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Topic: MOON/PLUTO in relationships
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littlecloud
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posted January 27, 2011 10:04 PM
  
would it be bad if they know?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 27, 2011 10:54 PM
Well Ok, let me explain the set up.. I am the only female manager in the building. There are 2 other women in the building, but they are older women.. So Im the only female in the age range..
Plus Im a leo so you know I flirt with all the boys... lol... but I do keep it at an innocent level.. Anyways so the "guys" just want to know if he "hit it" lololol...
Which would give pisces brownie points bc Im a manager..
So with that I dont need the rumors, or my employee's knowing anything private about me.. Work wise... I am not his manager. I dont do his review's or any discipline to pisces. I have no managerial authority over him, besides being a manager in the building.. So "work" could not do anything if it did come out... what worries me, and me and him have talked about it, is he's going to loose his temper one day, with these guys keep asking him.. He's already told me the next person, he's going to go off on... Hes got a HUGE temper... Everyone knows when he's ****** ! HE will knock anyone down with his words.. I can barely stand up to him, when he gets like that.. I just walk away from him.. I talked to him, and I told him, they are just trying to get a rise out of you, so they can find out.. Dont let them get to you, call me when they say something, and I will talk you out of going off... He said IDK.. IDK.... Im going to loose it soon...
He said he's not worried about him... But he's worried about me, and he doesnt want anyone talking about me like that... Also when ever I talk to some one... Someone runs to him, and tells him your girl is outside talking too........
He told me your were talking to so and so.. I said I was when?? He told me when... lol I know we arent really hiding from anyone.. Everyone suspects... only no one knows for sure.. They are dying to know... lol.
If it does come out... No one will be surprised... I know that... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted January 28, 2011 01:43 AM
Man
Sounds like a powder keg and not you and him  ------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune.
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littlecloud
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posted January 28, 2011 08:17 AM
Tread carefully and tell him to ease up on his temper. Take some St. Johns Wort. (but only a little. Honestly a hot temper like that is really unattractive. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 28, 2011 10:06 AM
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Originally posted by littlecloud:
Tread carefully and tell him to ease up on his temper. Take some St. Johns Wort. (but only a little. Honestly a hot temper like that is really unattractive.
Yeah I know I hear you.. But honestly. These are the type of guys Im attracted to and are attracted to me also..
I have pluto in the 7th
My Pisces says ooo dominate me
My Cancer says protect me
My Leo says Challange me. Go ahead I dare you! lol.. Prove your man enough for me..
I also have my own anger isses, I need a man thats stronger than me.. If he's not I wouldnt respect him, and I would walk all over him..
Anyways.. I know what type of men I attract.. Very strong ego's, but Ive also learned how to spot the ones that have no control over there anger.. Those are the one's I stay away from..
He does have control, and he's aware of his anger.. He's gone to anger management.. He does what he can to keep in under control.. I can calm him down, which is why I told him to call me..If it happens.. Sometimes he does need someone to remind him, his anger is going over board.
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@ AMI..
LOL... we sure do have our own little soap opera going on..
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Ami Anne
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posted January 28, 2011 10:07 AM
Moon/Pluto Girls
Get on your lemming outfits and we are going over the cliff 
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Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune.
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littlecloud
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posted January 28, 2011 10:14 AM
I suppose the fact that he's aware of it helps. I've just had enough bad experiences. I used to be attracted to that cocky attitude too and had to learn a few things the hard way. Now I just look at them and roll my eyes.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted January 28, 2011 10:20 AM
Dear Lioness
From my intuition ,he is an OK dude ------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune.
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Lioness
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posted January 28, 2011 10:23 AM
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Originally posted by littlecloud:
I suppose the fact that he's aware of it helps. I've just had enough bad experiences. I used to be attracted to that cocky attitude too and had to learn a few things the hard way. Now I just look at them and roll my eyes.
Yeah Ive dated those guys.. They stand in line for me... lol But yes I have learned the hard way also..
But he's not mean.. He gets mad.. But he's not mean.... At least he's never been mean to me.. HE's been nothing but sweet and gentle with me..
He just has a lot of power with his words.. He has Mars,Mercury/pluto..
