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Lioness
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posted February 15, 2011 01:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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What happened to cause the huge weight to get lifted off your shoulders? It's good that you feel like you again, talking it out does help

I told him how I felt.. and I told him I couldnt do this anymore.. I told him its best just to pull away... Thats what II have been doing.

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posted February 15, 2011 01:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for specialistangel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You told him to pull away? What do you meanby that, pull away from what exactly

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posted August 10, 2011 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for megstows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I have a question for everyone that has a Moon/Pluto relationship with someone..
Does it seem like your lives are similar or some how intertwined..
Or is this someone you have know for years and years, then one day it just happen.. The bond the closeness.?


My boyfriend has his Pluto in Scorpio, which squares my Aquarius Moon with an orb of 0.56.

I met him when I was 15 and he was 18. My best friend introduced us; they knew each other from school. I thought he was SO attractive (he is not what is considered "attractive" because he has big ears and a big nose and he is sthuper skinny but he is precious<3). And HILARIOUS. I had a crush and I only knew him for five minutes.

Fast forward to the beginning of my junior year. He was at my school now! I was so excited! We ate lunch together every day for a semester until he changed lunch shifts. I had a huge crush on him but I knew he'd never like me. He is a Leo sun, Sagittarius asc., and Pisces moon: he's very forward, playful, and sarcastic. So even though he wasn't technically "cute," he still dated a lot because he was so awesome, and I felt I was out of his league.

He graduated, I went to his birthday party at the end of the summer, and that was that. I never thought of him.

So I'm 18 now, graduated and about to move into my own place, and he randomly texts me. I asked him a few times how he got my number since I never remember giving it to him, and he doesn't remember either. He wanted to hang out with me. HE wanted to hang out with ME. ASDFGHJKL; HOLY CRAP, you know?

This man I adored for years is finally showing me attention!

(I feel the need to mention now that
- my Mercury, Venus, and Uranus in Capricorn conjuncts his Neptune in Capricorn with an orb of 1.33, 2.55, and 1.03, respectively,
- his Leo sun opposes my Aquarius moon by 1.55,
- my Sagittarian sun opposes his Venus in Gemini by 3.34,
- my sun also conjuncts his Saturn in Sag by 2.15,
- his Mars in Aries squares my Uranus in Capricorn by 1.56.
Ahh, now where were we!)

So for a year and a half, we were basically... ugh. Friends with benefits. >_<
EW! I hate that term.

Until he was forced to move in with me because he was kicked out of all the places he'd been. After a month living with me, he began referring to me as his girlfriend. He told me he fell in love.
I would believe it if he had a way out. But he feels stuck to me, his second mother/girlfriend.

My two brothers moved in with us recently and have been trying to get me out of the house, away from him, to understand he's been manipulating me and draining me emotional and financially. I know I must end it with him, but I feel so damn RESPONSIBLE for his ass. I grow anxious thinking where he will go if I tell him it's over. I want to hold him when I think of him suffering, even though he deserves it for how he's made ME suffer.
(While I work 40-45 hours a week, 9-10 hrs./shift, he works 25 hours a week, 4 hrs./shift. We split rent and I pay the rest of the bills - utilities, internet, car insurance for both of us as he has no vehicle, and home insurance. And after all of this, when I come home from work, he is usually playing video games, and continues to play, as if the breadwinner of the house didn't just walk into the room or something.)

Anyway, long story short. We knew each other for years and I secretly adored him, and it randomly just WAS. You know?
I don't know if it won't ever BE.
Though I want to rid myself of his manipulation and lies, I still feel... well, guilty. And I'm not sure why.

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posted August 10, 2011 06:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like neptune is also playing apart in this..

You are not responsible for him...

I think you should be honest and tell him how you feel, and what you expect from him... Give him a set amount of money that he needs to pay.. including ulitilites,Food and extra's...

Tell him if he cant make that amount, then you have no choice but to have him move out.. Because you cant support him...

BTW...
BRAVO.... for being 18 and being able to support yourself

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posted August 10, 2011 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for megstows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Well neither one of us say a damn thing, either way... He has said I feel a special bond with you.. and I said yeah me too..

So if I tell him, how I feel and then he rejects me, I will get over it?? Cuz yeah the rejection part idk.... if I wanna go through that...
He doesnt love me, its just me that has feelings for him... So Im working very hard to pull away.

I dont want that lesson, at least not with someone I work with... That makes it so much harder.. If it was someone I didnt have to see ever again, they I would say it.. but I cant... I cant... and then look at him everyday, with embarrassment...

omg.. thats so not fair, I dont wanna..

