posted July 23, 2022 02:26 PM            

You feel about women as I also feel😳🤪😡
Hence I have never been close to any woman
for the most part.

I do not understand them
sexually at all👽👽👽

Yes I am female but never fit the typical
stereotypical concept of what people ascribe to being the!ale.

Women are like another species to me👽

I totally get what you have said and have seen it in actin.
Sadly even then I cannot totally b?ame females.
See how society has marginalized and used them and controlled them and is still doing that even legally😡😢
Men too have gotten psychologically and emotionally raped by all the crap and stereotypes ascribed to them😢

Cultures are to blame, religion too.
Sadly I see no fixes for it all.

If I were younger and healthy and I
could easily see us as being good friends or more😎

Yes it is not the sex it is that meeting of minds and being in perfect sync in common minds and interests and definitely open minded and free about sexuality and now it is
to be both a physical and intensely emotional
and like as near to being telepathic as possible😎💖💞😎
I think perhaps most folks do not love themselves and sadly do not truly respect themselves😢
Society has really *flucked humans up both men and women from the their births😢🤬

Knowing myself well I can tell you
there must indeed other women out there
who think like you and I
but where they are I not know yet.👽

In real physical life offline
women usually do not like me.
They say I think like a guy.
Huh👽
So not getting into their games and all
makes me an alien in their eyes.
Forget talking sex with them in my
experience because no matter what I try to say or discuss or share experiences of.......
my views on
Psychosexuality freaks them out
and oddly most men too👽

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]The most important psychosexual needs included: conversation, tenderness, emotional closeness (empathy, understanding), sexual contacts and physical closeness

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I sincerely hope that you find
the person who is in
perfect sync with you in
in all ways💞💖🥰

posted July 23, 2022 11:37 PM            

I do know what you mean though about the games👽
Trouble is too
that as you must know
there are a lot of guys who
are players and use women👽

So I suspect that you are
being judged because of crap
other men do to many women and girls.💙😢
My first ex was like that.
And a Heroin addict and emotionally abused me and almost destroyed me psychoLogically😢
The second was I discovered to my horror a pedophile 🤬 who molested my son when he was a child🤬😢
There are also the brutal rapes to me as a child and other abuses from men and women too with the abuses from women being sexual too👽🤬🤬😢
But I perhaps trusted too easily
and did not judge men for what the others did.
That led to me enduring more abuse from both men and women👽
Sadly though in my experience
except for my husband of 25 Years to date,
most men have been not so nice.👽
Men do head games too.🤬
I do not know if there is an easy fix ,when a woman or a man is treated horribly by the opposite sex😢
Your mother just like mine started me down the road of not trusting women👽

Again I sincerely wish you luck in finding
a person you sync with perfectly

posted July 23, 2022 11:57 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Emotionally manipulative. Secretive. Full of hidden emotions and motives. No transparency. No trust. These are all things that come to mind when I think about women.

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posted July 24, 2022 07:36 PM            

I've noticed something else. I meet a lot of married women who I have obvious chemistry with who will go so far as to warmly hug me in front of their husbands. One even gushes about how amazing my cologne smells and said she would love to smell like me all the time. Mind you, other women never act that way. Just married ones lol. But it's funny because all of these women are with guys who are more feminine and smaller than me. These guys usually have a lot of money though lol. My point is these women are living inauthentic lives. They really want to #### a tall masculine guy like me but choose security with the rich guy. And nobody's happy. I'm not happy. I'm sexually frustrated. The woman is sexually frustrated. And the guy probably is too. Lol humans make no damn sense if you really think about it.

posted July 25, 2022 08:06 PM            

Even in my childhood I was not like other children male or female👽😎

Probably Autism and Dyslexia and birth defects from the DES exposure made me be
not like others👽

also so much illness when a child, body braces, radiation and much more👽

It took a long time to power through all of that but I did at least for about from 1968
to 1989 I became very strong
Professional power lifter and arm wrestler against both men and women for Gold's Gym😎

So all in all of my 67 years to date
About 21 years were my healthy fit happy attractive peak😎🌈🥰💞

But even at the gym women refused to work with me except one,
Boom Boom Mancini's sister😎

Yeah that is before your time but good memories for me even though women did not like me or avoided me.
Weirdly with my over 4 feet long bright auburn hair the Lesbian and Bisexual women thought I was a fem and gay because of my muscularity.
So I ended up making enemies in the LGBTI etcetera groups👽

Oh well 🤪

posted July 26, 2022 08:35 AM            

Some women are more men like and vice versa.

