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Topic: HOW DO YOU HEAL FROM A LOST LOVE?
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 24, 2012 03:55 AM
  
lol =))
Good night! It's late over here. IP: Logged |
laurenbabiiee7
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posted March 24, 2012 04:42 AM
libra moon, scorpio venus, mars sagittarius, aries ascthis seriousllyyy works....i was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years when he broke up with me.i bawwllled my eyes out was soooo sad and he ended it with lets be "friends" though. psh..so i played along with his little game gave him soooo mich space never contacted him unless he contacted me and when he would id always act like everything was all good and i was really improving and doing well in life, happy all that. this made him wonder alooottt and jealous and made him deffinately think twice avout dumping me since he realized i didnt need him in my life to be happy...so to end long story short..i got him back and weve been going out for a little over 3 yrs now  just act like u dont care nd ur happy thatll get him back atleast it worked for me...if thats what u want IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 24, 2012 05:12 AM
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Originally posted by laurenbabiiee7:
libra moon, scorpio venus, mars sagittarius, aries ascthis seriousllyyy works....i was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years when he broke up with me.i bawwllled my eyes out was soooo sad and he ended it with lets be "friends" though. psh..so i played along with his little game gave him soooo mich space never contacted him unless he contacted me and when he would id always act like everything was all good and i was really improving and doing well in life, happy all that. this made him wonder alooottt and jealous and made him deffinately think twice avout dumping me since he realized i didnt need him in my life to be happy...so to end long story short..i got him back and weve been going out for a little over 3 yrs now just act like u dont care nd ur happy thatll get him back atleast it worked for me...if thats what u want
this approach does work,but "usually" for the wrong reasons, i have used it and wouldnt reccomend it IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted March 24, 2012 05:33 AM
Usually do the breaking up (99%), maybe all my cardinals + Moon/Venus/Mars all aspect Saturn/Pluto.
 Get a new love or at least a new admirer. Everyone looks better when they're in love.
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Nyah
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posted March 24, 2012 06:12 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
[b]Get a new love or at least a new admirer. Everyone looks better when they're in love.
Venus/Moon Cap, Mars Libra[/B]
Another way to look amazing is to get pregnant! That glow and the fab skin is like one of the best reasons to get preggers lol  Probably not the smartest solution if you want someone back though! hehe
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Lonake
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posted March 24, 2012 06:16 AM
The lucky ones glow. lol. And have amped up sex drives. Maybe a connection 
The others just turn into a semblance of ...
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Sashar
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posted March 24, 2012 08:39 AM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
State your Venus, Mars & Moon sign...
Tell me your sad stories that nobody else wants to hear Then how you got your sexy back (partner) or your sexy self back LOL
Venus - Libra
Mars - Libra
Moon - Taurus
(Also important imo Pluto - Libra) I've only had my heart broken three times. The first time, I cried for about two months and then tried to off myself. The second time, I cried for about a year and obsessed over it for another two/three years. This last time, well, I'm in the middle of it. You know, that part where you want to be sad but there's still that hope clinging on... I did notice a pattern though, I tend to destroy everything and change everything about myself after a heartbreak. It usually comes with a major life change and a big move. This one is pulling me through a divorce (surprisingly not the person I'm heart broken over) and hopefully out into the world to experience more things... or at least the later is the goal I'm working towards. Everyone says, "Suck it up and get over it." But... well, I kinda get intense, like really intense and apparently that's frightening to people. You get that intense and there's no way to just suck it up... you just have to figure out how to use that energy and channel it into a positive outlet while you're along for the ride. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 24, 2012 09:27 AM
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ariesdragon
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posted March 24, 2012 06:02 PM
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Originally posted by Sashar:
Venus - Libra
Mars - Libra
Moon - Taurus
(Also important imo Pluto - Libra)I've only had my heart broken three times. The first time, I cried for about two months and then tried to off myself. The second time, I cried for about a year and obsessed over it for another two/three years. This last time, well, I'm in the middle of it. You know, that part where you want to be sad but there's still that hope clinging on... I did notice a pattern though, I tend to destroy
everything and change everything about myself after a heartbreak. It usually comes with a major life change and a big move. This one is pulling me through a divorce (surprisingly not the person I'm heart broken over) and hopefully out into the world to experience more things... or at least the later is the goal I'm working towards. Everyone says, "Suck it up and get over it." But... well, I kinda get intense, like really intense and apparently that's frightening to people. You get that intense and there's no way to just suck it up... you just have to figure out how to use that energy and channel it into a
positive outlet while you're along for the ride.
