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Topic: MOON/PLUTO in relationships
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73155 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 19, 2012 10:11 PM
Mine is long gone but never will be forgotten. I hope you can have yours! xxIP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1071 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted April 19, 2012 10:20 PM
My experience right now with my fiance. My 0* sun-pluto conj squares his venus 2* My moon conj his moon and joins his t square with his 2* mars-pluto opp. I Love my moon conj his moon, so close, so familiar and comfortable, But my poor lil moon is being a bit battered as its square his pluto 2* and his mars 4*. My pluto also semi squares his sun 1* and trines his mercury 0*. Natally his pluto is pretty strong, but mine is much stronger with my almost exact sun-pluto conj...and my pluto is aspecting his sun, merc, and venus while his pluto aspects my moon only...It is sooo intense and obsessive on both parts, but I(pluto) seem to have the upper hand and more control, he is More obsessed, which is strange since its usually me that way in relationships since I am so plutonian on my own. The sexual attraction and closeness and intimacy is Off the freakin charts! We both say we are the other halves of the same soul. Haha Im moon female and hes pluto male and he made jokes that he wanted me to breast feed him....so funny!...And so intimate and close....We also have powerful saturn and nodal contact....?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73155 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 19, 2012 10:23 PM
YES--the breast feeding thing. My Moon/Pluto has been gone for a long time but he was the one and only--the Healthcliff running through the moors or I was. It is nice to have a one and only even if you can't have him lol------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6993 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 19, 2012 10:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by scrappydog: My experience right now with my fiance. My 0* sun-pluto conj squares his venus 2* My moon conj his moon and joins his t square with his 2* mars-pluto opp. I Love my moon conj his moon, so close, so familiar and comfortable, But my poor lil moon is being a bit battered as its square his pluto 2* and his mars 4*. My pluto also semi squares his sun 1* and trines his mercury 0*. Natally his pluto is pretty strong, but mine is much stronger with my almost exact sun-pluto conj...and my pluto is aspecting his sun, merc, and venus while his pluto aspects my moon only...It is sooo intense and obsessive on both parts, but I(pluto) seem to have the upper hand and more control, he is More obsessed, which is strange since its usually me that way in relationships since I am so plutonian on my own. The sexual attraction and closeness and intimacy is Off the freakin charts! We both say we are the other halves of the same soul. Haha Im moon female and hes pluto male and he made jokes that he wanted me to breast feed him....so funny!...And so intimate and close....We also have powerful saturn and nodal contact....?
LOL... Thats funny... Thats really great.. Im glad you two can come together.. Sounds very intense... And powerful... Be thankful your Pluto hehehe
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6993 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 19, 2012 10:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: WOW wonderful Lionness. It makes me cry. You have loved him for so long
Thanks Ami.... Its been a very slow process.. But with my fear its ok.. I didnt mind to much (except the loss of my mane) He's wonderful!!!!!!!! He gives me sooooooooo my attention.. I can barely keep up Im sorry about u and -----... Its for sure a learning experience about your emotions and getting a grip... I also wanted to say that I am sorry to you for what I said... I just get frustrated when people make assumptions about me, when they just dont really know.. Its like a pet peeve of mine.. So I am sorry about what I said to you.
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scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1071 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted April 20, 2012 03:17 PM
Yes I am very thankful I am pluto and he is inner planets...I've been inner planets before, my poor sun, venus, and mars connected to my x husbands pluto, damn I was obsessed and he had All the control. NOT fun for a natal plutonian like me :-( Now this time...my baby says "Damn girl you seem to have some kind of control over me and hold on me and I couldnt fight it even if I wanted to." Ha! Im having fun with this man ;-)IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73155 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2012 03:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Thanks Ami.... Its been a very slow process.. But with my fear its ok.. I didnt mind to much (except the loss of my mane)He's wonderful!!!!!!!! He gives me sooooooooo my attention.. I can barely keep up Im sorry about u and -----... Its for sure a learning experience about your emotions and getting a grip... I also wanted to say that I am sorry to you for what I said... I just get frustrated when people make assumptions about me, when they just dont really know.. Its like a pet peeve of mine.. So I am sorry about what I said to you.