Is that why I have all the dreams about him? I feel like he's trying to tell me something in my dreams, but I just cant remember what it was, when I wake up... I wish the dreams would go away...
I cant even get away from this in my sleep. Geeezzz...


Wow, before my boyfriend and I became "exclusive," I FELT THE SAME WAY.
I felt cheated because I loved him SOOOOO much and he only told me he cared about me.

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posted August 10, 2011 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sighhh...

Mercury RX must of brought this post up for me.. LOL...

I went back and was reading some of the things I wrote back then...

For what ever reason, Mercury seems to want me to re-think all of this...

We are no longer on speaking terms... I havent wanted anything to do with him.. but here I am talking about him again...

Ive pulled away from him... I ignore and avoid him..

(pluto games)

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posted August 18, 2011 06:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for megstows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Sounds like neptune is also playing apart in this..

You are not responsible for him...

I think you should be honest and tell him how you feel, and what you expect from him... Give him a set amount of money that he needs to pay.. including ulitilites,Food and extra's...

Tell him if he cant make that amount, then you have no choice but to have him move out.. Because you cant support him...

BTW...
BRAVO.... for being 18 and being able to support yourself


Thank you.

I'm sorry for bringing up the past for you. I actually only registered for this site to share my experience. I was Googling "Moon square pluto synastry" and made my way here, and your posts compelled me to share. Someone knew how troubled I've felt for so long! What a relief, albeit an unfortunate one!

I broke up with him! I told him he could stay with me since he literally has nowhere to go. I'm also seeing someone else, which I tried to keep a secret from him, but he figured out. *sigh* He's upset, which is obvious, but I never knew he'd get so upset. I had no idea how much I meant to him until now, when I watched him cry and beg for a second chance to be my boyfriend again.

I feel like he is my soulmate. But I feel drawn to my new man.
*SIGH*
It's awkward, because I am watching him wallow in the suffering I inflicted upon him.
Even though it was his fault originally. ><
He just makes me feel his pain. He transforms my feelings.

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posted August 18, 2011 08:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No prolem hon.. Believe me I understand.. and Everything happens for a reason...

Do you and this guy have SN contacts.. If so thats prob the reason, you feel you need to be over with it...

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posted April 18, 2012 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah here's the moon/pluto thread I was looking for. So this aspect, is it an emotional bonding type aspect? Or sexual, or obsessive, what the heck is it all about? In synastry I mean. Esp with a DW -moon trine pluto @1.11 orb and moon sextile pluto @3.69 orb. With the trine I'm the moon. With the sextile I'm pluto.

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posted April 18, 2012 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ShyVirgo1979:
Ah here's the moon/pluto thread I was looking for. So this aspect, is it an emotional bonding type aspect? Or sexual, or obsessive, what the heck is it all about? In synastry I mean. Esp with a DW -moon trine pluto @1.11 orb and moon sextile pluto @3.69 orb. With the trine I'm the moon. With the sextile I'm pluto.


OO WOW!!! I forgot all about this thread.. Im goin to have to go back and re read everything I wrote over a year ago!

Well Its VERY binding!!!!!!!!
I still talk to this same guy.. (this is the fishy I always talk about)
We have gotten even closer since this was posted...
ITs sort of a dependency thing with each other.
Its very addictive. Im FOR SURE obsessed!! He is to though lol

Its been very hard to get use to, I tried everything to pull away,but that never worked.
The best thing to do is accept what you feel... Its there for a reason.

Sometimes you will need a break from it to get your self back on track.. That sure helps alot..

At times I felt so overwhelmed I couldnt breath. I take a step back from him, and do something for my self, and then I feel better.. Only it wont last very long, because then I just miss him way to much to stay gone for long...
Then I RUN to him and jump in his arms..
Thats when I feel the best.

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posted April 18, 2012 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tautomer4314     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've only met a few people who's moon conjuncted my pluto. Those friendships usually don't last interestingly enough. The reason for this is I have moon conjunct pluto myself, and the other person often will as well if they are close to my age. In short we "see" into each other too well and it just doesn't feel right. We can't use our typical tricks to navigate the world, and we also don't see each other in a completely objective light. Nevertheless, we will often have quite a lot in common.

