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Cardinalgal
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posted March 05, 2007 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cardinalgal     Edit/Delete Message
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Is the English language really so difficult that Randall is now being accused of being biased in handing down his opinion on this matter?

I don't believe anyone's grasp of the English language is in question to be honest jwhop. Neither is the 'handing down' of one's opinion... curious choice of phrase by the way; in English, the correct phraseology would actually be "offering one's opinion" - it has less overbearing connotations you see, because an opinion is something one ‘presents’ to another rather than ‘imposes’ upon them. However, here endeth the English lesson for today.

My point was simply that if you're in a position to preside over a place such as this, and you’ve made certain rules or have set down guidelines for people's conduct (see the front page,) I think it's only fair that you enforce those rules universally, to all members and treat everyone in the same way. I said that as Randall was critical of those who he felt had insulted Lotus, I hoped that he had also spoken to Lotus about her conduct, so as to be fair. You see if he hasn't, then that could be said to be bias.

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jwhop
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posted March 05, 2007 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jwhop     Edit/Delete Message
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Could also explain why I'm engaging Jwhop lately. (Who incidentally has an unaspected Mars in Aries)...acoustic

I don't know if you're just a slow learner or perhaps you're a masochist acoustic.

The last time you dropped my name in a thread where I wasn't posting you were engaged in a display of out of control arrogance. There you were acoustic, browbeating other members about "how they are". Not "how they are" based on anything they said or did...but "how they are" based on their Moon nodes.

Imagine the total arrogance of arguing with someone and demanding they accept your opinion of "how they are"..based on their Nodes. Of course acoustic, they were not at all amused.

You carried on and made it even worse by misrepresenting what Jan Spiller had to say about the Nodes of the Moon. It didn't matter that lalalinda 'splained it to you over and over...and over and over and over.

I suppose no one should have been surprised when you carried your arrogance to new heights by suggesting lalalinda wasn't qualified to teach astrology on this site....because she disagreed with your interpretations about the Nodes...and what you were misrepresenting to be Jan Spiller's interpretations.

So acoustic, you're feeling a little aggressive are you?

"Could also explain why I'm engaging Jwhop lately"

Is this where you were pausing for the anticipated applause acoustic?

You are as right about my "unaspected Mars in Aries" as you were with your nonsense about the Moons Nodes.

My Mars in Aries "trines" my Leo Sun and Leo Moon.

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Solane Star
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posted March 05, 2007 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solane Star     Edit/Delete Message
OH My, you are freaking bored in GU!!!!!!

No need for reply!!!!!!

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jwhop
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posted March 05, 2007 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jwhop     Edit/Delete Message
You need to get a grip BlueRoamer. I didn't bring up Kindred Spirits, Johnny did..twice on this thread.

I do however remember the entire sordid affair.

Further, I adore liberals. Leftists are an entirely different matter. Leftists, the self appointed champions of free speech are forever attempting to shut people up who disagree with them...like you're attempting now.

No sale BlueRoamer. Kindred Spirits became an issue...again..when Johnny resurrected it...after it had been indecently buried for months.

Better if it had been left to molder in the earth.

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Moon666Child
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posted March 05, 2007 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moon666Child     Edit/Delete Message


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Solane Star
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posted March 05, 2007 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solane Star     Edit/Delete Message
Lets just fight about anything that we can drag up from the past or the basement, so we can feed it and fight!!!!

Adding gasoline to the fires again!!!!

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Solane Star
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posted March 05, 2007 04:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solane Star     Edit/Delete Message
Well thats funny, but just how long did it take for you to come along and point this out to us!!!

Should I says thanks Jwhop!!!!

How honorable of you!!!!

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Randall
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posted March 05, 2007 04:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Bias? I haven't banned Lotus, and I haven't banned anyone for their attacks on Lotus either. And AG's harsh remarks against Lalalinda is in the same league as what Lotus is being accused of. Everyone has an opinion, and I try to give extra consideration to free speech here. Tempers flare, and I understand that. Upset at losing control? Be real. I'm upset that I helped linked people together to form a site that bashed us and talked about brutally raping one of our Members, but personally, I don't care who goes where and who does what. All you KSers can depart and never return, and LL will still continue to grow at the rate of several dozen new Members a day (just as it has been the past few years). The site is about Linda and what she can teach us. People come and go here. Some return. Some don't. You are all taking things too seriously. If you like it here, stay and contribute (even if you are critical). If you don't like it here, STFU and don't let the door hit you in the butt on the way out.