Sashar I'm not gonna say "suck it up." I'm gonna say "cry it out, scream it out" I know the pain, hang in there and it will get better in time I promise xhugsx
Whenever u need to get it out, and there's no other way, just write it out here. We all hear u and understand. http://youtu.be/MXMaxs8FApA IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 24, 2012 10:07 PM
Hey YTA what happened to your post. I wanted to watch your son playing when I got on my laptopIP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted March 24, 2012 10:15 PM
Venus-Leo
Mars-Gemini
Moon-Scorpio
Sun-Gemini-CancerIt's hard. Idk if I have healed to be honest.
I keep dragging hope along. I think though, with time and lots and lots of activity...I'll forget. I'll forget more when I meet a man who provides me with wht I didn't have in the last relationship. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted March 24, 2012 10:18 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Hey YTA what happened to your post. I wanted to watch your son playing when I got on my laptop
I saw it in beenylove's thread Ras IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted March 24, 2012 10:19 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Are you serious? Being in love is the greatest feeling, I can't believe you've never experienced it!
And losing a love is the most painful feeling. I think he or she is in a hppy little bliss for never having gone through it. Let's not tell that person to seek out love and then get hurt hehe.
I was ignorant of love before but oh soooo soooo happy.lol IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted March 24, 2012 10:21 PM
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Venus-Leo
Mars-Gemini
Moon-Scorpio
Sun-Gemini-CancerIt's hard. Idk if I have healed to be honest.
I keep dragging hope along. I think though, with time and lots and lots of activity...I'll forget. I'll forget more when I meet a man who provides me with wht I didn't have in the last relationship.
Yes I hear ya, it does take time and it hurts It's not easy but it can be done. Keeping busy and occupied is good post a love song if you like or a break up song lol it helps
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Dreaming111
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posted March 24, 2012 10:24 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
The lucky ones glow. lol. And have amped up sex drives. Maybe a connection
The others just turn into a semblance of ...
ACK!! My eyes!! lol IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 24, 2012 10:25 PM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
I saw it in beenylove's thread Ras
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ariesdragon
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posted March 24, 2012 10:27 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Thank you!
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Dreaming111
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posted March 24, 2012 10:30 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AHnZ_vtyJ6E Aw, and look at the guy who posted this "If you've ever REALLY been so close to that perfect happy ending, only to watch it slip away, then you know the heartache. I'm not a kid anymore. At my age there won't be many, if any, more chances like what I had. But you know, at least I did get close." So sweet=)
When it comes to breaking up....I cried a lot listening to chopin, and this song lol..so sad 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Kb9NlAn4PU
Gosh that comment is sad... IP: Logged |
ladyvi
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posted March 25, 2012 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by Fondue Knight:
HAHAHA I LOVE IT!!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
Linda Jones
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posted March 26, 2012 02:15 PM
What, no stories about trying to seduce your love into returning!!?? Thought that was pretty common.IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted March 26, 2012 02:19 PM
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Originally posted by Linda Jones:
What, no stories about trying to seduce your love into returning!!?? Thought that was pretty common.
Lol I think everyone is keeping their secret formulas to themselves Linda 
Come on peeps share lol IP: Logged |
Linda Jones
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posted March 26, 2012 02:34 PM
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Originally posted by Nyah:
Oh! Thank you Ariesdragon! I'll post an inspirational pic lol!OMG that is soooo funnny!!!
The dog on page 4 is beyond priceless!! Here's my astrological breakdown of this cutie-
Asc. in Aries (freakin' bold!)
Sun in Leo (need to be front and center!)
moon in Capricorn (status)
Venus in Taurus (the vanity!)
Mars in Leo (if you've got it, flaunt it!)
Mercury in Scorpio (I'll show them!)
Ariesdragon- I love that you're so responsive!
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ariesdragon
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posted March 26, 2012 02:57 PM
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Originally posted by s4nd:
fixed moon, venus, mars..healing?? not.. yet.. giving.. up!! 
Thank you Linda lol here's me serenading you today  just imagine me singing your favorite song IP: Logged |
Linda Jones
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posted March 26, 2012 03:06 PM
Ariesdragon-I did and here's my response  But, lol, thank you, you charmer! See, that's **me walking w/ a spring in my step for the rest of the day**
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ariesdragon
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posted March 26, 2012 03:17 PM
Linda I'm glad to put a smile on your beautiful face as you have done that for me.... http://youtu.be/kwaXnnYfJA8 IP: Logged |
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