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Topic: Practice readings/exchanges Lenormand yes/no questions (slowish)
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AwakenSky16
Knowflake Posts: 1818
From: between here and threre
Registered: Oct 2016
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posted April 19, 2017 01:13 PM
  
Oups sorry I erased what I had written for you by making the answer for Javaweb. So I put things back in place!@ILP Thank you so !! Please leave your question, i'll be free in one hour again  @ILP/Magikaal I created a new post for us to exchange. You can post your question there ! it's our 900 here !!!  IP: Logged |
AwakenSky16
Knowflake Posts: 1818
From: between here and threre
Registered: Oct 2016
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posted April 19, 2017 01:24 PM
@JavawebThank you so for your feedback I wish the things will be fine for you in this situtation.
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Sikanda
Knowflake Posts: 976
From: 28080
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted April 19, 2017 06:23 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Magikaal:
@Sikanda - sorry for the delay.I used tarot for a past, present, future spread and got; 3 disks - princess of swords clarified by 5 of swords - death So it seems that things were going well initially. Currently the difficulties. Future - the end, or things becoming so bad they have to be transformed (best case scenario). The princess and 5 of swords turned out to be very interesting. After delving into meanings it speaks of pacifism, or trying to avoid conflict until it blows up in your face. But basically what I'm feeling/thinking is this sense of someone being passive-aggressive. Would you say that fits the description of J? Usually, at least in my experience, they come across as this really nice person but afterwards the real person comes out and the real person is not so nice. They have a lot of issues which they haven't dealt with properly and this affects their perception of everything. I feel this very strongly applies to your situation.
The death card at the end can be interpreted in a couple of ways. Firstly, the end of your relationship with this person, at least as it used to be. Or it can be totally transformed but this would require a lot of work and clearing out of old stuff and people in this sort of relationship would have to be very mature, emotionally and otherwise. Anyway I'm not sure that is the why but I think it's his general attitude and personality. I could be wrong but let me ask: have you been doing well at work lately? And he hasn't?
Thank you Magikaal, for your reading .
Well I am doing fine at work I guess, but so is he, I think. Just the usual stuff going on.
He did compliment me once for the good job I was doing. Hmm Are you suggesting he might be a bit jealous of my progress/success.. perhaps? We are not competitors, and we work in different areas, to say so.
The passive-agressive part is spot on. I think he's been doing it, he's angry at me or something, and that's how he shows it... because he makes it quite evident that he doesn't even look at me when I meet him. And yes, I am not knowing what to do and I just go with the flow, I am giving him time (the avoid part too) but maybe I should be more assertive and address the issue, and see what happens.
If I don't (or even if I did?) I can see this coming to an end. IP: Logged |
Magikaal
Knowflake Posts: 509
From: Oz
Registered: Apr 2016
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posted April 19, 2017 06:52 PM
Thanks for the feedback Sikanda. I just wondered if you had been doing well and he couldn't handle it and felt threatened in some way so has to express his hostility in this covert manner. I feel like for a course of action one should be looking at a handbook How to Handle Passive Aggressive People or something. I think what you were doing is sensible. I was just googling this and it can get kinda complicated (like not taking the bait in every situation). It is a really annoying trait, to be sure. I wish you the best of luck, I think you are much more persevering than I am. IP: Logged |
Magikaal
Knowflake Posts: 509
From: Oz
Registered: Apr 2016
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posted April 19, 2017 06:56 PM
@ImeanjActually I think that the potential is still there, like Awaken said. It's just that it's not currently moving (stuck) and is going through a delay. So I'm hopeful that it will get moving again. Please don't lose hope. I wish you the best of luck in this situation. I don't think it's ethical for me to probe why he's acting the way he is (3rd party reading) but at a later stage if still stuck we can read for any particular course of action on your part. IP: Logged |
imeanj
Knowflake Posts: 2488
From:
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 20, 2017 01:56 AM
No need to check. Thank you for the reading and explanation! IP: Logged |
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