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jwhop
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posted March 05, 2007 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jwhop     Edit/Delete Message
Hello Cardinalgal

Since you're a reasonable person Cardinalgal we can have a reasonable conversation about why I phrased my comment as I did....the correct way, I might add, considering all the factors.

This from Johnny's missive to Randall:

"It is my feeling that these attacks violate the rules of this site, and that they are harming the sense of community that has developed here. It is a shame when one member is allowed to drive off those who disagree with her, and others are forced to stand by helplessly. Thus, I felt the need to inform you, in the hopes that you will review the matter and intervene if you feel it is appropriate."

Notice Cardinalgal, Johnny wasn't asking for Randall's opinion. Johnny asked Randall to judge this matter and intervene as he found appropriate.

In view of the fact Randall is both judge and jury in matters concerning appropriate LL
behavior, "handing down his opinion" would seem to be most appropriate.

Further, I noticed Randall used "all". Unless I'm misreading what Randall meant, that would include Lotus.

Your concern that Lotus received favorable treatment would seem to be unfounded. She received the very same treatment as everyone else...in my opinion.

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Randall
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posted March 05, 2007 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks, Jwhop. Yes, you read me correctly.

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jwhop
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posted March 05, 2007 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jwhop     Edit/Delete Message
A couple dozen new members a day is really impressive Randall

People do come and they sometimes go and sometimes come back to LL because there's no place like LindaLand.

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taurus/gemini cusp
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posted March 05, 2007 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurus/gemini cusp     Edit/Delete Message
I'll probably get banned for this.....

A webmaster who claims he doesn't care who, (from this forum) stays or goes, is, in my opinion, shocking. It smacks of bad attitude.

It is also a lie, as I'm sure Randall does have those he is fond of and those he is not fond of also.....

If I don't get chucked off of this forum for voicing my honest opinion, then I hope some of the recent nastiness has cleared up by the time I return (end of merc rx).

Regards
t/g cusp.

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Cardinalgal
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posted March 05, 2007 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cardinalgal     Edit/Delete Message
Hello Jwhop

Thank you for your tremendously kind appraisal of me as “a reasonable person.” I think I shall have that carved into my headstone! And a heart!! I’m quite breathless you old charmer you!

However I’m afraid you’re still grammatically incorrect in your use of English in this case. If Randall is ‘both judge and jury’ then any response he made to Johnny’s entreaty should have been referred to as his “passing judgement.” But I digress... as usual!

Now then, re Lotus: what I said was “as Randall was critical of those who he felt had insulted Lotus, I hoped that he had also spoken to Lotus about her conduct, so as to be fair. You see if he hasn't, then that could be said to be bias.”

And what Randall said was “When you insult Lotus (in support of Sue), you just do what you accuse her of- making all of you in the wrong.” I have selected the words in the sentence which implied to me that he wasn’t including Lotus in this reproach. He doesn’t acknowledge her bad behaviour himself – he refers to it as something that she’s being 'accused of,' implying that as far as he’s concerned, it’s not yet proven. I’m sorry to labour the point so painstakingly but I felt it important to demonstrate the reason I felt it necessary to ask him if he’d treated Lotus to the same admonition. I do hope you understand Jwhop – I feel certain you will, as you too are a reasonable person.

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Cardinalgal
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posted March 05, 2007 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cardinalgal     Edit/Delete Message
Hello Randall

You seem to be upset at my use of the word ‘bias.’ I do apologise if I’ve upset or offended you and hopefully the above reply to Jwhop will explain my reasons.

You said:
"And AG's harsh remarks against Lalalinda is in the same league as what Lotus is being accused of."

Well if we're naming names and giving examples of harsh remarks, then I’m sure (as we’re old sparring partners,) Jwhop won’t mind me mentioning that his own methods of debate sometimes appear to leave a great deal to be desired in the "courteous and respectful" department. And I'm quoting the words (which I assume are yours?) from the front page of this very site.

It says :
"You are free to speak your Minds about anything, but please, use no profanity or personal insults.

There will be no censorship here, and freedom of expression and speech rules supreme, but please be courteous and respectful of others while doing so. Linda had a talent for speaking her Mind without offending others. Let's try to do likewise. She was very opinionated, and when we debate with each other in a loving manner, we do her name justice. Peace, Light, and Love to all."

Which I whole heartedly agree with, however I have yet to see those rules enforced. I am simply asking is it right to criticise some for their words against Lotus and to call AG's conduct with LalaLinda into question when you haven't addressed that kind of behaviour in others?