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posted April 18, 2012 09:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Holy crap! U just described it perfectly. Here I thought I was crazy or it was wishful thinking lol that's the pattern totally - we take turns backing off (not purposely) and I don't know what it feels like on his end but ugh I can't rid my mind of him and I've tried -for 9 months now. He makes me crazy bc he seems emotionless and won't commit :P lol eventually one of us contacts the other. So that's what a moon/pluto aspect does huh. Which aspect do u have w/ur guy? How long has that been going on with him? And if that's too personal I understand

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posted April 18, 2012 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Holy crap! U just described it perfectly. Here I thought I was crazy or it was wishful thinking lol that's the pattern totally - we take turns backing off (not purposely) and I don't know what it feels like on his end but ugh I can't rid my mind of him and I've tried -for 9 months now. He makes me crazy bc he seems emotionless and won't commit :P lol eventually one of us contacts the other. So that's what a moon/pluto aspect does huh. Which aspect do u have w/ur guy? How long has that been going on with him? And if that's too personal I understand


Euhhh over 2 years..

In synastry a DW moon sextile pluto.. In the Composite
Moon/Pluto/Jupiter conjunct
Then all 3 opps Venus.


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posted April 18, 2012 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I've only met a few people who's moon conjuncted my pluto. Those friendships usually don't last interestingly enough. The reason for this is I have moon conjunct pluto myself, and the other person often will as well if they are close to my age. In short we "see" into each other too well and it just doesn't feel right. We can't use our typical tricks to navigate the world, and we also don't see each other in a completely objective light. Nevertheless, we will often have quite a lot in common.


Aw really? That's a bummer. I've never met anyone who's moon conjuncts my pluto. I bet in ur case it would need to b a pretty darn close orb no? I have moon trine pluto in my natal 1 degree orb. maybe ur used to the moon conj pluto energy bc u have it natally.

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posted April 18, 2012 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lioness I just went and reread alllll those pages and its like u could have wrote that about me. We even started dating last summer around the time of some of the later posts. We're not now, just talking. Thank u for writing all of it bc now I know I'm not crazy! I love him and can't tell him, we don't talk about the intense emotions, I feel I should run for the hills bc I don't like the intense feelings, I'm playing the same 'pluto' game as u and whoops I ignore his msgs sometimes (LOL) thinking 'nope this needs to stop!' We haven't spoke for a month and finally I'm doing ok. What's he do? Sends me a msg. Thanks buddy. Now this mad cycle starts all over....I'm still fighting it, I haven't accepted it like u lol

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*hisses*


The cursed Hades moon. My boyfriend and I both have it. I wonder what I did wrong in a past life to deserve such a placement.

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posted April 18, 2012 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think that moon/pluto brings you back..

But yeah I didnt talk to fishy for 3 months. When we started talking again we became closer and closer.. Always talking and having some sort of contact with each other. We are just barely at the stage where we are "sort of" admitting feelings, but not totally there..

We have both said we feel a special bond, we have said that we want to be with each other.. But the fear is really bad...
Today he asked me if I loved him yet...
My answer was Im cool..babe...

But here's the thing.. Im obsessed yes, I care yes I want to be with him yes.. But IDK love is, IDK if I can really love anyone..
It doesnt make sense to love him..
I struggle with figuring out what I feel.. Because honestly I dont know what it is..

In a way I feel like he wants me to say it to him, but then I think if I do, then he's outta there...

He told me that he has a special place for me, and that he's really into me.. That I make him have "emotions" He only explained that as a "gut feeling" he has.. Which I understand, because I have this feeling..

I know,but I dont know what I know, but I just KNOW!!
I know I sound crazy.... But I "know" hahah


What I cant understand and get a grip on,is WHY this one person has such a huge effect on me.. I dont get the why.. I keep searching for why, but I cant find that answer...

I have both pluto/uranus in H7.. So I really like the intensity.. But it scares the living day lights out of me..
I feel like I cant breathe, and I have to run and escape.. But I cant find the door.. I get overwhelmed with feelings. They control me and I cant handle them.
So I run in circles and he just stands there starring at me.. Like WTF ya doin???? Then he graps me and says get your azz back over here.. Chill out... Im here.. Then I just feel better.

Its all very confusing, and frustrating.. and WONDERFUL all mixed in one.

Now he's a pisces stellium and Im a leo stellium.. Let me tell you, this man gives me so much attention and affection and compliments. I just swoon head over heals.. (u know the leo weakness) He just makes me weak in the knees..
I get butterflies just by seeing him. I see him every day...
I actually miss him, when I havent seen him in just a few hours.
We text all day every day, then at night we talk about what we texted about... LOL
Then at bed time, we are saying we miss each other, and cant wait to see you tomorrow..
(ok so we are a little silly)

IDk how we can talk so much.. It just never ends..

sighhhhh...

This man is my true internal struggle.

