posted January 04, 2009 09:07 AM           

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Are you kidding me???? There is an asteroid America! Next you will be telling me that there is an asteroid called "housework" and it's seriously afflicted in my chart lol

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posted January 04, 2009 09:11 AM         

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In truth, he's the only one that can give you these answers because he's the only one who knows how he truly feels about you and what his intentions (and goals) are.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:11 AM           

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Yeah I get your point there PA, very practical thinking!

To me however it's not like i'm "on hold" so to speak, even though to others it might appear that way. I simply haven't met anyone who affects me this way, I am not the kind who falls for men at the drop of a hat....I need to feel that karmic pull otherwise I won't bother to look at you sideways basically.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:14 AM         

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Okay - I get that - I'm the same. Don't need a man just to have one around. Need the right person. That's special then. And has a lot of meaning. If that's how you feel - and also how he feels - it's worth the wait - and that's all you can do. He's committed to his duties.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:15 AM           

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I hear you, but don't fret, I am still in control of all my faculties. It is a wait & see type of thing & nothing can change that!

And most typical of me I go running to others to confirm what my gut instincts already tell me.

Perhaps it's time for me to exercise some faith huh?

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posted January 04, 2009 09:15 AM         

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So would he come here straight from SK or would he go home first? Do they really know that far in advance where they are going to be stationed?

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posted January 04, 2009 09:16 AM           

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PeaceAngel did I ever tell you the story of how I met my ex?

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posted January 04, 2009 09:17 AM         

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Well, that's the thing about faith. There's always that struggle - do you believe because you want to or because it's the truth? But a little bit of faith goes a long long way, I believe. Just trust yourself. I believe we always know our truth inside - just comes down to how much we listen to it. Sometimes it tells us things we don't really want to know or listen to - and sometimes, even more disbelievingly, it confirms what we do want.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:17 AM         

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I believe, in the end of it, no matter what anyone else says, you know what you know.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:18 AM           

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Yes he will come here straight from S.Korea before he goes home. Then who knows from there, but that is something I am not going to concern myself with right now

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posted January 04, 2009 09:19 AM         

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No you haven't told me how you met your ex. And btw, there really is an asteroid America. ROFL the housework asteroid comment! I'm sure mine is equally afflicted if there is one! Call it asteroid Hammeroid - pain in the butt housework asteroid.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:24 AM           

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Here goes the story.....

Once upon a time I was working in a curtain factory in an industrial village full of mechanics and panel beaters, I had worked there for many years when one day at the age of 18 I went across the road to the sandwich shop to get my lunch and talk to my GF who worked there, she then TOLD me that a young man by the name of shane was interested in me & would be calling me that night at her place ( He apparently had been watching me for a year or two but being a shy Cancer boy was to nervous to do anything about it so one of his work mates spoke to my GF to arrange a date) The whole thing was arranged by other people!!! can you believe that??

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posted January 04, 2009 09:27 AM         

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That's unreal! Though, I'm still picking myself up from the floor over the two years comment. Totally unfathomable to an Aries. Even 2 minutes is too long. Wow! Did you know of him before that evening?

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posted January 04, 2009 09:29 AM           

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Anyways he called we arranged to meet the following day to confirm where we wanted to go etc, etc & that very morning as I was entering the village driveway I was HIT SMACK BANG in the HEAD with my very first vision: it hit me all at once like in fast forward & in slo mo.....I knew he was the one for me that we would be together for a very very long time BUT the last words that entered my brain were written as in stone...it would not be forever!

Freaky or what!

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posted January 04, 2009 09:30 AM         

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I don't think the being arranged by other people thing is all that uncommon. People play matchmakers all the time. Funny, Mr PA's sister and I were friends and she tried to match me with some of her friends - but didn't even think of her brother! We met at a party and introduced ourselves.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:32 AM           

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No PA that's just IT!!! I never knew he existed until our date was arranged & he worked four doors down from me..FOR YEARS

Oh his Sun conjuncts my Saturn so I think I know who to blame here lol.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:33 AM         

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Wow! I had something like that. Years ago. I remember I was window shopping (jewellery) and I looked into the glass and it came to me that I would be with three people - the first one older, the second one younger and the third one would be the one I would marry. But when I met Mr PA I knew. YOu know how they say, you just know? It's true.

So did knowing that it wasn't permanent colour your feelings/thoughts? Was it always in the back of your mind? That's a huge thing to know.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:35 AM         

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That is so weird! 4 doors and you never met. How strange is this because Mr PA and I went to the same school and never crossed paths. We lived a few streets away from each other. So like you, you must have crossed paths in cars or in the street, etc, and just not known it. But you said the he was aware of you! That must be strange too. Being watched (for two years!) and not knowing it.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:37 AM         

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I love those experiences.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:38 AM           

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Yeah it is strange to know that in advance but when it comes down to it the heart just takes over Karmic relationships just pull you in like a tsunami wave, you have no choice but to go with it, but it always stayed in the back of my mind like I was never allowed to forget it.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:42 AM           

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EXACTLY the same..... Knowing this about you helps me understand that you get me! & you have that same thing I have....My life is in Karma's hands & I have learned not to fight it anymore.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:43 AM         

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I think often those karmic type relationships that pull you in that way are very very hard to break. So maybe being armed with that knowledge was a blessing in that you just knew to break it. My first person and I - it was very very hard to break. Very bad. On and off for a very long time. I broke it in the end - and where I should have felt crushed - I actually felt really free and happy - relieved. I think I was sad for about a minute. Literally. And then I drew one big deep breath and was fine. Of course, it took years to deal with the damage inflicted.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:46 AM         

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Ah, the big fight! Yes, have been very guilty of that. Learnt the very hard way that I'm not going to win that battle - so just flow with it - and let the lesson come and go as quickly as possible. I've learnt that those types of connections - for me - that when I feel that intensity - I have to break from that person. I know some people think that that feeling is that they are meant to be together or are twinflames, but for me, it means to break. It's quite hard.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:47 AM         

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And yeah - I'm glad that you get that I get you - I saw those similarities and knew you'd see that too.

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posted January 04, 2009 09:49 AM           

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I totally understand that PA!

It was very similar (such heavy heavy karma)

It literally broke me down & scorpio Venus takes it HARD. It actually took me another four years for both of us to let go even though we were miserable. But the lessons learnt will remain forever & of course I have my beautiful boy that came from that relationship & to get him in my life then ALL was worth it.

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