I find men so much easier to deal with than women.

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posted July 26, 2022 11:14 AM            

sex doesn't form a connection just on its own having it, sex can be completely meaningless but like wanting it to matter and wanting to be sure of the other person beforehand isn't weird or wrong

people like you are why i don't bother with dating at all, i don't want to deal with the expectation that i went on one date and now i'm supposed to let a stranger **** me because of the implications they read into a single moment i'll pass

and if caring about what's between me and someone i let inside of my body makes me a vile woman (you sound really ****** up btw lex, calling women "vile" for wanting to connect to someone before ******* them as if things like pregnancy etc dont exist) then so be it

posted July 26, 2022 11:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i mean is it really that messed up for someone to want to get to know you before they let you stick your dick in them? you're acting like it's weird and wrong to not want to do something intimate with another person before there's any connection there

sex doesn't form a connection just on its own having it, sex can be completely meaningless but like wanting it to matter and wanting to be sure of the other person beforehand isn't weird or wrong

people like you are why i don't bother with dating at all, i don't want to deal with the expectation that i went on one date and now i'm supposed to let a stranger **** me because of the implications they read into a single moment i'll pass

and if caring about what's between me and someone i let inside of my body makes me a vile woman (you sound really ****** up btw lex, calling women "vile" for wanting to connect to someone before ******* them as if things like pregnancy etc dont exist) then so be it

you're literally exactly who i try to avoid by not dating at all because i have no desire to be pressured into **** im not actually ok with just because someone sees it as an obligation after a couple dates meanwhile we barely know each other

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posted July 26, 2022 12:43 PM            

You know what makes sense to me⁉️
To realize that loneliness and aloneness are not the same thing😎
One can be perfectly content with themselves and not feel lonely;
in fact one can be so very lonely, lonesome and sad whilst in a relationship😢
Too many people live like that👽😳
So aquaguy91 keep on living your way and loving and respecting your wonderful self and do not ever settle for make do or second best because you do not want to get stuck in that kind of trap.

Again wishing you much luck in love and may you find the right person for you who will be
your best and trusted friend and companion💞😎
My grandparents taught me that concept💞
As folks get older sometimes illness etcetera hit one or both of them and sadly sexual intimacy can slip away😢
However when other relationship is not just about sex but deepest shared intimacy which does not always include sexual contact.
then that deep loving friendship of one's lover best friend mental and yes spiritual equal come together to create a wonderful
secure and always real and honest connection that cannot be broken by age or illness or anyone💞😎

Pardon any type please.

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posted July 26, 2022 12:51 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
What I'm saying is women are capable of communicating boundaries in a way that also communicates "Hey I'm attracted to you and want to **** you when I feel safe." What's so hard about that? The lack of that vibe is more of a red flag than women outright not having sex. It's the ambivalence or outright hostility to sex in general.

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Honesty is easy but most folks do not even try👽😡
Selfish self-centered fools👽

posted July 26, 2022 05:24 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Dumuzi,
You're proving my point. You talk about sex like it's a bad and nasty thing that you loathe and despise. This is exactly what I'm talking about. It's not the fact that you're saying you'd rather wait, but rather it's about how you describe sex and people who like it like they are a disgusting disease. Why can't women reject sex in the short term in a way that leaves men feeling good about themselves? Why do you have to attack and be nasty and judgemental?

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i happen to enjoy sex a good deal and have a high sex drive, however i've been sexually abused and raped and i have no desire to let someone i don't really know touch me like that

i know that when people ask me out they want sex they often make that clear and so i don't go out to avoid that sort of issue

i'm not being judgmental i said the statements you make are the reasons i avoid dating because it's a common expectation