posted October 16, 2012 01:23 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
here's why the bad boy bullsh*t ****** nice guys off so much and why we become bitter and cynical towards women. first off we are constantly told our flaws and given reasons why we are unsuccessful with women,the main excuse being that we lack confidence( I hate that f*cking word!). What these women fail to realize is that guys like me might be more confident if we were actually appreciated by women, i'd be confident as hell if I knew women were attracted to decent guys, but the majority aren't! and the real kicker to all this is the fact that women give unabashed love and support to guys who are criminals, druggies, abusers, liars, and cheaters. but yet a guy who has tons of good qualities is rejected because he isn't confident with women. pssh! confidence!!! what a crock of sh*t!!

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posted October 16, 2012 02:25 PM            

The same goes for many( not all) woman who say one thing but do another.

Discerning this kind of thing is what makes one mature or immature.

I was wishing I was taught these things as a child and did not have to have such a hard time learning them, now.

The Bible says to be as wise as serpents, gentle as doves.

Wisdom is accepting what it, not what you wish was.

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posted October 16, 2012 02:42 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
ami, I now realize the way things really are, I just wish they were different.

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YEP, me too. I have my website and I have gotten SO much jealousy from people who think I am trying to be "big". I am not. I am just trying to do what I feel I am supposed to use my God given talents for God and to help people.

The most "spiritual" ones are the worst.

I don't trust people like I used to. I think it is wisdom and maturity *sigh*

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posted October 16, 2012 04:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:

Not all bad boys join gangs. Many of them join bands lol. And don't aim guns at people or anything of the sort. They're just extremely self-destructive.

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I was just accosted this past Sunday by two of those idiots at Washington Square Park in NYC. I was parked by the park so that I could feed my boys some hotdogs.

Two of these band-bozos asked me for my hotdogs. They were high as a kite on drugs and were unkempt. OK. So it was my mistake to park at Freak Show Central, but I figured a park is appropriate to feed my boys some damn hotdogs and fries.

I gave them five bucks because I felt sorry, plus they were getting that f-ing Occupy Wall Street mentality on while looking at my Whip. Like look, f my whip alright. It's wheels. If you attended NYU instead of punking around with those guitars, maybe you'll get yourself some cool wheels too. Whatever.

Five bucks was not good enough. Now they were screaming at me over two hotdogs. Saying that I'm cold. Like F YOU man losers, trying to take food away from my 7 year old. How proud you must be. If you are do hungry, why do you smell like f-ing booze and weed, sh1t a$$ mofos?? Mistake to give sympathy. Next time I just shove my middle finger.

By this time, two NYPD had taken notice and a squad car drove over to ask me if I wanted to press charges. No man. I'm just chillin' and minding my own f-ing business. Just get these punks off my @$$ and let my kid eat their f-ing hotdogs.

What do you think? Conservative types are pushovers? Get the F outta my face, punk-@$$ puke losers. Bad guys can kiss my @$$. Forget that. I don't want HPV.

posted October 16, 2012 04:39 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I was just accosted this past Sunday by two of those idiots at Washington Square Park in NYC. I was parked by the park so that I could feed my boys some hotdogs.

Two of these band-bozos asked me for my hotdogs. They were high as a kite on drugs and were unkempt. OK. So it was my mistake to park at Freak Show Central, but I figured a park is appropriate to feed my boys some damn hotdogs and fries.

I gave them five bucks because I felt sorry, plus they were getting that f-ing Occupy Wall Street mentality on while looking at my Whip. Like look, f my whip alright. It's wheels. If you attended NYU instead of punking around with those guitars, maybe you'll get yourself some cool wheels too. Whatever.

Five bucks was not good enough. Now they were screaming at me over two hotdogs. Saying that I'm cold. Like F YOU man losers, trying to take food away from my 7 year old. How proud you must be. If you are do hungry, why do you smell like f-ing booze and weed, sh1t a$$ mofos?? Mistake to give sympathy. Next time I just shove my middle finger.

