posted April 01, 2012 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I think for me. The reason it hurt so much was not cos he cheated on me, but that he had to take advantage of my trust in him. And the power he had over me, that he had to milk it for all I was worth. Like wring me dry lol.

One person can really screw your perception on people and emotions. I actually wish I can go back to having a more positive outlook on people's intentions and motives. Now it's all changed.

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posted April 01, 2012 08:57 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Yeah I can relate, getting cheated on sucks. Being verbally abused sucks too. Being single gives me peace. I always turn down a 2nd date. The 1st one is only because I want to go out after being at home for like weeks and going out just changes the scenery for a few hrs. When I get a call back I don't answer the phone. I am the one who calls when I'm ready to hang out again. I tell it exactly as it is in the beginning and that is I prefer to be single.

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Yeah it was a very abusive and manipulative relationship too (not physical) but I think it's just cos he had such low self esteem and was projecting?? Not sure. Does eff you up though and give you alot of insecurity and emotional issues afterwards.

posted April 01, 2012 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1GiLxkDK8sI

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posted April 01, 2012 09:25 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Yeah it was a very abusive and manipulative relationship too (not physical) but I think it's just cos he had such low self esteem and was projecting?? Not sure. Does eff you up though and give you alot of insecurity and emotional issues afterwards.

And ha! Yeah I'm like that with dates too. I think it feels better to feel in control these days anyway.

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posted April 01, 2012 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
lmao this reminded me of Vanilla Sky with Tom Cruz, Cameron Diaz and Penelope Cruz it was pretty twisted lol

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lol i was going to go as david aames last halloween but someone sat on my mask.

posted April 02, 2012 02:55 AM            

My heart is still broken and I need some love

posted April 02, 2012 05:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux R�ve:
Anybody wanna give me a hug?

My heart is still broken and I need some love

*waits for hugs*

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posted April 02, 2012 09:57 PM            

What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Jupiter is square to your partner’s Saturn? You may feel that your romantic partner clings too tightly to his/her cautious or traditional ideas and is unwilling to lighten up and look optimistically at life. You may have ethnic or cultural differences in background that makes it seem your partner is more attached to his/her way of living than living with you in an active, growing relationship. If your romantic partner’s Jupiter is square to your Saturn, you may find it difficult to balance your attitudes and find yourself questioning the reasons you were attracted in the first place. http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/jupitersynastryaspects.htm#jusopp

Anyone ever had this ^^ and have stories about it?

For Doux...

posted April 08, 2012 12:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Anybody wanna give me a hug?

My heart is still broken and I need some love

*waits for hugs*

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Gives you a huge hug. Let's now go frolick in a field of flowers hehe...

I needed on today too. : / I'm having such a hard time. The guy and I got into another fight. He tells me about his depressive mood, talks to me for 2 days, sends me an offline to which I replied to an hour late and then just disappears. I send him offline messages an yet he didn't even reply until I finally called him to see if he was ok. That's when I notice he's still hanging out at the this dating site...I should have known. He has the arrogance to act confused. When I tell him flatly he says, "Look you don't have to take offense to every little thing I do. I really did not mean anything by it I simply did not sign onto that account." I tell him that it's not right to act depressive and then just disappear without any regard to what another person might think. He apologizes. One thing leads to another and I end up calling him a selfish ingrate and he calls me a psycho that he hates and wished he never met. <--That last part hurt. I mean we fight often. And he calls me psycho to which I reply in kind but we laugh it off. But to be told that he hates me and wished he never spoke to me....it hurts terribly. So then we ended up saying our FINE!. Later I realize ok so he's upset, I'll just let him do his own thing. So I say my goodbye, tell him I won't bother him again, wish him the best for his future and apologize for the mean things I said. He doesn't even reply to that until a two days later. He says the same but is not saying gb. I don't reply because in my mind he was just replying ot my message. There didn't need to be a reply, but I guess he expected me to reply because hte next day he messages me asking if I read the message.

I didn't reply until today which is 3 days later. I was thinking that it's pointless to continue. It depresses me and I guess him, so why put each other through that torture. Also, every time I reply we start talking all over again. I thought that maybe if I don't reply he might just end up not caring. Isn't that an easier way to move on?

Anyway, so that was why I didn't reply until today. I left a message saying I did get the message and thank you for the wishes. That's all.

But I'm depressed now.

I want to move on in life. I don't want relationships anymore. I'm sick of everything from my messed up career, social life, relationships, family, health.

Btw, another guy randomly tells me he has fallen in love with me....I don't want to hurt him like the other guy hurt me, and yet I had no clue this new guy was falling for me since I never ever led him on. I was quite blunt and told him of the other guy. All this is hard to take. I want to just leave my life life take a vacation.

posted April 08, 2012 05:26 AM            

I know how painful it can be. Sucks.

Sometimes we just have to let go of people.
It's the hardest thing to do, but some people are just not right for us.

I hope everything works out for you, whatever the outcome! Stay strong! *hugs*

(((ariesdragon))) I know where you're coming from!

posted April 09, 2012 10:35 AM            

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Originally posted by slowpoke:
If you are will to share your just your birthdate (no time or place of birth) - I will try and point you to the right direction.

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And how would you do that?

posted April 09, 2012 10:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
And how would you do that?

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