posted March 21, 2012 08:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
"A wise girl kisses but does not love, listens but does not believe, and leaves before she is left."

~ Marilyn Monroe:
Venus in Aries
Mars in Pisces
Moon in Aquarius

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posted March 21, 2012 09:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
What a sad statement. I'd rather have a heart even if it gets broken.

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posted March 21, 2012 09:43 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Wise man says. Sea very big. Full of fish. Ocean even bigger. No shortage of good catch in net. But watch for sharks and barracuda.

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posted March 21, 2012 11:54 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i met a girl when saturn was transiting my seventh house,it was very very karmic,lots of saturn and chiron going both ways, and when things fell apart ,i was depressed for over a year, i still think about her even though its been over 2 years since we spoke, what helped me from losing my sanity was my friends (venus in aquarius) and talked about it(mars in gemini in the third) and ate lol (moon in taurus)

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You know what's funny? When I broke up with my first love/only love, saturn was exactly conjunct my DESC. Like literally less than a quarter of a degree off. o_O So after that for the next 14 months while saturn was transiting over my mercury, moon and venus (all in 7th house) I was pretty screwed.

It was really painful and it was karmic too and it took me over a year to get over things. Still kinda hurt alittle over everything.

Anyway, I'm usually good with breakups (bc I'm the dumper always, still haven't ever been dumped before), but I guess when I finally fell for sb, I fell hard. So yeah. It wasn't good at all. I was pretty much in a bad place. No drug taking or anything like that.
Slept alot to get away from the pain (the only way I could escape the pain was by sleeping obv). I prayed everyday lol (wasn't even a christian until recently), I cried everyday for like 3 months. Wrote a whole lot of things and posts (in the thousands), and drew and vented and cried and cried. Listened to alot of music. Burned some of the past things. Eventually talked about it to a couple of people. Most people don't understand though.

Most people at 19 don't meet their soulmates. Most people don't even believe in that. Nor did I.

Anyway it just made me realise I was actually really bad with letting go.

Now I'm good.

Venus, moon, mercury in libra
virgo sun

OH! And my progressed venus in in scorpy! And that year my progressed moon was in cancer.

I still remember the few times in the first few days post breakup when my eyes would glaze over as I was about to cross the road. Suicidal thoughts and everything -_-.

posted March 22, 2012 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
You know what's funny? When I broke up with my first love/only love, saturn was exactly conjunct my DESC. Like literally less than a quarter of a degree off. o_O So after that for the next 14 months while saturn was transiting over my mercury, moon and venus (all in 7th house) I was pretty screwed.

It was really painful and it was karmic too and it took me over a year to get over things. Still kinda hurt alittle over everything.

Anyway, I'm usually good with breakups (bc I'm the dumper always, still haven't ever been dumped before), but I guess when I finally fell for sb, I fell hard. So yeah. It wasn't good at all. I was pretty much in a bad place. No drug taking or anything like that.
Slept alot to get away from the pain (the only way I could escape the pain was by sleeping obv). I prayed everyday lol (wasn't even a christian until recently), I cried everyday for like 3 months. Wrote a whole lot of things and posts (in the thousands), and drew and vented and cried and cried. Listened to alot of music. Burned some of the past things. Eventually talked about it to a couple of people. Most people don't understand though.

Most people at 19 don't meet their soulmates. Most people don't even believe in that. Nor did I.

Anyway it just made me realise I was actually really bad with letting go.

Now I'm good.

Venus, moon, mercury in libra
virgo sun

OH! And my progressed venus in in scorpy! And that year my progressed moon was in cancer.

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posted March 22, 2012 12:10 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
yea it was pretty intense stuff, and like you said,most people dont meet a soulmate in their 20s so they didnt understand the state i was in, i would be sad one day and then angry and bitter the next and the next thinking about the goodtimes and being happy/sad .

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Yeah I used to pray for strength and sht lol and also was frustrated how my moods would be all over the place. I hated how my heart couldn't correspond to what was in my head. It made me feel really powerless and I didn't like that bc I don't like that I lost all control and got taken for a fool.

But yeah! This quote is awesome:

Damaged people
Are dangerous
Because they know how to survive.

posted March 22, 2012 12:17 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Yeah I used to pray for strength and sht lol and also was frustrated how my moods would be all over the place. I hated how my heart couldn't correspond to what was in my head. It made me feel really powerless and I didn't like that bc I don't like that I lost all control and got taken for a fool.

But yeah! This quote is awesome:

Damaged people
Are dangerous
Because they know how to survive.