I don't like inequality or bad manners, and yes I do take them extremely seriously Randall; I'm proud to. You only have to look at the ‘Sue G, jackal’ thread (or virtually any in GU for instance) to see what happens when those values aren't taken seriously and upheld. Of course, it's your site and you must run it as you see fit - so I think due to a clear difference in values, I might take you up on your wise suggestion to leave. Thank you all for some extremely enjoyable times and for all that I’ve learnt here.

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AcousticGod
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posted March 05, 2007 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
Hmmm... tricky situation.

Do I post a rebuttal to quite a bit of dishonesty, or do I just accept a few cheap shots for the sake of the peace?

If I rebut Jwhop, then he'll want to split hairs.

The Lalalinda stuff is pretty self-explanatory to anyone who was there. It was a thread about Over-Sensitivity. I mentioned that people with a Capricorn North Node can be overly sensitive as explained in Jan Spiller's book Astrology For the Soul. I know a lot of people here have read and agree with that book's insights. Lalalinda has a personal beef with me, and came into that thread to disagree believing that her years as an astrologer were enough for her to get one over on me. Zala has typed out most if not all of the Capricorn North Node chapter of that book here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/007999.html
Anyone with basic reading skills can read that chapter, and understand where I was coming from posting Capricorn NN as an overly sensitive placement. I do think judgment was lacking both in choosing to pick an argument with me over it, as well as the continued goading that ensued. That said, I've never called Lalalinda 'vile' or accused her of 'black magic,' though I can agree I've gotten a bit nasty with people around here from time to time.

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Johnny
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posted March 05, 2007 06:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Johnny     Edit/Delete Message
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Do I post a rebuttal to quite a bit of dishonesty, or do I just accept a few cheap shots for the sake of the peace?

If I rebut Jwhop, then he'll want to split hairs.


You don't need to rebut anything, AG. Your true character continually shines through - as does the character of others, for better or worse. And, in regard to the other thing... like they say, the whole world can believe a foolish thing, but it will still be a foolish thing.

The amount of insidiousness in some of the posts above is astounding to me. I'm starting to believe that my regard for some people on this site that I (highly) respected has been misplaced. I guess, just because a site is named after a person, it doesn't necessarily reflect her teachings. Whatever your position, I don't think there's any doubt Linda would not be proud about having her name attached to this.

I regret bringing up KS now; I wanted to make a point that this issue was long-standing and drastic enough to make people want to leave LL. Guess *that* didn't work. I apologize to those of you who would have liked to see this stay buried. Stupid mistake on my part; I talk too much...

However, I stand by everything else.

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jwhop
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posted March 05, 2007 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jwhop     Edit/Delete Message
Capricorn North Node issues acoustic...not Capricorn personality traits as you attempted to assert and as lalalinda corrected you on over and over. Capricorn North Node issues are issues of the 10th House acoustic, not personality traits.

TALENTS/ PROFESSION-------10th House, Professional issues not personality traits
"These people excel at being the "boss," so management, public speaking, politics, and entrepreneurship are good choices for them. Others are willing to cooperate with their goals, since they approach people under their authority with sensitivity. To achieve success in any area, these folks need to be "in charge" of their own piece of the puzzle."

10th House issues acoustic, not personality traits
"when they use this ability in a management situation their sensitivity encourages people to assist them with goodwill and enthusiasm. However, if they involve themselves in professions that stress nurturing as the end result, they often become enmeshed in feelings of helplessness, unable to get "on top" of the situation. They are better off in goal-oriented professions or positions that enable them to use their sensitivity to lovingly organize others to work toward a specific goal."

10th House issues acoustic. Not personality traits
"If Capricorn North Node people were to manage their families the way they run businesses, their family life would be extremely successful. In fact, they are expert managers because they have a natural understanding of people and can gently align others to cooperate in reaching the goal in ways that don't hurt anyone's feelings."

Considering the way your were browbeating other members acoustic over something you are clueless about..."how they are", I thought lalalinda showed a lot of patience with you...for a long while anyway

That said, I would tend to think Capricorn North Node people fear professional/business world/employment failure above all others.

BTW, how about my unaspected Mars in Aries?

