women on the internet
who don't know sh!t about her,
or how happy we are together.

There's some f*cking irony for you.

Now drop it. Please.

Take a breath, count to ten,
and go mind your own business.

posted November 10, 2010 01:36 PM              

personal relationships should be just that, personal. perhaps if you and v kept your relationship private and just between the two of you, you wouldn't have people meddling and uspetting you.

posted November 10, 2010 01:41 PM            

Arghhh. cpn! Jesus. Stop it!

I don't know what else to say.

I'll say a prayer then.

posted November 10, 2010 01:54 PM            

And how I have dropped what he brought up and you just brought up again in this thread? It was already brought up in that thread, you asked me to drop and move on, why bring things up again. You asked me kindly to move on, which in reality I had but was just being a goof in that thread and didnt think it would cause such an offense. My humor often doesnt go over as intended (just to bring some laughter to the moment) with certain people, I will remember this now. So, please show me the same courtesy and not bring things up again, that you asked me to drop. Thank you.

I'd rather not take either of your baits today and respect your wishes to discontinue communications altogether on the forum with you two.

Also, maybe you could be so kind as to make the exact same suggestions to your boyfriend, as you did to me in that thread for what he is now trying to do here:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum17/HTML/002282.html

I am respecting him and staying out of his threads and no longer bringing anything about him or the past up, from here on out. It started the other day when you nicely asked me to in that first thread. I'd like it if it went both ways, from you and he. And if you are going to reprimand me, please do the same when he is instigating.

posted November 10, 2010 01:59 PM            

I had to explain why I was reacting this way. Maybe I should have said something 3 days ago, my bad I didn't. It obviously bothered me a great deal and I just couldn't walk away like I wanted to. I tried for as long as I could.

You are right.

posted November 10, 2010 01:59 PM            

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MVM, thank you for sharing. I can relate to everything you said. Yes, it does get extremely draining. In the long run though, after some time has passed and you grow and learn from it, it makes you stronger, doesnt it...

Spanky, thanks for more wise works.
Love that quote!

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posted November 10, 2010 02:21 PM            

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This thread has alluded to Valus a long time BEFORE he posted. Three times. By T, Zala and Charm. THAT'S MY PERSONAL LIFE.

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posted November 10, 2010 02:24 PM            

Zala, it will take too much energy to explain what I meant PLUS I will honor my agreement with T here. Explaining myself will just bring on more problems. And no, talking about YOUR relationship has nothing to do with Valus.

I am sorry about the misunderstanding. I have no problem if you decide to blame me for misunderstanding you.

posted November 10, 2010 03:13 PM            

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies with in us."
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

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posted November 10, 2010 03:54 PM            

I have really enjoyed reading this post. The storys,support. All around openness of it all. Really fantastic topic to be brought up. I find my self reading more then posting on LL. But Eh. I just wanted to say from a guys point of view or mans or boys witch ever Ref u would like to go by. Witch to be honest my sex dose not matter when it comes to posting. Yet any how there is lots of info that can be tooken from this post and the people supporting it.

I don't get why I stumble up on a comment adding negativity with it's sexist thread? I could have swore it said woman support. Even so just shows you will have that one broken chip in each bag of chips. You know the one that gets the crums all over from being broken up and just better to toss the bag away once you get to the bottom insted of trying to swallow that last little bit. Just a mess.

Then it gose on... Still about the sexist..
I did not see where she had said any thing about it being only physical abuse at the shelters. I would think it's both. Just assuming that it's one and not the other is showing a clouded view on the topic.

I swear it's like your fapping all over this post. Clearly you feel left out of the topic. So I am sure it could be amended to say woman/val support?

As for yin's wonderful post of rage and well umm don't know but high 5!! For such words and you taking a stand like that you must be a strong woman in real Lief. I don't see any one treading on you if you stick to your guns like that. As for the manner of witch he was requested to stop posting it was very direct clearly she saw how the topic it self was being smeared by the direction he was wishing to take it.
Also don't throw up on the key board... Others may have to use it. It would make it all sticky and no one likes sticky key board. Am I right guys? Huh? Huh? Ahhh you get me.

In all fairness tho was he not targeting the poster? I notice that he uses peace at the end of his reply. Why dose it seem as tho it's like a calling card or a way to express "Hay! I was here and this is my mark" just a observation.

Mind if I ask where he was brought in to this? Long before he had infact posted? I just would like that to be clear. Or is there some other post that is directing him to come to this one or stating THIS THREAD IS ABOUT VAL sorry for caps.. Did not feel like putting quotes around it. Just to be clear I was not shouting.

Oh well that is my rant my few thoughts and bits of what ever like to call it.

Liked the thread until it took a turn for the worse and became a Val/yin thread.

Support for all and feel people should practice what they preach.