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posted March 22, 2012 12:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
What a sad statement. I'd rather have a heart even if it gets broken.

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posted March 22, 2012 12:23 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
What kind of synastry and composite did you guys have with your soulmate? Was it mutual venus-pluto aspects in synastry, by any chance?

How I deal with heartbreak? I guess I just let time take care of it. But I never truly get over any of my crushes. I still like all of them. I guess it's bc I have venus square pluto. I have been in love once. I guess i would define being in love as finding that person u feel is your soulmate who u feel u want to be with forever and you can't imagine living without them. But i have loved lots of people and lots of guys . Libra ascendant here lol. I meet two new crushes every semester.

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posted March 22, 2012 12:27 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I've always hated that quote. It's pretty terrible :/

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posted March 22, 2012 12:30 AM            

That's true. This works for a while if you want play game but it works on the same way if you start to be his friend.

posted March 22, 2012 12:33 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
What kind of synastry and composite did you guys have with your soulmate? Was it mutual venus-pluto aspects in synastry, by any chance?

How I deal with heartbreak? I guess I just let time take care of it. But I never truly get over any of my crushes. I still like all of them. I guess it's bc I have venus square pluto. I have been in love once. I guess i would define being in love as finding that person u feel is your soulmate who u feel u want to be with forever and you can't imagine living without them. But i have loved lots of people and lots of guys . Libra ascendant here lol. I meet two new crushes every semester.

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Same asc
vertex conjunct dsc DW
vertex conjunct vertex
moon and venus conjunct his desc exact
sun conjunct karma exact
his sun conjunct my IC (1')
eros conjunct psyche exact, eros square psyche (1')
sun sextile moon exact
moon conjunct pluto (conjunct eros and psyche) in 7th/8th house cusp
moon and venus trine his venus and mercury all less than 2 degrees =(. Our mercuries also trined tight.
There's alot more but yeah you get the idea.

We had venus square pluto in composite, sun conjunct venus conjunct mercury conjunct juno and valentine in 5th house in composite and moon and pluto in 7th house. Karma conjunct desc.

posted March 22, 2012 12:34 AM            

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Originally posted by popcorn:
(((Not just ACT like you don't care; you really shouldn't care at all. Every time I'm loving to a guy, he uses it as an ego stroke or an excuse to get lazy. But if I close my heart to them and not give a sh*t, they do everything correctly.))))

That's true. This works for a while if you want play game but it works on the same way if you start to be his friend.

If we lose our love I think it's not meant to be. I have lost love many times. Sometimes I have leave and sometimes him...For me are the only heal from lost love the time...

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That's the thing. I don't care now. My heart has iced over haha. I dated 4 guys after that guy and had a relationship with one of them. All of it was just me going through the motions.

Pretty sad actually now that I think about it.

posted March 22, 2012 12:42 AM            

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because what you said about being scared of hurting others reminded me of all the libra girls i have been involved with

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Oh that's interesting aqua! I was always very close to my Libra grandmother so maybe her Libra-ness rubbed off on me lol
I have 3 planets in the 7th house (Moon/Mars/Neptune)... and Sun/Venus in the 11th. Venus is conjunct my NN, sextile my AC -- trine Mars/Neptune and opposite Pluto.
I would say I'm more Neptunian than I am Venusian.. but I think Venus & Neptune influences are similar when it comes to avoiding hurting others!

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they were so scared of upsetting me that they couldnt just be honest so they quit talking to me alltogether,which in turn makes me ten times more hurt and angry than if they would have simply been honest.

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When I stop talking to someone it is because I feel so hurt & upset that I can no longer get words out. That was how felt with my first love.

posted March 22, 2012 04:05 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
People who pull disappearing acts are quite cowardly imo. I've learnt not to do that, bc I had that happen to me once years ago and I didn't like it. It hurt alittle.
So those girls weren't great girls so he actually dodged a bullet.

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posted March 22, 2012 04:11 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Same asc
vertex conjunct dsc DW
vertex conjunct vertex
moon and venus conjunct his desc exact
sun conjunct karma exact
his sun conjunct my IC (1')
eros conjunct psyche exact, eros square psyche (1')
sun sextile moon exact
moon conjunct pluto (conjunct eros and psyche) in 7th/8th house cusp
moon and venus trine his venus and mercury all less than 2 degrees =(. Our mercuries also trined tight.
There's alot more but yeah you get the idea.

We had venus square pluto in composite, sun conjunct venus conjunct mercury conjunct juno and valentine in 5th house in composite and moon and pluto in 7th house. Karma conjunct desc.

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