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posted March 05, 2007 08:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for noreenz     Edit/Delete Message
WELL.....personally, I feel a little jaded that I knew nothing of KS!!! I just KNEW I was out of the loop! .....stomps out...lol

turns to say...Randall, I hear ya maaan,

Moonchild- Weird thread? Me thinks that too, lol

Johnny---whoa, what do you mean you talk to much? Just kiddin with ya, couldn't resist, runs back and takes cover, lol


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posted March 05, 2007 08:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
Jwhop, I understand that you'd rather people not read and come to their own conclusions. I, however, know that people who do will very, very easily ascertain the truth of the matter.

It was a good try, though. I know you'd prefer to save face. As long as people don't take the time to look for themselves, they might just believe you.

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jwhop
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posted March 05, 2007 08:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jwhop     Edit/Delete Message
Fear of failure, standing.

Admit it acoustic, you were wrong and lalalinda was right.

Laid out clearly before you acoustic but still you won't admit it. Laid out from Jan Spilling's own writings...which you quoted.

Bluff and bluster won't work with me. You have 10th house issues acoustic due to your Capricorn North Node. I have Sun, Moon, Mercury and Pluto in my 10th House.

Best save the bluff and bluster for the tourists.

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posted March 05, 2007 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
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Randall, if you're going to defend Lotus's right to say and do whatever she feels about Sue G,

WOW i don't think Randall was defending Lotus against Sue, I think he just wants the situation resolved peacefully and I don't see why thats such a problem for others?

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Randall
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posted March 05, 2007 08:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Yep, I have a slew of new Knowflake requests in my inbox to approve. We almost exclusively get newbies from search engines (we are number one on almost all the large engines). I have to approve each one, so sometimes I get a few days behind. No search engine optimization tactics--we did it the hard way and earned our stripes over the years by just being here and growing. It's nice to be number one, though. And yes, I do have people here that I consider to be my extended family, but that doesn't mean they won't leave. Nothing I can do about that except miss them and wish them well. But yeah, people will come and go. I've learned over the years not to get too involved in those comings and goings and not to take any of it personally. And Johnny, when you get tired of kissing AG's butt for public display, then we can move on to more fruitful pursuits.

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posted March 05, 2007 08:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
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In view of the fact Randall is both judge and jury in matters concerning appropriate LL
behavior, "handing down his opinion" would seem to be most appropriate.

Further, I noticed Randall used "all". Unless I'm misreading what Randall meant, that would include Lotus.

Your concern that Lotus received favorable treatment would seem to be unfounded. She received the very same treatment as everyone else...in my opinion.


THank you Jwhop! People are so caught up in their own arguments, its terrible really.

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posted March 05, 2007 08:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
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Admit it acoustic, you were wrong and lalalinda was right.

Jan Spiller wasn't wrong, and neither was my characterization of her work.

You are the one posturing here, and it really is rather pathetic. This chapter is 34 pages long in Word, so how much did you post? Even within what you posted lies the truth of what I said:

quote:
"when they use this ability in a management situation their sensitivity encourages people to assist them with goodwill and enthusiasm. However, if they involve themselves in professions that stress nurturing as the end result, they often become enmeshed in feelings of helplessness, unable to get "on top" of the situation. They are better off in goal-oriented professions or positions that enable them to use their sensitivity to lovingly organize others to work toward a specific goal."

Here's a more specific quote, which will make you look absolutely absurd for pursuing this:

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From past lives, these natives developed tremendous emotional sensitivity. When they take a moment to "tune in" to the emotional states of others, they accurately understand other people's needs and concerns and can speak to them in a way that rallies the necessary mental and emotional support to reach the goal. They do this automatically, although it is a gift that most other people do not possess.

That isn't an issue. It's an inborn trait. Like I said, anyone that can read can comprehend the futility of your and Lalalinda's arguments.

Each of the North Nodes include goals (what you've deemed to be issues). These goals are able to be met through the enhancements of the South Node, which are traits you've developed over lifetimes.

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posted March 05, 2007 09:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Johnny     Edit/Delete Message
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And Johnny, when you get tired of kissing AG's butt for public display, then we can move on to more fruitful pursuits.

Listen, if you want to ban me, go right ahead - I won't sneak back in. But trying to provoke me with infantile little jabs is a little beneath the administrator of Linda-Goodman.com, isn't it? I don't think I've been anything less than respectful to you, as I appreciate what you've done for this site and this community.

Seriously, though. I thought you were bigger than that.

"Kissing AG's butt." That's funny; I see quite a bit of butt-kissing in this thread, and most of it is directed at you.

What fruitful pursuits are you talking about, anyway?

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