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posted April 18, 2012 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ohh.. What I forgot to tell you, is when the time is right and one of you does admit your feelings. Everything will change.. It will have a huge impact on each of you..
It will change the entire course of the relationship.

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posted April 19, 2012 12:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tautomer4314     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ShyVirgo1979:
Aw really? That's a bummer. I've never met anyone who's moon conjuncts my pluto. I bet in ur case it would need to b a pretty darn close orb no? I have moon trine pluto in my natal 1 degree orb. maybe ur used to the moon conj pluto energy bc u have it natally.

It varies with how the orb is. Anything that conjuncts my moon or pluto injects quite a lot of depth into the relationship with the person because of how my chart is set up. I naturally align with pretty much anyone that has moon conjunct pluto themselves since there is a lot of overlap. I think a large part of it is I haven't become close friends with anyone who's moon conjuncts my pluto or visa versa.

I am good friends with one person though who is also moon conjunct pluto (first one), but hers in libra. The second we get together though, it's idle chatter for 5 minutes and then it instantly goes very very deep and stays that way the entire time. Me and her are both "rare" individuals and having met each other is like a breath of fresh air because we are so alike at our core.

I've noticed that sharing the same aspects as someone gives this "coming home" kind of feeling. However if those same aspects conjunct each others at the same time, it's like someone turned up the volume too high and a distance needs to be put in in order for it to work.

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posted April 19, 2012 11:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I think that moon/pluto brings you back..

But yeah I didnt talk to fishy for 3 months. When we started talking again we became closer and closer.. Always talking and having some sort of contact with each other. We are just barely at the stage where we are "sort of" admitting feelings, but not totally there..

We have both said we feel a special bond, we have said that we want to be with each other.. But the fear is really bad...
Today he asked me if I loved him yet...
My answer was Im cool..babe...

But here's the thing.. Im obsessed yes, I care yes I want to be with him yes.. But IDK love is, IDK if I can really love anyone..
It doesnt make sense to love him..
I struggle with figuring out what I feel.. Because honestly I dont know what it is..

In a way I feel like he wants me to say it to him, but then I think if I do, then he's outta there...

He told me that he has a special place for me, and that he's really into me.. That I make him have "emotions" He only explained that as a "gut feeling" he has.. Which I understand, because I have this feeling..

I know,but I dont know what I know, but I just KNOW!!
I know I sound crazy.... But I "know" hahah


What I cant understand and get a grip on,is WHY this one person has such a huge effect on me.. I dont get the why.. I keep searching for why, but I cant find that answer...

I have both pluto/uranus in H7.. So I really like the intensity.. But it scares the living day lights out of me..
I feel like I cant breathe, and I have to run and escape.. But I cant find the door.. I get overwhelmed with feelings. They control me and I cant handle them.
So I run in circles and he just stands there starring at me.. Like WTF ya doin???? Then he graps me and says get your azz back over here.. Chill out... Im here.. Then I just feel better.

Its all very confusing, and frustrating.. and WONDERFUL all mixed in one.

Now he's a pisces stellium and Im a leo stellium.. Let me tell you, this man gives me so much attention and affection and compliments. I just swoon head over heals.. (u know the leo weakness) He just makes me weak in the knees..
I get butterflies just by seeing him. I see him every day...
I actually miss him, when I havent seen him in just a few hours.
We text all day every day, then at night we talk about what we texted about... LOL
Then at bed time, we are saying we miss each other, and cant wait to see you tomorrow..
(ok so we are a little silly)

IDk how we can talk so much.. It just never ends..

sighhhhh...

This man is my true internal struggle.


This sounds SO sweet it sounds like ur own little fairy tale I love it lol yeah leos r big on the whole attention thing but I have a leo sister, ex and son. I just love their big hearts and they r very affectionate once u've earned their trust. They're good ppl. Anyways u give me hope u really do lol ur words to me r describing the very essence of a moon/pluto relationship. I love it and hate it at the same time lol normally with breakups (other than my divorce) I withdraw into myself for about a month, then I'm good and back on the market. Not with this guy. I ask myself as well "y him?? Y this one guy?" Doesn't make any sense to me and the more I try to figure it out the more I confuse myself. I can't believe a yr later and u still swoon over him that's amazing

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posted April 19, 2012 11:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I think that moon/pluto brings you back..

But yeah I didnt talk to fishy for 3 months. When we started talking again we became closer and closer.. Always talking and having some sort of contact with each other. We are just barely at the stage where we are "sort of" admitting feelings, but not totally there..

