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Topic: Infidelity aspects in synastry
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Ariesrocks!
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posted April 17, 2004 12:16 PM
 
I've been doing some research, scientific research, since we all know that by now astrology is a scientific subject!Here's what I've come up with in couples where there's been cheating.
(note!!! so if you have some of these aspects with your partner don't fret and cry, I'm not saying it definitely will lead to infidelity only that there's is a possibility, feel free to disagree with me and give me you're own experience with these aspects) Venus Square Neptune
(Venus opposition Neptune, not as strong )
Venus conjunct Neptune Venus square Uranus
Venus opposition Uranus
sometimes Venus conjunct Uranus these aspects obviously have the same meaning in composite, especially if the uranus aspects are prominent in the composite, it will give extra strength to those aspects Also Venus/ Mars in gemini and Venus/neptune/ Uranus complications in a natal chart can contribute to a "infidelity prone" personality Pisces hasn't been shown as much as I thought in cheating situations IP: Logged |
soulsista
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posted April 17, 2004 12:22 PM
Thanks Aries, thats interesting.IP: Logged |
happyone
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posted April 17, 2004 12:54 PM
I am new to Astrology so I do not know my Venus square. But I can tell you this. I am a Leo man and my ex is Aquarius woman. She swindled me.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted April 17, 2004 01:05 PM
well.... I have Venus conjunct Neptune in both my natal, and in synastry with my husband's Neptune.
My husband's Venus squares Mine and his own Neptune.
Uranus's are fine ( although conjunct my Sun... I have very tight planets)
But he has Mars in Gemini.
Are you sorry for me? Heehee. Naw.... I'm not worried about Him cheating on ME. Nope.
Thanks for the info!!!! IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted April 17, 2004 01:08 PM
Happy one~
Don't sound too happy about that....
Ex, you say?
Swindled, you say?
For a really good learning site, you should try;
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/
and for a free chart ( you need birthtimes) www.astro.com IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks!
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posted April 17, 2004 01:11 PM
pixie that's exactly the kind of response I like, since nothing in astrology is destined, it shows influences and possibilities. And infidelity in synastry is very tricky to discover. IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks!
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posted April 17, 2004 01:12 PM
also I find that uranus aspects are almost worse than neptuneIP: Logged |
PlayfulPonderingFishMoon
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posted April 17, 2004 01:35 PM
I can speak to the vaildity of the Gemini tie-in via at least one person in my own life too.
But, he also has a 4 planet stellium of Gemini within his personal planets including his Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Mars though.
That's a lot of 'Twinners' making noise within him, isn't it? Lol
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pixelpixie
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posted April 17, 2004 01:46 PM
Hi all, have a nice day...*Who, me? Edit? Nah.....* IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted April 17, 2004 04:23 PM
Ariesrocks, my ex who cheated on me, his neptune squares my venus, but so does my own neptune, and same with every guy I ever dated, because it was in Scorpio from 1958 to 1970. But, he's the only one who did that to me. I, on the other hand, cheated on ALL of the guys I dated after him..actually, more like overlapped old relationships with new ones...sort of a phasing out/phasing in process. However, it's interesting to note that his sun and merc. tightly trine my natal Neptune, and my Venus opposes his asc, which is Pisces. tons of Uranus aspects between us, mostly good. Mine N-Uranus contacts just about every one of his planets, and his opposes my chiron, sextiles my asc. and conj my midheaven. I attribute his cheating to the combination of his Venus in Gemini, Mars in Saggie, Pisces rising, and his immaturity at the time...and the fact that we became parents. (something about Cancer's and the way their perception of a woman changes as soon as she becomes a mom) IP: Logged |
Autumn wind
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posted April 17, 2004 05:27 PM
Cool! that's very interesting. My own chart is ok, but my hubby has Venus square Uranus! hmmmm, I better keep a closer eye on him! lol. IP: Logged |
teaselbaby
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posted April 18, 2004 12:35 AM
*edited out something that was in the past, and needs to stay there. I have several so-called "cheating" aspects, though, and am not a cheater. IP: Logged |
teaselbaby
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posted April 18, 2004 12:45 AM
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Peri
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posted April 18, 2004 01:56 PM
what about
1. venus opposition jupiter in natal chart 2. venus conjunct pluto and venus in synastry
3. and venus opposition venus and mars in synastry?IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted April 19, 2004 04:31 AM
I think at least one of those has been true in my experience...------------------
it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks!
