posted March 22, 2012 04:22 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Aquaguy...I am sure that was not the reason. Venus squaring saturn = blech. What was your composite and other synastry like?

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posted March 22, 2012 04:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Sometimes though you have to go MIA for them to get the message. Courage is about doing something that HAS to be done, not wasting time justifying to someone why you're not interested, when you owe them nothing.

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posted March 22, 2012 04:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Sometimes though you have to go MIA for them to get the message. Courage is about doing something that HAS to be done, not wasting time justifying to someone why you're not interested, when you owe them nothing. Some people seem to react to any type of contact as a green light, even after you repeatedly explained over and over again (in a nice way, and some not-so-nice ways) why it's not gonna work.

~Virgo NN, trying to be more discriminating

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posted March 22, 2012 04:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Moon in Capricorn
Venus in Taurus
Mars conj Neptune in Capricorn

There were some people on the first page saying that they were usually the dumpers not the dumpees..
Well I'm the other way around!

I cannot break up with someone for the life of me. In my longest relationship - I felt out of love for a while.. but I didn't say anything and I didn't end it. I was kind of relived when eventually he ended it. I am really mortified about hurting someone. I can't effectively reject people either!
The only people I find easy to reject.. are bad boy types and people who are jerks in other ways, like being very pushy or aggressive towards me. There was a girl for instance who wanted to have a lesbian experience with me.. but I was not attracted to her.. I didn't find it difficult to reject her because she was being a *bi*tch*!! She was being really nasty and pushy with me.. which makes me get defensive.

But otherwise.. if the person confessing their feelings is sweet and nice.. I can't reject them at all. It kills me!

The only time I was hurt by a breakup though was with my first love.. although I was the one to stop talking to him, so maybe I initiated a break up by doing this.. But I was expecting an apology - rather than him being a jerk even *more* so. I only completely got over this person when I met Leo guy (which some of you might know about)... I felt like Leo showed me the things I should want and expect in a guy - in a relationship. And through this experience - I realized how uncalled for and disturbed my first love's behaviour was. And also how self-centered he was. So I could never feel the same way towards him.

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I can relate to this. But I usually go ahead and decide to break-up (eventually after lots of thinking and preparing mentally and emotionally for it), but if I get a reaction where the person gets REALLY sad and upset I want to comfort them! it's so confusing! I feel for them so much and HATE being the one who hurt them, so a couple of times I've actually taken them back and said we could try again (I really thought we could try again at the time) but of course it doesn't work out. All this feels a bit Piscy to me, I don't know?

The other thing is that when I've finally gotten over someone and left for real I don't want to remember them again. I'll delete pictures and cut contact. I think it hurts too much to think about old relationships because some things you miss and some things you can't understand at all, sometimes it feels like a different life or that you were a different person. Very weird and I prefer to focus on the present and the future instead. Same thing with travelling lol, I never go back to the same place again even though I loved being there

posted March 22, 2012 04:43 AM            

You basically have all my signs!

posted March 22, 2012 06:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
oh wow

You basically have all my signs!

My chart is:
Aries Sun
Capricorn Moon
Pisces Mercury
Taurus Venus
Capricorn Mars
Pisces Jupiter

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Ooh.. interesting!! What's your Ascendant? I've got a Leo Jupiter but there are quite a few similarities!

posted March 22, 2012 03:00 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
For lovers who can't make up their minds http://youtu.be/prmmCg5bKxA

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posted March 22, 2012 03:00 PM              

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
For lovers who can't make up their minds http://youtu.be/prmmCg5bKxA

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Video response using "the greatest music video of all time," as eloquently stated by Mr. West:

posted March 22, 2012 03:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
You like Sean Kingston, huh?

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posted March 22, 2012 03:03 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
yes he's good lol but this is for you yin since u love music.... http://youtu.be/dTEef7EcnJQ

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ROTFL. NKOTB???

Thanks!

posted March 22, 2012 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
ROTFL. NKOTB???

Thanks!

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posted March 22, 2012 03:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
You are welcome to participle in my music thread, ariesdragon.

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posted March 22, 2012 03:14 PM              

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
@ capriquairius ur hilarious lol
"all the single ladies , all the single ladies!"

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posted March 22, 2012 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ariesdragon:
[b]@ capriquairius ur hilarious lol
"all the single ladies , all the single ladies!"

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posted March 22, 2012 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by s4nd:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4qPG99GXF0I&feature=results_video&playnext=1 &list=PL4BFCF46E6413D8B9

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posted March 22, 2012 03:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
[b]All those wonderful memories; I remember thinking life sucked for disillusioning my love and making them percieve the situation wrong. If I really loved them, I would try to get them back. If I really loved them, no matter how much we fought, I'd keep trying to work it. Because love is not perfect and you can't just leave someone. Especially when you've invested so much into that person.

I probably don't ever fully get over them because I only remember the wonderful memories and how much we grew together. After a long enough while, I replace them with someone new and better for me. Someone who won't leave me weak and vulnerable who I am equally interested in. (By the way, I noticed that future people I will be attracted to resemble traits of an old love. It's effing weird!)

Don't let this Sagittarius moon fool you. lol. I too experience misery and grief.

Moon Sagittarius, Venus Libra, Mars Scorpio

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