By this time, two NYPD had taken notice and a squad car drove over to ask me if I wanted to press charges. No man. I'm just chillin' and minding my own f-ing business. Just get these punks off my @$$ and let my kid eat their f-ing hotdogs.

What do you think? Conservative types are pushovers? Get the F outta my face, punk-@$$ puke losers. Bad guys can kiss my @$$. Forget that. I don't want HPV.

BTW. These were white boys, so don't even pull that racial sh1t, not implying that you would. Just saying. I've just had about enough sh1t about how things are stacked against minorities, all while they complain straight into my f-ing minority face.

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posted October 16, 2012 04:41 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
speaking of bad boys did you know that 2 women called the prison scott peterson was incarcerated in to ask if he was single? 2 women wanted to get married to a man who murdered his wife and unborn child, that's pretty sick if you ask me.

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posted October 16, 2012 05:09 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
speaking of bad boys did you know that 2 women called the prison scott peterson was incarcerated in to ask if he was single? 2 women wanted to get married to a man who murdered his wife and unborn child, that's pretty sick if you ask me.

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Only 2?

This might be the ultra rare case where I was TOO cynical as I'd have thought 20 minimum. Granted, 20 is an insignificant minority (and barely even noteworthy if you include the entire country), but still, 200 wouldn't have surprised me.

But then maybe others who are even more infamous & shocking are stealing the attention away from Peterson. The Night Stalker, who not only raped and killed but did things like take the eyes of his victims away as souvenirs was primo property with women even fighting to claim him as their own (and one of them ended up marrying him in prison). Such women morbidly fascinate me and I'd like to (cautiously with safeguards in place) get to know a few just to try to get an idea on what makes them tick.

But then if I didn't hold the discipline of psychology in such contempt I'd probably decide to be a psychologist or psychiatrist myself.

posted October 16, 2012 05:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
That happens a lot.

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posted October 16, 2012 06:00 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
yea i know, i was just using that as an example of the kind of scummy guys alot of women are attracted to these days. as a decent guy i can handle being rejected by all women but i cannot stomach a woman telling me i'm the problem. it makes my blood boil when women say nice guys are unattractive and dictate to us that we need to change our ways while they worship the ground that losers walk on. i'm sorry, women who like badboys are the ones who have the mental problem! not me! being a willing participant of verbal,emotional,and physical abuse is a sickness, being nice isnt! if women want to shun every decent guy that comes their way, thats just fine! but they need to stop acting like decent guys are the scum of the earth.

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I am struggling with a different thing, but similar. Some people talk a good game of being "spiritual" but they are the worst, low down fakes you could ever find.

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posted October 16, 2012 06:02 PM            

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But the really disturbing thing is some of these serial killers were charming before anyone knew what they were. One of the worst serial killers somehow lured a woman into his car where he killed her despite that she was known to be exceedingly paranoid, didn't trust people at all, had all kinds of security systems in place, and was even carrying a gun while tending her flowerbed (when the serial killer somehow talked her into getting into his car). And sometimes they don't do it by acting bad, one serial killer's favorite tactic was to wear a fake cast and pretending to be in need of help to get sympathetic women to help him (where he'd then lure her somewhere to kill her).

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posted October 16, 2012 06:17 PM            

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Only 2?

This might be the ultra rare case where I was TOO cynical as I'd have thought 20 minimum. Granted, 20 is an insignificant minority (and barely even noteworthy if you include the entire country), but still, 200 wouldn't have surprised me.

But then maybe others who are even more infamous & shocking are stealing the attention away from Peterson. The Night Stalker, who not only raped and killed but did things like take the eyes of his victims away as souvenirs was primo property with women even fighting to claim him as their own (and one of them ended up marrying him in prison). Such women morbidly fascinate me and I'd like to (cautiously with safeguards in place) get to know a few just to try to get an idea on what makes them tick.