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posted April 19, 2004 07:38 AM
Peri those aspects rarely cause those kinds of problemsIP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted April 19, 2004 03:03 PM
I hope this doesn't offend anyone, and if it does I apologize in advance.I think its just human nature for men to cheat, to think about it, or want to see every womans breast(if thier straight) they come into contact with. It has to do with the "hunt or challenge", This is stimulous. This has nothing to do with love. I have seen men who were with the woman of thier dreams who have cheated. They are conquering beasts its just human Nature. You know the old saying "A hard **** has no conscience. (sorry) With hard natal aspects to Venus from Neptune, Uranus and Pluto you will live an "alternative lifestyles" gay, swingers, drug induced, even hippies and communes fall under this. One aspect won't do it, it will just give you a little "kink" to your kinky lol Saturn figures here also but a little different it can make you hate or not trust. And this will be a deep rooted problem. IP: Logged |
Duality
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posted April 19, 2004 04:22 PM
I have Venus incnjunct Neptune and square a Uranus/Pluto conjunction and yes - Venus conjunct Mars in gemini! 
I've never cheated on anyone and I've never lived an "alternative lifestyle"!! Nor do I intend to in the future! Fishmoon
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But, he also has a 4 planet stellium of Gemini within his personal planets including his Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Mars though.
He was born in June 68??? I have the exact same conjunct stellium !!!IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted April 19, 2004 04:41 PM
I'd like to eat a whole pizza every night, or 3 cheeseburgers, or whatever I'm craving at that time, but I know better. I'd like to jump some of the young cuties that I work with, or that I meet at nightclubs, or that I see at my excersize club, but I know better. And I'm in my sexual prime right now, and feeling rather deprived in that area, I might add, but I know better. Men are just as capeable as women of making the decision to resist temptation inspite of what their animal nature is craving, some just choose not to. Some women choose not to as well. Women cheat too, not just men. And we don't even have c**ks. And some men eat too much pizza and cheeseburgers too. Some people can rise above their animal instincts, and some simply don't want to.  God, I'd like a cheeseburger right now. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
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posted April 19, 2004 05:05 PM
with extra meatIP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted April 19, 2004 05:34 PM
yeah...thick and juicy with extra meat...Mmmmm.  IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted April 19, 2004 05:41 PM
I'll share mine...{I have Venus Sextile Neptune & Venus Conj Pluto} ------------------
it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted April 19, 2004 08:28 PM
I think you need to clarify where you stand on the subject too, Gloria, or it doesn't tell us anything. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted April 19, 2004 09:11 PM
I knew someone would take offence and I'm sorry thats not the way I meant it. Women respond to what they hear and men respond to what they see. Yes some women do cheat, but when they're happy and in love that is the furthest thing from thier mind. We want to bond, go one on one. thats what makes (most of) us secure. With men one has nothing to do with the other. (and I didn't say they all cheated, but they do think about having sex with other people) Age and experience have everything to do with it. I take it Duality that your young (under 30)and things change, you don't know what you'll be doing next year at this time. Also even though you're appalled by it right now what happens if in the future you get involved with someone who is into say wife swapping? They don't consider that cheating even though they're having sex with other couples. Because they're doing it together. the examples I gave for alternative lifestyles are not the only ones there are its just in general. What if you're a Mormon and believe in having more than one wife? Is that perverted? They don't think so and they're religious. Don't close off your options before you've even tried it or how do you really know that you won't like it? Never say never.IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted April 19, 2004 09:32 PM
Who got offended LLL?Hope you don't think it's me. Not sure how far back you've read my posts, but I'm being totally serious. Not offended... hee hee I'm Demi Moore-years-old, never married, never looked to get married until recently. But I still won't have a 100% traditional relationship. I'm not into a swinger lifestyle, but I love erotic & sensual. And don't be shy about bringing up those topics in relation to astrology. I'm sure everyone is familiar with the classic "Sex Signs" by Judith Bennett? There are whole sections devoted to each sign regarding every type of alternative lifestyle you can imagine. And it's not written like all sleezy or anything. IP: Logged |
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