posted March 31, 2012 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Linda Jones:
Yes, it does, doesn't it?

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posted March 31, 2012 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Thanks
me too just kidding...maybe tomorrow tho.
That was a weird convo lol what I was saying was I was not drinking and I was tired & that I may have a drink tomorrow if I feel like it LOL

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posted March 31, 2012 02:11 PM            

But what I did was, when the phone rang and I didn't know who it was, I told myself, "That's him. He's calling to apologize and get back together!"

Then I had this conversation with myself:

Me: "You know it's not him."
Me: "Yes it is. Could be!"
Me: "Okay so what if it's him?"
Me: "He's a jerk, actually...hmmm...."
Me: "So would you really even WANT to talk?"
Me: "No.......I guess I wouldn't."
Me: "So there you go."

posted March 31, 2012 02:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
It's been a long time since I had to deal with this, thank God.

But what I did was, when the phone rang and I didn't know who it was, I told myself, "That's him. He's calling to apologize and get back together!"

Then I had this conversation with myself:

Me: "You know it's not him."
Me: "Yes it is. Could be!"
Me: "Okay so what if it's him?"
Me: "He's a jerk, actually...hmmm...."
Me: "So would you really even WANT to talk?"
Me: "No.......I guess I wouldn't."
Me: "So there you go."

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posted March 31, 2012 02:21 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha have a drink with me bud XD

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posted March 31, 2012 04:07 PM            

Thanks for hte invite to the thread for better or worse.

Since I haven't healed I'll post my signs and then eventually a bit about the issue. I think I've been more interested in astrology since the mess though. So it's not all bad right? hehe

posted March 31, 2012 04:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
I think I've been more interested in astrology since the mess though. So it's not all bad right? hehe

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posted March 31, 2012 05:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Hey ariesdragon

Thanks for hte invite to the thread for better or worse.

Since I haven't healed I'll post my signs and then eventually a bit about the issue. I think I've been more interested in astrology since the mess though. So it's not all bad right? hehe

Venus: Leo
Mars: Gemini
Moon: Scorpio

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posted March 31, 2012 06:16 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
ya later sure remember this?
I love this!!! Blast it!!! http://youtu.be/9cpeNaMSeNY

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posted March 31, 2012 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha i remember,when are we gonna go to the beach and see the hot beach babes XD

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posted March 31, 2012 07:25 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Soon bud lol
here's a cheers for now lmao http://youtu.be/PkFUP3tL9o8

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posted March 31, 2012 07:40 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
lol I'll be rocking nude ahahaha

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posted March 31, 2012 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
hahaha i dont know bout that XD. dang i want a beer i think i will have one

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posted April 01, 2012 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=OFne91Q0nzo

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posted April 01, 2012 02:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Linda Jones:
Yes, it does, doesn't it?

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When I "lost love" or the first time in my life (it was just illusion, but that doesn`t matter, as the feelings were real), I literally died. Ironically I wrote a poem (well I wrote 300 pages of poems about this one man over the course of 4 years. ) with the title "Lost love".

Even though I am clearly over it by now, I still feel traumatized by it in a way, like I can still feel the scars on my soul.

And it was not even real, for heaven`s sake!!!

posted April 01, 2012 03:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

When I "lost love" or the first time in my life (it was just illusion, but that doesn`t matter, as the feelings were real), I literally died. Ironically I wrote a poem (well I wrote 300 pages of poems about this one man over the course of 4 years. ) with the title "Lost love".

Even though I am clearly over it by now, I still feel traumatized by it in a way, like I can still feel the scars
on my soul.

And it was not even real, for heaven`s sake!!!

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Ceri your story seems real to meee it is also inspiring. Knowing you're not the only one in pain in the world is comforting. My soul feels traumatized as well after a break up. Thanks for your sharing your wonderful story and you know I gots mad love for ya

posted April 01, 2012 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
LOL ooohh I liked that reading very much and that is so SWEET about your man knowing he has someone special coz he does! You are so attentive and always laughing and at peace and that's what I like when I meet someone. Completely drama free
Life is but a dream, and ok I will take your free reading any day Linda

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Oh, for heavens' sake, I can't believe I missed this post! Wish I'd seen it earlier ... it's filled with compliments.

Thank you Mr. ...Dragon!
You know my Asc., moon, and Venus in Taurus are just soaking it all in

posted April 01, 2012 05:33 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
and you know I gots mad love for ya

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No, I didn`t know that. Tell me about it.

But seriously, I feel for you. Losing love or even the dream of love can bring excruciating pain. But the good is, life still moves on.

posted April 01, 2012 05:48 PM            

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Yes, it does, doesn't it?

Originally posted by Ceridwen:
When I "lost love" or the first time in my life (it was just illusion, but that doesn`t matter, as the feelings were real), I literally died. Ironically I wrote a poem (well I wrote 300 pages of poems about this one man over the course of 4 years. ) with the title "Lost love".

Even though I am clearly over it by now, I still feel traumatized by it in a way, like I can still feel the scars on my soul.

And it was not even real, for heaven`s sake!!!

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Ceridwen ... and I say this seriously albeit smilingly, *a sympathetic smile,* your 300 pages of poems must represent an artist's dream ... a soul's rendition of 'The Original Work of Pathos' ... if you know what I mean.

My 1H Venus in Taurus and 2H Merc. in Gem say get them published

"Even though I am clearly over it by now, I still feel traumatized by it in a way, like I can still feel the scars on my soul."

Yep, just as your brain carries memories of it. Regardless of whether or not *it* was real, the emotions you felt were real. And that's what matters.

posted April 01, 2012 06:00 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Yes it's the hardest thing to ever go through. When I had a break-up it was deadly. Time helps very much, so does crying, screaming, staying in bed and not giving a f***. Then after some time it slowly but surely gets better.

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Wow! That's intense! Yep! I'm nodding in complete agreement. You feel it like a physical pain.

Sometimes when I feel really intensely, I wish that I had Sheldon's brain ... you know, the one from The Big Bang Theory ... one of my favorite all time consistently funny shows.

posted April 01, 2012 08:29 PM            

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Originally posted by ShyVirgo1979:
In more recent years, it is also being discovered that when someone loses a love, or suffers through unrequited love, or has their love crushed through deception, the result on the brain is an actual injury similar to the injury in the brains of those returning from war and suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder

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R u kidding me?? That's crazy! And yet is doesn't surprise me. I can only say I've experienced 2 'lost loves'. Normally with breakups I tend to retreat for a lil bit and I'm good. Not a big deal. But with lost loves, I'm very emotional about it to the point I get physically ill bc I'm that upset and take it so personal. Example: I got really painful migraines. I'm emotional anyways so that's to b expected lol but wow I didn't realize all that. Makes ya stop and think.[/QUOTE]

Yeah huge migraines. I had insomnia for a year and a half over it. It really does feel like your heart dies.

posted April 01, 2012 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha yea, i still feel bad for it but she ruined something that was special to me.

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I think for me. The reason it hurt so much was not cos he cheated on me, but that he had to take advantage of my trust in him. And the power he had over me, that he had to milk it for all I was worth. Like wring me dry lol.