We have both said we feel a special bond, we have said that we want to be with each other.. But the fear is really bad...
Today he asked me if I loved him yet...
My answer was Im cool..babe...

But here's the thing.. Im obsessed yes, I care yes I want to be with him yes.. But IDK love is, IDK if I can really love anyone..
It doesnt make sense to love him..
I struggle with figuring out what I feel.. Because honestly I dont know what it is..

In a way I feel like he wants me to say it to him, but then I think if I do, then he's outta there...

He told me that he has a special place for me, and that he's really into me.. That I make him have "emotions" He only explained that as a "gut feeling" he has.. Which I understand, because I have this feeling..

I know,but I dont know what I know, but I just KNOW!!
I know I sound crazy.... But I "know" hahah


What I cant understand and get a grip on,is WHY this one person has such a huge effect on me.. I dont get the why.. I keep searching for why, but I cant find that answer...

I have both pluto/uranus in H7.. So I really like the intensity.. But it scares the living day lights out of me..
I feel like I cant breathe, and I have to run and escape.. But I cant find the door.. I get overwhelmed with feelings. They control me and I cant handle them.
So I run in circles and he just stands there starring at me.. Like WTF ya doin???? Then he graps me and says get your azz back over here.. Chill out... Im here.. Then I just feel better.

Its all very confusing, and frustrating.. and WONDERFUL all mixed in one.

Now he's a pisces stellium and Im a leo stellium.. Let me tell you, this man gives me so much attention and affection and compliments. I just swoon head over heals.. (u know the leo weakness) He just makes me weak in the knees..
I get butterflies just by seeing him. I see him every day...
I actually miss him, when I havent seen him in just a few hours.
We text all day every day, then at night we talk about what we texted about... LOL
Then at bed time, we are saying we miss each other, and cant wait to see you tomorrow..
(ok so we are a little silly)

IDk how we can talk so much.. It just never ends..

sighhhhh...

This man is my true internal struggle.


This sounds SO sweet it sounds like ur own little fairy tale I love it lol yeah leos r big on the whole attention thing but I have a leo sister, ex and son. I just love their big hearts and they r very affectionate once u've earned their trust. They're good ppl. Anyways u give me hope u really do lol ur words to me r describing the very essence of a moon/pluto relationship. I love it and hate it at the same time lol normally with breakups (other than my divorce) I withdraw into myself for about a month, then I'm good and back on the market. Not with this guy. I ask myself as well "y him?? Y this one guy?" Doesn't make any sense to me and the more I try to figure it out the more I confuse myself. I can't believe a yr later and u still swoon over him that's amazing

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posted April 19, 2012 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ahhhh thanks I adore my fishy... It took me a long time to get there.. I was pulling my hair out for a year..

It's a tough energy to get use to, I had to fiqure out how to deal with it.
Once u accept what u feel it gets much better....
Moon/pluto doesn't make u feel or care, it magnifies what u feel.
For me it's my time to learn how to really care for someone.. How to let go of my relationship fears and give into it and accept it... Even if it's not the best outcome.....
It's really a lesson of feelings and dealing with them..

For me I have spent most of my life with a cold heart and not letting anyone really in, or knowing my true self..
I've been in lots of relationships was even married for 12 years..i never commited with my heart or real love.. I just kind of went with it..
Now I'm ashamed of my self for doing that...I just let the fear of being hurt and left guide me..that I assumed every relationship will end anyways... I never really had to feel... I got into relationships when I knew I could walk away easily...
Thats what fishy has done for me... I now know how a person is suppose to make me feel... I will never again choose fear over real feelings.....
Now he's dealing with his feelings, trying to accept it... I'm being patient and letting him deal in his own way..
Because I know how much I struggled with it.

You know he's a guy so he's not saying too much, but certain things he says screams moon, pluto...lol
He s afraid of being addicted to me. And that I just make him feel..
He has asked me to be patient with him.. I'm working on my patience...
He's the only man I want or have any interest in... I'm not even attracted to anyone else right now.... So I'm just talking it day by day...
We have daily contact...everyday we say how we want to be with each other.... But idk saturn is delaying it..lol dohhhhh!
We have to discuss and agree to every single aspect with us. we verbally work through everything... We are trying to find a mutual ground to agree on.... We are not there yet..

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posted April 19, 2012 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is this HIM? Lioness

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Is this HIM? Lioness


Yes....we have gotten really close...we both have admitted feelings for each other..but we r going really slow...

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Originally posted by Lioness:
Yes....we have gotten really close...we both have admitted feelings for each other..but we r going really slow...


WOW wonderful Lionness. It makes me cry. You have loved him for so long

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