THANKS for saying that Lionness. I just want the best for you and see it out of my limited perspective and limited vision. I am so excited for you. He is your dream guy and you have been through so much. My guy is MIA . Screw him ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6993 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 20, 2012 08:31 PM
No prob Ami.. You know I guess it was delay for him The moon/pluto.. He's really feeling it now, the way I was over a year ago.. He's trying to get a grip, I can see it because I went through it and know whats going on... So Im just letting him deal, I guess he has to figure out what he's feeling like I did... We are still not there, thats ok.... If its meant to be it will.. If not then it just wont be... He's become jealous and that worries me.. But when I see it, I make a point to give him the reassurance he needs, he calms down and drops it.. Then he says "ok Ill take your word for it" lol Hes so cute... IP: Logged |
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posted April 20, 2012 08:48 PM
This Moon/Pluto cross aspect can be pretty bad. I have this with everyone in my generation cuz I have a Hades Moon. Recently got back with an ex and hopefully the same issues won't crop up.IP: Logged |
Pisces12345 Newflake Posts: 11 From: USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 30, 2012 08:18 AM
HiI was wondering if someone could help with interpretation of multiple Pluto conjunctions in synastry. My moon, Saturn, Jupiter and Lilith all conjunct with his Pluto. However, the other way around my Pluto is trin with his Sun, Venus and Mars. The composite shows pluto conjunct Uranus in 6th house and Composite Moon and Vertex fall in the 7th house. There are more conjunctions but for now I just wanted to see if someone has experiences with those? Mainly: how is in control? I am the moon person and to be honest it is rather difficult for me - somehow we both love to be together but then again we dont contact each other for some time. When we then see each other again, it is again very nice and close. It has been draining though and I am a little concerned whether or not I shall just leave this whole "relationship" as if we always withdraw from each other...
Can someone please advise? Is the above good or bad?
Thank you very much!
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Pisces12345 Newflake Posts: 11 From: USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 30, 2012 05:01 PM
Hi againI have looked at the synastry again in more detail and those are Pluto hard aspects I found so far: My Pluto in Libra: opposite his Venus opposite his Saturn opposite his NN opposite his Chiron falls in his 9th house square his ascendent square his neptune
His Pluto in Virgo: conjunct my Mars conjunct my Jupiter conjunct my Saturn conjunct my Lilith falls into my 5th house square my ascendent
Composite Pluto: opposite Sun opposite Ascendent (we have a composite sun in the 1st house) opposite Mercury opposite Venus oppsoite Chiron conjucnt Vertex I am not sure if this is many pluto contacts compared to others, but I have never ever met anyone like him. We see each other, have an amzing time, and then complete withdrawals for days or weeks or even months - right now is a time again where it feels quite draining..
Do you think he feels this intensity too? Is there hope we can turn this around? Thanks all IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6993 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 01, 2012 09:44 PM
I'm not sure what to say to u... I started this thread almost 2 years ago.. It's been a never ending story since 09.. We have a fling, seperate, become friends, stop talking, back to friends, had an 8 month romance, separated, stayed friends, we made up yesterday.. Talking abt continuing the romance...So that's how it's been for me... the emotions run very high, it's hard to be together, but it's harder to be with out each other... IP: Logged |
Pisces12345 Newflake Posts: 11 From: USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 02, 2012 11:50 AM
Thanks Lionessit feels good to have your answer and know there are others also in this situation. I just realised that in addition to the above my sun is also in opposition to his pluto... Did you ever talk to him honestly and openly about how it feels to you? I have not yet but I somehow think the only way out is actually telling him.. but then again if he feels like me he surely runs away as I have been and then it would just drag on again - what do you suggest? IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6993 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 02, 2012 09:23 PM
We dont talk to much about our feelings, neither of us is emotionally expressive.We dont really say how we feel, we just kind of show each other... At the most he tells me I miss you everyday.. Thats enough for me... I say ahhh I like it when you lie to me... I think with pluto you just have to accept what ever it is your feeling.. The more you fight it, the harder it gets... Accept your feelings... you dont have to share it until the time is right... But accept what you feel... It gets a bit easier. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1870 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 22, 2015 07:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Check out the thread about Venus conjunct the MC in synastry,Lioness. We discussed Moon/Pluto in synastry,there. That got me thinking some more about it,though. I think what we term "love" is Venus/Mars or Venus/Pluto love. Moon/Pluto love is very different though,I think. The Moon represents the mother.Maternal love is a unique love. You have children,Lioness, so you have experienced it. It is the most intimate love there is,I think. You carry the baby in your body and breastfeed,if you do. The baby is as much a part of your body and soul as any human will ever be. For all the days of the child's life,you can enter in to his space as no other person can. Moon/Pluto feels child like,I would say. It is not the nightclub love of beautiful people. It is the love of curling up on a sofa. Maybe,one has a cold.Maybe,one looks terrible or feels terrible but you love him ,anyway,cuz the love is more than romantic. It is soulful.