But then if I didn't hold the discipline of psychology in such contempt I'd probably decide to be a psychologist or psychiatrist myself.

But the really disturbing thing is some of these serial killers were charming before anyone knew what they were. One of the worst serial killers somehow lured a woman into his car where he killed her despite that she was known to be exceedingly paranoid, didn't trust people at all, had all kinds of security systems in place, and was even carrying a gun while tending her flowerbed (when the serial killer somehow talked her into getting into his car). And sometimes they don't do it by acting bad, one serial killer's favorite tactic was to wear a fake cast and pretending to be in need of help to get sympathetic women to help him (where he'd then lure her somewhere to kill her).

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posted October 16, 2012 06:45 PM            

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That girl was a minor....the human brain isn't even fully matured until age 25. She doesn't count and yes people did discourage her.

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posted October 16, 2012 08:00 PM            

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Totally, getting played is ageless

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posted October 16, 2012 08:07 PM            

People come in all shapes and forms, "Bad Boys" can come in nice packaging unnoticeable to the human eye just as "Nice Boys" can come in bad packaging.The same can be said for any stereotypical image. The only more recent image in media I can think of is that movie "Easy A", were the girl wasn't really "easy" was just the image she was portraying to make a point about people labeling one another. Sure you can judge and say why didn't that man or woman leave that relationship if it was toxic, well there is already a emotional attachment some people lack the ability to leave those relationships. Again emotions aren't logical, some people go to therapy for years to figure out the attraction to certain personality traits.

posted October 16, 2012 08:13 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i can understand falling for a bad boy's charm once,maybe twice, but if a woman is falling for the same crap over and over again it gets to be pretty ridiculous. i've been played by girls a few times, but i've learned my lesson and now when i see the bullsh*t start up i tell the girl to hit the road,i'm only 21 and i've already learned to sniff out bs.

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posted October 16, 2012 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Your speaking as if you've taken a census of every single women from the age range of 18-65 saying they fall for bad boys, that they condemn "nice guys" and treat them all as if they are the scum on the bottom of their shoe. This isn't a black/white issue, everyone doesn't have a moral compass to tell them who's good for then and who is bad. Nor do people initially start out trying to be the negative associations of the stereotype of a bad boy.

People come in all shapes and forms, "Bad Boys" can come in nice packaging unnoticeable to the human eye just as "Nice Boys" can come in bad packaging.The same can be said for any stereotypical image. The only more recent image in media I can think of is that movie "Easy A", were the girl wasn't really "easy" was just the image she was portraying to make a point about people labeling one another. Sure you can judge and say why didn't that man or woman leave that relationship if it was toxic, well there is already a emotional attachment some people lack the ability to leave those relationships. Again emotions aren't logical, some people go to therapy for years to figure out the attraction to certain personality traits.

Sure I suppose a 50 yr old woman can get played but that probably has more to do with her romantic history and most likely her childhood and early relationships with men not necessarily someone mis-leading her. When a minor is mis-lead emotionally it isn't the same as a adult, teenagers's minds and bodies are just getting the first few doses of hormones and she was talking about a grown man past puberty that knew exactly what he was doing, he was doing preemptive sexual preying. Just as a man or woman may have more tension than normal with members of their own genders because of something their parents did to them when they were children.

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posted October 16, 2012 08:42 PM            

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Did you ever rationalize maybe you have a cynical aura towards women? and that's the reason they treat you the way you claim to be treated. Even dogs and cats know when they come across someone that abuses animals, they hiss or bark and possibly attack. Plus based on that last post you seem more concerned with getting "Vag" as you stated rather than a stable gf.

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posted October 16, 2012 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ail221:
[b]Did you ever rationalize maybe you have a cynical aura towards women? and that's the reason they treat you the way you claim to be treated. Even dogs and cats know when they come across someone that abuses animals, they hiss or bark and possibly attack. Plus based on that last post you seem more concerned with getting "Vag" as you stated rather than a stable gf.

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I agree with this Aquaguy! xxoxox

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