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GrlyGirl20
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posted January 29, 2011 12:23 PM
"he tells me HE SAID BYE arent you going to say bye to him!!! Of course all loud (damn leo's.. lol) I say he's talking to you not me"LOL so true!!! Coming from a Leo Mercury with Sun in the 1st hahah IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted February 03, 2011 12:50 AM
Ok so today... I walk really fast past his office, so he wont see me. (I have no choice to pass bye him to come and go)One of the guys, comes out of his office and says really loud to me, just as I was passing pisces office.... HEY LIONESS WHY YOU WALKING SO FAST???? Geez is it a freaking conspiracy?? He's mAD at me... He wont talk to me at all now... Somehow I feel better... shrug idk its weird.. IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted February 05, 2011 09:57 PM
I remembered this today and thought of you:I was with my Leo sister at my job and introduced her to a co-worker and she's says clear as day "Oh is this the Sagittarius you like?" Needless to say I gave her the death glare as I turned the color of a tomato IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted February 09, 2011 10:35 AM
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Originally posted by littlecloud:
I remembered this today and thought of you:I was with my Leo sister at my job and introduced her to a co-worker and she's says clear as day "Oh is this the Sagittarius you like?" Needless to say I gave her the death glare as I turned the color of a tomato
LOL... Dammm Leo's will kill it for ya everything... hahahahahahaha!!!! ========================================= Well Im sooo much better, Im not feeling the pull so much, I feel as if a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulder..
What a relief..
We still say Hi.. But thats been it..
Im just like blahhhh around him now... I dont even have an urge or desire to speak to him, right now. Im so glad I am finally able to move past this... I think maybe transit pluto just really kicked my butt here.. Maybe thats why I felt it so much.. Its finally moving away past my venus..
I had a t Square (on top of my natal t square) of transit pluto/venus/pluto.. Wow I never want that transit again! Thats been worse than Saturn... lol
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Ami Anne
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posted February 09, 2011 10:39 AM
((((Lioness))))  ------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
You have to be strong enough to be gentle.Peace through strength,ALWAYS
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roadwarriorsdp
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posted February 09, 2011 02:32 PM
Moon pluto in relationships?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted February 14, 2011 11:52 PM
AHHHH....
Still feeling good about my decision..... We havent spoken at all.. but we have said Hi.. really softly... But still things keep happening, that seems to get us near each other.. Today we did the (dance walk) trying to get around each other... LOL.. You know where you both go left, and then both go right all at the same time, and just cant seem to pass each other...
Geez.. Also the security guard stopped and talked to me, and he was "stuck" behind him while we were talking... He had to say excuse me and squeeze between to get by... I moved to the side so he can pass... Damn fate.... THIS has to be over! IP: Logged |
specialistangel
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posted February 15, 2011 12:17 AM
I feel that way, too. PLEASE make it over. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted February 15, 2011 12:38 AM
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Originally posted by specialistangel:
I feel that way, too. PLEASE make it over.
Not sure, what you mean.. What has to be over for you?
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specialistangel
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posted February 15, 2011 12:40 AM
this topic should be over
start a new one
the new one should be superiour
just because IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted February 15, 2011 12:42 AM
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Originally posted by specialistangel:
this topic should be over
start a new one
the new one should be superiour
just because
Well you dont have to read it.. Im free to post on any topic I choose... If you want to make up your own feel free..
But I will continue to post here, as much as I like.. Thats why I created this thread for, to get it all out of my system... IP: Logged |
specialistangel
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posted February 15, 2011 12:52 AM
Moon/Pluto needs sex, that's one of it's inherent needs. Is that why you're posting and continuing to post on this topic?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted February 15, 2011 12:54 AM
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Originally posted by specialistangel:
Moon/Pluto needs sex, that's one of it's inherent needs. Is that why you're posting and continuing to post on this topic?
No... Im posting this because Im trying very hard to get away from a moon/pluto relationship that I had.... I use this thread to get my feelings out,on how hard its been to pull away.
Also because Pluto/universe seems to pull me back..
Ive had a very hard time dealing with this.. IP: Logged |
specialistangel
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posted February 15, 2011 01:07 AM
Tell me about it, talking things out helps a lot. Is it strictly a pluto problem or are there other factors involved? I have issues with mercury, my mercury is in harsh aspect with uranus and neptune. It's in the 3rd house. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted February 15, 2011 01:15 AM
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Originally posted by specialistangel:
Tell me about it, talking things out helps a lot. Is it strictly a pluto problem or are there other factors involved? I have issues with mercury, my mercury is in harsh aspect with uranus and neptune. It's in the 3rd house.
Well I think its a karmic connection with him... I did learn a lot about myself.. I felt deeply connected to him.. I have never felt that connected before..
It was very hard for me to understand, and get over this one.. Which really didnt make any sense in the long run.... But now that I have pulled away I feel a sense of relief.. I feel as if a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders.. I feel like me again..
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specialistangel
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posted February 15, 2011 01:26 AM
What happened to cause the huge weight to get lifted off your shoulders? It's good that you feel like you again, talking it out does help IP: Logged |
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