Hi Anny.. I have the exact square with someone (I am the pluto) and it is exactly as you describe. there is a strong need to nurture, to protect, to care. sometimes i care more about his pain than my own pain. it is so strange IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1870 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 22, 2015 08:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: so what he's not worried, because he knows I will be back??? What the heck is that crap?? This is not good at allllll... I give up (throwing hands up in the air)
cant stop laughing.. but i have the same apporach. i know they will be back so i dont worry, i just wait!!! IP: Logged |
Ceridwen unregistered
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posted March 22, 2015 09:50 AM
Just came across (very distancedly) a guy whose Pluto is trine my Moon by 0°43, and even with that distance involved, it surprised me that it still apparently was enough to trigger some quite strong emotional response in me. Well it also resulted in me dreaming of a scorpion-sting/bite last night (talking about the animal, not the sign btw). It was certainly a drastic imagery and a bit of exaggerated response to just seeing someone in the distance. Might of course something else figuring in as well, but still that Pluto-Moon-trine is under one degree. Well it means of course that his Pluto is square my Saturn as well and quinkunx my Juno exactly too (as my Moon, Saturn, Juno are connected through exact aspects, though in the case of Moon-Juno and Moon-Saturn those are minor aspects, semisextile and quinkunx.) IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 4139 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 22, 2015 10:28 AM
Had this with an ex his moon is 15 degrees in Pluto, and my moon is 18 degrees in Scorpio. The break up has impacted me tremendously. I'm doing better, and know things will work out fine. I am optimistic about the future, and wonder what surprises await me. In no rush though, I am in no shape to give myself to anyone. I impulsively unfriended ex on fb yesterday. Cause I don't want to know what he is up to at all. I do not want to know when he is online. I cried after doing it. Wondered if I did the right thing. Worried about him finding out. He expressed wanting to be friends, but he's done some really messed up things to me. But yeah yesterday was a big realization that I still need a lot of time before I start mating and dating. ha I do not want to be one of those people that gets into a relationship with out being over someone. It so unfair to the other person. And I know how ****** it feels to be with someone that blames their current actions on their past with an ex. BTW I have moon Pluto conjunction in my natal birth chart 1 degree away. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen unregistered
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posted March 22, 2015 10:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=luGvJdexnRs Alas, Moon/Pluto
sort of made me remember another song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KJ60uJZ3-Q
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posted March 22, 2015 11:10 AM
I am in a sappy mood today http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJvLE3jJq20 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJvLE3jJq20 (the soft aspects of course ) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JnQiHgxrG4I and the dark prospects of this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H5yFQUD2Eak and this one came to mind as well http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sSQZ9m9ProA http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UvaEe160LMM
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posted March 22, 2015 11:12 AM
well mym very personal "resonance-song" actually is this (Aqua Moon feels a tiny little threatened by Moon-Pluto-synastry, no matter how harmonious ) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3G1cK8e6sWU IP: Logged |
kennedy80 Knowflake Posts: 192 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 25, 2019 07:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: We dont talk to much about our feelings, neither of us is emotionally expressive.We dont really say how we feel, we just kind of show each other... At the most he tells me I miss you everyday.. Thats enough for me... I say ahhh I like it when you lie to me... I think with pluto you just have to accept what ever it is your feeling.. The more you fight it, the harder it gets... Accept your feelings... you dont have to share it until the time is right... But accept what you feel... It gets a bit easier.
Hello Lioness! Can’t believe I read this entire thread - feels good to not be alone, as I relate a lot to your story. Feel free to not respond, but I am so curious how you and your fishy turned out? IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 4139 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 26, 2019 10:48 PM
My moon sign pretty much conjuncts everyone's Pluto close to my age.My bf of 4 years has Pluto 17 degrees. My moon is 18. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2331 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted May 27, 2019 06:47 AM
current boyfriend's moon squares my pluto. we have some very dark days, and the relationship/sex is very passionate.
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Kannon McAfee Moderator Posts: 3899 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted May 27, 2019 01:50 PM
This is Interpersonal Astrology, so it belongs in that sub-forum. Moving it there.------------------ "Drift like a cloud and flow like water, seeing that all life is a magnificent illusion, a playing of energy, and there is absolutely nothing fundamentally to be afraid of." -- Alan Watts Soul Stars Astrology by The Declinations Guy Expert birth chart rectification IP: Logged |